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ANGEL M

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Live in Edinburgh. Write poetry and work hard with numbers

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ANGEL M • commented on a post 1 week ago

Woman Realizes Family Doesn’t Really Care About Her, Decides To Stop Putting In Effort

I have a siblings that frankly have always been the "Drama", and as a result I for long enough felt that anything going on with me was nothing in comparison to their troubles. No matter when they said, I know that you matter it was never the case. As a result, I for my mental sanity pulled away. I tell them nothing and as a result they know nothing about my likes / loves / dislikes / hates. They know nothing about what is going on with me because I closed off the drama. I can't be around any of them for more than 5 minutes without feeling anxious. If I passed tommorrow there is a lot that would go to the grave with me, including the 2 year situationship that I am neither in or out of lol

ANGEL M • commented on 2 posts 2 weeks ago

Mom Says “It’s Not Fair” Bride Won’t Serve Meat At Her Own Wedding

I'm omnivore(but cant tollerate wheat). But I really have to laugh at people when they get up in arms about being provided a vegetarian dish. It's so completely different being only given meat as an option than being asked to have a veg based dish.

30 Times People Found Things In Thrift Stores That Defy Explanation (New Pics)

Yeah, I remember years ago finding a uniform for Iceland frozen foods in a charity shop

ANGEL M • commented on a post 3 weeks ago

“Can’t Unring That Bell”: Wife Embarrasses Husband In Front Of Friends, He Rethinks Everything

If you truelly have any affection for anyone in your life you never take the thing they are sensitive about and joke to others about it. It's a s****y thing to do and makes you look like a poor individual that you are so uncomfortable in yourself that you need to break someone else down

ANGEL M • commented on a post 4 weeks ago

Man's Beloved Lithodora Plant Gets Randomly Stolen, He Insists On Finding The Thief

When I first moved into my flat many years ago, I decided on decorating the inside shared landing stair for christmas. One of these items was a fake small Christmas lolly pop type tree with Holly and a partridge. I came out new years morning to it having been swiped. Never did find out who nabbed it or whether it had suffered a drunk incident ( upstairs neighbours had a hogmanay party that night it could have Benn taken by a party goer or removed after a someone pucking on it)

ANGEL M • commented on 4 posts 1 month ago

Teen Son Starts Making Around $3k A Month, Mom Wants Him To Start Paying $600 Rent

Okay, not getting all these YTA. If a child has left school they are classed as an adult. He maybe on a Gap year but there is still no guarantee that he will continue in further education, as a result he has to be shown how living as an adult works. The OP said he had suggested to his wife that they save what they get from their sons rent to help him out later and frankly that is the correct thing to do if they have a sufficient income to manage their household. ( if he didn't have the income to manage the household asking for rent in this situation would be more than valid) The important thing is OP is thinking of his sons future and his development into adult life

Grandparents Who Skipped Wedding Now Want Man’s Life Insurance, Widow Refuses

Anyone else think that if the money went to the great grandparents they would actually be giving it right back to their daughter. If the great grandparents really wanted it they would be asking for themselves

Teen Son Starts Making Around $3k A Month, Mom Wants Him To Start Paying $600 Rent

Grandparents Who Skipped Wedding Now Want Man’s Life Insurance, Widow Refuses

People Tried These 30 Psychological Tricks And Noticed That They Actually Worked

It's a breath trick. The person who has the hiccups by nature of the hiccups cannot catch an even breath as a result of the excitement of finding out something scandalous they start breathing in such a way that the hiccups are relieved

Coworkers Humiliate New Hire By Snubbing Her From Lunch Party, Regret It When Boss Finds Out

Any office I've been in. If I had said as someone suggested that I had work to finish and that's why I was at my desk. Boss would have practically grabbed me and dragged me to the party with them. So in that scenario it would have made no difference as the mean girls would have been bitching at that and OP would still be on the end of their beating stick and could not win no matter what. Message to the bitches, is play stupid games and there is always a consequence!

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ANGEL M • commented on 5 posts 2 months ago

Woman Returns Home From Gym To Take Her Headphones, Flabbergasted When Hubby Calls Her Disgusting

I'm more disgusted at him "stealing" her headphones as clearly they are in ear headphones. You should not be sharing these sort of headphones!

“I Just Have To Tell You Something…”: Woman Shocked At Coworker’s Audacity

I have never had a makeup that has actually happened at work but have had a backhanded comment about appearance at a Xmas do that i organsised which I am still trying to decide whether I started it or not. Summary is tweezers as gift in Xmas cracker I said to a guy ( I don't as a rule get on with) do you want them for managing your beard and his response was " you are in need of them more". I was shocked ( I'm actually quite sensitive about the stray hairs that appear on my face and out of beauty spots on my neck and spend feel i am constantly grooming my face as a result) Because it was work adjacent rather than actually work itself and as i had made a comment first (which i dont believe was said in such a way that it was nasty) i did let it go as did nit want to ruin the party for others but I do find it upsetting

Woman Returns Home From Gym To Take Her Headphones, Flabbergasted When Hubby Calls Her Disgusting

I'm more disgusted at him "stealing" her headphones as clearly they are in ear headphones. You should not be sharing these sort of headphones!

“I Just Have To Tell You Something…”: Woman Shocked At Coworker’s Audacity

Woman Is Baffled By SIL's Anger Over Her Lack Of Kid-Friendly Condiments In Her House

I'm not going to buy stuff for my house that I will not use when "guests" are not visiting. I have an digestive intolerance to malt vinegar so in my house you are not getting vinegar for chips here. I can't eat wheat so don't have cereal a lot and as a result don't buy milk that often and as a result you cone to my house no milk for tea or coffee. My family if visiting knows this and will bring their own

Woman Confused How She’s The Jerk For Leaving Her Birthday After An Hour As Nobody Showed Up

Exactly, if any of them had turned up after the 5 min walk she had they could easily have walked the 5 miss to see her.

30 Dates That Went So Wrong, People Noped Out Immediately

Online dating, sucks! Have 2 that jump out.1st Had spent sometime online chatting, and as happens he was sexualising the conversation so thought would be in there. We decide to meet in person, and decide on a local pub. We get there and he positions himself so that he is facing the TV showing the football match and I'm lucky if I get a decent conversation out if him for the next 90 min. After, he then expects that we will go back to mine to get it on. The 2nd, he seemed nerdy, unique and interesting. We decided to meet and different local pub, before I got there he had ordered me a beer without asking if I drank beer. His parents had just stayed over for the weekend and I had to listen to an hour of him complaining about his mother treating him like a child in his home. He decides that an hour is enough and he was going to go home to play online with his friends.

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ANGEL M • upvoted an item 2 months ago

Woman Returns Home From Gym To Take Her Headphones, Flabbergasted When Hubby Calls Her Disgusting

Using someone elses intra auricullar heatphones il like sharing a toothbrush. 😷

ANGEL M • commented on 2 posts 3 months ago

Hypocritical Mom Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine When She Plans To Visit Daughter With Her BF

Let's take the my house, my rules out the equation. Nobody should be subjected to listening to anybody else banging away no matter they be family or stranger. Its just cringe to expect knowing that others can very very much hear it to expect them to tolerate it.

Couple Searches For Server After Long Wait, Refuses To Tip On $200 Bill Because Of What They Found

If the food itself was good, ask to see the chef so you can provide your compliments in person to them. Give the chef the tip in cash that you wish to provide for them alone. Make sure the server us aware that no tip will be provided to them as their service was not up to standard and let them know that a call will also be made to management to discuss the matter as they were not providing the service that management is paying them to undertake.

ANGEL M • upvoted an item 3 months ago

I Think We Need To Make Naming Our Brains A Thing. Pure Genius

ANGEL M • commented on a post 4 months ago

Boss’s Insulting Secret Santa Gift Makes Worker Quit Months Later, HR Gets Involved

I argue every year that the secret santa stay at £5.00, and I get push every year that you can't get anything for £5.00. I tell them it's possible because I manage it, it's about the thinking behind it and it's only supposed to be a little fun nothing life changing. I just remember years ago i was on hard times and i actually looked in my house for a gift i had got years ago from my family that I thought that the person I drew would like.

ANGEL M • upvoted 2 items 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About This Confusing Situation?

It's obvious to me that he is in a long term relationship at minimum, possibly married with children. Anyone who leaves you hanging more than once then comes up with some lame excuse days, weeks or months later, their actions are very clearly saying that you mean nothing to them. Pay no heed to their words.
PS Stay off Bumble ffs!

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About This Confusing Situation?

He is straight up ghosting you and playing games with you. Dump his a**e, move on.

ANGEL M • submitted a new post 4 months ago

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ANGEL M • commented on 3 posts 5 months ago

Female Employees Have Had Enough Of Planning Secret Santa, All Refuse To Participate This Year

Boss is an A*s. The correct response should have been when it was obvious that other employees wanted to participate that he take on the role. It actually does not cause any work if like our office the names are put in a santa generator. My colleague who organises it does this as we split the party responsibilities as we get our team from all over the country involved. Therefore, there is no chance for slips of paper or "who did I get?". Once you click on it the generated name is your responsibility and nobody elses

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

No parade rained on lol. I totally agree as had 3 years of online dating with typical results. In fact last guy was 53, commitment phobic, mother was in her 80s, and due to a set back in his life ( nothing to do with what ever we were doing, which let's face it ge was stringing me along) went running back to mummy with his d**k between his legs, Oh yeah to top it off, I knew due to Facebook he had a child of about 5 which in a year of seeing him he never mentioned once! Eyes are well open from experiences about the sort of guys I attract online dating

Female Employees Have Had Enough Of Planning Secret Santa, All Refuse To Participate This Year

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

Feel for OP, dating in your 40s is brutal. Although not in the same situation I understand her perspective, yeah she has raised her children & there is the wish not to have to go through it again. She still suffering from the trauma of what she went through. She has fear that she connects with these fathers & gets to know & love the kids then if it's a single father(with no mother on scene) he disappears & leaves her with the kids to bring up & her going through all the trauma again. I don't have her experience, am opposite having never had any kind of real relationship & now online dating as I heading to 50. Guys certainly within my range ( 40 to 55) are in 3 camps. Those "figuring it out" - they are not ready for dating, & are not serious. Those "looking for fun", - sex only. Those ready to commit but come with kids/experiences & attitudes expected of the age group. Not an easy situation

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ANGEL M • upvoted 2 items 5 months ago

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

Not to rain on your parade, but it only gets worse when you turn 50. Though kids are usually out or on their way out in our 50s, men are pretty much the same non committal mess with aging parents and their own physical issues.

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

Your idea sounds wonderful. In practice it stopped working when I turned 50. Most people my age struggle to find dates. Finding friends is also difficult.

ANGEL M • commented on 5 posts 6 months ago

"Is It In Yet?”: 30 Devastating Lines From Women That Stung These Men Like Poison

The worst response from a anyone when someone says sonething inappropriate is always, the "well you know that's how they are so let it go". I'm sorry nobody no matter whether they are family, best friends or a complete stranger has the right to make you accept a bully / patronizing or offensive attitude. People should think before they open their mouths and follow a couldn't give a fck attitude. If enough people called them on it enough times they would have to change

Pregnant Teacher Outraged By 6YO That Chose To Dress Up As Her For Halloween, Kid Left In Tears

The teacher, needs to behave! The only time a joke should require an apology is when it is done with the intention of mocking someone. The child, yes a child was not joking was trying to show admiration for someone in her life that makes a different to her life (obviously I know the child would not be able express it in those terms but that is what is going on there). The correct response would be from OP to teacher, sorry you were offended my child did not mean it in the way you have taken it. She will not be expected to make a public apology as she did nothing inappropriate as there was no malicious intention in the activity. If you continue to persecute her for this I will be taking this further as it is not how a role model behaves. As for those admonishing the OP for taking her child for ice cream, please already I say ! She was comforting her child as an adult was being mean to her, bullying comes in all forms and a teaching professional should know better

"Is It In Yet?”: 30 Devastating Lines From Women That Stung These Men Like Poison

Pregnant Teacher Outraged By 6YO That Chose To Dress Up As Her For Halloween, Kid Left In Tears

Woman Decides To Move Out After Roommates Find Out Her Salary: "Been Struggling To Pay Rent"

A shared house rent per person should not be determined on how much the person is earning when everybody has a defined space and some people's areas are smaller than others! Think about commercial real estate you pay per floor area and amenities, the one doing all the complaining has the master bedroom with their girlfriend therefore there share will be expected to be higher than say an "harry potter" room for example. Not the OP but the other guy is a AH as he clearly is not living in the real world in his head yet. I bet he is closeted by his parents. Even when you move in with a partner as you are now sharing the sane space to prevent any "I bring the money to this house" discussions the fair split should be 1/2 each to the running the house be it rent/mortgage/food/utilities etc.

50 Hilarious Moments People Eavesdropped On From Someone’s Awkward Date (New Pics)

I actually know what they statement means. It's a female that only gets to give him a blowjob and wonders when the sexual intercourse will get round to happening. Its the typical one sided thing!

Man Cheats On GF With Her Best Friend, They Harass Her When She Refuses To Attend Their Wedding

I suspect that a lot of the old friend group are on OP's side and as a result are not going to go to the wedding. As a result the cheaters are getting a lot of rsvp of NO! They think that if they get OP there all their old friends will come running back. But these stupid little children are now along with their family instead making matters worse by harassing OP and making her close to reacting in a negative way that will make their life harder. People need to own their actions in life and understand their are things that cannot be forgotten or forgiven.

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ANGEL M • upvoted an item 6 months ago

Pregnant Teacher Outraged By 6YO That Chose To Dress Up As Her For Halloween, Kid Left In Tears

Replying to add the teacher could have better handled the situation by talking to the little girl privately and say something like, "I know you care about me, and I care about you too, but when you behave like this, it hurts my feelings. Since we care about each other, we need to be careful not to behave in ways that might hurt each other's feelings." You can't just automatically expect kids to understand things from an adult perspective. They're little humans and need to be taught from a place of love, compassion, and understanding. The fact this poor girl was asking her mother if she is a "bad girl" makes my blood boil. Children aren't bad. Behavior is. How this teacher got her degree without taking child development courses is beyond me.

ANGEL M • commented on 3 posts 7 months ago

“I Will Never Be Able To Forget That”: 45 Of The Worst Things People Heard From Their Parents

I know how bad the dual diagnosis of depression and anxiety is. Everyday is a struggle and at least for me nobody believed the diagnosis of depression as my anxiety made me very animated. You might say I was lucky was what you might call high functioning so unless I had a bad attack nobody would know. I feel for OP as nobody knows apart from the individual how hard it was for them and someone saying they know how it is and they feel it can totally feel like making you wanting to say "F-off, you really don't know what goes on inside my head, you are not me".

Woman Adores Her Engagement Ring, Changes Her Mind After Finding Out How Much It Cost

I avoid Temu in general as everything about them gives me tacky vibes. I understand OP's frustrations at him pushing away everytime she tries to talk about it. Yes it was from a s****y retailer but he did buy it for her with love in his heart no matter what else. Although if I was being proposed to ( not that is anywhere likely to happy without any SO in my life), he better be knowing what i like because i don't do "diamonds". Off to Pandora he can go for a silver band with a garnet on it £40 boom

“I Will Never Be Able To Forget That”: 45 Of The Worst Things People Heard From Their Parents

Woman Adores Her Engagement Ring, Changes Her Mind After Finding Out How Much It Cost

Ex-Homeowners Show Up To See Former House, Get A Reality Check When Woman Doesn't Let Them In

When it's been a loving family home that was there for all your childhood we always have memories of it and want to reminise. My mother recently sold her dad's home which he had been in since 1956, she had many happy positive memories there and often says she would love to see what the new owners do with the place. Now me I would not advise going to visit old family homes as I actually feel it will 1) devalue your memories to an extent, its not the same place it was in your family, 2) it can actually cause rage if something that you hold key to your family life there has been dramatically changed. I put it to you this way, imagine an Artist painting on Canvas. If he paints over an old painting is it the same painting?

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ANGEL M • commented on a post 8 months ago

Mom Finds A Way To Keep Coworkers From Disturbing Her While She Pumps, Makes Them Uncomfortable

I bet its male co workers saying they are uncomfortable and they will fall into 2 tribes those that are "Oh god I don't want to think of OP as a woman and think about her having boobs" and the other tribe is " now I can't see her boobs"

ANGEL M • commented on 3 posts 9 months ago

"AITA For Telling My Parents They Should Have Thought Twice Before Having More Kids?"

It appears I read / made assumption that this was in the UK not USA. In UK we have 2 schools - primary which is ages 5 to 11ish and then High school which is 11ish to 18. I beg the public to forgive the stupid Scottish girl

"AITA For Telling My Parents They Should Have Thought Twice Before Having More Kids?"

Nobody is noticing the comment that she is 15 starting high school! You start high school at 11 or 12. Makes me think this is a fake scenario, to rile up the internet. I am not saying the scenario does not happen but in this instance. WELL!

"AITA For Telling My Parents They Should Have Thought Twice Before Having More Kids?"

Woman Blocks BF Of 2 Years After Catching Him Messing With Her Pills He Thought Were Birth Control

Putting the birth control issue to the side, for the relatives claiming it does not matter because she has an implant. He did mess with other medication which are to control bouts of involuntary constipation. Do you know what damage to your body having constipation and therefore bowel waste products can have. The guy is an immature person not fit to be in a relationship

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ANGEL M • submitted a new post 4 months ago

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Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About This Confusing Situation? (Closed)

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ANGEL M • commented on a post 1 week ago

Woman Realizes Family Doesn’t Really Care About Her, Decides To Stop Putting In Effort

ANGEL M • commented on 2 posts 2 weeks ago

Mom Says “It’s Not Fair” Bride Won’t Serve Meat At Her Own Wedding

30 Times People Found Things In Thrift Stores That Defy Explanation (New Pics)

Yeah, I remember years ago finding a uniform for Iceland frozen foods in a charity shop

ANGEL M • commented on a post 3 weeks ago

“Can’t Unring That Bell”: Wife Embarrasses Husband In Front Of Friends, He Rethinks Everything

ANGEL M • commented on a post 4 weeks ago

Man's Beloved Lithodora Plant Gets Randomly Stolen, He Insists On Finding The Thief

ANGEL M • commented on 4 posts 1 month ago

Teen Son Starts Making Around $3k A Month, Mom Wants Him To Start Paying $600 Rent

Grandparents Who Skipped Wedding Now Want Man’s Life Insurance, Widow Refuses

People Tried These 30 Psychological Tricks And Noticed That They Actually Worked

Coworkers Humiliate New Hire By Snubbing Her From Lunch Party, Regret It When Boss Finds Out

ANGEL M • commented on 5 posts 2 months ago

Woman Returns Home From Gym To Take Her Headphones, Flabbergasted When Hubby Calls Her Disgusting

I'm more disgusted at him "stealing" her headphones as clearly they are in ear headphones. You should not be sharing these sort of headphones!

“I Just Have To Tell You Something…”: Woman Shocked At Coworker’s Audacity

Woman Is Baffled By SIL's Anger Over Her Lack Of Kid-Friendly Condiments In Her House

Woman Confused How She’s The Jerk For Leaving Her Birthday After An Hour As Nobody Showed Up

Exactly, if any of them had turned up after the 5 min walk she had they could easily have walked the 5 miss to see her.

30 Dates That Went So Wrong, People Noped Out Immediately

ANGEL M • commented on 2 posts 3 months ago

Hypocritical Mom Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine When She Plans To Visit Daughter With Her BF

Couple Searches For Server After Long Wait, Refuses To Tip On $200 Bill Because Of What They Found

ANGEL M • commented on a post 4 months ago

Boss’s Insulting Secret Santa Gift Makes Worker Quit Months Later, HR Gets Involved

ANGEL M • commented on 3 posts 5 months ago

Female Employees Have Had Enough Of Planning Secret Santa, All Refuse To Participate This Year

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

ANGEL M • upvoted an item 2 months ago

Woman Returns Home From Gym To Take Her Headphones, Flabbergasted When Hubby Calls Her Disgusting

Using someone elses intra auricullar heatphones il like sharing a toothbrush. 😷

ANGEL M • upvoted an item 3 months ago

I Think We Need To Make Naming Our Brains A Thing. Pure Genius

ANGEL M • upvoted 2 items 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Should I Do About This Confusing Situation?

He is straight up ghosting you and playing games with you. Dump his a**e, move on.

ANGEL M • upvoted 2 items 5 months ago

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

Your idea sounds wonderful. In practice it stopped working when I turned 50. Most people my age struggle to find dates. Finding friends is also difficult.

Woman Refuses To Go Through Raising Kids Again, Single Dads On Dating App Get Defensive

ANGEL M • upvoted an item 6 months ago

Pregnant Teacher Outraged By 6YO That Chose To Dress Up As Her For Halloween, Kid Left In Tears

ANGEL M • upvoted 2 items 10 months ago

Entitled People, Social Issues

Guy Throws A Tantrum When Woman Refuses To Let Him Sit In Her Aisle Seat

“Your Bum Is Literally Out”: Internet Baffled By Woman’s Short Dress For Brother’s Wedding

Sorry, this is just tutu much.

ANGEL M • upvoted an item 11 months ago

50 Pictures Of School Lunches That Shocked People In A Good Or Bad Way

In Edinburgh, wouldn't be a Friday. We get Friday 1/2 day for the kids. Those that get free lunch get sent home with a pack lunch consisting of a white roll with a slice of ham or cheese, a satsuma, a capri sun and a squeezy yoghurt

ANGEL M • upvoted 3 items 1 year ago

“The Worst Thing I’ve Ever Seen”: People Disturbed By Jenna Ortega And Martin Freeman’s Scene

Apart from that, 18 (or 21 as she in reality is) is a legal adult, so nothing wrong there. People seem to have no problem with very violent scenes, but anything intimate/sensual/sexual should be banned? Just because *you* are not comfortable with it (for whatever reason). No one forces you to watch it. I wanted to avoid country-naming but this seems to happen often in a certain country that is at the same time the biggest producer of explicit adult films

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I worked at Booking (dot com) about a decade++ ago and our data scientists always said: "Avoid hotels with a rating lower than 8.3". It was some kind of conclusive point of no return or something. They knew something that they couldn't share, but I've always applied this rule since that day, and I've never been disappointed. And I've traveled a LOOOOOT. Red flag: rating lower than 8.3 on Booking.