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I Share My Personal Experiences As A Gay Man In My Pride Month Comic
I Share My Personal Experiences As A Gay Man In My Pride Month Comic
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Hi everyone, I’m Doodlemancer and I enjoy telling stories. I usually draw light-hearted comics but today, I would like to share my personal struggles as a gay man for Pride Month.

I’ve always been afraid to talk about my sexuality and that left me feeling isolated for years. I hope by sharing my story, I can reach out to others who are struggling just like me.

And to everyone who was bullied or has suffered for being different, know that you are wonderful just for being you and that no amount of prejudice and hate can change that. Thank you and I hope you enjoy my story.

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    It's Still Me, Doodlemancer

    It's Still Me, Doodlemancer

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    Doodlemancer here, my previous posts got split off under my old name when I updated my FB email, enjoy these new ones in the meantime

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    It's Still Me, Doodlemancer

    It's Still Me, Doodlemancer

    Author, Community member

    Doodlemancer here, my previous posts got split off under my old name when I updated my FB email, enjoy these new ones in the meantime

    What do you think ?
    Wistre Vist
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel you- I'm also gay, and a Singaporean. It's alright! Hang in there, ok? Pinkdot is coming up too! so that gives us a kinda voice. :)

    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks! I'm looking forward to Pink Dot as well! This is gonna be my first time there so I'm pretty excited

    Load More Replies...
    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I truly hope that one day you feel confident enough to no longer hide the truth from your family and friends. It saddens me that homosexuality is still taboo in many countries and that some friends and family can turn their back on the people they supposedly love because of their sexuality. I wish you peace and all the best for the future.

    Carolina Piazzarollo
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry to learn that your country isn't respectful of people's sexuality and that you have to live a life where you don't feel safe to be open about such an important part of yourself. Things are changing worldwide, but unfortunately not as fast as it should. I hope one day you'll be able to live the life you wish and deserve to live. There's nothing wrong with you. Love from Brazil ❤

    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! I heard about how you guys are fighting hard to defend LGBT rights against the homophobic Jair Bolsonaro. Keep up the good fight!

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    Paul K. Johnson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've noticed that homophobes tend to spend a lot more time obsessing on gay sex than actual gays do. In fact, male homophobes seem to be particularly obsessed with the intricate details of male homosexual sex acts. Frankly, if I find something to be off-putting or "disgusting" I try to spend as little time thinking about it as possible.

    Jace
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The exact same is done to polyamorous people. Everyone constantly focuses on the sex, when polyamory isn’t about sex. It’s about having multiple and concurrent ETHICAL non-monogamous relationships; sex is incidental.

    Load More Replies...
    Addy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adorable drawings and great message. You be you. 😊

    Evelyn Moon
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is going on with these downvotes? Usually bored panda people aren't a steaming pile of bigots. Did the bigots bring a tour bus here or what?

    Dave Roger
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a bunch of f*****g right-wing trolls who just can't stand that not everyone is a conservative with conservative views.

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    Nick Todd
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing story. Add some dragons and s**t. Will be EPIC!

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the many reasons we need pride. 60 or so countries, it's forbidden by law. Completely sick. And how about God huh, creating people who are born sinners, how f****d up is he!? Or she, or whatever.

    debrina blackmoon
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    based on my life and what i have observed , i can't decide if i'm atheistic or agnostic

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    Wściekła Milka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in Poland. Old polish are like rocks. Without brain... They think, that homosexuality is a disease. It's sad and I am ashamed of this country.

    Poly Amorous
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing that I like to remember is that one operative word... old. It's a bit grim, but the bigots are largely older people, while the ones who struggle are generally younger. We will outlast then, and we'll make it our world.

    Load More Replies...
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    Wistre Vist
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel you- I'm also gay, and a Singaporean. It's alright! Hang in there, ok? Pinkdot is coming up too! so that gives us a kinda voice. :)

    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks! I'm looking forward to Pink Dot as well! This is gonna be my first time there so I'm pretty excited

    Load More Replies...
    Foxxy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I truly hope that one day you feel confident enough to no longer hide the truth from your family and friends. It saddens me that homosexuality is still taboo in many countries and that some friends and family can turn their back on the people they supposedly love because of their sexuality. I wish you peace and all the best for the future.

    Carolina Piazzarollo
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry to learn that your country isn't respectful of people's sexuality and that you have to live a life where you don't feel safe to be open about such an important part of yourself. Things are changing worldwide, but unfortunately not as fast as it should. I hope one day you'll be able to live the life you wish and deserve to live. There's nothing wrong with you. Love from Brazil ❤

    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! I heard about how you guys are fighting hard to defend LGBT rights against the homophobic Jair Bolsonaro. Keep up the good fight!

    Load More Replies...
    Paul K. Johnson
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've noticed that homophobes tend to spend a lot more time obsessing on gay sex than actual gays do. In fact, male homophobes seem to be particularly obsessed with the intricate details of male homosexual sex acts. Frankly, if I find something to be off-putting or "disgusting" I try to spend as little time thinking about it as possible.

    Jace
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The exact same is done to polyamorous people. Everyone constantly focuses on the sex, when polyamory isn’t about sex. It’s about having multiple and concurrent ETHICAL non-monogamous relationships; sex is incidental.

    Load More Replies...
    Addy
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adorable drawings and great message. You be you. 😊

    Evelyn Moon
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is going on with these downvotes? Usually bored panda people aren't a steaming pile of bigots. Did the bigots bring a tour bus here or what?

    Dave Roger
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a bunch of f*****g right-wing trolls who just can't stand that not everyone is a conservative with conservative views.

    Load More Replies...
    Nick Todd
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing story. Add some dragons and s**t. Will be EPIC!

    Tor Rolf Strøm
    Community Member
    6 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the many reasons we need pride. 60 or so countries, it's forbidden by law. Completely sick. And how about God huh, creating people who are born sinners, how f****d up is he!? Or she, or whatever.

    debrina blackmoon
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    based on my life and what i have observed , i can't decide if i'm atheistic or agnostic

    Load More Replies...
    Wściekła Milka
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same in Poland. Old polish are like rocks. Without brain... They think, that homosexuality is a disease. It's sad and I am ashamed of this country.

    Poly Amorous
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing that I like to remember is that one operative word... old. It's a bit grim, but the bigots are largely older people, while the ones who struggle are generally younger. We will outlast then, and we'll make it our world.

    Load More Replies...
    Load More Comments
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