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Society puts pressure on everyone: most are expected to be someone, do something and whatever else. But that does not mean that those expectations are valid, or if the pressure is really necessary. Who knows, perhaps we're forced to chase after goals that don't really reflect our true self, or even worse, we can lose our true selves whilst chasing them.

If that's the case, perhaps we need to do the opposite It's very important to continually deprogram ourselves from things that are not true, and in some cases even harmful. Therefore we need to find ways to heal ourselves from the harm that modern life may cause.

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Which is why it's great to have artists like Lainey Molnar, who help others to do exactly that. She has a mission to point out all of the wrong and right things of what it means to be a woman at this day and age, and illustrates these things in a very accurate and aesthetic way. In her comics, she explores the topic of femininity, double standards, societal pressures, expectations, and various other problems that modern independent women face every day.

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Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. It's never about the clothes. You should be able to control yourself and your thoughts.

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And many people are grateful that she's raising awareness on the aforementioned issues. In fact, she's really popular both amongst her fans on Instagram, and you, our beloved Bored Panda readers. Her Instagram has a whopping 896k followers and the two posts (which you may find here and here) were viewed by millions on our page. Lainey an important voice.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, where are the people who do this? Raise your hand. No one? And there you have it folks, another problem. No one wants to admit they said that

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What's great about these illustrations is that their tone isn't restricted to criticism and negative stuff. While she criticizes, which is an important and a difficult task in itself, she also promotes body positivity and mental wellbeing. She kindly reminds us not to follow norms which don't suit your natural needs, she reminds us that we're all beautiful and normal in our own special way. No size is wrong, no height is wrong, and no habit is disgusting. All of it is you, and you should accept that first and foremost. And if the other's can't accept that, we'll, sucks to be them.

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Though the expectations and the pressure for women in our society may sometimes feel like they're crushing you, don't give up, girls. Just remember, diamonds are made under pressure. They're also a woman's best friend. This might be that extra bit of inspiration you may have wanted to hear to get out there and take over the world. Tread on, women!

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! So unfair! You capture the most unseen stuff in this world and put it out there! You are now my new favorite artist

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never. My therapist said "your progress is not lost just because you had a bad moment". Better to let it out rather than let it eat you up from the inside. It's just a bump in the road, not the end.

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Skeeter rats she/they
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a pet rat of 3 1/2 years who did the same. She was there for me when no one was and I was there for her. My love for that rat was like if I had love for a human child (in context I really really don’t want children) r.I.p my rat

Louise B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dogs are just so loving, my beautiful girl boxer was perfect. I'm biased, but she was stunning! People used to stop me in the street and ask if she was a show dog (she wasn't) She didn't have a bite in her, but when my son was born she was so tender with him and she instantly loved and protected him. She died in 2017, my family all miss her.

Fly_Agaric_Frog (They/Them)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dog was the same, she was the sweetest thing ever! Sadly, she was getting very old so we had to put her down. Sorry for your loss ❤️

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Flamingo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any animal almost does. Including those fluffy poopers :D

Rachel Spidalette
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My previous dog taught me to cherish the time I have with my current one.

Riley Quinn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS! The only unconditional love I've ever received was from my animals.

An O'Neem
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

<3 Lulu, you had a beautiful life with a beautiful owner... RIP lulu

Erica Forrest
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, Lainey here is the artist 🖤 Sorry about your doggie passing 😢

Pilar Märtz
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually the biggest example of LOVE was, is, and always be when God sent His only begotten Son to live amongst us, and to be crucified on the cross and die for our sins. Jesus on the cross died for us, to redeem us, to save us. What better example of love than sacrificing your life for the entirety of humanity.

Claudia P
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok I'm crying now. :°°°°°°( I have a kitty, she's my fur-daughter..I love her so terribly much...

that_curly_girl 🇺🇦
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

100% true. Rip sweet Doggo! You’ll see ur owner on the rainbow bridge one day :)

Jane W.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the dogs truly do love us----scientifically proven with brain wave tests. Didn't need the tests to know, though.

Brenda S
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dino, Nehru, Baby, Buddha, Elijah, ….. too many …. too many. 💞💞💞💞💞

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly! I may not feel that I can care for children now, but hopefully one day!

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Yurie
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have big breasts but have long hair down to my butt. I definitely pick food out of my hair sometimes 🤣

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Tamra Stiffler
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet, every time Madonna is featured on BP, she's roasted like a Christmas turkey.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my mom is a super human: she raised two kids ,had a full time job in phycology, was in charge of a building and had her own separate company yet still made time for us.

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Skeeter rats she/they
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bro yes. I get really sweaty between and behind my thighs and oddly enough my inner elbow it’s uncomfortable so I always gotta cool down.

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Jennifer Norton
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our differences are what make us beautiful. The world would be boring if we were all the same!!!!!!

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Otter-Popsicle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, yeah. But some people do not like people knowing their personal stuff that is going on. Good memo, though

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ChimeraBubbles
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All except pee in the shower...I didn't even know that was something people do until a few years ago. No judgement.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Translation: How could I not be enough when past versions of me only got to dream about the life I am living now

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Amy Broderick
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've learned to do most things alone. I actually prefer it. Once I get rid of this ball and chain around my neck I will be happy to be alone again.

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Nadine Bamberger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love to be the "cool" aunt, I know I would've been an unhappy and overwhelmed mom, but helping raise my niece and nephew is awesome, I think I do a good job.

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Scarlett
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or discount chocolates that you bought for yourself because you’re too depressed to self love

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