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I Turned My Grief After Losing A Child Into Something Beautiful
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I Turned My Grief After Losing A Child Into Something Beautiful

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It is very difficult to grasp the extend of the devastation felt when your child dies. Trying to express it in words is almost impossible. After I was faced with this unthinkable loss earlier this year, I decided to do what I do the best instead: design.

Without using words, I tried to express my love for my son Nikolaas. The project would be my haven; it would allow me to dwell in the few memories I would have of him, while creating something that he might have loved to gaze at.

Today, five months after his passing there is a beautiful little lamp sitting on my studio desk. It did not turn out to be an expression of grief at all, but rather a celebration of life, meant to put a smile on your face. I hope it will remind everybody to enjoy life, for it is so fragile.

Visit my Kickstarter campaign if you would like to own one. The proceeds from this project will be used to further the research into the causes of CDH (Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia), the condition that Nikolaas succumbed to.

More info: kickstarter.com

Trying to express devastation in words is almost impossible, so I decided to do what I do the best instead: design

Without using words, I tried to express my love for my son Nikolaas

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The project would be my haven; it would allow me to dwell in the few memories I would have of him, while creating something that he might have loved to gaze at

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Today, five months after his passing there is a beautiful little lamp sitting on my studio desk.

It did not turn out to be an expression of grief at all, but rather a celebration of life, meant to put a smile on your face

Visit my Kickstarter campaign if you would like to own one. The proceeds from this project will be used to further the research into the causes of CDH (Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia), the condition that Nikolaas succumbed to.

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Sander Bakker

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The short version: In the foothills of the Californian Sierra Nevada, I design and make. Originally from Rotterdam, the Netherlands.

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Sander Bakker

Sander Bakker

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The short version: In the foothills of the Californian Sierra Nevada, I design and make. Originally from Rotterdam, the Netherlands.

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SofiyaAleksandrova
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. There is nothing that can fill the gap left, but I admire your strenght to create in memorium.

GertieSmith
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry. my baby cousin died from premature lungs three weeks ago. your lamps are so beautiful.thank you

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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing Gertie. If only the sense of simply being together in silence could be conveyed via this medium...

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Summer Mason
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just lost my child to sids. I can not even But I can relate. I dont know you but your not alone. We are not alone. It sucks every single day and it is unfair. But I don't question gods plan I just simply am mad at him. Our son was knly two weeks old. Its unfair. Its unfair to us all no matter how long you've had them. I'm sorry for our losses. I would never wish this pain on anyone. Ever.

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SofiyaAleksandrova
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9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. There is nothing that can fill the gap left, but I admire your strenght to create in memorium.

GertieSmith
Community Member
9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so sorry. my baby cousin died from premature lungs three weeks ago. your lamps are so beautiful.thank you

Community Member
9 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing Gertie. If only the sense of simply being together in silence could be conveyed via this medium...

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Summer Mason
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just lost my child to sids. I can not even But I can relate. I dont know you but your not alone. We are not alone. It sucks every single day and it is unfair. But I don't question gods plan I just simply am mad at him. Our son was knly two weeks old. Its unfair. Its unfair to us all no matter how long you've had them. I'm sorry for our losses. I would never wish this pain on anyone. Ever.

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