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I have a PhD, work full time at a university as as scholar and project manager and also work in a café/bar on weekends (just because I enjoy the company and change of scenery; scholars can be really dull). It*s really amusing how SOME people treat me differently, depending on the context. Helps determine who is cool and who is not. Moral? Always treat others with respect

That candle looks funny

Unless your health problems are invisible and chronic. Then most people (including doctors) do not care

Exactly!

I achieved none of these 😂😢 Still lying on my bed...

Sometimes these are same woman 10 years difference.

People is never happy

This reminds of the fable 'The Man, The Boy and The Donkey' - A man, his son go to town with wares carried by a donkey. Someone calls them fools for not riding on the donkey. The man puts the boy on the donkey. They pass a group of men shaming the boy for making an old man walk. The man tells the boy to get down and gets on the donkey. They pass by a group of ladies who shame the man for making his son walk. The man takes the boy up onto the donkey with him. They get to town and people are shouting how the donkey is carrying too much. The son and father got down, thought, then grabbed a long pole tying the donkey to like an animal on a spit. The man and boy carried each end but the donkey wasn't happy and wriggled out a hoof. They were over a bridge and the loss of balance caused them to drop the pole with the donkey over the bridge. An older man who was following them yelled "That will teach you." Moral: "Please all, and you will please no one."

This is SO true. Why is a woman's motherhood status anyone's business?

I have five children. When they were younger and I had them all with me when I was out in public, I'd get comments like, "You *do* know what causes that, right?" Even my *father* said, "What are you going for - Cheaper By The Dozen?"

Did anyone notive the 4 different races?...this is beautiful 💖💞

I had 9 children. I now have 8 living children, one died at 17 months, and 10 step-children. All of them are grown. I applaud all of these stages and choices.

Ah, but the mum of 3 is wrong. She had 2 girls, of course she had to try for a boy! what's life if you don't have a pidgeon pair? (says me, who had a boy then a girl, and was questioned heavily why i had a third when i had the perfect pair...)

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It’s nobody else’s business how many or how little children a woman has. Back off!

Humans am I right

That's what people say to my mom. I'm a only child and relatives wanted her to have more kids. Yeah I am lonely and I do tend ti envy my friends with siblings I like my life.

It's no body's damn business whether you choose to procreate or not.

who wants to bet its the same person saying this

Nobodies business but the individuals!

Is it possible that those who ask questions are curious about a lived experience that is different to their own? Maybe we want to broaden our understanding of each other, eh? Is that so weird?

I’m tired with just one

I aint having a boyfriend OR kids. IM A SINGLE PRINGLE

4th 1

"Only boys? You must be longing for a girl." "Oh, when are you going to try for a girl?"

Or the comment I get . You need a 4th so the baby has a buddy for rides. Lol.

I'm guessing we are seeing the speech bubbles of each woman's inner critic. There is no way anyone would insert #4 into a normal conversation unless they were fatally toxic, a psychopath or both. It's so casually, wildly inappropriate and rude (in front of her pre-teen kids no less!) it's almost comical. Ha, I see what she did there. Clever.

there is not winning that game

People can never make up their mind. I wanna be the first one.

My family is the one with three kiddos

My mom has 4 children. Imagine how she feels sometimes.

#Noneyabussiness

YOU try having a kid!

why are you judging us

Why don't people mind their own business?

everybody's a critic

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This was something I constantly had to call my dad out on 😒