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Christina Black

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Christina Black • commented on 10 posts 3 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

They were pre-teens actually. They are all in school still. My eldest shares an appartment with another university student, but I help out financially.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

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Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

They were pre-teens actually. They are all in school still. My eldest shares an appartment with another university student, but I help out financially.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

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Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Your comment makes plenty of sense, but this is a « family operated » company, meaning that the partner’s daughter who is VP got the position without having the qualification, just so that the management decisions would be taken 50-50 with the President. The partner’s other daughter also works there and takes care of all the administrative work. To top it off, the VP Admin got into a romantic relationship with the top project manager in the company. In retrospect, it is better that I stay away from that mess.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Agreed on all levels, thank you .

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

I definitely need to regain my self-esteem - thank you for your input.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Here in Canada, a signed employment contract with specific provisions is legally binding. There is already an employee (the partner’s other daughter and VP Admin’s sister…) acting as full time receptionist. It looks as though the partner is afraid to lose control over management decision with my onboarding. That being said, I have no management decision power, as I don’t have a position on the board of administrators.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

My boyfriend still has his President job. I have an executive assistant role waiting for me at the big pharma company, but I thought I had found an opportunity to put my college management studies to good use. I do have that big pharma job waiting for me, so I’m ok financially. Let’s say that my boyfriend not stepping up for me has left my head spinning - I’m a bit in shock right now. We’ll definitely need to consult a therapist to salvage the relationship.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

I left my children with my sister. After all is said and done, I am glad not to work for them. Apparently, I have more self-respect than my boyfriend has…

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Indeed, a new business venture with by boyfriend could also be problematic.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Sorry to hear about your divorce… So true that he is president in name only - this situation made me see him very differently than how I perceived him up until now. I confronted him about it this past weekend, and it looks as though he prefers to stick out with his partner rather than standing up for me, but to « compensate », he offered to found a new company (real estate) where only him and I would be associates, and I would be managing it. He is well aware of my financial insecurity and distate to go back to my EA role. This whole situation really brought to light how little we are sentimentally close to one another. A lot to ponder about…

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Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Christina Black • commented on a post 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Thank you for your advice. I intend on suggesting we see a mariage counselor, but I certainly feel unconsidered and let down to a point where I question if it’s worth it…

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Christina Black • commented on 10 posts 3 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

They were pre-teens actually. They are all in school still. My eldest shares an appartment with another university student, but I help out financially.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

🩷

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Agreed on all levels, thank you .

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

I definitely need to regain my self-esteem - thank you for your input.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

I left my children with my sister. After all is said and done, I am glad not to work for them. Apparently, I have more self-respect than my boyfriend has…

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Indeed, a new business venture with by boyfriend could also be problematic.

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Christina Black • commented on a post 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About My Relationship After My Boyfriend Didn’t Stand Up For Me?

Thank you for your advice. I intend on suggesting we see a mariage counselor, but I certainly feel unconsidered and let down to a point where I question if it’s worth it…

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