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Rocks_tumbling
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The best place to hide is in plain sight… I don’t trust many people on here but imma try, so mean to each other sometimes!.
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I’m here for friends and funnies not drama. My name is Kyla. I go by Tyla bc when I was a wee babay I said my K’s like T’sand it stuck, and I like it better >;-)
I believe that vegetables are a necessary evil. I’m bitter that my parents won’t sign the release for me to join Roller Derby, I love to skate Military kid, lived all over the country (USA) and a few months in Japan but barely remember it.
Current HS senior. In Aug I go back to NY after 4 years in South Carolina. Sarah Lawrence College class of 2028!
I like like rocks. And shells. And ducks. And rocks. And cheese. And rocks.
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Hey Pandas, If Your Pets Could Talk For One Minute, What Would You Ask Them?
I don't really expect honest answers from catsHey Pandas, What One Thing Is Difficult But Should Be Easy?
getting the plastic seal off a bottle of pillsHey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
Another tRump administration. Dictator for a day my a$s.Hey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
something from my g-ma, she's struggling w/ monies rn. she's not poor, but she's still struggling w/ monies.Hey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
Guilt and shame. I don't want to go back for the holidays. I just want a week to myself. I have a feeling the result, however, will be subtle and not-so-subtle guilt trips.
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Hey Pandas, If Your Pets Could Talk For One Minute, What Would You Ask Them?
I don't really expect honest answers from catsHey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
Another tRump administration. Dictator for a day my a$s.Hey Pandas, What One Thing Is Difficult But Should Be Easy?
getting the plastic seal off a bottle of pillsHey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
something from my g-ma, she's struggling w/ monies rn. she's not poor, but she's still struggling w/ monies.Hey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
Gifts. Each year we tell people we don't want anything, we know times are tight for people, we'd sooner they spent any money on things for themselves, that would be the gift we want, to see them not having to struggle buying a thing for us.Hey Pandas, What Do You Hope You Don't Get For Christmas?
Guilt and shame. I don't want to go back for the holidays. I just want a week to myself. I have a feeling the result, however, will be subtle and not-so-subtle guilt trips.
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Got a good psychiatrist who tested me for everything and found out I needed prescription strength vitamin d capsules that I take weekly and I need to give myself vitamin b shots biweekly. I cried so hard for days because I suddenly had energy and could think straight. I had been deficient for two decades because my gastro doc never tested me for deficiencies after multiple bowel resections due to crohns. But my psych caught it and changed my life.BurnerLibrary reply
I'm 63F now. When I was 32, I met and married my late husband. He was a genius (literally,) but ultimately a covert narcissist who abused me and our children for decades - while making it look like HE was the long-suffering victim. OP mentioned being able to afford one's mistakes. I worked to put my late husband through college. He took his BA with honors in Philosophy, Summa Cum Laude. He was recognized at the Honors Convocation as having overcome drug addiction and homelessness to achieve great academic heights. Then, he went on to law school, moving our little family 3000 miles from home. Five weeks later, he quit. Not because it was difficult, but because he just didn't want to do it, he said. Looking back, I can see that as a covert narc, he must have realized that he could not become a successful lawyer while still playing victim. He had to shoot himself in the foot, so to speak. Well, he refused to work, Woe was him! But he became a master of the household budget and he pushed me to work as much overtime as possible. pported our family of 5 on my income alone. I paid off his student loan for law school in 12 years. I learned there is such a thing as financial abuse and he exerted that over our family. He convinced us that were were one stick of gum away from homelessness. Why did I not divorce him? Two reasons: 1) God hates divorce. 2) In our home state (to which we had returned,) I'd have had to pay him alimony to keep him in the lifestyle to which he was accustomed. Instead, I focused on the ways he actually served us well. He was an astounding chef and pitmaster. We ate so well, and still on a budget. He actually squirreled aside some $15K from all those "sticks of gum" he kept me from buying over the years. That money came in real handy when he died in the pandemic. My big regret in all of this is that the true love of my life had gotten a divorce the same year that I married this clown. I wish I'd been able to spend an extra 28 years with my Mr. Right. The moment my true love discovered I'd been widowed, he and I got married without a date, without a proposal, without a doubt.
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Believing I could get a guy to change if only I was "good enough" for him. Oof.Vivid-Gur0822:
Ooh yes! THIS! This is probably the mistake in my life that caused the chain reaction of mistakes I made all through my 20s, possibly early 30s as well lol (I'm 39).
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