Convincing someone you’re right is all about confidence. If you fake it, you’ll make it, right? R-right? Having bucketloads of confidence is great (and certainly dramatic), however, it’s never enough in isolation… especially if you’re just plain wrong and everyone around you knows it.
Being direct. Looking assured. Feeling unwavering and braver than Braveheart—these are all wonderful qualities to have, but without other substantial things to back it up, it’s all just bravado without the bite. And darn it if it isn’t entertaining as heck to watch!
We’re not the only ones to think so. In fact, that’s why the ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit, with over 404k members, exists. Their community is built around poking fun at people who are chock full of confidence but get deflated the moment someone with an ounce of logic and common sense chimes in. There’s plenty of facepalm moments waiting for you, so get scrolling and upvoting your fave pics. Remember to visit the r/confidentlyincorrect community if you like their stuff!
Bored Panda interviewed the creator of the subreddit, redditor ShadowAlchemy. Read on for what they told us about how the community started and got popular, as well as for their thoughts about to what extent confidence is important in real life and what we should do if we ever find ourselves to be confidently incorrect.
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The ‘Confidently Incorrect’ subreddit has been growing by leaps and bounds. Created just over a year ago, in January 2020, they’re continuing to provide awesome content that keeps us humble. (And it’s a gentle reminder to double and triple-check even facts that we’re completely sure about.)
ShadowAlchemy told Bored Panda that they founded the 'Confidently Incorrect' subreddit "on a whim" just over a year ago. "Someone posted a video of Conan interviewing Jennifer Garner to another subreddit called r/WatchPeopleDieInside. I scrolled through the comments and saw someone who thought stuff like that would make a great community of its own. It was super late at night when I saw that, so I made a subreddit really quick for no reason, posted a video or two, then went to bed."
But what ShadowAlchemy couldn't foresee was how quickly the subreddit went viral. They woke up to see a huge surprise. "I wake up with probably 1,000 or so notifications, apparently the sub had blown up overnight! Tons of people were talking about the ridiculously fast growth of the sub, I think we got around 30k members in our first day. It was super popular its first week, and its growth died down a bit after that. We've been on a steady increase ever since. We just hit 400k members, actually!" the founder shared their joy.
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In ShadowAlchemy's opinion, confidence is "an incredibly important" part of our personalities. "Without confidence, we're nothing. Confidence is what gets us out of bed, what gets us out the door to face life. People definitely listen to those who show confidence,"
The founder told Bored Panda that we don't have to look far to see the vital role confidence plays in our lives. "Just look at politics. Politicians are probably some of the most confident people on the planet, and a pretty large amount of people just listen to what they say. Our sub is probably 75-80% politics. It's people parroting what they've heard their favorite politicians say, and they parrot it because they believe those politicians. They believe that confidence."
They added, "No one's gonna listen to a shy person with all the facts."
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The founder of the sub also had some spot-on advice for anyone who's been confidently incorrect in their lives. And it all starts with openly admitting that you're wrong (both to others and to yourself). "If someone corrects you and they're right, you've just gotta accept it right then and there. Insisting that you're correct is what makes you look like a dumbass, and what makes you remember it for years and years. Nobody wants to be confidently incorrect, but if you are, you've gotta admit it. You've gotta admit that you're wrong."
ShadowAlchemy said that nothing would be possible without the incredibly supportive members and moderators that make up the r/confidentlyincorrect subreddit. "Thanks to all the people who've brought this subreddit up so much, it was quite the surprise for me. Thanks to my mod team for keeping this sub together."
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There’s a deep sense of shame that we feel when we’ve been outed being wrong even though we thought we were in the right. It’s an embarrassment so powerful, it can still make us flush beet-red and cringe years after it happened.
However, there is a possible upside to this. Research has shown that, counter-intuitively, it’s far easier to correct the errors made by people who are extremely confident that they’re right, compared to correcting the mistakes made by those who have ‘low confidence’ that they’re correct.
This is called the ‘hypercorrection effect’ which essentially means that we’re more likely to remember the correct answer to a question if we’re proven wrong when we’re extremely confident that we actually know the ‘right’ answer. Or, in other words, we remember being shocked at how at odds the truth was with our confidence that we were right.
Of course, there are some nuances like how some high confidence errors can ‘reemerge’ if we’re not tested on our newfound knowledge quickly enough. But on the bright side, being confidently incorrect might just be the best way to retain facts and figures after we make complete buffoons of ourselves online. So go out there and don’t be afraid to fail, dear Readers—your newfound knowledge will stick in your mind like a panda in a bamboo grove.
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Someone Doesn’t Understand How The Food Supply Chain Works... Or Agriculture, For That Matter
My host mom from Kansas had a friend that thought meat comes from the store, nothing to do with animals
Load More Replies...This is why the rest of the world laughs at the US public school system
UGH! We farm. I could write a very long book of the idiotic things I've heard people say about farming. "Why do you bother growing tomatoes? You can easily buy them at the farm stand or even the market." "Can you eat the eggs from your chickens? I thought you had to buy eggs at the market in order to eat them." "I would never eat field grown vegetables. They are probably contaminated. When rain falls on plants, they die and the fruit becomes toxic." "Chickens need a swimming area to be healthy." (Chickens hate water other than what they drink) Oh yeah...people are idiots.
pls write the book. newsflash everyone: the Rain is toxic for plants!! and soil - apparently - it's toxic too! what's the next one? sun light is bad for plants because the UV rays?
Load More Replies...Yep, and chocolate milk comes from brown cows too. That is, if you believe in cows.
I once had a friend with a master's degree argue that electricity and gas should be free since it comes from the earth.
As a farm kid, I invite them to try going to the store after all the farmers go on strike in protest of this person's stupidity.
This could have been Ken M, (the late) Collegehumor's professional troll: https://id.pinterest.com/bsulaksono/ken-m-the-best-troll-ever/
Sometimes I'm hoping those posts came from testing some tabula rasa type of learn from scratch AI. It's hard to believe a human can be this dumb.
That’s like my cousins would only eat “shop” honey, not that bee stuff. 🤣
This can be real. I teach and ask many present day kids where butter actually comes......
i get a kid but if the comment was made by an adult... yikes!
Load More Replies...I have it on good authority that Krogers stock their shelves via a deal with the Devil. At least that's what Marjorie Taylor Greene told me.
Why is there a need for school when some people don't have brains anyway.
It's possible this is a kid. If I've learned anything from Bored Panda, it's that children are in the comments section and say some pretty silly stuff.
That's akin to the person who called a paper in Illinois and left the message that “To all you hunters who kill animals for food, shame on you; you ought to go to the store and buy the meat that was made there, where no animals were harmed.”
Yeah, most fishermen go to Krogers, too. The fish are already cleaned and wrapped up so they don't smell.
Perhaps this says more about American education than the growing of food and how it gets distributed.
Just so people may know, we get the stuff at the store FROM the supplies the farmers give us to make food.
lol. Buddy, where did that food come from they don't have a farm in the store so where did they get it? Thought of that. LOL
And this person has a high school education? From where,,Arkansaw ?
Ok. Lemme break this down for you. How does the grocery store get food. Farmers sell their food. Then the grocery store re-sells the food. Did i dumb it down enough for your BROKEN-ASS F*****G BRAIN!!?? GOOD. GET A LIFE DUMB-ASS
They do it for all the lizard people & aliens they can't survive on the food from grocery stores
How can somebody be so stupid? Ofc people eat corn and soybeans for breakfast...it's not just me haha...right?
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I did not think it was possible for me to lose any more faith in humanity.
That's just because you're not trying hard enough. 3 to 4 hours of reading comments on certain websites and you'll know that any faith in humanity is baseless and delusional.
Load More Replies...i am really upset with a lot of the comments under these. yes those people were absolute idiots but people kept generalizing us americans as stupid, not all of us are stupid and it really makes me pissed
Completely agree but don't get worked up, there's plenty of us less ignorant as well, who don't generalise. You come across people like that everywhere
Load More Replies...This whole thing, everyone laughing that Americans are stupid... It makes you smart calling out the idiots for their ignorance, right? But isn't generalizing that all "Americans" must be stupid, another form of ignorance? It's actually pretty unfair and offensive. I'm all for a bit of banter online, but if I was from the US, I would hate the stereotype. Stupid is Everywhere sadly 🤨...
I'd like to point out most of the Americans who don't know common facts probably didn't finish third grade and live in a trailer. Most Americans know basic geography, metric system, history and other stuff. Don't let this post fool you.
I agree with Sharona with the don't be elitist part. Do you know the story of the average person living in a trailer? I wonder how little debt they have versus how much you must have, unless your smugness is the result of a trust fund you didn't earn. I'm sure they're more content than you, as well lol. Sharona, don't make fun of Grandpa Joe like that. He might hear you.
Load More Replies...Not unique to your side of the pond. We breed morons over here too, sorry
Load More Replies...Some people make it their lives' mission to prove their stupidity to the world :(
i have facepalmed so much my face is now very red.....=-= how do people like this exist??
i really wish the immediate response to seeing an idiot on the internet wasn't to say something like, let me guess, they're an american. don't get me wrong, there are plenty of dumb people in this country but it just annoys the americans who are actually good people to hear stuff like that
Take the opportunity to read some of the positive lists this site. Let your bitterness go :)
Yes, this list is funny. But the comments are so rude!
Load More Replies...This is depressing. I'm still praying it's a bunch of trolls... i still don't want to believe this kind of proud idiocy... this... aggressive stupidity... this ... confident, self-righteous imbecilism (I know, not a word) ... is just a joke. A bad one? yes. A joke? Please say yes.
I enjoyed the ones I read, but I had to stop reading because it just became so distressing to realize how many uninformed people there are.
Just read the Bored Panda '50 most Wholesome Pics' page and was feeling good, then read this one and I'm back down again.
Dolphins are fish, crops come from the grocery store, Canada isn’t North America, tampons in the butt…. this level of stupid used to shock me in the past, but not anymore. There always has been, and always will be, a significant % of the population that’s just hopelessly ignorant and scary crazy. And way beyond reach. At least you can spot them today… they all wear red hats
Several of these are NOT wrong. The comments on them are frightening though. Stay in school, kids. The one about 6000 BC is especially frightening that zero people understand the tweet, or how negative numbers work. The post (and joke it contained) was correct in every way. In the year 6000BC they did not have axes, so the year BEFORE that, they didn't use axes. The kid is punching through the tree FFS. Stay in school ya'll.
The Facebook experts...they know everything, and it's true, because the friend of the daughther of a friend told so...
I did not think it was possible for me to lose any more faith in humanity.
That's just because you're not trying hard enough. 3 to 4 hours of reading comments on certain websites and you'll know that any faith in humanity is baseless and delusional.
Load More Replies...i am really upset with a lot of the comments under these. yes those people were absolute idiots but people kept generalizing us americans as stupid, not all of us are stupid and it really makes me pissed
Completely agree but don't get worked up, there's plenty of us less ignorant as well, who don't generalise. You come across people like that everywhere
Load More Replies...This whole thing, everyone laughing that Americans are stupid... It makes you smart calling out the idiots for their ignorance, right? But isn't generalizing that all "Americans" must be stupid, another form of ignorance? It's actually pretty unfair and offensive. I'm all for a bit of banter online, but if I was from the US, I would hate the stereotype. Stupid is Everywhere sadly 🤨...
I'd like to point out most of the Americans who don't know common facts probably didn't finish third grade and live in a trailer. Most Americans know basic geography, metric system, history and other stuff. Don't let this post fool you.
I agree with Sharona with the don't be elitist part. Do you know the story of the average person living in a trailer? I wonder how little debt they have versus how much you must have, unless your smugness is the result of a trust fund you didn't earn. I'm sure they're more content than you, as well lol. Sharona, don't make fun of Grandpa Joe like that. He might hear you.
Load More Replies...Not unique to your side of the pond. We breed morons over here too, sorry
Load More Replies...Some people make it their lives' mission to prove their stupidity to the world :(
i have facepalmed so much my face is now very red.....=-= how do people like this exist??
i really wish the immediate response to seeing an idiot on the internet wasn't to say something like, let me guess, they're an american. don't get me wrong, there are plenty of dumb people in this country but it just annoys the americans who are actually good people to hear stuff like that
Take the opportunity to read some of the positive lists this site. Let your bitterness go :)
Yes, this list is funny. But the comments are so rude!
Load More Replies...This is depressing. I'm still praying it's a bunch of trolls... i still don't want to believe this kind of proud idiocy... this... aggressive stupidity... this ... confident, self-righteous imbecilism (I know, not a word) ... is just a joke. A bad one? yes. A joke? Please say yes.
I enjoyed the ones I read, but I had to stop reading because it just became so distressing to realize how many uninformed people there are.
Just read the Bored Panda '50 most Wholesome Pics' page and was feeling good, then read this one and I'm back down again.
Dolphins are fish, crops come from the grocery store, Canada isn’t North America, tampons in the butt…. this level of stupid used to shock me in the past, but not anymore. There always has been, and always will be, a significant % of the population that’s just hopelessly ignorant and scary crazy. And way beyond reach. At least you can spot them today… they all wear red hats
Several of these are NOT wrong. The comments on them are frightening though. Stay in school, kids. The one about 6000 BC is especially frightening that zero people understand the tweet, or how negative numbers work. The post (and joke it contained) was correct in every way. In the year 6000BC they did not have axes, so the year BEFORE that, they didn't use axes. The kid is punching through the tree FFS. Stay in school ya'll.