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hippiewitchybitch

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I'm a Hippie from Oregon who likes spiritual shit, wearing hoodies, and not giving a fuck. I love nature, but I hate hiking in it with other people, and I think the most beautiful thing is the night sky. I also like true crime, spongebob, fresh prince and eating food in general.

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*hippie*witchy*bitch* • commented on 27 posts 3 years ago

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

hey asshole, maybe don't...I dunno, demean children and make them seem less important? believe it or not, but THE FEELINGS OF A CHILD ARE JUST AS VALID AS AN ADULT'S! *gasp* oh my god! so crazy!

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

thank you for sharing your voice and understanding how important this is. you're a good person.

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

hey asshole, maybe don't...I dunno, demean children and make them seem less important? believe it or not, but THE FEELINGS OF A CHILD ARE JUST AS VALID AS AN ADULT'S! *gasp* oh my god! so crazy!

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

thank you for sharing your voice and understanding how important this is. you're a good person.

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

he really woke up and said "p a n c a k e"

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

OMG HE'S THE THICCEST BOI

People Who Had To Choose Their Pet Over Their Partner Reveal How It All Went (35 Pics)

damn, I wonder if I'm a pet abuser... I'll give my doggo a little tap on the top of the head if he's being a jerk, but that's a key way that we communicate, it tells him to calm down... am I an animal abuser? OH MY GOSH YOU GUYS PLEASE TELL ME I'M TERRIFIED NOW THAT I'M A PET ABUSER

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it is, don't get me wrong, but it almost looks unnatural. I love how normal flowers look, there's so much beauty in their imperfections, and I think that applies to everything, not just flowers and plants! :)

"What Were The Parents Thinking:" 30 People Share The Dumbest Baby Names They've Encountered

exactly. we should try to do our best to not support a company that actively donates to conversion camps and conversion therapy (which are basically torture)

Here Are 30 Things That Were Supposed To Be The Next Big Thing, But Ended Up Forgotten, As Shared By People Online

wait what

40 Women Shared The Smoothest Flirting Techniques That They Fell For

marry him

40 Screenshots Of People Who Are Unaware Of The Existence Of LGBTQ People And It's Like They're Living Under A Rock

wow, found a way to s**t on the trans flag with your backwards beliefs...CoUlD yOu dOn'T

Boyfriend Storms Off After Girlfriend Calls Out His Fragile Masculinity For Refusing To Buy Her Pads

good thing she broke up with him. the more she found out the worse it got man.

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

I'm not saying that doesn't happen.I was comparing statistics that were more related to each other. as for you, sir, you're only bringing up male sexual assault by women because you want to be right, not because you care about the subject. yes, I know it happens. I didn't negate the fact that this happens by saying what I did in the previous post. so, why did you feel the need to mention this? just to be right? I'm really wondering.

The Rock's 3 Y.O. Daughter Wanted Aquaman At Her Birthday, Aquaman's Actor Jason Momoa Delivers

IM NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

I agree with you, but statistically, it IS more likely for a woman to be a victim of rape. 1 in 6 women are raped by a man in their lifetime, whereas 1 in 71 men are raped by a man in their lifetime. not saying that men can't be raped, because they can, and we need to validate them and make sure that they are spoken up for, because victims are victims- but, I'm still saying that again, it's more likely for a woman to be raped by a man then for a man to be raped. (the odds are still too high for both genders though, it's incredibly sad.)

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Hold up-

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I would legit s**t my pants

Man Shares His Experience Of His Drink Being Spiked At A Bar, Other Men Open Up About Their Stories

This is horrible. Male rape, drugging, and abuse happens. I'm so sorry to hear that you were laughed at.

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Oh god

40 New Hilarious Comics For People Who Like Dark Humor By Cyanide & Happiness

I'm gonna leave now

50 Times People Just Had To Take A Screenshot Of Americans Being Unbelievably Clueless

very well explained answer.

50 Actors Who "Understood The Assignment" And Showed What Being An Actor Is Truly About

RIP this should be higher up

This Church Is Going Viral For Their Openness And Their Sign Game Is Epic (35 New Pics)

oh my gosh YASS POPE FRANCIS

This Church Is Going Viral For Their Openness And Their Sign Game Is Epic (35 New Pics)

yesss

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*hippie*witchy*bitch* • upvoted 13 items 3 years ago

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

I also never blamed hugs for sexual assault, or am sexualising hugs AT ALL. For the thousandth time it is just teaching CONSENT or body autonomy. Also you can learn forgiveness without being forced into hugging/kissing. If a parent feels rejected coz their child doesn't want a hug then that is their problem. Whilst it would like hugs from my daughter more often, I won't let my feelings make her feel guilty. Guilt tripping someone into affection is a common tactic predators use, including abusive partners. The idea of consent is to teach and protect them in the future. Oh and my brothers and I were not close as kids, we argued all the time, hurt each other and didn't hug. but now we are adults we love hanging out together and get along exceptionally well and we hug. Also newsflash, teaching a young child about sexual abuse is too complicated for them to fully understand. So teaching them the simple "no means no" when it comes to physical touch is the foundation and you can build onto it as they get older.

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

Again you are not getting it. I am not talking about not to show any affection or being paranoid. This is about consent and not feeling like you have to appease others. I am from a very affectionate family but my daughter doesn't like much affection so I would never force her. I ask "do you want a hug" or "can I have a hug". Most of the time she will say no but my son on the other hand will take most affection and loves it. But I still ask him out of respect. A 2 year old does know when they are uncomfortable and will often shy or run away. It is not blaming the victim AT all, this is just teaching them that they are allowed to say no. No one has the right to touch you if it makes you uncomfortable. Even if it's a simple hug and a kiss. Not offering affection to your kids is psychologically damaging, there is evidence to support that. But again I never said to withhold affection. Offer it and if they accept then great, if It's personal choice. Not everyone likes physical touch.

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

Maybe re-read what I have written. Nowhere have I said to never show affection. 🙄

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

If a child wants/ needs a hug or kiss then that's fine. We are not talking about banning affection but giving kids the right and respect to be able to say no. If a kid is having a tantrum and doesn't want a cuddle then so be it, that is their choice but you can let them know that you are there when they need/ want you. It's not about taking away affection, it's about choice. You have literally taken what I have said to extremes, not once have I said to deny your child and not show any affection. And a 2 year old does have the ability to feel uncomfortable. Geez Louise.

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A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

Yeah, that's nice. But do men carry their keys between their fingers for fear of rapists? Worry about passing construction sites because of rape? Worry about parking spots because of rape? Change clothes, routes, jobs, schedules because of rape? Christ, stop whining about theories in your urge to make sure men get attention to understand this is daily reality for women.

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

Small pockets, catcalls, bras, pay gap, harassment, s**t-shaming, etc.

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Great answer.

Chadwick Boseman

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*hippie*witchy*bitch* • commented on 20 posts 3 years ago

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

hey asshole, maybe don't...I dunno, demean children and make them seem less important? believe it or not, but THE FEELINGS OF A CHILD ARE JUST AS VALID AS AN ADULT'S! *gasp* oh my god! so crazy!

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

thank you for sharing your voice and understanding how important this is. you're a good person.

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

he really woke up and said "p a n c a k e"

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

OMG HE'S THE THICCEST BOI

People Who Had To Choose Their Pet Over Their Partner Reveal How It All Went (35 Pics)

This Online Group Is Dedicated To “Mildly Interesting” Stuff, And Here Are Their 50 Best Posts (New Pics)

"What Were The Parents Thinking:" 30 People Share The Dumbest Baby Names They've Encountered

exactly. we should try to do our best to not support a company that actively donates to conversion camps and conversion therapy (which are basically torture)

Here Are 30 Things That Were Supposed To Be The Next Big Thing, But Ended Up Forgotten, As Shared By People Online

wait what

40 Women Shared The Smoothest Flirting Techniques That They Fell For

marry him

40 Screenshots Of People Who Are Unaware Of The Existence Of LGBTQ People And It's Like They're Living Under A Rock

wow, found a way to s**t on the trans flag with your backwards beliefs...CoUlD yOu dOn'T

Boyfriend Storms Off After Girlfriend Calls Out His Fragile Masculinity For Refusing To Buy Her Pads

good thing she broke up with him. the more she found out the worse it got man.

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

I Sum Up Everyday Life Problems Of A Girl In My 30 Feminist Comics

haha same my dog is a spaz

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yup

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yes, shaving your legs is a massive chore. washing hair isn't as big of a deal, but it's still kind of annoying. I wash my hair 4 times a week and shave...like once a month.(thank god I'm blonde)

The Rock's 3 Y.O. Daughter Wanted Aquaman At Her Birthday, Aquaman's Actor Jason Momoa Delivers

IM NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

40 Of The Best Life Hacks That Sound Fake But Actually Work, Shared By People

Hold up-

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*BLEP INTENSIFIES*

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I would legit s**t my pants

*hippie*witchy*bitch* • upvoted 20 items 3 years ago

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

Maybe re-read what I have written. Nowhere have I said to never show affection. 🙄

Mom Explains Why Grandparents Can't Hug Her 2-Year-Old Whenever They Want And Have To Ask For Consent

This Online Group Is Dedicated To “Mildly Interesting” Stuff, And Here Are Their 50 Best Posts (New Pics)

3 guys in a boat in front of a glacier

I Sum Up Everyday Life Problems Of A Girl In My 30 Feminist Comics

Ma’am your dog is me

I Sum Up Everyday Life Problems Of A Girl In My 30 Feminist Comics

excuse me what the f**k

Relatable-Girl-Webcomics-Promptlypaneled-Xantippe

A Video Of A Man Sharing Some Hard-To-Believe Statistics Showing How The World Is Unfair To Women Goes Viral With 2.4M Likes

Small pockets, catcalls, bras, pay gap, harassment, s**t-shaming, etc.

50 Times People Just Had To Take A Screenshot Of Americans Being Unbelievably Clueless

Great answer.

Chadwick Boseman

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1 upvote = save the guy

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I am sorry that you have to witness this and, if you don't mind my saying so, your dad's way of looking at things is a bit off.

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Wouldnt it be great if all men in the world had a day were they were on a period and could see how it feels?

Women-Share-Messed-Up-Society-Norms

Being expected to be nice when a man is overstepping your boundaries. As soon as we express any discomfort we're made to feel we should be nice to them. Eg: it was only banter, lighten up, that sort of thing.