Her husband called my phone. I had no idea she was married. He had just gotten home from Afghanistan. I apologized with everything I had in me. I truly didn't know. She had just broken up with a guy i worked with. He told me it was okay. I wasn't the first guy. He had known about her having affairs for a while. He just wanted to know if she was living with me so he could send divorce papers. I told him my address, waited until she was served, and ended the relationship.

Her husband found the messages between us on her iCloud account contacted me around 2am or 3am calling my phone. So I answered and he said “ You do know so and so is married right!? I am her husband” so I replied back well she told me she was single plus I met her on a dating app so that’s between you two. Long story short I cut it off she tried to explain the situation and I’m like talk to your dude not me I was here for a good time not a long time.

Got severely depressed when I realized I *was the other man*.