Commenting on my weight.

Making comments when you are doing something productive.
I had a depressive episode when I was a teenager and one day i had finally the strength to clean up my room and it felt sort of liberating. I was actually enjoying it until my mother came into my room said "oh you are cleaning your room like I told you a thousand times".
It killed all my drive. Suddenly i wasn't doing it for myself but for her. It made my depression just much worse.
When your kid is doing something productive, don't say anything. Don't mention it, don't make a comment, just treat it like a normal thing.

They talk all the time about how smart I am. As if I were a child prodigy, a Sheldon Cooper. It bothers me because they place too many expectations on me.

Telling me I’m angry when I raise my voice but complain they can’t hear me because I’m quiet and mumbly. I can’t help constantly talking in a whisper, but if I speak louder apparently I’m being rude. And now I question if I have anger issues or not because everything I do is me being “angry” according to them.

"I can't find that cat WHAT IF SHE ESCAPED?" "I can't believe you said that, you're totally going to get bullied" "Are you SURE you know where your classes are? I know you checked twice already, but check again" "Why didn't you respond to my text fifteen minutes ago? I was about to call the police!" "Don't go that far up the driveway, someone might kidnap you" "Those pants look baggier on you, have you lost weight? Are you sick? What are you hiding from me?"

... guess who just got diagnosed with anxiety at age 20!