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Woman Who Survived Being Pushed Off Cliff By Husband Now Says He Demands $4 Million For Divorce
A Chinese woman is locked in a bizarre and deeply unjust legal battle with her husband—five years after he tried to murder her.
The man in question, Yu Xiaodong, pushed the woman, Wang Nan, 37, off a 111-foot-high cliff in Thailand in 2019, leaving her with devastating injuries.
Now, as the convicted husband serves a 33-year prison sentence in Thailand, he is demanding 30 million yuan (more than $4 million) from Wang as a condition for divorce.
Highlights
- Wang Nan, 37, survived being pushed off a cliff by her husband while she was three months pregnant.
- The husband, Yu Xiaodong, is currently serving a 33-year prison sentence in Thailand.
- The Chinese woman said Yu is currently demanding more than $4 million as a condition for divorce.
- “Yu and his mother argue that the sum is meant to compensate for his mental suffering,” she said.
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Wang Nan was pushed off a cliff by her husband, Yu Xiaodong, while they were on a trip to Thailand
Image credits: South China Morning Post / YouTube
The whopping sum of money is meant to compensate for his “emotional and youth loss,” Wang said during a recent live-streamed video.
“Yu and his mother argue that the sum is meant to compensate for his mental suffering. His mother even blamed me, saying, ‘If your business hadn’t been so successful, it wouldn’t have tempted my son to make this mistake,’” the survivor said during her live-stream.
The attempted murder took place on the morning of June 9, 2019, while Wang was three months pregnant.
“Go to hell,” the husband said before pushing his wife, who was three months pregnant at the time
Image credits: South China Morning Post / YouTube
The couple were atop a cliff at a Thai national park catching the sunrise, when Yu gently kissed his pregnant wife on the cheek.
“Go to hell,” he then said before pushing her off the cliff.
Wang miraculously survived the fall, but she lost her unborn child.
The Chinese woman survived the fall with multiple injuries; however, she lost her unborn child
Image credits: South China Morning Post / YouTube
Prior to the incident on the Thailand cliff, Yu had reportedly racked up a large sum of debt as a result of his gambling addiction. When he asked his wife to settle the debt of 2 million yuan (approximately $275,470), she reportedly paid half of it and then asked him to pay the rest.
Wang’s near-fatal fall resulted in severe injuries, including 17 bone fractures, extensive surgeries, and a lengthy recovery.
She tragically lost her unborn child and was told by doctors that natural conception might never be possible again. Despite this, she persevered and recently welcomed a son via IVF (in vitro fertilization), though Chinese marital law mandates that Yu be listed as the child’s father because they are still legally married.
Yu is demanding $4 million from Wang to compensate for his “emotional and youth loss” as a condition for divorce
Image credits: South China Morning Post / YouTube
Wang’s story has ignited anger on Chinese social media, with one saying: “Asking for compensation after attempting murder? How could someone be so shameless?”
“The law needs reform! Victims shouldn’t suffer further from legal loopholes,” read a second comment. “If a spouse commits a serious crime like attempted murder, courts should expedite the divorce without requiring the perpetrator’s consent.”
“The kind of parents determines the kind of son they raise,” added a third.
Zhang Yongquan, a former prosecutor and current partner at Grandall Law Firm, spoke to the South China Morning Post, calling Wang’s legal troubles a “dead-end” case.
“His mother even blamed me, saying, ‘If your business hadn’t been so successful, it wouldn’t have tempted my son to make this mistake,’” the survivor said
Image credits: South China Morning Post / YouTube
To divorce, Zhang said Chinese marital law requires both spouses to be present in court, but the case was complicated by Yu’s incarceration in Thailand, thus making it an “unsolvable situation.”
“Every court session requires the physical presence of the parties involved,” Zhang told the outlet. “If one spouse is incarcerated, it may necessitate a local lawyer or notary visiting the prison for notarization. The relevant legal documents would then need to be sent to the Chinese court via diplomatic channels.”
“The law needs reform! Victims shouldn’t suffer further from legal loopholes,” one social media user said
The attorney said one option would be “to utilize online court hearings,” but called the approach “controversial.”
“For instance, if a divorce case involves an American and a Chinese citizen, conducting an online court session on US soil could raise concerns about China’s judicial actions infringing upon US judicial sovereignty,” Zhang said.
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Lyoness 2 weeks ago
Who TF is in that 1% who argue he deserves compensation? They're as sick as he is.
Tabitha 2 weeks ago (edited)
Probably Yu’s mother. Or one of her flying monkeys.
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Na Schi 2 weeks ago
So, to keep it short: another MAN found a ridiculous reason to try to commit a femicide and now, as the unsuccessful looser that he his (not to mention being a mama's boy) trying to sue his murder-victim bECaUsE hE Is WaStInG HiS TiMe In PrIsOn - oh how creative (sing me a new one). Hope that the Chinse law authorities will back up the woman and let him rot.
Breadcrumb. 2 weeks ago
Men rarely end the relationship. This outcome, pretty common actually.
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Ben Aziza 2 weeks ago (edited)
Thailand could even be more Badass and Gigachads about it and straight up execute him. There problem solved! I mean he is locked up for 33 years...There is an overwhelming amount of evidence. Why is he still alive? Am I too hardcore about this? I dont understand how can there be a redemption after that. He hurt his wife IN AN ATTEMPT TO KILL HER! ONLY because he hated his own failure in life... The woman who HELPED HIM WITH IT! Also have to deal with the demon spawner too...If she actually said this "If your business hadn’t been so successful, it wouldn’t have tempted my son to make this mistake" Then yeh... She complicit in making her son what the f**k he is now...
Quinn 1 week ago
No, a 110' cliff will do. In fact, make it the exact same cliff fall.
Load More Replies... TribbleThinking 2 weeks ago
This reads like one of jawdropping BP's AITA stories, and his mother is one of the YTA trolls.
Traveling Lady Railfan 1 week ago
Aside from the audacity of this individual case, how about the craziness of the Chinese law which I think is a bigger issue here. Basically it's keeping one partner (in this case the woman) locked into a legal marriage with her would be murderer. So even though she was able to get pregnant with another child, the murderer has to be named as the father (even though he's not the biological father,) because they are still technically married. And they have to be technically married, she cannot legally get a divorce unless they are both in the same Chinese court of law (which they can't be because he is incarcerated in a foreign jail) So basically, this woman's forced to live the rest of her life legally married and legally attached in all ways to the man who tried to kill her. Does this seem fair? That's a terrible loophole rule. This should be changed.
LaserBrain 2 weeks ago
Last time it was a Chinese guy that pushed his wife off a ferry boat. What is going on
StumblingThroughLife 2 weeks ago
That's F**ked up, wow! How is he even able to do this? Attempted murder & SBH... and if he's imprisoned for 33 years, who'd even get the 4million, if it was EVEN possible? His batshit mum? I'm finding it hard to believe that anyone/Govt would take this suing thing as legit. #Insane
smash17 1 week ago (edited)
It’s blackmail not compensation and why would we expect more from a man who pushed his wife off a cliff because she was successful and only paid half his debts 🙄 She needs to accept that she can’t divorce, hope he doesn’t get out before the kid is 18, and, for the love of god, stop speaking to her mother-in-law.
cauldrons & cupcakes 2 weeks ago
I'd love to hear from the few who think that a$$hole deserves compensation - wtf is their reasoning??
Tabitha 1 week ago (edited)
The “reasoning” they’re capable of coming up with, if they can come up with any at all, would be so convoluted and “way tf out there” that it doesn’t even make sense to them. But they sure would twist themselves into literal pretzels trying to convince you of its credibility and try to gaslight you into agreeing with them. Al, with their own ears tightly closed to any credible facts you can cite to them that debunks their favorite mythology horseshit.
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Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 2 weeks ago
Well, one solution would be to just stay married because he’s in jail for a long time. She can just proceed with her life as if she is single. The only thing she cannot do is get married again, and I would think that maybe would be fine by her.
Tabitha 1 week ago
TBH, it sure would leave me with an exceedingly dim view of marriage, that’s for sure. Don’t know why someone downvoted you, because what you wrote looks like exactly what she’s doing. It’s entirely possible he’s pissing off so many hardened criminals in prison that he won’t survive 33 years, and she’ll end up a widow—-a rich widow—-anyway, soon enough.
Load More Replies... Nitka Tsar 2 weeks ago
I hope she wasn‘t far ahead with her pregnancy, but at least her new kid has not his DNA.
Lyoness 2 weeks ago
Who TF is in that 1% who argue he deserves compensation? They're as sick as he is.
Tabitha 2 weeks ago (edited)
Probably Yu’s mother. Or one of her flying monkeys.
Load More Replies... Na Schi 2 weeks ago
So, to keep it short: another MAN found a ridiculous reason to try to commit a femicide and now, as the unsuccessful looser that he his (not to mention being a mama's boy) trying to sue his murder-victim bECaUsE hE Is WaStInG HiS TiMe In PrIsOn - oh how creative (sing me a new one). Hope that the Chinse law authorities will back up the woman and let him rot.
Breadcrumb. 2 weeks ago
Men rarely end the relationship. This outcome, pretty common actually.
Load More Replies... Ben Aziza 2 weeks ago (edited)
Thailand could even be more Badass and Gigachads about it and straight up execute him. There problem solved! I mean he is locked up for 33 years...There is an overwhelming amount of evidence. Why is he still alive? Am I too hardcore about this? I dont understand how can there be a redemption after that. He hurt his wife IN AN ATTEMPT TO KILL HER! ONLY because he hated his own failure in life... The woman who HELPED HIM WITH IT! Also have to deal with the demon spawner too...If she actually said this "If your business hadn’t been so successful, it wouldn’t have tempted my son to make this mistake" Then yeh... She complicit in making her son what the f**k he is now...
Quinn 1 week ago
No, a 110' cliff will do. In fact, make it the exact same cliff fall.
Load More Replies... TribbleThinking 2 weeks ago
This reads like one of jawdropping BP's AITA stories, and his mother is one of the YTA trolls.
Traveling Lady Railfan 1 week ago
Aside from the audacity of this individual case, how about the craziness of the Chinese law which I think is a bigger issue here. Basically it's keeping one partner (in this case the woman) locked into a legal marriage with her would be murderer. So even though she was able to get pregnant with another child, the murderer has to be named as the father (even though he's not the biological father,) because they are still technically married. And they have to be technically married, she cannot legally get a divorce unless they are both in the same Chinese court of law (which they can't be because he is incarcerated in a foreign jail) So basically, this woman's forced to live the rest of her life legally married and legally attached in all ways to the man who tried to kill her. Does this seem fair? That's a terrible loophole rule. This should be changed.
LaserBrain 2 weeks ago
Last time it was a Chinese guy that pushed his wife off a ferry boat. What is going on
StumblingThroughLife 2 weeks ago
That's F**ked up, wow! How is he even able to do this? Attempted murder & SBH... and if he's imprisoned for 33 years, who'd even get the 4million, if it was EVEN possible? His batshit mum? I'm finding it hard to believe that anyone/Govt would take this suing thing as legit. #Insane
smash17 1 week ago (edited)
It’s blackmail not compensation and why would we expect more from a man who pushed his wife off a cliff because she was successful and only paid half his debts 🙄 She needs to accept that she can’t divorce, hope he doesn’t get out before the kid is 18, and, for the love of god, stop speaking to her mother-in-law.
cauldrons & cupcakes 2 weeks ago
I'd love to hear from the few who think that a$$hole deserves compensation - wtf is their reasoning??
Tabitha 1 week ago (edited)
The “reasoning” they’re capable of coming up with, if they can come up with any at all, would be so convoluted and “way tf out there” that it doesn’t even make sense to them. But they sure would twist themselves into literal pretzels trying to convince you of its credibility and try to gaslight you into agreeing with them. Al, with their own ears tightly closed to any credible facts you can cite to them that debunks their favorite mythology horseshit.
Load More Replies... Cronecast AtTheRisingMoon 2 weeks ago
Well, one solution would be to just stay married because he’s in jail for a long time. She can just proceed with her life as if she is single. The only thing she cannot do is get married again, and I would think that maybe would be fine by her.
Tabitha 1 week ago
TBH, it sure would leave me with an exceedingly dim view of marriage, that’s for sure. Don’t know why someone downvoted you, because what you wrote looks like exactly what she’s doing. It’s entirely possible he’s pissing off so many hardened criminals in prison that he won’t survive 33 years, and she’ll end up a widow—-a rich widow—-anyway, soon enough.
Load More Replies... Nitka Tsar 2 weeks ago
I hope she wasn‘t far ahead with her pregnancy, but at least her new kid has not his DNA.
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