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Julia H

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Julia H • upvoted 18 items 1 day ago

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where women flock, like the salmon of Capistrano

Mom Sets Up Fundraiser For Daughter's Trip To Africa, Gets Agitated Over Lack Of Donations

My daughter went to the UK through one of these organizations, People to People or something like that. One of the first things they discussed was getting friends and relatives to donate. It was such a huge part of the experience. She received maybe $500 in donations. We footed the rest of the $10k bill. Glad she had the experience but I'll never participate is something like that again

30 Color Photos Photographers Took 100 Years Ago That Still Mesmerize Us Today

where women flock, like the salmon of Capistrano

Mom Sets Up Fundraiser For Daughter's Trip To Africa, Gets Agitated Over Lack Of Donations

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Please give her some grace. Her words were clumsy but I don't think she meant it to sound like she was trying to get the house in the divorce. I think it was more a reference to her first post where she she would kick her daughter out if she could stay with her husband. I belive it was more her realizing she will be homeless. Please remember that while the consequences for her are very little in comparison to the consequences for OPs husband, she is also a victim of her daughter and family. She is loosing her husband, who seems like an amazing person. She is loosing her home, her family, by choice because of their actions, but still a loss. And her relationship with her daughter. Again, in comparison not as much as her husband, but her loss doesn't have to be equal to be valid. OP and STBE are both victims of her daughter and her family.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

She's 19, she understands, she's getting off on the power. Otherwise she would have stopped spreading the lies after the first repercussions.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Making up stories with cousin about "being peeped on, hahaha, let's make up new scenarios and run with it" and then, lies gets spread to all of the family, who believe the girl, she finds out immediately the repercussions, she doesn't do anything to change it (they'll think badly of me if they think I was making it up), it's only after man's been away for a week and says that's it it's over, all of a sudden, the penny drops, girl realizes she f***** up. It's too late. Too little too late. I hope she's learned an incredibly important lesson about spreading rumors and who you confide lies / made up stories with. It's ruined her parents marriage and it's ruined her future. It could have ruined his future as well. It's a shame, sounds like things were going well before. That's a real shame. But you know what the acronym FAFO stands for, and that's an example

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

I'm puzzled and wondering what the heck the niece (although I think they mean cousin) told her mom and others. Because no matter what scenario mentioned in the post it was, the moment OP mentions that she was right down the hallway at the time makes the accusation of lewd intent absurd.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

I hope the husband has possession of that video of him knocking on the door. He needs to get it to his divorce lawyer for safe keeping asap. Thankfully the daughter is 19 and not a minor or he'd be needing a criminal attorney. This could still follow him for the rest of his life. All of their lives will be damaged forever. So effing sad.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Somebody Me Too’d too close to the sun - shoeonhead

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Oof, that was hard to read. Poor guy.

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Sounds like you have quite the nice lot

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Your daughter is an adult. She caused this,airpods, not locking the bathroom door. She owes a huge apology to her stepfather and you. And needs to move.

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Its a piece of art called "Reverse Dunk"

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

I feel for the OP, and her soon to be ex husband - sadly there is no fixing this. The damage is done and there's no going back. And I would never trust the daughter again. I hate people like her. False accusations just make it so much harder for those who are ACTUAL victims to be believed. The fact that she was so willing to ruin a man's life over this kind of mistake tells me exactly how shítty of a person she is. As for OP, she should kick the daughter out and go low to no contact with her. And on the off chance that relationship isn't completely ruined, if OP chooses to date again, it'd be best if daughter never met any of Mom's future partners. I wouldn't trust her around any of them ever again

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

This is one of the saddest stories I have ever read. A series of misunderstandings made all the more worse by the culture in which we live. FYI I am not complaining about the culture, just acknowledging it's role. There is a version of this story where the stepdad really was a creep and the family did nothing to protect the daughter. People act on partial information all the time, but don't question it when that information turns out to be right. I believe the events are possible as the daughter described. She mentions the funny story about her stepdad walking in on her and someone else sees the story differently, and think they are helping. Unfortunately these things are all too human. The relationship is unfixable and the entire family will all be traumatized over it. Stepdad gets the worst of it, but the wife losing someone she loves and the guilt the daughter will carry are also tough. Just sad all around.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

there's no way to "fix" this. the daughter put the husband in a very dangerous situation. he can never be around her again. the husband is right that the woman shouldn't have to choose between her husband or her daughter, so he's making the choice for her, and it's his right to do that. she needs to realize the marriage is over. she and her daughter need to go to therapy, because that relationship is now damaged and it's going to take a lot to fix it. the daughter may also end up feeling depressed, as it's her fault this happened, and there's nothing she can do to fix it. they need to get to the bottom of why she would lie about this.

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Julia H • commented on 3 posts 1 day ago

Mom Sets Up Fundraiser For Daughter's Trip To Africa, Gets Agitated Over Lack Of Donations

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

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Mom Sets Up Fundraiser For Daughter's Trip To Africa, Gets Agitated Over Lack Of Donations

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

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Julia H • upvoted 19 items 2 days ago

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

That girl did more damage than she understands. And for what? That guy is supposedly a brilliant husband and even spent so much on that girl as well. Did he deserve such treatment? As a guy I would never move back in with that girl again

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

It’s actually a stutter in the space-time continuum! (No idea if that even means anything, but I thought it sounded good!)

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

It’s actually a stutter in the space-time continuum! (No idea if that even means anything, but I thought it sounded good!)

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

Yikes. I despise the very idea of sexual predators. To be labeled as one of any stripe for an innocent mistake would be devastating. Sorry, I would never go back to that house or be in any scenario where I am with the daughter alone again. To so casually lie about something so serious is scary. I feel terrible for real victims but people who lie about these types of things the destroy lives and cast doubt on real victims. Absolutely disgusting.

Woman Moves To A Democratic-Leaning Area In The US And Is Shocked By The Difference

"You need to live in a red state for a while because you need to understand how the rest of the country lives." -> "You need to understand how poor choices, general ignorance and racism make life harder for anyone". They don't understand *they* are the problem.

Woman Considers Kicking 19YO Daughter Out After She Ruins Her Stepdad’s Life & Ends Marriage

She should have stopped that early in the game. She has now wrecked several relationships by not doing so and not backtracking and allowing them to keep going. Hard lesson learnt.

Woman Moves To A Democratic-Leaning Area In The US And Is Shocked By The Difference

"You need to live in a red state for a while because you need to understand how the rest of the country lives." No. "You need to live in a blue state for a while because you need to understand how the rest of the country lives." That’s how it should be.

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I would 100 % use that feature!

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"You are here!" ↗️

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I hope this was a bonus during the Covid TP shortage. Otherwise, it's an omen about the food. 😬

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You are not alone! 😬

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"Greetings, programs!"

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It reminds me of a structure in one of the gardens (I think Fitzroy) in Melbourne that I've always wanted to go in but never have. I think it was often closed when I was in the area.

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I was curious as to why this would fly anywhere near the Antarctic and apparently this was to avoid headwinds. Also found out that this flight is also used to confirm that the Earth is not flat (depressing that people even have to do that)

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You're about to fall off the disk!

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Safety device, especially if you are a woman living alone. Not necessary everywhere, but wise to use in some areas.

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Julia H • commented on 3 posts 1 day ago

Mom Sets Up Fundraiser For Daughter's Trip To Africa, Gets Agitated Over Lack Of Donations

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

😳😳😳

50 Photos People Took Of Something Mildly Interesting, Yet Truly Fascinating

Wow

Julia H • commented on 3 posts 3 days ago

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I'm so sorry. I hope you've found some relief

50 Wholesome And Funny Bosses Who Put Their Employees First (New Pics)

Pizza kitchen

50 Wholesome And Funny Bosses Who Put Their Employees First (New Pics)

Sliced for sandwiches and breakfast

Julia H • commented on a post 4 days ago

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It can be. Especially if it was before you had a chance to pour the first cup. 🤣 😂

Julia H • commented on a post 1 week ago

Guy Is Sick Of Appeasing His “Favorite Child” Twin, Refuses To Be Her Full-Time Nanny During Finals

Same. My kid went with me on errands, vacation.. Everywhere. I don't understand parents who had kids but clearly don't want them

Julia H • commented on 4 posts 1 week ago

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Greatest of all time?

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Thank you

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One is in shade

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Mini me

Julia H • commented on 8 posts 2 weeks ago

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Can't upvote enough

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Dark. I love it

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This!!!

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We need a bigger floor drain. I'll get my coat...

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I'm from California. I've always gone outside to watch lightning. I only go inside when the time between the flash and sound is nonexistent or it starts really, really raining

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Can't see without a subscription 😞

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A few more potholes and you have Utah

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Don't forget liquor stores on each corner

Julia H • upvoted 20 items 2 hours ago

Lady Annoyed By Partner Who Refuses To Marry Her Or Give Any Other Commitment, Decides To Leave

Basically, she's been paying him for rent and gigolo services. I'm glad she's going to pay herself.

Lady Annoyed By Partner Who Refuses To Marry Her Or Give Any Other Commitment, Decides To Leave

At least he has the brass to tell her he’s using her. Although she’s a doormat, at least she’s getting out

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I've ordered for years, and have never had a problem with it being left at my door. COVID you know. Until one crazy Karen driver tried to fight the wrong delivery she made, and I'M flagged for it. The picture even showed the wrong house number!

Woman Hears What Couple Say While On Hold: "Request Could Not Be Approved"

Whenever I order with Just Eat or Domino's they send me a 4 digit code I have to give to the driver so they know I'm definitely the one who ordered the food.

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That’s pretty awesome. I held a surveillance position for a major corporation when my mother passed away, and discovered we did not have grievance leave. When I got the call that she was about to pass, I informed them I had to leave and management told me to take several days and they’d cover for me. When I came back to the morning briefing everyone there expressed condolences and they gave me a grocery gift card for several hundred dollars. I did cry. Mom passed in an ugly way, so I was really suffering, this was just outstanding considering the money came from my coworkers’ pockets.

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had a dr appt during which my dr could see that something was wrong. he was the kind of general practitioner that believed in body/mind/spirit care & not just fixing the physical issues. broke down & told him i had to put my beloved dog down the day before & was just working through it. he left the room & returned w/my paperwork & a note to boss for mental health leave for two days. went back to work & gave dr papers for confirmation of appt (stupid company policy) & she saw that i hadn't given her the note-what was it? told her not to worry but she insisted. after reading she ordered me home for 2 days. when i returned discovered she had put my time off as family bereavement leave because fur babies are family. and this is just one of the things she did for me.

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Wow! That's awesome!

50 Awesome Bosses That Proved There's No Need To Be A Jerk To Run A Company (New Pics)

There was a big flood here a couple of years ago. I sent my boss back then an email telling him I need a few days off, I was going to join an animal rescue party to help lost pets caught in the flood (and help families who got hospitalized and couldn't take care of their own pets). I got a reply back saying it's unacceptable for me to take time off for that. I was furious at first only to discover that what he actually meant was that I will be doing it on the company's time and not spend my vacation days. He also hired a minibus to help me and the other volunteers.

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Joke reference to Photoshop

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Took me a while…

50 Awesome Bosses That Proved There's No Need To Be A Jerk To Run A Company (New Pics)

This is what is meant by reasonable adjustments. If your employee needs extra support to do their job and you're in a position to give it, then you should. Too many employers don't seem to understand this, and then they complain that employee isn't able to do their job properly. I have anxiety and depression and even with occupational health reports recommending certain reasonable adjustments, I've not had them put in place by my employers in the past. Then I've been moaned at for having to go off sick because the lack of support has led to a decline in my mental health. This is the law in the UK as well under the Equality Act 2010.

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Some people are just good people

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the coolest thing one can do, especially @ that pandemic times. i hope it really helped the hard working lads of that place.

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It's a reference to the tv series The Office https://imgix.ranker.com/user_node_img/50117/1002326550/original/1002326550-photo-u1?auto=format&q=60&fit=crop&fm=pjpg&dpr=2&w=375

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What am I missing here? Seriously I'm curious

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I can absolutely see this painting as part of a children's book.

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That's talent! Have you ever thought about pursuing book illustration?

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That's beautiful

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