40 Side-By-Side Pics Of “Depression Rooms” Being Tackled
Interview With ExpertWhen you’re depressed, there are days when even getting out of bed can seem impossible. Meanwhile, tidying up and doing even the most basic chores can seem like insurmountable tasks.
It’s overwhelming. However, when some people do manage to make some progress on that front, they’re happy to share the results on the internet, hoping to inspire others. Bored Panda has collected some of the most motivating before-and-after pics of ‘depression rooms’ getting cleaned. Scroll down to take a peek.
Bored Panda wanted to learn more about the relationship between messy environments and our mental health, as well as how someone with depression might get started with cleaning, so we reached out to the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Andrew Kidd, a BACP member and therapist, was kind enough to shed some light on this. You'll find his insights below.
If you or someone you care about may be depressed, we urge you to reach out to your doctor or mental health specialist. Meanwhile, ask your loved ones for support. You’re never alone.
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I Just Want To Share The Before And After Of Cleaning My Depression Room. I Tried To Show My Mum But She Just Said That I Shouldn’t Have Let It Get To This Stage And That She Isn’t Going To Praise Me For Something That I Should Be Doing Anyway
Way to be supportive and understanding, mom. What a pos. I wish I could tell this person that I'm proud of them.
Therapist and BACP member Kidd explained to us how our mental health relates to cluttered environments. "People who don't have enough order in their life can become overwhelmed. A person's messy, cluttered environment could be a representation of their mental health. A messy environment can mean a messy mind!" he told Bored Panda.
He explained that satisfaction (the belief that we did well) and hope (the belief that things will improve) are vital. "It might be harmful to our mental health when we don't live in an environment that fosters satisfaction and hope. But instead judgment and despair. Someone could feel guilty, ashamed, like a 'messy person,' or like a failure. Their surroundings might start to resemble an extension of them," the therapist said.
"While we can hide aspects of our mental health sometimes, the environment is harder to hide. It's crucial to understand that if someone is having difficulties, you could notice changes in their surroundings before you see changes in them."
I Finally Cleaned My Kitchen After Months Of Depression. I’m So Proud Of Myself
I'm Finally Taking Some Action Against My Depression. I Spoke To My Doctor, They Gave Me Some Recommendations, I Listened, And I'm Feeling Good. I'm Proud Of This! I Cleaned Out The Garage! This Project Is A Huge Win For Me And Its Just The Beginning!
Bored Panda was interested in the advice that someone suffering from depression could get if they want to clean up at home but can't find the energy to do so. "First, cleaning doesn't have to be done all at once. Understand that the environment means you HAVE a problem, but you are not THE problem. Remember that you're attempting to change! Overcoming depression is incredibly challenging, but each time you connect to the problems, they're showing you deeper inside yourself instead of abandoning yourself," Kidd noted.
"Ask yourself the question, 'What one thing could I do today, even if small, that would make tomorrow better?' And create a routine where you ask yourself this each morning." The therapist said that even though change can be frightening, not changing can evoke similar emotions.
"Behavior modification, or behavioral activation, is so important. If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always got. But fortunately, the 'positive' emotions often follow the changes in behavior. Remember that you cannot move in two different directions at once; we cannot go ahead and backward. Choose one item in your surroundings that you feel you could clean up. Something that will push you, but not overwhelm you," the BACP member said.
After Months Of Letting My Room (Aka The Depression Nest) Get Absolutely Filthy, I Finally Finished Cleaning It Today. May Seem Like A Small Accomplishment But I Feel So Much Better
POV: You Finally Cleaned Your Depression Room After 4 Months
Update On My Depression Room!
"The messy surroundings are not only a challenge but also a chance for you to take back some control in your life. Depression wants to tell you the environment is a problem, but it can also be an opportunity," Kidd told Bored Panda.
"When you're cleaning up (or not cleaning up), this can connect to your mental health. Even small, intentional acts of organization can create a sense of control and peace. So you're not just cleaning the environment, you're helping your mind and body heal by taking action. Sometimes, starting with one task—no matter how small—can help shift your mindset and create space for clarity and growth. Don't let perfection get in the way of progress—believe in you!"
If you live in the United Kingdom and you'd like to find a therapist, you can do so on the BACP's online therapist directory.
Cleaned My Depression Nest
I Cleaned My Year-Long Depression Room
Between Work And Struggling With Depression, I Finally Found The Motivation To Finish Cleaning My Room From Nye To Nyd
There is a two-way relationship between messy rooms and depression. On the one hand, feeling depressed can mean that you don’t have the motivation or energy to tidy up your room. On the other hand, our environments directly affect us. PsychCentral points out that according to some research conducted at UCLA, household clutter is linked to high levels of cortisol—a stress hormone linked to depression and anxiety.
“If mess occurs exclusively with your depression, taking steps to clean can feel hopeful. It can remind you that you are capable of doing hard things and promote feelings of accomplishment and capability, which in turn, begin to improve your mood,” Gaby Teresa, an associate marriage and family therapist at Kindman & Co., said.
Therapist Teresa added: “Chances are if you do feel depressed but are used to mess, then trying to tackle it may not have the same positive impact. Instead, it might be better to prioritize caring for yourself in a way that does feel good.”
However, mental health counselor Maggie Holland, from Choosing Therapy, told PsychCentral that cleaning up can improve your mood. “The finished product can give you some much-needed serotonin and endorphin hits (happy, reward brain chemicals).”
Cleaned My Depression Room After Months 🥵
Kick Depressions A**e And Cleaned My Nest This Has Been The Worst Few Months Of My Life And I Have Never Felt Better
Cleaned My Room Thoroughly For The 1st Time In 2 Years. Feels Like A Physical Sign My Depression Is Getting Better
Depression, aka depressive disorder, is widely prevalent around the world. It’s a very common mental disorder, with around 3.8% of the global population and 5% of all adults suffering from it.
The World Health Organization explains that this disorder involves a depressed mood or loss of pleasure or interest in activities for long periods of time. Depression can affect all aspects of your life, from work and school to your relationships.
Though depression can affect anyone, people who have experienced severe losses, stressful events, or abuse are more likely to develop it.
Meanwhile, the World Health Organization notes that women are around 50% more likely to have depression than men. Over three-fourths of people in low- and middle-income countries receive no treatment for mental disorders due to poor investments in mental health care, social stigma, and a lack of trained healthcare providers.
Depression Room Before & After
Depression Is A Hell Of A Beast. My Entire Apartment Is Such A Disaster. Today, I Cleaned My Kitchen. It Feels Good To Have It Done. I Have Made A Goal To Try And Get One Room A Day Done And Do One Load Of Laundry A Day
I Cleaned My Depression Room
When depressed, you might feel sad, empty, or irritable. Furthermore, you might find that your ability to focus suffers, and you may feel hopeless about the future. Depression can also lead to thoughts of low self-worth, poor sleep, changes in appetite, and generally feeling as though you’re exhausted and have very little energy.
Embarrassing But My Bi-Polar Depression Has Prevented Me From Cleaning My Room For Close To A Year! I Would Get Some Motivation To Clean And Make A Little Dent But Then It Would Get Worse! I Spent 9 Hours On This! One More Day Of Work And It Will Be Perfect!
Cleaning My Depression Flat After Months Of Being In A Bad Place
Keeping with positivity..... I'm proud of you! I know how hard this is. I have an entire house(large) that went to the wayside when mom died in 2016, best friend in 2019 and dad 2 years ago. I've started to dig my way out.....being disabled it makes it 1000 times worse. You have inspired me, along with all the others in this group. Your home is beautiful and I'm so glad you got there. I'm so proud of you and know how much effort that takes. The greatest thing is all the light you have let into your house.
Cleaned My Room For The First Time In 6 Months. Not A Neck Beard, Just A Depressed Teenage Girl. Just As Nasty Though!
Your physical health is very closely linked to depression. For example, if you’re physically inactive or drink too much alcohol, you may experience depression, while also increasing your risk of cancer, diabetes, and cardiovascular and respiratory diseases.
Self-care can help mitigate some of the effects of depression. In some cases, patients require psychological treatment, medication, or a mix of both.
Cleaned My Depressed Twin Sisters Room While She Was At Work
Didn't leave her much did you? It might have been better to have done it together.
They are likely either washing or replacing the bedding. The rest of it pretty much looks like all garbage. So once they make the bed properly I think it will look much better.
Load More Replies...Agree, it's a really loving thing to do but would this put a depressed person in a world wind? I had a friend who had a key to my home for emergencies, went in a replace all my kitchen cabin handles to handles I wanted. It was a nice thing to do but I felt violated in a sense.
Load More Replies...Just gonna piggy back off my original comment. I'm sorry to say this, but your sis had a LOT of alcohol related paraphernalia in her room prior to your clean. I speak from experience when I say that there is something else going on. She needs help. I am sure you will absolutely be there for her when she needs it. ❤️❤️❤️
Cleaned My Depression Room After Living Like This For About A Year
Finally Cleaned My Depression Nest
However, antidepressants should not be used in cases of mild depression or be given to children or teenagers as the first line of treatment. Having a healthy diet, getting lots of rest, limiting your harmful habits, being physically active, meditating, spending time in nature, and socializing with others can also manage your symptoms.
Even doing something as simple as meeting up with some friends, going for a walk, or doing the things you used to love can help. Small things like this quickly add up to a healthier lifestyle and a happier you.
It Made Me Smile Coming Home To A Clean Room Today. Depression Won’t Win
Finally Finished Cleaning My Depression Room!
Very wonderful. I know how hard it is to do. Glad those 2 handsome K-boys are smiling down at you! So proud of you!
Cleaned My Room After 3 Years Of Depression
It's always the laundry that's the hardest depression nut to crack, well done
The National Institute of Mental Health notes that 21 million adults in the United States had at least one major depressive episode. These episodes are defined as periods of at least two weeks of a depressed mood.
The Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance states that these episodes were the most common (18.6%) among young adults aged 18 to 25. A quarter of cancer patients experience depression, while a third of heart attack survivors experience the same.
Depressed And Stressed, I Finally Felt Like It Was Time To Attempt To Clean My Room Again. It’s Gonna Stay This Way Hopefully-
Cleaned My Depression Den - Swipe For Satisfaction
After Almost 3 Years Of Letting Trash Litter My Room I Sucked It Up And Cleaned It (Oc)
Have you ever fought against depression, dear Pandas? What advice would you give anyone who’s either depressed at the moment or knows someone who suffers from this disorder?
Did you have trouble keeping your room tidy? What did it feel like when you finally cleaned up your home? There’s no pressure at all, but if you want to share your experiences, you might end up helping some of your fellow readers.
Cleaned My Depression Room
Cleaned My Depression Nest!! (And Wanted To Show Off My Cute Room)
I Cleaned My Depression Room
Finally Cleaned My Depression Room
I Finally Mustered Up The Strength To Fight Through My Depression And Clean My Room [oc]
16 Hours And 9 33gal Garbage Bags Later My Depression Room Is Clean
It would be nice if we saw more than just one corner of the room, but the corner desk looks great! 👍🏼
I Cleaned My Junk / Adhd / Depression Room (Which Got Worse Since My Divorce During My Masters) And Turned It Into A Playroom For The Kids
Cleaned My Depression Room!
Hey Mom, I Finally Overcame My Depression And Cleaned My Room! It Isn't Much, But It Certainly Is A Start!
My First Own Apartment And I’ve Been In Such A Bad Depressive Episode I Haven’t Been Taking Care Of It, But I Finally Cleaned My Room Today!
Cleaned Depression Room
I know there are different variations of clean for everybody and IMHO this room has come a long way. They have made excellent progress but I think they still have some more cleaning to do. You're in the final stretch now or if you are satisfied where it's at now, that's okay too.
[oc] Finally Cleaned My Depression Room Today :)
Cleaned My Tiny Depression Room
I often rearrange my bedroom furniture once I finally decide to clean my depression room, like this person did.
Great before and after shots. Sadly, my depression room is a depression house and I haven’t been able to summon up the energy to get it looking good yet. Then you get sad because it’s messy… vicious cycle.
I can't get motivated. It's depressing to walk into my house. It's depressing being in my house. It's depressing just thinking about cleaning it.
Load More Replies...I'm interested to know what people think. I am, like others here fighting to reclaim my small apartment, the only ones of these that gave me pause to think were the ones where someone - no doubt for the very best of reasons - had done all the work while the occupant of the room was out. I would be livid if I came home and someone had taken it upon themselves to decide what of my stuff was rubbish and what should be kept. Quite apart from that, the real therapy comes from having achieved it yourself, someone else doing it is no good. Good luck to all the others here that are still, like myself, climbing over stuff all the time. The strength and the desire will strike when the time is right, you can't force it. To those that made dismissive comments, I truly hope you never understand because it is not fun. In the meantime, please try to be a little kinder.
I've watched a lot of that show Hoarders. Throwing out someone else's stuff is a huge no no. They have to clean it themselves as part of the therapy. Losing control can set them back quite a bit.
Load More Replies...I keep waiting for this to happen to me. The feeling better and cleaning part, not the depression part. It's been so long now that I'm wondering if this is it, this is as good as it gets. Which is tolerable, I guess. I get the brief moments of happiness when I get home and the cats greet me (very me-oriented, needy cats, the monsters that *I* created 😄 they are very good boys and girl) or the loudmouth cat starts his crying to play with the wand + noodle. Otherwise it's just existing right now.
Talk to your doctor. Aside from just clinical depression, there are things like hashimoto's which can cause depression and exhaustion.
Load More Replies...I have suffered with depression for many years. It's currently pretty bad but this has inspired me to clean the kitchen. I have to break it down though. Just have the counter tops left. Will do them once I've put the bed sheets on the washing line. Yay first sun for 10 days.
Every morning I wake up and start a kettle to make coffee in a French press. While it's heating, then brewing, I pick up my kitchen. Once my coffee is ready, I can leave the kitchen. Often I keep going and finish loading the dishwasher or grab the broom, but if I don't feel like it, I don't have to. It's really helped me keep my kitchen under control.
Load More Replies...I am just here to say I love them all. Great job, everyone. I hope you realize you do it for yourself, and your wellbeing.
When terms like ‘depression’ are used lightly to describe general difficulties, it can inadvertently undermine the experiences of people with clinical depression, anxiety, or other mental health conditions. It also makes it extremely difficult for people to understand what these things actually really look like. It’s not about tidying a messy room or a passing phase—these are enduring challenges that require serious attention and empathy. I believe it’s important to differentiate so people can better understand and support those who really live with these conditions. Do better Bored Panda.
True, but in this case these people are depressed and this is what happens when people fall into deep depression for a long time, cleaning gets neglected and they are trying to show their small victories in their battle with depression by showing their attempts at cleaning their living space trying to give others with depression hope in their personal battles.
Load More Replies...I didn't know depression room was a thing. I do remember watching the show Clean House back in the day. I always felt bad for those people because some type of trauma was always involved.
It's not always any one thing, it can just be an accumulation of... life I guess.
Load More Replies...I had a severe depression for years. But I kept always cooking and cleaning. During my childhood my mother was depressed and she stopped cooking, cleaning and washing our clothes. That was so terrible that I promised myself I will never put my kids in such a situation. It's sometimes a fight to do these things, but the well-being of my kids is what matters the most to me.
Me too, I was the same as you, I had to cook and clean I was the single mother of a toddler, also I hate mess, it made me feel worse.
Load More Replies...I somehow pitted my anxieties against my clutter and the anxieties are slowly winning. I think it's nice that they have a hobby, and that they both leave me out of it.
Thank you pandas, for inspiring me to not only take an embarrassing "before" picture, to compare with an "after" picture, but to be kind to myself enough so that I can take those first few steps.. it hadn't occurred to me to look at these depression piles and depression rooms this way, but I feel absolutely inspired now!! Wish there was an ongoing article to share these before and after pocs with other like-minded, depressed people. I don't have really anyone in my life, and certainly not anyone I can actually relate to that gets it, and understands how hard it is to fight depression or how rewarding it is to celebrate the little victories!! One day at a time, so please be kind to yourself, self-compassion is so important. We can't make any progress until we feel strong enough to take that first step.
All of these are great. If I knew someone that is depressed and have a messy house/dwelling/room wanted help to have it cleaned, I would be willing to help out.
It's easier to break it into baby steps. Put on a show with ads. On the commercial breaks, do one task. Gather the laundry, watch your show. Now the dishes. Next break, the trash on the coffee tables/night stands. Next break, strip the bedding. You don't have to clean your whole room/house. Just watch your show and tackle tiny bits! You got this guys!
The only thing that concerned me about the after-pics was that there was still so much stuff in the rooms. They were put on shelves etc and loking nice and tidy.... but my personal experience is that when you have a lot of stuff it is easier to get back to piles and messes everywhere. So, while I am really happy for the people's after-pictures I hope that at least some of the people will continue their journey by getting rid of just some of their things.
Great before and after shots. Sadly, my depression room is a depression house and I haven’t been able to summon up the energy to get it looking good yet. Then you get sad because it’s messy… vicious cycle.
I can't get motivated. It's depressing to walk into my house. It's depressing being in my house. It's depressing just thinking about cleaning it.
Load More Replies...I'm interested to know what people think. I am, like others here fighting to reclaim my small apartment, the only ones of these that gave me pause to think were the ones where someone - no doubt for the very best of reasons - had done all the work while the occupant of the room was out. I would be livid if I came home and someone had taken it upon themselves to decide what of my stuff was rubbish and what should be kept. Quite apart from that, the real therapy comes from having achieved it yourself, someone else doing it is no good. Good luck to all the others here that are still, like myself, climbing over stuff all the time. The strength and the desire will strike when the time is right, you can't force it. To those that made dismissive comments, I truly hope you never understand because it is not fun. In the meantime, please try to be a little kinder.
I've watched a lot of that show Hoarders. Throwing out someone else's stuff is a huge no no. They have to clean it themselves as part of the therapy. Losing control can set them back quite a bit.
Load More Replies...I keep waiting for this to happen to me. The feeling better and cleaning part, not the depression part. It's been so long now that I'm wondering if this is it, this is as good as it gets. Which is tolerable, I guess. I get the brief moments of happiness when I get home and the cats greet me (very me-oriented, needy cats, the monsters that *I* created 😄 they are very good boys and girl) or the loudmouth cat starts his crying to play with the wand + noodle. Otherwise it's just existing right now.
Talk to your doctor. Aside from just clinical depression, there are things like hashimoto's which can cause depression and exhaustion.
Load More Replies...I have suffered with depression for many years. It's currently pretty bad but this has inspired me to clean the kitchen. I have to break it down though. Just have the counter tops left. Will do them once I've put the bed sheets on the washing line. Yay first sun for 10 days.
Every morning I wake up and start a kettle to make coffee in a French press. While it's heating, then brewing, I pick up my kitchen. Once my coffee is ready, I can leave the kitchen. Often I keep going and finish loading the dishwasher or grab the broom, but if I don't feel like it, I don't have to. It's really helped me keep my kitchen under control.
Load More Replies...I am just here to say I love them all. Great job, everyone. I hope you realize you do it for yourself, and your wellbeing.
When terms like ‘depression’ are used lightly to describe general difficulties, it can inadvertently undermine the experiences of people with clinical depression, anxiety, or other mental health conditions. It also makes it extremely difficult for people to understand what these things actually really look like. It’s not about tidying a messy room or a passing phase—these are enduring challenges that require serious attention and empathy. I believe it’s important to differentiate so people can better understand and support those who really live with these conditions. Do better Bored Panda.
True, but in this case these people are depressed and this is what happens when people fall into deep depression for a long time, cleaning gets neglected and they are trying to show their small victories in their battle with depression by showing their attempts at cleaning their living space trying to give others with depression hope in their personal battles.
Load More Replies...I didn't know depression room was a thing. I do remember watching the show Clean House back in the day. I always felt bad for those people because some type of trauma was always involved.
It's not always any one thing, it can just be an accumulation of... life I guess.
Load More Replies...I had a severe depression for years. But I kept always cooking and cleaning. During my childhood my mother was depressed and she stopped cooking, cleaning and washing our clothes. That was so terrible that I promised myself I will never put my kids in such a situation. It's sometimes a fight to do these things, but the well-being of my kids is what matters the most to me.
Me too, I was the same as you, I had to cook and clean I was the single mother of a toddler, also I hate mess, it made me feel worse.
Load More Replies...I somehow pitted my anxieties against my clutter and the anxieties are slowly winning. I think it's nice that they have a hobby, and that they both leave me out of it.
Thank you pandas, for inspiring me to not only take an embarrassing "before" picture, to compare with an "after" picture, but to be kind to myself enough so that I can take those first few steps.. it hadn't occurred to me to look at these depression piles and depression rooms this way, but I feel absolutely inspired now!! Wish there was an ongoing article to share these before and after pocs with other like-minded, depressed people. I don't have really anyone in my life, and certainly not anyone I can actually relate to that gets it, and understands how hard it is to fight depression or how rewarding it is to celebrate the little victories!! One day at a time, so please be kind to yourself, self-compassion is so important. We can't make any progress until we feel strong enough to take that first step.
All of these are great. If I knew someone that is depressed and have a messy house/dwelling/room wanted help to have it cleaned, I would be willing to help out.
It's easier to break it into baby steps. Put on a show with ads. On the commercial breaks, do one task. Gather the laundry, watch your show. Now the dishes. Next break, the trash on the coffee tables/night stands. Next break, strip the bedding. You don't have to clean your whole room/house. Just watch your show and tackle tiny bits! You got this guys!
The only thing that concerned me about the after-pics was that there was still so much stuff in the rooms. They were put on shelves etc and loking nice and tidy.... but my personal experience is that when you have a lot of stuff it is easier to get back to piles and messes everywhere. So, while I am really happy for the people's after-pictures I hope that at least some of the people will continue their journey by getting rid of just some of their things.