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This site is just full of downvotes and people being horrible now. You get downvoted for not having the same opinions. Or you get called names.

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Clown fish • commented on 13 posts 43 minutes ago

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

But what age are the girls? 16 UK a bit odd because well they are in their late 20s! But USA being 18-19 not really as odd as legally they are both adults at that point

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

But what age are the girls? 16 UK a bit odd because well they are in their late 20s! But USA being 18-19 not really as odd as legally they are both adults at that point

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

It's fine having a lot of pets as long as they are cleaned and taken care of and have their flea, worm and other treatments done

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I couldn't cope doing it another year. It was so horrible getting in bed and remembering you need to sort the sodding elf

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I did it once then got Elf a girlfriend and a kid and a dog tuck a picture and put that out on the 1st of December the next year, with a note saying he was now to busy with the family to come back

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

He ate the whole gang by the looks of it 🤯

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She was told she needed to loose a bit of weight by music producers

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She got ill from well water and got Stenosis (septic shock) which lead to a heart attack.

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

I think the fact she was also beaten black and blue might be a give away it happened!!

50 Times Humans And Animals Refused To Bow To The Fury Of Nature (New Pics)

You do know there are other businesses that use sewing machines that are ligament right?

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Clown fish • upvoted 11 items 43 minutes ago

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

I have to work so I have to people

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

I have to work so I have to people

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

Nothing wrong with being on your best behaviour when first meeting someone. Being aware of your more positive and negative traits and making efforts to change where appropriate is surely a good thing? Pretending to be someone you're not and then reverting to type when you've got your claws into someone is another thing altogether, but yeah, I would try to dress nicely and make sure my hair was tidy, I'd cleaned my teeth and that I didn't smell . Wouldn't everybody?

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

Me after every day in office.

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

wow!! genius level!,

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I did it once then got Elf a girlfriend and a kid and a dog tuck a picture and put that out on the 1st of December the next year, with a note saying he was now to busy with the family to come back

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She was told she needed to loose a bit of weight by music producers

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She got ill from well water and got Stenosis (septic shock) which lead to a heart attack.

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

Biggest Mistake i made around Christmas was that f*****g Elf.

50 Times Humans And Animals Refused To Bow To The Fury Of Nature (New Pics)

pre toasted?

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

Violence doesn't equate to insanity. Insanity doesn't equate to violence.

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Clown fish • upvoted 7 items 1 day ago

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

I see it as a big deal. Women see it as a big deal bc we know what it's like. MEN dont see it as a big deal. Not all men, but most. I've seen what it does to a guy when this happens. It's devastating.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thanks for the update

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thanks for the update

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thank you for the update, much appreciated!

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

You're welcome.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thank you for posting the update!

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I think I'm not 100% but it might be half baked?

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

If you hold the picture you can download it and take it to a t-shirt print shop

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Clown fish • commented on 9 posts 1 day ago

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

You're welcome.

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I think I'm not 100% but it might be half baked?

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

You're welcome.

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I think I'm not 100% but it might be half baked?

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

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50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

If you hold the picture you can download it and take it to a t-shirt print shop

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

So adding on, a lot of people said I should ask our mutual friends if he’s ever bought this up before. Ever suggested we were dating etc. All of the people I’ve asked (granted it was only 5) said that they’ve not got a clue and he’s never mentioned it before now. I don’t know then if this is something that he’s newly started thinking, if it’s been something long term etc. Either way, in addition I’ve also screenshotted all of his texts etc, just in case. Reading back on them not with a slightly less confused mindset, they read pretty manic. Still haven’t heard back from his mum just yet.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

I’m sorry this is quite a boring update. Unfortunately, I can’t excite everyone with a ‘and then he turned up at my door, and then he sent me flowers,’ or whatever. It feels a lot is unanswered. I still don’t know where he got the idea we were saying from, he hasn’t explained that. So I’m sorry I can’t give everyone that answer. I haven’t reached out to his family yet. I did consider it, but if he’s not having a mental health crisis, I don’t really want to involve them unnecessarily.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

At the very end he apologised and told me that it didn’t matter anyway because I ‘wouldn’t see him around anymore’. Obviously I was concerned so I asked for clarification. He said that he was going to drop out of University and go back home because he ‘couldn’t deal with the shame’. That’s where our conversation ended. I didn’t really know what to respond to that.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Eventually, to be honest, I grew pretty tired of the conversation and stopped responding, because it was just going around and around in circles. Me asking where he got this idea, him ignoring this and telling me how hurt he is I’m breaking up with him over this, etc etc. He went on and on saying he thought it would be a ring I like, because it was my favourite gem, ruby, instead of diamond. (It’s got me wondering how much he actually spent on this damn thing. I didn’t look very clearly at the ring so I couldn’t tell if it was something super expensive or not) and that he had been working up the courage to do so for a while and figured doing it when I was at home would make it more special. For a while, he was just talking to himself in my texts, because I wasn’t responding anymore. When I checked back about 20 minutes later, I had something like 60 messages from him. Granted, they were all one sentences.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Again, all his messages were very clear and coherent, even if what he was saying was not based in reality at all. He wasn’t sending paragraphs, just sentences in really quick succession which was blowing my phone up. He told me he didn’t want to meet up with me to talk because I had ‘ripped out his heart and crushed it in public’. I did ask him for specific instances he could recall between us that made him think we were dating, but he completely ignored the question and just kept going on and on about how hurt he was that I was ‘breaking up’ with him and how he felt his world was ending. He said he loved me more than anything and had felt so confident that I had too which is why he felt so certain about proposing to ‘move our relationship along’ (???)

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Clown fish • commented on 13 posts 43 minutes ago

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

But what age are the girls? 16 UK a bit odd because well they are in their late 20s! But USA being 18-19 not really as odd as legally they are both adults at that point

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

It's fine having a lot of pets as long as they are cleaned and taken care of and have their flea, worm and other treatments done

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

Needs a bored panda tab

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

Pets count I'm 100% sure they count

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

I have to work so I have to people

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I couldn't cope doing it another year. It was so horrible getting in bed and remembering you need to sort the sodding elf

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I did it once then got Elf a girlfriend and a kid and a dog tuck a picture and put that out on the 1st of December the next year, with a note saying he was now to busy with the family to come back

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

He ate the whole gang by the looks of it 🤯

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She was told she needed to loose a bit of weight by music producers

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She got ill from well water and got Stenosis (septic shock) which lead to a heart attack.

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

I think the fact she was also beaten black and blue might be a give away it happened!!

50 Times Humans And Animals Refused To Bow To The Fury Of Nature (New Pics)

You do know there are other businesses that use sewing machines that are ligament right?

Clown fish • commented on 7 posts 1 day ago

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

You're welcome.

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I think I'm not 100% but it might be half baked?

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

https://printerval.com/uk/sciatica-skeleton-metal-t-shirt-p3963282?spid=232960475&tr=&adgroupid=&campaignid=21342556235&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIs5ed2-qBiwMVEYhQBh0dmQ8NEAQYASABEgICNvD_BwE

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

If you hold the picture you can download it and take it to a t-shirt print shop

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Clown fish • upvoted 12 items 2 hours ago

“What’s Something You Didn’t Realize Was Messed Up Until You Were Older?” (75 Stories)

I think they mean more putting on so much make-up they don't look like themselves in day to day life anymore

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

Me after every day in office.

90 Memes For The Introvert In You

I have to work so I have to people

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

wow!! genius level!,

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

I did it once then got Elf a girlfriend and a kid and a dog tuck a picture and put that out on the 1st of December the next year, with a note saying he was now to busy with the family to come back

This IG Account Gathered Nearly 1M Fans With Its Dad Memes And Here Are 30 Of The Best

Biggest Mistake i made around Christmas was that f*****g Elf.

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She was told she needed to loose a bit of weight by music producers

30 Tragic Celebrity Deaths That Still Haunt Fans

She got ill from well water and got Stenosis (septic shock) which lead to a heart attack.

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

Violence doesn't equate to insanity. Insanity doesn't equate to violence.

35 Shocking And Terrifying Things People Revealed After Intoxication Took Hold

50 Times Humans And Animals Refused To Bow To The Fury Of Nature (New Pics)

pre toasted?

Clown fish • upvoted 8 items 1 day ago

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Crystalwitch..Gees a pair of tits get over it.

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thanks for the update

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thank you for the update, much appreciated!

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

Thank you for posting the update!

Woman Finds Out She’s Been In A Relationship Without Realizing After Getting Publicly Proposed To

You're welcome.

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I must be older than that. No idea who that is.

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I think I'm not 100% but it might be half baked?

50 Hilariously Relatable Memes That Describe Gen X Life Better Than Words Ever Could

I want this on a t-shirt!

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