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𝕁𝕖𝕟𝕟𝕪𝔹𝕖𝕖
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Holy Froot Loops. I have to describe myself? Uh...I- well I'm uh... I-I give up.
𝕁𝕖𝕟𝕟𝕪𝔹𝕖𝕖 • commented on 39 posts 3 years ago
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Hey Pandas, What Is The Most Annoying Thing Your Parents Or Other Adults Have Said To You When Bugging You About Dating? (Closed)
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Hey Pandas, What Is Your Worst Experience With A Bully And How Did You Resolve It? (Closed)
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Hey Pandas, How Do I Come Out To My Homophobic Grandparents?
Don’t. If they don’t support you it’s not worth the f***s to tell themHey Pandas, How Did You Come Out To Your Friends And Family?
My mother would NOT SHUT UP about cishet intercourse so I just kinda yelled at her (after asking her to stop several times because nobody at her house was gonna do THAT) “IM GAY CAN YOU STOP NOW??!” Afterwards she didn’t believe me, and kept asking “are you reeaaally though?” And once I finally convinced her she didn’t care. Then the next day she asked me about pronouns and exact sexuality and I told her (they/them/theirs) and she hasn’t respected it since. Anytime I correct her she m arks it as disrespectful. Almost all my friends are lgbptqiaanbfd+ But I told the first at a sleepover when I was talking about a girl I liked.How Do I Come Out To My Homophobic Grandparents?
I'd just say don't put yourself through it. If you're close with them, unless you have a same-sex SO, just let them die in peace. I'm a firestarter, which is why I usually come out to homophobes, but if I was you, I wouldn't kick the beehive. I'm sure they're old, just lay low when they're around. I always tone it down around my grandparents. I don't mind, because it keeps them happy and I love them. Now, they're not homophobic, they're just dry, they prefer a little less flash, and I'm flashy as hell.How Do I Come Out To My Homophobic Grandparents?
Tell them and ask them to consider. You need to stand up to them and tell them how you feel. I know it will be hard but you need to have it out in the open. It will take some time to sink in but they will have to deal with it. Don't change who you are because someone doesn't like it.Hey Pandas, How Did You Come Out To Your Friends And Family?
I haven't officially come out to my parents, but I drew an ace flag and hung it up, and folded up my clothes to look like an ace flag. I haven't come out to my friends because I haven't seen them in a long time, but I'm afraid they won't like me anymore. 𝕁𝕖𝕟𝕟𝕪𝔹𝕖𝕖 • is following 17 people
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