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The internet can be a wonderful tool to use to connect with people that are like-minded, that can help you with your problems or that can become your romantic partners in the future. There are numerous apps which can assist you with the latter. But if you have any experience with those apps, you realize that there are so many people who don’t share the same values as you and it turns out that you just wasted your time getting to know a person with whom you can’t see yourself.

But after some time, you find some tricks and control questions that immediately reveal if the conversation is worth continuing. TikToker Amanda N went viral with 9 million views for sharing her method of asking the other person to tell their most controversial opinion and showing their answers. Other TikTokers joined the trend too and we found out that this simple question actually reveals a lot about a person.

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never trust a person that doesn't like animals. (Unless they have a verifiable bad experience with one, like being bitten. I guess they get a pass)

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Amanda N posted her video earlier this month and 9.4 million people were interested to hear what she said. And apparently people thought that her advice is really useful and is a time-saver when it comes to finding out if the conversation is worth continuing and if the person is worth their time because the video also has 1.4 million likes and has started a bit of a trend. 

Other people on TikTok started creating videos similar to Amanda’s using the same song in the background and showing what their matches on dating apps were saying were their most controversial opinions. 

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Jacin Larkwell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The "Unwind" Series is based kinda like a what if around this opinion. Very good and thought inducing

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will probably get downvoted, and I’m sorry if I am misinterpreting this, but I kind of agree! (I swear that I don’t mean to say anything rude, ever!)

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We can’t know if those people who were sharing the answers showed everything they received or just the ones that were actually controversial and borderline concerning, but even if they showed the worst messages they got, there were too many of them.

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Some of the answers were more lighthearted, like liking a specific movie or having an opinion about food. But others were highly political, racist or sexist, immediately indicating that person's core values.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's just science. Is it controversial to say that there are physical differences between men and women? I teach anatomy - am I about to get cancelled?

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Too bad that wouldn't work for many jobs like construction, transit, people on call etc.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I'm a woman and I don't get the almost comically long nails some women have. The ones about as long as half their finger again. They're not practical for anything; you could literally have someone's eye out and fingernails on a keyboard is way more annoying than fingernails on a chalkboard - the latter is limited by the size of the board, you'd have a brief pause while they reposition their fingers. But on a keyboard they could theoretically be at it for 8 WHOLE HOURS (theoretically, because I'd have thrown their damn computer out the window before the first hour is up)

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Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not really controversial. We all land on a spectrum in oh-so-many areas. :-)

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People are often skeptical towards the odds of finding a long-term relationship through dating apps. But both in real life and online, there are different people who you just wouldn’t get along with and people who you really click with.

According to Imperial College Business School’s data, in the UK, 32 percent of relationships started between 2015 and 2019 originated online. This is quite a significant increase from 19 percent during the period recorded earlier between 2005 and 2014.

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NsG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not really original controversies, but the most egregious is the misspelling of lettuce.

Orion C.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree with all of those except for the lettuce one. That one just made me laugh and is actually kinda true.

LuckyL
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tend to agree with all of them (except for not wanting to be called he/she, if someone tells me they want to be called different thats totally fine. But that everyone seems to be expected to generelly change their way to speak for a rather small group is to much)

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Kendra Miller
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think marriage licenses should have to be renewed every year. Meaning every anniversary you have to decide to stay together rather than just staying together out of habit. If a couple falls out of love they just let it expire.

Riley Quinn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The US propaganda machine has been gaslighting its citizenry and the world for far too long. Truth is, the US is on their last go around due to their lack of transparency.

michael dill
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i agree that pronouns are dumb but i will still respect them so like no hate here

Marnie
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only legitimate way we can talk about what is "natural" for humans is to look at hunter-gatherer societies, since that's what 97% of people who lived before the 1800s were. That is our natural habitat. Of course, we only have some observation/records of such societies from the last maybe couple of thousand years, but we can surmise. The vast majority of people in such societies have a single wife or husband. Some cheating may happen. Almost all of these societies do not have a taboo against having multiple husbands or wives, but doing so is rare because they have no way to gather wealth and it would be difficult for a woman to support two husbands or vice versa (meaning to bring in enough food for them).

Yort
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought these were supposed to be supporting his initial comment on pronouns and I was very confused.

Jess Thompson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who said the US has the best mentality? The US? 😂 the US is literally a joke to most Europeans unfortunately.

Nunya Bus
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well I can for sure say that I agree with most of what he said especially about lettuce. Lettuce is just pure sadness. I despise salads. To make it edible you have to add so much "good" stuff you just may as well eat that cheeseburger anyway.

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Me Oh My
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Okay, so. He/She/They IS dumb, but not in the way this fellow meant. It's dumb in that gender in itself is stupid. The whole "the majority of humans aren't meant to be monogamous" just seems like a big ol' red flag to me, I think it's a sign this guy's cheated in the past and will cheat in the future. I don't like them, even though they make 3 good points to attempt to outweigh the 2 bad ones.

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The Imperial Business School predicts that by 2035, more people will be in relationships that started online rather than meeting through friends, family or at other social gatherings. Online dating definitely has its pros and cons and to make the experience smoother, tips like Amanda’s will surely come in handy.

What is your experience with dating apps? Will you be trying to ask for controversial opinions from now on? What is your take on the answers TikTokers got there? Leave us your thoughts and reactions in the comments!

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Chiuki
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a cyclist who has been hit by a car, AND lived in the Netherlands, I agree that we can't safely co-exist on small roads - car drivers get impatient when they have to (god forbid) slow down to safely pass a cyclist. But it's not like they are suffering - they're just sitting there in a comfy seat, shaking their fist at someone who ALSO pays taxes for the same road.

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Susie Elle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess you're allowed to feel weird if you get hit on by someone from the same gender? I mean, as long as that doesn't become a reason to treat someone else like crap.

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Yula Lopez
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also could be viruses and diseases which have been frozen in Antarctica which are melting, but sure, real estate is a priority as opposed to a second pandemic and destroying the planet

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Thorfin Wolfsbane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

when someone says "free will is a lie", run away! They are just laying the groundwork for not having to take any blame or responsibility for their actions. And don't we all know at least one person who is NEVER to blame?

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Thorfin Wolfsbane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

don't worry, I won't get you started because I know all I need to from that one statement.

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Ebony
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is body shaming when you feel the need to put someone down for their appearance based on of what YOU believe is a standard for beauty or health. If that's the case, you're an a-hole

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Bacony Cakes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Black Lives Matter is racist" "Hate crimes need to have stronger consequences" this man's a living contradiction

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Thorfin Wolfsbane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, of course. A global conspiracy that killed millions just to get Trump out of office. Makes too much sense (sarcasm)

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Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My controversial opinion is that Trump lost, but if you believe he won, then he cannot by 22nd Amendment run in 2024, so he's just scamming for cash, it's all a con, and it always was and will be.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know! Here I had plans for the weekend, but now they’re wrecked because I have to supply my horse and weapons and retinue for some stupid siege.

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Ebony
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see anything wrong with that if it's something that they both agree to do and if the couple fulfills their end of the bargain.

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Thorfin Wolfsbane
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sometimes i wonder if LGBQT people complain about all the "straight stuff" that's pushed on society today.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Besides how hawkish Kennedy was to begin with, Eisenhower specifically named/warned of it in his farewell address. And once again, it speaks volumes of Dunning-Kruger-type ignorance to sooner believe there was some sort of super-secret inside job instead of the obvious fact that it was carried about by terrorist exploiting obvious loopholes and getting lucky (ex. one of the hijackers was actually pulled over in MD for unrelated reasons) with the whole post-9/11 reaction on multiple levels further proving that ignorance and incompetence.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let me guess, they are a bully themselves and just trying to excuse their behaviour. Bullying is NOT okay.

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Caro Caro
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Donald Trump is a hot dog and in today's world a sandwich would have been a better president. Fixed it!

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