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FlitterBug

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FlitterBug

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I am a female living in Northern CA, who loves my cats and dog.

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FlitterBug • commented on 33 posts 3 years ago

40 Times Guests Were Entertained By These Doormats And Posted The Pics Online (New Pics)

The at night one almost feels like a threat...

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Yes so I yell bc *checks notes* I am lacking a ding-dong. Got it

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Maybe 70% of us vote the same thing because it's what we want...shocker.......

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Did they ever have one?

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

i think those are rottweiler markings? I'm not totally sure but she looks like a sweetheart

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

I want to hug him

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

That is an absolutely *gorgeous* cat!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Very dignified, I see

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

So fluffy!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

She looks so elegant and refined

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Omg, the baby murder mittens! Love it!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Harvey looks extremely huggable :)

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Ig this can also help when there's a language barrier, makes it easier for people to know what it is they're getting if they can't read the menus

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

I think I have a new addition to my "places I want to travel" list

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

I love that they think about everyone there, I wish more places were more considerate here in the US, the most I've really seen is ADA compliant entrances/exits, but that might just be the area that I'm in that has so little (edit: spelling)

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Now I'm kinda jealous, some long-lasting ice cream sounds great right about now

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

The baby looks so happy :D

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Honestly, I would be so delighted if walking down the street I just saw some koi doing their thing

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Sadly some people are incapable of giving good examples in certain moments

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

That they are distantly related to Voldemort

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Hitting a child as punishment can a) make them think it's okay to hit/yell at others when mad, and b) can increase the risk of mental illness, aggression, and other psychological damage depending on how often physical punishment is applied. Yelling at the child can also make things worse, depending on the individual kid. Not everyone has the ability to raise a good person, despite their best efforts

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

I think she means like a teething toy or maybe some food? Both of those are something safe to bite, and it might help depending on any other reasons the kid is doing it (like being hungry, for example)

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

The moment I realized I grew up is when I got more excited to wrap presents nicely and write little cards than I was to wake up to gifts and "Santa". I realized I appreciated the time spent watching movies with friends and family than seeing what was in my stocking or had my name/paper on it (my family has always had different wrapping paper for everyone to make it easier)

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

People keep saying their upbringing was to get hit and that was more effective but think of it this way: hitting a child, even just as a punishment for bad behavior, has been found to increase their risk of mental illness, aggression, and can cause psychological damage. Then when people do this to *their own* children, they just feed the loop

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Sometimes lives have more downs than ups and without those tools, they might not know how to cope in healthy ways. I'm still trying to find healthy ways to cope with emotions because there's only so much you can do without being taught what is and isn't a healthy reaction to sadness or anger

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

It's also a good idea to teach that not every single stranger is dangerous. While it's uncommon for adults to ask kids for help, sometimes they ask where someone/thing is. As long as the person isn't trying to get them to go somewhere or putting hands on them, and it can make it easier for them to ask someone they don't know for help, like locating a person/place

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

I feel a little bad for her kid(s), her daughter(s) might grow up thinking she has to use filters and photoshop to be beautiful when really the most they need is some self-esteem

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Yeah. Some *adults* can't even process what they're feeling in a healthy manner and still expect it of young children who can't even fully process what's going on sometimes

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

The girl is quite young, and she didn't know he wanted a kiss. Young kids don't always process things like that. Also, telling young girls that they shouldn't hit someone if they don't want to be kissed or touched can lead to them not defending themselves in worse situations than what was described. If toddlers can pick up on traditional gender roles that young, they can pick up that reacting that way will lead to punishment, even when it's valid

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

The fact that some people don't realize dogs age before they have a furever home....

35 Of The Funniest Tweets About Being A Parent To Twins

I'm so glad I'm not a twin, for this reason. I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about if I was really the other one originally (edit: grammar)

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FlitterBug • upvoted 7 items 3 years ago

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Me too! I of course still appreciate the gifts and I love to see what people think to get me, but the best part is finding the perfect gift for someone and wrapping it up and seeing the look on their face when they open it. I just love making people happy and I don’t really worry too much anymore about what ‘Santa’ brought me

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Nah, it's for the dildo collection

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Nah, it's for the dildo collection

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

I feel a little bad for her kid(s), her daughter(s) might grow up thinking she has to use filters and photoshop to be beautiful when really the most they need is some self-esteem

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Yeah. Some *adults* can't even process what they're feeling in a healthy manner and still expect it of young children who can't even fully process what's going on sometimes

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

why so much photoshop, it looks really weird.

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FlitterBug • submitted 2 new posts 3 years ago

Ask Pandas

Hey Pandas, What's Your Favorite Thing About Your Partner? (Closed)

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Pandas, What Is The Worst Red Flag You Ignored, And Shouldn’t Have? (Closed)

FlitterBug • submitted 20 list additions 3 years ago

Hey Pandas, What Podcast Should I Listen To? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is The Most Sophisticated Insult You Can Think Of? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Are Some Cool Facts And Weird Facts You Know? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What's A Small Victory Of Yours? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is Something You Need Advice On? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, Predict The Future (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is Your Dream Pet? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What's Your Favorite Thing About Your Partner? (Closed)

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Hey Pandas, Ask Any Questions You May Have About LGBT+ (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Childish Things Do You Still Do, Even Though You Feel A Little Childish? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is Something You're Not Good At But Love Doing Anyway? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is Your Favorite Subject to talk about? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, Share 10 Random Facts About Yourself (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What's The Nicest Thing A Friend Did For You? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, Use This As Your "Vent" Room (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is You Weirdest Allergy? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, Explain A Historical Event To Me (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What's The Weirdest Insult You Said To Someone? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What's A Mandela Effect You Know? (Closed)

FlitterBug • commented on 20 posts 3 years ago

30 Funny Comics With Unexpected Endings By Scribbly G (New Pics)

Chiropractors be like *comic*

30 Funny Comics With Unexpected Endings By Scribbly G (New Pics)

poor thing

40 Times Guests Were Entertained By These Doormats And Posted The Pics Online (New Pics)

The at night one almost feels like a threat...

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Yes so I yell bc *checks notes* I am lacking a ding-dong. Got it

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Maybe 70% of us vote the same thing because it's what we want...shocker.......

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Did they ever have one?

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

i think those are rottweiler markings? I'm not totally sure but she looks like a sweetheart

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

I want to hug him

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

That is an absolutely *gorgeous* cat!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Very dignified, I see

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

So fluffy!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

She looks so elegant and refined

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Omg, the baby murder mittens! Love it!

50 Of The Most Wholesome Rescue Pet Photos This April

Harvey looks extremely huggable :)

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Ig this can also help when there's a language barrier, makes it easier for people to know what it is they're getting if they can't read the menus

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

I think I have a new addition to my "places I want to travel" list

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Now I'm kinda jealous, some long-lasting ice cream sounds great right about now

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

The baby looks so happy :D

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

Honestly, I would be so delighted if walking down the street I just saw some koi doing their thing

FlitterBug • upvoted 20 items 3 years ago

"Not How Girls Work:" 40 Very Stupid Things Men Have Said About Women And Their Bodies (New Pics)

Nah, it's for the dildo collection

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

You Can Find Foot Baths On The Streets And They Are Usually Free

33 Facts That Prove Japan Is Unlike Any Other Country

So i guess you can spot the tourist immediately!

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

She’s saying she wants to teach her kids to be confident, but she filters all of her pics? Wth? Looks like she needs to learn having confidence, such as being okay with posting real pics of herself.

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Teach Your Child What Is Consent

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

I feel a little bad for her kid(s), her daughter(s) might grow up thinking she has to use filters and photoshop to be beautiful when really the most they need is some self-esteem

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Yeah. Some *adults* can't even process what they're feeling in a healthy manner and still expect it of young children who can't even fully process what's going on sometimes

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

Its sad when you hear a frustrated parent say "I swear he is doing this just to get back at me" (then proceed to treat the child as such) ...kids can totally be manipulating at times but since they can't predict consequences the same way that adults do, rarely are they trying to teach their parent a lesson and it's more likely a frustrated child not knowing how to communicate what they are feeling. :(

Here Are 20 Of The Best Respectful Parenting Hacks Shared By A Mom That Went Viral On TikTok

why so much photoshop, it looks really weird.

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

Avatar Korra called, she wants her pet back.

50 "Absolute Unit" Posts That Show Just How Big Things Can Get (New Pics)

That must be part wolf?

50 Times Child-Free People Had Something Sassy To Say, And Posted It In This Online Group

Betty White is queen.

I Got Pregnant After My Tubal Ligation And Doctors Are Treating It Like A Happy Miracle As I Sit Here Horrified

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