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tsu

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tsu

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im saesha and i like harry potter and animals i dislike bratty people, myself, life, dresses, makeup and family

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tsu • commented on 2 posts 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

why r you so nice

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

it's hard though mostly when (i'm not saying who) have no one that would listen and care. im sorry for saying this cause you probably dont care

tsu • upvoted 38 items 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

I would have said the same, it makes sense.

Hey Pandas, How Are You, Really? (Closed)

Tell them again and again and again. Someone will hear you loud and clear, and WILL help you.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

I would have said the same, it makes sense.

Hey Pandas, How Are You, Really? (Closed)

Tell them again and again and again. Someone will hear you loud and clear, and WILL help you.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

how to human lol

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

No, I care... You could tell me your life problems and I wouldn't judge, no matter what they are. I care about people who are hurting. And I try to help those who are because if they SAY they have no one then, I will be that someone. (btw I'm not just saying this to get more likes, its true.

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

We do care, and you can always get help from us if you need it

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Even worse if you reply with love you too lol.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

same

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

Thank you for the support and advice! I am hoping on telling them tomorrow if I feel up to it

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

I never knew how to hooman either

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

You probably should tell them about it. Because they need to know what their child is going through, only because they care about you and there would be no way for them to know this except for you telling them. Also talking about this with people close to you, who you can trust, helps a lot. I'm so happy that you have been able to overcome it and doing that alone is a proof for how strong you are. Now when you tell them, there are the following things I suppose could happen: 1. They feel sad that you went through all that alone and now talk to you about it and try helping you in any way (if that's needed of course) - and you apologize and tell them why you couldn't talk about it and they understand and support you and all ends well. 2. They make a huge deal about it and blame you - well if this is the case, please know that you are not alone, coz a lot of people have parents who don't understand this. But mind you, they still love you and wouldn't let anything hurt you. They just are not that good at understanding. So you just rid yourself of the fact that you hid it, let them calm down, go on with your life. Both ways, your goal is achieved - you rid yourself of the feeling that you hid something of huge importance. No matter what their reaction is, you promise yourself to focus on yourself and grow. It might be difficult some times but the best thing to do at that time is to wait. Time heals things. Just give it time. Hope this helps!! Sorry if this was too long. Sending you loads of hugs!

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

*Slow clap*

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

No problem!!! ;)

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

That's a good idea

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

Tell them through a note, I find it easier to explain through writing.

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

Thank you for your support, it means a lot

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

Suicide is not something to be taken lightly, your parents should understand that teenage depression is a real thing, and if it is not helped then it only makes the person feel worse. Try talking with them, and tell them what you have been feeling. It might be hard talking about how you feel and being honest with your parents, but it gets their attention. I had a friend who had suicidal thoughts. What got her through depression is being surrounded by people who cared about her. I didn't judge her or tell her what she was feeling, I only listened and tried to understand what she was telling me. I wouldn't get a therapist because they get paid to care about your feelings. They don't "know what your feeling" because they are not you, only you know the pain, sadness you feel. I do not have /never had depression, but I would say to NEVER hide your feelings. You have the right to a happy life, so take advantage of that. I have never met you but I truly care about you.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

yes.... I was red like a tomato

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

What if they make a huge deal of it though?

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

I suggest not saying anything. When I told my mom, she got all fussy and got me a therapist who didn't do anything other than waste my time. She checked on me WAY to often and I had no privacy. I'm grateful she was looking out for me but it was just annoying. My dad was very mean about it. "suicide is such a sissy way out!" Ok well thanks for being a great parent and care about your child, dad.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Bet the room was quiet for a few

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

How do you think I should tell them?

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

(add on) It's unhealthy to keep your feelings/thoughts from being heard.

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

You should tell them so they will be able to help you, (with respect) you can't solve a problem without doing something about it.

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them?

I think you should tell them. It's important to talk about your mental health, especially with people close to you.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night?

One time I was playing Yahtzee with my family, and my father was gloating saying he was SO going to get a Yahtzee. He rolled and failed to get anything close to a Yahtzee so I laughed and called out NOTzee as a joke. I then realized what I had shouted and turned red... NATZI?! WHAT WAS I THINKING! I did, however win the game, but I still was SO embarrassed...

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night?

I lie awake thinking of all the embarrassing things I've ever done. I still think of things from six or seven years ago, in clear detail. The odd thing is, I can't remember much else from then- except for the embarrassing things. I lie awake thinking of how I could have made it right/avoided it. It's all very annoying.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Until now I was thinking it was absolutely acceptable to reply "you too" to the doctor telling you to get well. Seems I never knew how to human. x')

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Why is this so relatable?

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night?

Usually, something that happened recently. Like saying 'you too' to a doctor who tells you to get well. Or all the awkward interactions I have, because I forgot how to human during this pandemic.

What Would You Say To Someone Who Is Suicidal???

Tell her how much you care about her and remind her of the good things in life. Also, be there for her if she wants to talk.

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tsu • submitted 18 new posts 3 years ago

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tsu • submitted 20 list additions 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, Post Your Animal(s) You Have Right Now (Closed)

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Hey Pandas, What Have You Done Before And Never Got Caught? (Closed)

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tsu • commented on 20 posts 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

why r you so nice

Hey Pandas, My Parents Don't Know That Have Been Suicidal, How Should I Tell Them? (Closed)

it's hard though mostly when (i'm not saying who) have no one that would listen and care. im sorry for saying this cause you probably dont care

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lol

Hey Pandas, Have You Ever Been Depressed Or Suicidal? How Did You Get Over It? (Closed)

thats good that you found a way to help with it

Hey Pandas, Have You Ever Been Depressed Or Suicidal? How Did You Get Over It? (Closed)

i'm so sorry for the both of you

Hey Pandas, Have You Ever Been Depressed Or Suicidal? How Did You Get Over It? (Closed)

the people i know hate me but ok

Hey Pandas, Post Your Animal(s) You Have Right Now (Closed)

i couldn't get a picture of my other dog

Hey Pandas, Post Your Animal(s) You Have Right Now (Closed)

i meant to put colt not cold

Hey Pandas, Post Your Animal(s) You Have Right Now (Closed)

yes so are german sheperds (i dont know how to spell it)

Hey Pandas, Have You Ever Been Depressed Or Suicidal? How Did You Get Over It? (Closed)

but who nobody cares about me

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oh sorry

Hey Pandas, What Have You Done Before And Never Got Caught? (Closed)

i can only wish but thank u

This Dog Ran Away From An Illegal Meat Farm In Bali, We Helped Her Heal And Found Her A Home

i wasn't trying to be rude it's just that i'm vegan and i think it's cruel to eat any animal i feel like that eating an animal that was once living is murder so please dont be mad at me

Hey Pandas, What Would You Say To Someone Who Is Depressed? (Closed)

no i hate hugs sorry

Hey Pandas, Have You Ever Been Depressed Or Suicidal? How Did You Get Over It? (Closed)

so do dogs:)

Hey Pandas, Write A Note To Someone You Hate (Closed)

i know how you fell, im sorry that you had to go through that

Hey Pandas, Predict The Future (Closed)

lol

Hey Pandas, Predict The Future (Closed)

lol

Hey Pandas, Predict The Future (Closed)

your breathing right now

Hey Pandas, What's The Worst Thing Your Family Did To You? (Closed)

Who and what did he do

tsu • upvoted 20 items 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night?

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

how to human lol

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Until now I was thinking it was absolutely acceptable to reply "you too" to the doctor telling you to get well. Seems I never knew how to human. x')

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

*Slow clap*

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Even worse if you reply with love you too lol.

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

same

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

I never knew how to hooman either

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night? (Closed)

Why is this so relatable?

Hey Pandas, What Is One Embarrassing Thing You Lie Awake Thinking About At Night?

Usually, something that happened recently. Like saying 'you too' to a doctor who tells you to get well. Or all the awkward interactions I have, because I forgot how to human during this pandemic.