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Let’s Talk About Sexism: 20 Comics That I Created When Thinking About Male And Female Roles In The Media
I drew these comic strips several years ago when I was back in school getting my Education degree. We were discussing sexism and misogyny in the media and someone brought up the old TV show, Three's Company. That show was near and dear to me! I told a couple of anecdotes about playing episodes of that show in some adult EFL classes in both Japan and Vancouver, Canada and we all wondered what damage I had done!
I had used Three's Company in the Language classes because it was funny, because contained a lot of physical and/or very simplistic humor, and because it was not overly linguistically challenging. It had also been a personal favorite when I was growing up and provided some nostalgic entertainment when I was feeling homesick or, perhaps, too hungover to plan a lesson.
This all got me thinking about how male and female roles were portrayed in Three's Company and how it may have influenced my own views on the matter. Sure, there were some very obvious and blatant sexist and misogynistic elements in the show, but how much of that was a feminist message in disguise. The raging bigot, Archie Bunker, from All in the Family was not intended to promote racism but to shine a spotlight on it, making it fun to learn: to become "woke" so to speak.
All this gave rise to Jack and Janet Dingle-nuts. The Dingle-nuts is a bit of an exploration of sexism, of how it can be a two-way street, an accidental wrong turn, an intentional detour and its pervasiveness in our lives. But, mostly, The Dingle-nuts are a tribute to the glory days of episodic sit-coms and a loving homage to Three's Company.
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Young Men must be taught the importance (and Rewards) for being a thoughtful and generous lover.
Load More Replies...When women are bad lovers, they don't get criticized because men can orgasm even if the woman does nothing in bed.
But women also have to stand up for themselves and let the guys know it’s not good enough! We are not just receptacles to be masturbated into. We need to be bold and vocal about our needs.
I’m a women, but still men don’t get good rights either, they can get years in prison for being blamed of rape, Without a chance of their side of the story
There have also been many, many cases where men did commit rape (it was proven) and the men did not go to prison. In some cases, they did not even go to trial.
Malicious accusations of rape are vanishingly rare, and the conviction rate for all rapes in the USA is below 10%. And even when you do secure a conviction, judges can just slap the offender's wrist. So, speaking as a man, I think you're being too generous here. Rape is not punished often or enough.
APL, the FBI says that 8% of rape accusations are false. False accusations aren't rare at all. Yet there are many people who will assume every accusation of rape is true.
true, and an important point, but a bit off topic...
they do get a trial, still doesn't work out most the time, and even when proven to be not guilty, their life is already ruined by the mere rumor that he is a rapist. it's kind of the reason woman aren't believed when they are raped.
Lives ruined? Not in America. Brock Turner got three months in prison. Drew Miller got nothing at all. Even if you're one of the 8% of victims who get a successful prosecution, there's no guarantee a rapist will even be punished. Meanwhile Aziz Ansari is still on the comedy circuit...
Why is this so common? The majority of men I've slept with does this, especially after bragging how good they are in bed. Or even worse "your orgasm, your responsibility" when they only want piv sex without a vibrator. Eh. Sex is something that should be mutual. How is it ok to be so selfish? I read some article who said 29% of women in heterosexual relationships say they orgasm every time during sex vs 75% for men, the orgasm gap. I find it so sad.
I think many women just assume that men will take care of their own orgasm, so men just assume the same for women.
Load More Replies...Also the 3 part documentary on pleasure that’s on Netflix at the moment is really interesting and covers a lot of that. I know, even when I’m very explicit about what I would like or need, men still don’t get it!
We men mostly only need physical stimulation while female orgasms are more affected by mood, emotional state and other neural factors. (Current state of research). Seems like a lot of men are more interested in their own fun than pleasing their partners
Interesting, but I'm not sure about it. Do you know the name of the source? Would be interesting to read. And, yeah, they don't seem to care but why not just mastrubate then if you only care about your pleasure? Totally disrespectful to drag in a woman to that and make her frustrated and disappointed. And very bad for the relationship if you have one. Like, do you expect her to want sex if that's the type of sex you offer?
"Predictors of female sexual dysfunction: a systematic review and qualitative analysis through gender inequality paradigms" - https://doi.org/10.1186/s12905-018-0602-4 <-- One example, I read several articles about it in different science magazines. With the second part I totally agree, nobody should have relationships just out of egoism
Men, remember, if you want head you must offer head. It’s just common courtesy.
uh basically that some men like to say "women first".... until it comes to sex and the guy doesn't let the girl 0rgasm first. (or he doesnt help her 0rgasm at all)
how about, we don't grab anybody asses unless it is consensual and both parties are fine with it.
So she can admit she isn't satisfied but he isn't allowed to? Why are these two even married?
But I do that all the time. Not with dishes, no. I would never dare. But I can’t take things when they’re passed to me. My hands don’t want to work.
This is just weird. Why would you try to push someone down someone just for the sake of it? Cause nothing but hurt, unnecessary conflict or hard feelings.
uh, it shows the problem of gender stereotypes towards men AND woman, i think the sexist part is the point.
Load More Replies...Yeah, but not well. Even when he tries to talk about womens gender biases, it's made pretty clear that he doesn't see women as real people.
Lmao... not used to actually having a reasonable discussion online. Thanks for listening.
no problem, i'm not the most reasonable person online, so i'm trying to fix that.
Yeah. Like it tries to do something, but still portrays women as mindless housekeepers who demand everything from their husbands
tbh it sounds like the artist had a bad relationship, and got those ideas from it.
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Who said it was OK? Not the cartoonist who was trying to show sexism can go both ways.
Load More Replies...uh, it shows the problem of gender stereotypes towards men AND woman, i think the sexist part is the point.
Load More Replies...Yeah, but not well. Even when he tries to talk about womens gender biases, it's made pretty clear that he doesn't see women as real people.
Lmao... not used to actually having a reasonable discussion online. Thanks for listening.
no problem, i'm not the most reasonable person online, so i'm trying to fix that.
Yeah. Like it tries to do something, but still portrays women as mindless housekeepers who demand everything from their husbands
tbh it sounds like the artist had a bad relationship, and got those ideas from it.
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Who said it was OK? Not the cartoonist who was trying to show sexism can go both ways.
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