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College Admission Officers Are Sharing 29 Of The Worst Reasons Why They Didn’t Accept A Student
Getting into college or university is a big deal. You’re making your family proud and you’re taking long strides toward your dreams and goals, all while you’re already making a mental list of all the courses you’ll be taking. Being a college student is a great time to be alive! Unfortunately, far from everyone gets in.
Oh, and it’s not just your grades that can make you slip up—there are far more bizarre reasons for angering college admission officers. Some of those include cheating, plagiarizing, and having little to no respect for anyone who isn’t you. Getting into college doesn’t happen automatically just because you meet the necessary grade minimum.
Redditors have been sharing stories about the times they had to reject college applicants and went into detail about the exact circumstances. This shows that the human factor might actually be more important than many would-be students realize. Check out the most interesting stories below, dear Pandas, and upvote the ones that intrigued you. If you’re feeling up to it, share your own stories about how you applied to college (and whether your heart was beating as fast as mine was when you got the admission letter).
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I worked in the back of the admissions office with all the paperwork/application when I was in college. If you weren't absolutely amazing, the smallest thing could cause a rejection - being rude to the people in our call center (who also processed applications) was a big one on the list. The six women who worked there were SO nice to everyone on the phone and were still called stupid c**ts a couple times. Those students were rejected.
I rejected a student who applied to our PhD program to work with me because she PLAGIARIZED MY PAPER in the personal essay of her application. Who does that?
Someone who shouldn't be in any PhD program unless it's for Pizza Hut Delivery.
I'm a teacher--one of the students I work with just had his acceptance to Stanford rescinded. He's a low-income minority student with an excellent GPA and ACT scores. On paper, he's a score for schools that value talent and diversity. So he got accepted to Stanford.
When he got the letter, he tweeted AT STANFORD saying something like "F yeah, I got in." That prompted them to click on his Twitter and they saw all this F up s*** about misogyny and drug use. They called our school and told us that they no longer were interested in admitting him as a student.
Getting accepted to university—especially if it ranks among the top educational institutions in your country or worldwide—doesn’t happen by chance. Hard work really does pay off when we’re talking about applications. It’s a long-term project, too.
In essence, getting into college is similar to applying for a job that you desperately want. Your extracurricular activities, volunteering experience, ambitions, confidence, and charisma all play a vital role in helping you stand out from all the other candidates. The main difference, however, is that obviously grades still play a vital role when trying to get into college. They matter quite a bit, though I’d argue that who you are as a person and your drive hold far more weight when it’s time to make a decision.
Super late to the party, but my mom is an admissions counselor (i know i'm sorry i'm not one) but the worst story i've heard from here goes like this: The student was outstanding, top gpa, test scores, good essay, but my mom had never heard of the school. So she does some searching and can't find anything on the school (odd), so she types in the address on google maps. What she finds is an abandoned school, which turns out no one has attended for YEARS. Kid forged the entire application, I thought it was impressive, but she did not. Instant deny.
I rejected another student to our (science) PhD program because he said he "didn't believe in data" during our interview.
The student came into the admissions office high as hell. Handed in his CRIMINAL RECORDS CHECK which reeked of weed. He was applying to the Child Youth Care program. That guy was an idiot.
Your journey toward the university quad doesn’t begin during your last year in high school. No! It starts further back, as soon as you enter through your high school’s gates. What you accomplish over the years can reflect very positively on you or actually harm your chances of getting into a good school.
If you spent the last four years lazing about, odds are, you won’t become a studious and energetic student the moment you start your undergraduate degree. (That’s not to say that people don’t change—they do; however, this takes longer than we’d like.) What you can do, however, is manage your online presence to present yourself in the best possible light.
I'm not a college admissions officer, but...
There is a scholarship in my area provided by a business. It's an amazing opportunity and I never thought I would get it. Well, lo and behold I get it. The organization has a representative at my school so I asked her why I got picked. She asked me what I wrote my essay about and I told her. I was at camp one year and I helped a girl with some serious problems.
She then told me that both scholarship people and colleges have gotten to the point that they will turn you down if you write about how the mission trip you went on changed your life. They're sick of it. Freaking everyone goes on a mission trip, sees starving children and suddenly their life is changed. She says that they totally support missions and the things they do, but she also said "If you write about the mission trip you went on, you may go to heaven but you won't go to Havard."
Utah? Sounds like a lot of Mormons applying cause mission trips aren't super common outside of Mormon and some evangelical communities
Just graduated college last summer, worked in the undergraduate admissions office for 4 years as a student ambassador (tour guide, shadow host, etc) and as an admissions counselor's assistant. Worst case i've seen is a kid openly admit in his application essay that he was a habitual cheater throughout high school but it taught him how to become resourceful and think outside the box. I've never seen an application get denied faster.
I was on the admission committee at my med school. One time we had an applicant who's personal statement started out saying, in all seriousness, that he wanted to be a doctor because a doctor's white coat or a surgeon's scrubs are aphrodisiacs. It was an insta-denial.
Good grades and a portfolio of philanthropic and extracurricular activities don’t appear overnight out of nowhere. They take time, dedication, and—in my opinion, most importantly—passion. Volunteering at your local soup kitchen will look great on your college application and resume alike, however, don’t do it just because it’s ‘expected’ of you or because you believe that’s how you’ll end up getting into a prestigious higher learning institution. That’s simply lying to yourself about your priorities.
Once, one of those college speakers at my high school told us this story when explaining letters of rec to us. One teacher wrote a letter for an extremely good student. She was kind, hardworking, got good grades, ans she also babysat for the teacher, so obviously this teacher had no shortage of good things to say about this student. However, later on, after the letter of rec had been sent in, the college got a call from the teacher, who took back everything she said in the letter and told them to not consider the student. Why? Because she caught the student stealing from her house.
I read this before, thw girl was stealing from the alcohol cabinet the couple had, and from their emergency miney they had in a drawer or something like that. They had her in camera filling her water bottle with their alcohol.
Obligatory: "not me, but someone I know" I work in another department at a college, but I've heard some great stories from our admissions counselors. My favorite is one girl who was actually admitted. Then the department's social media person followed her on twitter.
Her profile picture was smoking a blunt in front of a pile of coke. scrolling through, a very graphic picture of her fellating someone.... Yeah, that acceptance letter got pulled REAL quick.
If you're dumb enough to post that stuff on sm, maybe you're not ready for college?
I once went and visited a college that my brother was interested in. All of the potential students and parents sat down in an auditorium. The admission officer must of have been having an awful day because he proceeded to go on a full blown /rant. He said "If ANY of you write a college essay about a tragic event in your life, it has to be tragic. An essay about how you moved in your sophomore year of high school to another state and no longer had friends with you, THAT IS NOT TRAGIC. If it is supposed to be a tragedy or huge overcoming then it must be a tear jerker. EVERY TIME I see an essay about overcoming a lame obstacle, it instantly hits the bin."
Needless to say, my brother did not attend.
Like this guy would know anything about overcoming a stuck "e" key on my Commodore 64 and my brave battle to make it back into society. How dare he minimize my suffering!
Instead, focus on the causes that you truly care about because you can only fake your interest in something for so long before everyone’s aware of the truth. Perhaps you’re interested in helping protect the environment or advancing a social cause in your local neighborhood. Or you might be into helping shelter animals or even supporting your town’s football team as a quarterback.
Once you find your true passion, you’ll be singing an entirely different tune about your activities beyond the classroom. And no college admission officer will be able to resist your desire to change the world for the better in your unique way. But it has to be genuine.
At one admissions presentation I went to for a good school, the admissions officer told us that one student applied to their school with over 100 letters of recommendation. He didn't have good grades but hoped he could get in if he got everyone he knew to write him a letter of recommendation. He was turned down.
I mean....A+ for effort. Lol. I would have at least interviewed him...maybe he was actually a good student.
For me it would depend on the letters of recommendation. I mean, if they're all along the lines of 'you should admit my grandson/cousin/brother/friend because he is a good dude and he really wants it' then maybe no.
Load More Replies..."I know my grades aren't good, but my uncle AND his dog both recommend me 10/10"
Meh. A dog's recommendation is a given. Now if he got a cat's recommendation. I'd be impressed.
Load More Replies...I had bad grades in high school due to a tough family life. I went to junior college and got straight A’s, went on to a four year university and have been teaching for 20 years. Bad grades don’t have to define your life.
True. But the university did have standards as you had to prove yourself in the junior college. Well done.
Load More Replies...I applied for an apartment in a very popular apartment complex I have a stellar background instrumental my community on a number of fronts. When it came down to it, the management was going to reject me but they personally knew my referral. Same thing with a job that I got in Hawaii, it wasn’t what you knew or how good you did, it was who you knew that got you in the door
There is something to be said for charisma and effort. Dude would make a good salesman. Depends on the school and the degree he was going for, but I feel like it could work.
I teach at a community college. I write GREAT rec letters, but they're honest. I've told some students that they really wouldn't want a rec letter from me.
If a hundred people vouched for him and he was hard working enough to get those letters, yes, instant admission.
Why are these even a thing? In my country only your grades and depending on what you apply to study an entrance exam matter. That's all you get to submit.
Our application asks students to explain a challenging experience they have had, and how they have overcome it.
We denied a student because she said she had fantasies about drinking another human's blood, and that she hadn't quite overcome the temptation.
Copy/pasted from an email I received from a perspective student. Nothing was altered here except for his name being redacted. [EDIT: and school and star basketball player]
"I think u were at my school and u r from [School name]. I have some questions first. I took the act and got a 17 but a 23 in math, what scholrships does that get me? do you have classes with [Star BBall player] ? Hes so dope. I wanna study biochemistery and cure cancer. I really want to go to ur school. But im gonna go on my own terms.
[redacted]"
Needless to say, even at a state school with a near 90% acceptance rate, he was rejected when his application came around.
I'm actually more worried about someone apparently working in a college admissions office who doesn't seem to know the difference between perspective and prospective.
My mother does this - at her college, they get so many applicants ever year that it basically comes down to really simple things when rejecting potential students.
When you've got thousands of people vying for a limited number of places, eventually you've whittled down the list to a bunch of equals and you're still left with too many. At that point, it's basically up to the seemingly inconsequential and random choices of your admissions officer.
As an admissions director I repeat: if there is an essay STOP QUOTING ABRAHAM LINCOLN AND MARTIN LUTHER KING!
Our college counselor keeps repeating this. Don't use quotes. Ever. They aren't yours, and tell nothing about your personality.
I was at a program for the University that I wanted to attend, and they talked to us about CommonApp essays.
They told us the story of this one applicant that mentioned the show Dexter in his essay, and then ended his essay with something along the lines of "I would definitely become Dexter, and kill bad guys". Needless to say, he was rejected
My mom always told me that submitting my murder fantasies would get me accepted into any school I wanted to go to.
Had a kid once send in his own worn and slightly smelly shoe along with a note that said, "Hope this helps get my foot in the door."
It didn't.
College Financial Aid Counselor here (USA) who works with our admissions staff.
Its common sense but some students don't seem to realize that if you receive federal student aid at one school, other schools can see this on a variety of national databases. The National Student Loan Data System (NSLDS) for example.
Several years ago we had high school student with decent grades, selected for additional documents (verification) and completed the process... but... just seemed off.
Well during our awarding process we discovered that she attended prior schools and received aid. Lots. Several years worth. That right there, lying on the admissions app, is enough to get the boot. What was the real shocker - she was 26. She was not only lying about school but here age. She said she was 18 on the app.
She came in to see about her package and we directed her to her admissions adviser. She said "Ok, I'll be right back!" and I said, under my breath "oh-no-you-wont....".
Following up with admissions I asked how it went and the counselor said "Good right up until she started crying and walked out".
So.... TRANSFER STUDENTS - DO NOT LIE/LEAVE OFF INFO ON PRIOR ATTENDED SCHOOLS ON YOUR APP - WE WILL FIND OUT.
I think the term is "career student." I remember a news report on this in the '80s. There were people who had been attending college into their 30s, for general courses.
A close friend of mine works admissions at a prestigious University. His latest story that he told me was of a application that he denied where they got a perfect score on the SAT, but submitted 2 essays with 5 sentences total between the two. My friend considered it a waste of his time and portrayed a lack of effort.
All these posts make me feel that US universities put so much needless effort of useless letters. Kid was confident in his grades and/or other strengths rather that whining something on paper that, according to other posts on this thread, are direct evidence against them or, worse, mocked at.
I know for a fact that many universities go on Facebook/Instagram and look at applicants profiles.
Businesses do it too and what they see there decides whether you get the job or not. So perhaps you should clean up your social media account and remove those "Party hard" pictures.
This one kid wrote a letter about volunteering at hospital and then didn't get cookies one day and said it sucked.
An admissions officer at W&M once told me about this student who had submitted a beautifully written essay. It was not only well written but emotional, and spelling- and error-free – overall, a fantastic essay. The admissions officer was just about ready to accept her right there when she saw that at the end of the essay, the student had written, 'And that's why I want to go to UVA.
My cousin* attended sports science. His grades where all very good. But on the physical exam, it was stated that branded clothes weren't allowed. They had to wear a white T-shirt and black shorts without a brand. He didn't know and was wearing a nike t-shirt, with the logo showing very small on his shirt. He got send away for disregarding the rules. My aunt was there and would get another t-shirt in the store immediately, but they didnt approve. So he didn't attend that universitiy
Watching medical school applicants come through my school has been very interesting. I'm not on the admissions team but have been a student interviewer. It's really interesting to see what people will do, even at that high level.
Seeing someone fall asleep during a presentation on the curriculum. Seeing someone get up during a 15 minute talk by the Dean of the school, and go to get things out of their bag. Hearing someone ask if they have to attend the whole interview day.
You would think you wouldn't see these rookie errors at such a high level.
You also have no idea what these people are going through. Maybe someone has a new baby, or came in early from far away or is on medication that makes them sleepy. Maybe the person needed medication or has an anxiety problem. Maybe your directions were unclear if they didn't know they had to attend. Try not to be so judgy
Worked in a graduate admissions office in college. We once turned away a woman who would call the office every day, to ask us questions about the program that we were not able to disclose (average gpa/gmat of class accepted so far, job placement rate - this was a brand new program. the first class hadn't even graduated yet. - for this year, etc.)
Eventually, we rejected her because her resume wasn't as built out as some of our other applicants (I guess this is different for grad school), though we did look at her application with a slight bias...
She flipped a switch and actually came into our office to scream at us.
I know some schools will reject people if their grades are too high, they have too many extra curriculars etc. The thought being that these students are basically perfect and will probably get into an Ivy League school; what is the point of accepting them if they aren't likely to attend?
What if they don't want to go to the other school though and just want to stay local or something? Seems unfair
A variety of felonies, from armed robbery to manslaughter. On the application is a check box question: "Have you ever been convicted of a crime?" What it doesn't tell you is that not only are you unlikely to be admitted if you check yes, but felony convictions are an automatic disqualification by the "review committee". But the other half of the story is, if you check the no box, it's not like we run a background check on you. So I'm confident there are quite a few convicted felons walking around our campus right now.
I wonder if all these applicants would get accepted if they were rich and "donated" to the colleges.
What a horrible system. Here you just fill in the forms and get accepted, unless it’s for a study with a max number of students. They are going back to luck of the draw for that, too though, so everyone has the same chance. It’s ridiculous to deny students for bad decisions they made (they are KIDS), when they do have the grades to show they can succeed.
Some of these reasons are so very petty and ridiculous. I feel like I wouldn't even want to go to any of these "prestigious" universities. (read: not living off mommy and daddy's money)
Well it is a matter of "supply and demand", not just snooty prestige. Harvard has space for 2,300 new students each year... If they receive 55,000 applicants each year, they need to cut it down somehow. And if it is your job to narrow down 55,000 to 2,300, you need to start doing some arbitrary things (unless you have a staff of hundreds to actually take the time to make careful decisions)
Load More Replies...Is there any other country, (other than USA) that has this system for admittance? From the comments Europe doesnt, Australia just relies on the HSC test results - there are no letters or essays that will change your entry criteria.
I mean, there are programs in Australia that take into account letters of recommendation, and there are entry pathways (like creative portfolios) that include essays. But that's not really common.
Load More Replies...Most of these are either sh*t reasons for schools to reject an applicant or just telling don't put dumb stuff on social media.
I'm glad I do this role in the UK, it's much more about your academics and references. A much more level playing field, so students (or parents) don't need to try tricks to get in.
Is the admission procedure same for US,CANADA ,UK and AUSTRALIA?I mean I don't get essay writing is given more priority over academic potential?Is this only in America or do other countries have the same unfair judgement?
What you call academic potential is about more than getting good grades. In the US, we are concerned with clarity of thought and how that translates into social values.
Load More Replies...It seems that if you have done something wrong in adolescent life, you can never be forgiven in your further adult life. Sounds like a ruthless system. As if we didn't make any mistakes in our life. People can change still as they are young and you can always change behaviour (maybe not total personality).
A lot of countries ask for personal statements, but I don't believe they are focused on as heavily during the decision making process as they are in the states.
Load More Replies...I remember the days when a college application consisted of your transcripts, your personal information, your test scores and a check.
That's never been the case for universities in the US. You were always on a acceptance basis
Load More Replies...These 'don't write xyz, we see it all the time' posts really piss me off. These are teenagers, pupils who usually have seen f*ck all of the world. They basically all learn and read the same things at school. Unless they have super quirky parents: Where are they supposed to get all that individuality and originality from??
The U.S. education system is a money-grabbing, obscene scam. I live in Europe, I was in the student dentist program, where students were doing dentistry on us patients. I asked how much it costs her to attend medical University in one of the oldest university cities in Europe. Her answer, 353 Dollars, which amounts to 4.236 dollars for 4 years. But to round it up, 4.500 dollars. Compare this to the U.S. medical dental school. . . . $251,233 for residents and $321,575 for non-residents. I am not including the cost of living and other costs. But they are just as low. Everything in the U.S. is made for profit. What is beyond idiotic, most people are fine with it too. The epitome of brainwashing is incredible resistance to universal healthcare and affordable, quality education.
The funniest case I had was revoking an offer because the applicant had overstayed their previous student visa (if they can't abide by the rules at a different institution then we won't risk our visa licence on them doing it again). So they came down to my office to explain that they hadn't overstayed. I was like "you're in my office, still in the country, with no other visa in your passport and your last visa expired 6 months ago". He was adamant he had left on time while still stood in front of me.
I’m scared to go to college now. I didn’t think it would be so hard to get applied into a college you’ve been wanting to go to since you were 15. I’m 17 now
Now I’m really scared to go to college. I didn’t know it would be that hard. I hopefully want to be a massage therapist. I’ll graduate highschool in December. Maybe before but I’m scared to do college now
Just a question. With AI, did college build up a algorithm to know what type of student make it through or not?
Wish people would stop using "Needless to say" before they were denied. Good writers can come up with something less trite.
But they can level the playing field by increasing the entry requirements and making it far less subjective to one assessors opinion
Load More Replies...I wonder if all these applicants would get accepted if they were rich and "donated" to the colleges.
What a horrible system. Here you just fill in the forms and get accepted, unless it’s for a study with a max number of students. They are going back to luck of the draw for that, too though, so everyone has the same chance. It’s ridiculous to deny students for bad decisions they made (they are KIDS), when they do have the grades to show they can succeed.
Some of these reasons are so very petty and ridiculous. I feel like I wouldn't even want to go to any of these "prestigious" universities. (read: not living off mommy and daddy's money)
Well it is a matter of "supply and demand", not just snooty prestige. Harvard has space for 2,300 new students each year... If they receive 55,000 applicants each year, they need to cut it down somehow. And if it is your job to narrow down 55,000 to 2,300, you need to start doing some arbitrary things (unless you have a staff of hundreds to actually take the time to make careful decisions)
Load More Replies...Is there any other country, (other than USA) that has this system for admittance? From the comments Europe doesnt, Australia just relies on the HSC test results - there are no letters or essays that will change your entry criteria.
I mean, there are programs in Australia that take into account letters of recommendation, and there are entry pathways (like creative portfolios) that include essays. But that's not really common.
Load More Replies...Most of these are either sh*t reasons for schools to reject an applicant or just telling don't put dumb stuff on social media.
I'm glad I do this role in the UK, it's much more about your academics and references. A much more level playing field, so students (or parents) don't need to try tricks to get in.
Is the admission procedure same for US,CANADA ,UK and AUSTRALIA?I mean I don't get essay writing is given more priority over academic potential?Is this only in America or do other countries have the same unfair judgement?
What you call academic potential is about more than getting good grades. In the US, we are concerned with clarity of thought and how that translates into social values.
Load More Replies...It seems that if you have done something wrong in adolescent life, you can never be forgiven in your further adult life. Sounds like a ruthless system. As if we didn't make any mistakes in our life. People can change still as they are young and you can always change behaviour (maybe not total personality).
A lot of countries ask for personal statements, but I don't believe they are focused on as heavily during the decision making process as they are in the states.
Load More Replies...I remember the days when a college application consisted of your transcripts, your personal information, your test scores and a check.
That's never been the case for universities in the US. You were always on a acceptance basis
Load More Replies...These 'don't write xyz, we see it all the time' posts really piss me off. These are teenagers, pupils who usually have seen f*ck all of the world. They basically all learn and read the same things at school. Unless they have super quirky parents: Where are they supposed to get all that individuality and originality from??
The U.S. education system is a money-grabbing, obscene scam. I live in Europe, I was in the student dentist program, where students were doing dentistry on us patients. I asked how much it costs her to attend medical University in one of the oldest university cities in Europe. Her answer, 353 Dollars, which amounts to 4.236 dollars for 4 years. But to round it up, 4.500 dollars. Compare this to the U.S. medical dental school. . . . $251,233 for residents and $321,575 for non-residents. I am not including the cost of living and other costs. But they are just as low. Everything in the U.S. is made for profit. What is beyond idiotic, most people are fine with it too. The epitome of brainwashing is incredible resistance to universal healthcare and affordable, quality education.
The funniest case I had was revoking an offer because the applicant had overstayed their previous student visa (if they can't abide by the rules at a different institution then we won't risk our visa licence on them doing it again). So they came down to my office to explain that they hadn't overstayed. I was like "you're in my office, still in the country, with no other visa in your passport and your last visa expired 6 months ago". He was adamant he had left on time while still stood in front of me.
I’m scared to go to college now. I didn’t think it would be so hard to get applied into a college you’ve been wanting to go to since you were 15. I’m 17 now
Now I’m really scared to go to college. I didn’t know it would be that hard. I hopefully want to be a massage therapist. I’ll graduate highschool in December. Maybe before but I’m scared to do college now
Just a question. With AI, did college build up a algorithm to know what type of student make it through or not?
Wish people would stop using "Needless to say" before they were denied. Good writers can come up with something less trite.
But they can level the playing field by increasing the entry requirements and making it far less subjective to one assessors opinion
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