ADVERTISEMENT

Being a human is not always comfortable. We experience loss, heartbreak, loneliness, and mistakes, leaving us flawed in various ways. It’s a big and sadly inevitable part of the human condition. But something that makes it more bearable is knowing that we aren’t alone in going through this all.

The Facebook page Chronically Strange and Uncomfortable is a safe internet heaven where its creator shares the ups and downs of what it means to be an ordinary person living on the planet Earth. It’s full of relatable memes and posts that address human struggles in hopes of forming a community and raising awareness about mental health and other important topics. To find them, all you have to do is scroll down.

While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with the page's creator, Aynslie, who kindly agreed to tell us more about it.

The page Chronically Strange and Uncomfortable was created by an Australian named Aynslie in 2021 and already has over 360k followers. The creator briefly describes herself as a “chronically ill Australian who just wants to raise awareness while posting memes.”

In 2022, she introduced herself to her followers by making a post talking all about her struggles and what this Facebook page means to her. “I’m an anxious, silly, weird, strange, uncomfortable, traumatized, neurodivergent Australian with fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, and endometriosis.

I like to use this platform as a personal blog and a way to spread awareness about disability, LGBTQIA+, women's rights, human rights, trans lives, the Black Lives Matter movement, and more. I’m pro-choice, and my pronouns are she/her,” she explains.

ADVERTISEMENT

To learn more about this page, we were lucky enough to get in contact with the creator herself. When asked what inspired her to start such a personal blog, she told Bored Panda, “At the start of lockdown 2020, Melbourne went into one of the harshest lockdowns. I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia and was so isolated from my life that I wanted to create a safe space for others who felt lost from their health issues so that we could come together and have a safe community.”

#7

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Little Wonder
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Takes way less energy to be nice. Oh, cashier messed up? My order is wrong? No worries, all fixable. Screaming and ranting is exhausting.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#8

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Morphuny
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know it’s stupid but I actually just wish for those people to understand not necessarily to experience the same pain

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#9

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable , x.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
Diana Burnwood
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just say "We both know who's right, and it's a different person for both of us, so let's stop" sounds a bit cheesy but it works

Sharkie
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"how dare you imply that I intentionally hurt you! You are such an AH for attacking me like this! You selfish jerk! Come back and apologise for all those insults!" I almost hear my family member's usual response...

SPQRBob
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I implied nothing of the sort. Intentionality is not necessary for one's feelings to be hurt all the same. Now, assuming you have no intention of causing me further distress, please allow me the space and time I have requested of you so I might regain my composure. ---> A-a-and scene! (*bows to imaginary audience*)

Load More Replies...
Kelly H. Wilder
Community Member
5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have said this to my boss at work. The next day, we sat down and calmly resolved the situation. He has learned that I may need a day to process my conflict-related emotions, and he is gracious enough to allow for that. I got hurt at work on Wednesday (completely my own fault), and he was frustrated with me. He said something that struck a nerve. This morning I stopped by his office so we could clear the air. He apologized. After discussing things, we move forward. Emotional processing precedes rational responses.

Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hate how this sounds so weird to me, and probably a lot of people, because i was taught from a young age that maturely settling arguments is seen as awkward. the only reason that i struggle to resolve arguments is because i was taught at such a young age that arguments are a competition instead of a thing that can be moved past and communicated.

Jaya
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know if this works for you, but maybe phrasing it differently can make it feel less weird/awkward? "I need a moment, let's continue this conversation in half an hour?" or "I'm too upset/angry to be reasonable right now, I'll talk to you next week, okay?" might feel less weird?

Load More Replies...
pfeils wife
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've said this many times. When I'm hurt or angry... I just don't want to say something that I can't take back.. and every time I've said it, the person I'm saying it to get's angry and doesn't like it at all. Every damn time.

Phineas T
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am literally a slow processor of feelings, so I've had to get better at saying this exact thing!

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT

She describes the content she posts as a mix of her own experiences, relevant memes about mental health, and current world affairs—something they can discuss together as a community. “I do love a good dark joke here and there and try to make fun of a crappy situation, I have always used humor to mask the pain. But I never take things too far and am always open to other opinions,” she adds.

“I think I’m really trying to use the page to show that life is always going to be uncomfortable but having the people around you to make it a bit more comfortable is what’s important and it’s nice that people are just real and raw.”

#10

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable , x.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
digitalin
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I honestly feel better reading this. I was always the "gullible" one, and hated when people would mess with me and think it was funny.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu

The creator hopes that something people take away from this page is a laugh or new information about people who suffer from chronic health conditions. “You never know who is disabled, and you never know if you could become disabled, so I always believe in sharing that information. I also hope that people can find a sense of community online, as it can be hard for a lot of us who cannot always socialize in person,” she says.

ADVERTISEMENT
#11

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable , x.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
R Dennis
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So true. I have a degenerative neuromuscular disease that will eventually leave me bedridden and unable to even swallow. I laugh and joke about my struggles and people say how strong I am... no. I just have no other option.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#12

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

vaniri , vaniri.tumblr.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
Birgit M
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...and here I am with my brain telling me that I would never deserve to use such a great invention...

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu

In order to ensure that the page remains a safe space, she doesn’t condone or tolerate any discrimination against the LGBTQIA+ community, body positivity, mental health disorders, race, religion, or disabilities. Doing so will result in a person being blocked from the page. 

“I welcome different opinions, views, or stories from others, but transphobia/homophobia/racism/fatphobia, etc. will not be tolerated here. Please interact as you are through your personal experiences, but if you are going to belittle someone because of a difference in opinion or experience, then this is not the page for you,” she wrote in her post.

ADVERTISEMENT
#16

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Libstak
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did the parents know that though? People only do what they know, if they knew better, they would do better. "Victims, aren't we all?", Brandon Lee, The Crow.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#18

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
El Dee
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We were raised to think that this was a 'fault' (being introverted) That we were rude to people by being 'quiet' and that we should change and be 'normal' Since I've been online I've discovered that introversion is not a minority pursuit it's just that (as you'd expect) the extroverts shout loudest..

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu

However, she admits that she’s learning herself, and if there happens to be any misinformation on the page, she asks her followers to inform her about it. “If there is a post put up that has the wrong information, please let me know so I’m not posting fake information and that I can correct and educate myself as I am still learning.”

ADVERTISEMENT

Currently, she’s not the only one who’s running the page. During the interview, Aynslie mentioned that her admin’s name is Ellie. “She is the backbone of this page. She has been so helpful and supportive, and it’s been great to be able to make a friend through this,” she fondly shared.

The creator takes great pride in fostering a safe community for those who need it, and its members are appreciative of it. “I have borderline personality disorder, and your account is bringing me SO MUCH JOY,” one person commented.

"I'm also neurodivergent and have a lot of similar physical and mental health conditions. Thanks for making this page, it's always so relatable,” added another.

ADVERTISEMENT

The creator of the page is very thankful for anyone who follows or visits her safe heaven on the internet. “I really am grateful for the people who have followed me, been through some dark times, and always been able to find great support and even friendships. I never expected my page to gain so many followers, but I am always grateful for those who are joining the journey of life and feel safe being themselves.”

#28

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Gustav Gallifrey
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Criticism isexpected. Compliments...they either want something from you, or are just raising you up so they can watch you fall harder.

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT

Seeing such pages bring people together with similar experiences is truly inspiring and proves that reaching out to others is always worth it. We have so many wonderful people out there who are willing to comfort us and lend a helping hand - just keep that in mind.

ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#43

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Dragon mama
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first 10 years of my marriage summed up in one sentence. holy cràp that hit hard

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#45

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
digitalin
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I passed a friendly neighbor while walking back to my house yesterday. We exchanged the standard pleasantries and then I said "I'm going to go inside and drink water" and she was like "ok, you do that." And now I wonder if that's a normal thing that normal people would say, or if I'm just setting expectations up front so they know what to expect from me.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
Continue reading with Bored Panda Premium
Unlimited content
Ad-free browsing
Dark mode
#51

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Kel_how
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While doing online dating a few years ago, I started calling guys out on their s**t and recommending therapy. By s**t, I mean using me as a therapist, unhealthy friendships, unhealthy parent-child relationships, saying weird c**p to me. Nah, mate, you've got to pay a professional; I'm not interested.

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#55

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable , x.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
Kristal
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cause I mostly watch at night and I don't want to be a c**p neighbor (shared walls) but still want to understand what I'm watching

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#57

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Nosirrow
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother's parents only met bc of the result of WW 2. So it's Stalin's fault I'm here. But Hitler started the war, but also that war was the result of the first, so it's Princip's fault.

View more commentsArrow down menu
#59

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
#60

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable , x.com Report

Add photo comments
POST
clairebear
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women cry when they are angry. If someone is making you feel like that a lot, it's time to cut them off.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#65

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Auntriarch
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I ask Mr Auntriarch what he fancies for tea and he says anything, or what have we got. These are wrong answers. If I wanted to think about it or if we had anything in the fridge, I wouldn't be asking

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#68

Chronically-Strange-And-Uncomfortable-Posts

chronicallystrangeanduncomfortable Report

Add photo comments
POST
Jeremy James
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, my partner knows how to push my buttons. He is the one who installed them.

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda