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30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I work in a kindy in China. We have about 35 kids in each class, seated in 4 rows of 8 (with a split down the middle) facing the teacher.

We move the children about once a month; each child moves back one row, and the back row gets to sit in the front row.

One parent came in and told us that her child must always be seated in the front row. There's nothing wrong with the child's eyesight; she's just too special to be seated anywhere but the front row I guess. The parent did not request this; she ordered us.

Another time in primary the headmaster came to talk to me, aghast. We had one special group of children that was taught all in English for every subject. This is very expensive and all the parents are pretty rich (One guy has three porsches; a red yellow and blue one and drives whatever colour he feels like to school. He also has several Harley Davidsons.)

Anyway this VERY rich mother was upset because the other rich kids didn't want to play with her daughter. Her daughter, having servants at home, tried to order the other kids around and you can imagine how popular that made her.

This mother threatened to have the other children killed unless they started playing with her daughter.

Final score:

251points

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Bored Trash Panda 1 year ago

Um.. please tell me she got arrested.

157points

PM_me_datSmile , cottonbro studio Report

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Late to the post but I’m a high school counselor. Last year I had this student who was a total sweetheart but really needed intervention. This girl was a sophomore and had a grand total of 20 credits towards graduation under her belt. She should have had 90 by that point and was on track to fail 25 more that spring. She was failing miserably. Not only that but she would be constantly ditching class and often end up in my office because there was no where else to go. The school has only one way in or out. I did everything in my power to help this girl and eventually was able to get a parent meeting with myself, teachers, the school psych and school administrators involved. I explained to her parents in great detail how at this point it was mathematically impossible for her to graduate from high school at that school at the rate she was failing classes. I offered continuation school that has a much higher rate of graduation for students in her situation. I desperately wanted her to get tested for special education because it was obvious she had deficiencies and could have at least gotten some legal accommodations put in place for her in order to help her. Parents just said no to everything. No to continuation school because that’s where the “bad” kids went. No to testing because special ed had a “bad stigma.” No to after school tutoring cuz “she’s capable of doing all of this work.” No to working one on one with the school psych to sort out her emotional issues. No to everything. I’d never felt so defeated and knew then that I couldn’t save every kid no matter how much I wanted to.

Edit: Words. Clarification.

Final score:

242points

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SewingStaffy 1 year ago

Wow that's super sad. Some parents shouldn't be allowed a say when they so obviously are ruining their kids lives

151points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I had a student who was failing pretty badly, he had a pretty bad attitude and was extremely disrespectful. When I called his father, the response was “You’re a woman, he doesn’t need to respect you.” I handed the phone to a male mentor teacher pretty dumbfounded and explained the situation. The male teacher proceeded to ream the dad out and then had the kid transferred from my class to his class. The kid still failed and was still a disrespectful a*s. Not sure what the dad had to say about that but at least he couldn’t blame it on me being a woman.

e-spats , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

237points

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Epsilon 1 year ago

People like that father ate why I hate the human race

158points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced An incredibly quiet student just flat out refused to engage in any discussion in class. She was an extremely pleasant girl, she just wouldn't speak. I brought it up with her mother during an interview and she told me she'd forbidden her daughter to express her opinion and to just listen to the teacher out of fear they wouldn't agree with her opinion and mark her down out of bias. I assured her that expressing an opinion wouldn't get a student marked down in my class and that developing one is important to her learning but she just said "I'd rather she didn't."

losturtle1 , Pixabay Report

Final score:

227points

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Salad. 1 year ago (edited)

This is just so sad. Poor kid :( She will probably have problems in the future communicating.

33points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Criminal defense lawyer here. I was talking to my 23 year year old client in the hallway before court. His mom walked up to me and said forcefully, “He is a CHILD, do you understand me? A CHILD!” Because she was upset that he was in trouble with the law.

tinyahjumma , Karolina Grabowska Report

Final score:

209points

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Jake B 1 year ago

I feel bad for the “Child”.

100points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I had a third grade student whose mother felt that I favored other students over her son. She would call me and yell at me about not treating him fairly and lying. She snuck past the office a few times to come into the classroom to watch me teach (which of course is illegal and I’d have to call the office). She’d tell me and the principal that she was trying to “catch me in the act [of being dishonest].” (Of course my principal always defended me and dealt with the parent.)

As a final straw, the mother bought a watch with a voice recorder in it and the boy wore it to school. He yelled out in the middle of class suddenly, “I’m secretly recording you and you won’t teach here for much longer!” (An 8-yr-old!) Of course the watch was confiscated and the child was moved into a different classroom, though the school district could have legally moved him into another. But the mother still never backed down and the next teacher had similar issues.

daleene , Andrea Piacquadio Report

Final score:

193points

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Mickysixxx 1 year ago

Worst undercover agent ever

11points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I quit teaching high functioning special education when I taught my middle school kids how to dial 911 & work with an operator for assistance and got criticism from 5/6 parents for "traumatizing" their children.

The irony? One of the parents had choked about a year before and needed assistance, but my student was terrified, didn't know what to do and ran away. The woman had passed out on the lawn and a neighbor responded. They had to send the police to help search for the student it had frightened her that much.

anon , SOMANEDU Report

Final score:

187points

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Benita Valdez 1 year ago

This is so important for them to learn though. My brother is high functioning but still at a mentality of like a 4 year old and I wish I could get him to learn this. When I was a waitress there was a very high functioning and very capable busser who lived with his mom. Unfortunately one day she had fallen at home due to something medical related while he was home and he didn't realize that he should call 911 and didn't know how to either; she ended up passing away. Had he been taught what to do in an emergency he could've saved her life instead of leaving her there all night. It was just fortunate that he never was blamed or made to feel guilty. It drove me insane and made me so sad for him because he could've learned if he was taught; he was very capable of learning and could read and articulate thoughts but just was never taught what to do in an emergency

105points

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced There was a kid in middle school, who was caught selling substances. His mom gave the whole "my kid would never do such a thing" speech. The best part? His mom is a teacher at this same school.

Tyler525 , Hobbies on a Budget Report

Final score:

173points

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Mad Dragon 1 year ago

My uncle was apparently caught with drugs at his high school way back when. My grandmother was called down to the school and made a huge deal about how it wasn't my uncle's fault. "It's the dealer's fault! You need to find and punish the dealer!" It eventually came out that the dealer was my other uncle (her youngest son).

12points

#10

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I taught middle school for 1 year. We had a student who was being disruptive in all the classes. He was refusing to turn in work, or even do it. He was constantly causing trouble.

We had each tried several strategies to deal with the behavior in our own time. We had each talked to the parents numerous times, but they never did anything nor believed that the student was doing anything inappropriate. No one was having any success.

Eventually one of the teachers had enough so he suggested we do a meeting between all of the students teachers, the guidance counselor, a vice principal, the student, and his parents.

There are 6 teachers plus the vice principal and the guidance counselor all saying the same basic version of, student needs to pay attention, needs to do the work, needs to stop distracting other students, needs to be respectful, etc. etc.

The mother disbelieves us; its not the students fault. We all have it in for the student.

Nothing changed.

Teaching sucks

sodabased , Startup Stock Photos Report

Final score:

167points

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Zophra 1 year ago

I bet having these students home for COVID and online education was enlightening for many parents.

5points

#11

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I work as a camp counselor for church camps. One girl I had in my cabin was an absolute brat. She would sass me, call girls in the cabin "idiots" and tell them she was better than them because she was in gifted classes, and she would punch some of the boy campers. She koalaed my friend who was a boys counselor, and ended up causing him to fall and bust his lip. When she was confronted about it, she just shrugged and said "he's the one who fell, it's his fault."
The final straw was when she got mad because I told her she couldn't go to the playground (we were literally eating lunch like, sit down and eat?) so she huffed and shoved my little sister into a chair screaming "GET OUT OF MY WAY BRAT". My sister only cries when she's mad. I looked over to her, completely shocked, and as soon as I saw tears welling up in her eyes I knew it was go time. I grabbed her, took her to my friend and as he tried to calm her down, I ran after this brat. I told her she had to apologize and she straight up went "my mom says I never have to apologize because people should be paying attention to me, when I get mad I blwo up, etc." Honestly I didn't hear her, I was seeing red because who the hell did this 10 yr old think she was hurting my sister? I ended up letting her get back to the cabin (she's crying and screaming at my older girls in the cabin now) and I got the camp director. He yelled at her, made her apologize, and told me to call her mom. Called the mom, and this lady seriously went "she didn't seem to do anything wrong, maybe that little girl should grow some thicker skin." ....excuse me? My sister is super thick skinned. Your brat just pissed her off, because who wants to be pushed into a metal chair like that?
wow sorry that's so long lmao. I've never been so mad at a kid before in my life. I hope this brat doesn't end up in my cabin again.

elizabethashleym , Anthony : ) Report

Final score:

147points

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N Miller 1 year ago

Koalaed?

65points

#12

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I'm a nanny on the upper east side of New York and while my boss is a good non-helicopter father, I routinely have play dates with other kids. I have a 4, 8, and 13 year old, so I've seen it all. My two favorites though:

A mother of one of my girl's little friends called my boss up furious and insisting he fire me because I let her child play with sidewalk paint. She was mad I made her seven year old use a paint brush, instead of doing the drawing for him after he told me what he wants. He could've poked his eye out with a brush according to her, and it was irresponsible.

The saddest part was that little boy told me before he left how fun it was we made the paints ourselves and then got to use them.

My 13 year old had a sleepover and I got a four page list of things one girl wasn't allowed to do or eat. When I asked her about it, she told me she was only allergic to hazelnuts, and everything on the list was there because her mom 'didn't want her getting fat.' I let her eat with the girls (we had build your own nacho/quesadilla thing) and I took them to our bodega that is legitimately less than 250 feet away (it's the bottom level of an apartment building on our corner and we're not even in the middle of the block) and got candy and soda to watch movies around 10 after they begged me to do so, and her mother informed my boss two days later her kid was no longer allowed to be friends with his daughter and it was my fault, as it was irresponsible for me to let four girls leave the house after dark, with a chaperone or not.

I also have a great one about my four year old's team hockey mom threatening to call cps on me so she could get my boss' attention, but that's less helicopter parenting and more pathetic.

poiuylkjh2345 , Jadson Thomas Report

Final score:

143points

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Remi (He/Him) 1 year ago

I've heard people in Finland use the after dark card and it's just insane. In the south in December the curfew would be 3pm and in the summer around 23pm. Artificial light is a thing dear worrywarts

11points

#13

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I had a parent swear I was targeting son and that he was failing my class because I was refusing to allow him his modifications (he was severely dysgraphic). That’s a very serious accusation and can result in sanctions against your teaching license and federal lawsuits. To prove that I was following his plan and that he simply wasn’t doing his work, I started sending him to the Special Education lab which allows kids with modifications and accommodations to have a quiet place to work and a smaller teacher to student ratio. He immediately decides to cheat on his work so his grades will go up and it will look like I was the problem but the teachers in the lab caught it and documented it for me. The mom insisted that he just felt pressured to perform (which he may have but it wasn’t coming from me). The mom and I clashed the rest of the year. The next year one of my students who had been in the class brought me a newspaper article where the kid had been arrested for drug possession and told me he was in rehab. Overall the kid was a terribly behaved turd but I still felt bad for him because he had to go home to his mom.

AndreaDTX , Maël BALLAND Report

Final score:

129points

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ShockSandSniper_ 1 year ago

there no such thing as a incompetent, conceited, paranoid mot- ...

29points

HyruleVampire , Politics and Prose Bookstore Report

#14

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Volunteer at a library, a mom wouldn't let her 10 year old kid read "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" because "they sin".

Final score:

127points

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JB 1 year ago

Shouldn't be reading the Bible, then. That book is full of sinners!

157points

Mysteria 1 year ago

No, no. He’s got a point.

5points

Tsdey 1 year ago

Christian logic... (I always say this but... they are so dumb at times!)

3points

Karma Black 1 year ago

“When she carried on her whoring so openly and flaunted her nakedness, I turned in disgust from her, as I had turned in disgust from her sister. Yet she increased her whoring, remembering the days of her youth, when she played the whore in the land of Egypt and lusted after her lovers there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose issue was like that of horses. Thus you longed for the lewdness of your youth, when the Egyptians handled your bosom and pressed your young breasts.” (Ezekiel 23:18-21)

2points

Kilkenny 1 year ago

Very true

2points

A. Starhawk Hunt 1 year ago

Of course it does! How can you tell someone to avoid doing it without an example or two for clarification! How would you what not to without demonstrating the sun?

1point

Epsilon 1 year ago

Need more context because WHAT?

14points

actaeon cross 1 year ago

I don't know about this one specifically but Harry Potter was banned from my school's library. Parents said it encouraged witchcraft and turned children from religion (they took their kids to see all the movies though?) but the Golden Compass with anti-religious themes was perfectly fine. People just fixate on something and won't change their mind

23points

Roddfergg 1 year ago

If you have read any, you would know. His older brother is EVIL!

7points

Crazy Cookie 1 year ago

What I want to know is what book did Julie Snelling read ????

3points

PeridotPlatypus377 1 year ago

Greg Heffley, a middle schooler who’s keeping his “diary”, is a lazy, selfish, manipulative, and narcissistic, jerk. He is capable of being altruistic but it’s a trait not often observed. Somehow Greg’s brothers are even worse than he is, and so are many side recurring characters. There aren’t too many consistently nice characters, but some do exist. This includes Rowley, Greg’s best friend, who is frequently taken advantage of by Greg.

1point

MusicalNerd 1 year ago

There is a lot of disrespect in those.

1point

Julie Snelling 1 year ago

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SlothyK8 1 year ago (edited)

As the child of an evangelical mother, I felt this. I was fortunate that my mother had no interest in books and that, as a result, I could get away with reading a lot. But movies and TV? That was another story entirely. A child of the 80s, I wasn't allowed to watch Beetlejuice because it was "the occult". I wasn't allowed to watch the Disney movie "Bambi" because of the "violent" way the film begins. I was in a middle school production of "The Wizard of Oz" in the role of Glinda; my mother tried to prevent it but my father stepped in, so she simply refused to see my performances. I had to "pray" every morning before I left for school and she hung crucifixes in my closet. People like this are complete head cases.

13points

Bookworm 1 year ago

Uhhh... is she just not going to let her child read anything ever, then? Because I hate to break it to her, but reading material that only has people who never do anything wrong at all, ever, is going to be difficult to find.

10points

Thor Haugen 1 year ago

My mom was upset about me watching the original Star Trek because it taught evolution. But she did let me watch it. She just made her feelings known. It's sad to me that she had such a narrow way of looking at the world. I ended up as a person of faith, but God is so much bigger than ridgid thinkers understand.

9points

Ruby 1 year ago

This is so so so true. Plus there are a few of us semi-evolutionist Christians.

1point

MusicalNerd 1 year ago

I see the mom's point - those books may encourage a kid to disrespect others - and I also see the OP's point, sheltering children too much doesn't end up well. But what we can all agree one is that simply saying "they sin" makes no sense because everybody sins.

6points

juice 1 year ago

i mean...the main character isn't exactly a good role model. i could understand that line of thinking, i suppose? but if you dislike something, it does not automatically become a sin...

6points

Shannon Mallory 1 year ago

My cousin's conservative Christian mother wouldn't let her read the CS Lewis Narnia books because "animals can't talk and magic isn't real, so they're evil." They're literally Christian allegory. CS Lewis and Madeline L'Engel (Wrinkle In Time) are unapologetic Christian philosophers. Massive facepalm.

3points

Lady Miss Pie Premium 1 year ago (edited)

I’ve found that the most zealous of Christians know very very little about Christianity at all.

3points

Theresa Stephenson 1 year ago

I have seen the Harry Potter movies and they may have a dark element to them but all their magic is made up and nothing lime the real thing .

3points

Zaphod_000 1 year ago

they do sin

2points

anon panda 1 year ago

So does everyone

8points

Brenda 1 year ago

The only way I finally got my son to read was reading "Captain Underpants". Got grief from 1 SIL which I ignored

1point

That emo Girl 1 year ago

Every book has said sins in tho....

0points

PeridotPlatypus377 1 year ago

It’s true that Greg is a jerk, but he usually ends up paying for his poor behavior one way or another, even if it’s not always directly. It’s not like he gets away with acting like he does.

0points

Colin 1 year ago

One kid takes a bite out of old, moldy cheese under duress and now the whole book is a sin.

0points

Rosa Carone-Prendergast 1 year ago

I'm sure the entire series is banned in Florida now thanks to the crazy republican governor who thinks he's Hitler.

0points

Gabriel Njihia 1 year ago

it is a w book tbh

0points

crowspectre (he/they) 1 year ago

'What turned you away from god' 'well actually according to my mom it was diary of a wimpy kid'

0points

jdtimid123 1 year ago

Probably hasn't even read the books herself either. Neither have I, mind you, but I've come across plenty of people who just assume a book is bad because the church or someone else said it was, despite not even skimming it themselves.

0points

Leigh 1 year ago

My mom never let me watch anything! All the good shows like x files was satanic.

0points

wyngerd 1 year ago

Something wrong in the state of danmark, this time USA. I hope the mother is on a list of religious extremists.

0points

Mike Fitzpatrick 1 year ago

Commence pearl clutching!

0points

Eli 1 year ago

Sounds like my mom

0points

ShockSandSniper_ 1 year ago

soooooooo.... sleeping in is a sinnnn??? ...

0points

Well-Dressed Wolf 1 year ago

Actually, yes. It’s sloth.

1point

shygirlturnedsassy , Joyell VanGelder Report

#15

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I had posted this some time ago on r/childfree. When I was 21, I was still living with my parents. Our neighbours were just the worst kind of parents. They let their kids bully other children and harass people's pets. One time the kids were bullying the puppies of a stray dog that lived in our neighbourhood, pulling their tails, twisting their ears etc. Predictably and understandably, the mama dog growled and snapped at them. Some of the other neighbours tries to tell them that they shouldn't abuse animals. The kid's mom began yelling that a "dangerous" animal almost killed her babies.

One day they came to our place for dinner. I couldn't stand this family so I decided to eat in my room. Then suddenly I heard our puppy let out a painful yelp. Turns out the girl had kicked him. I ran downstairs immediately and picked him up while staring daggers at the kids. Their parents just smiled and said " oh the kids were just playing with your pup"

I lost my temper and yelled at them to get the f**k out. They left grumbling about how rude I was being. However, in just a few days, the mom asked my step mom, who is a teacher, to tutor her kids. Free of cost, of course.

Final score:

125points

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Sami-Jo Ross 1 year ago

Kick the kid and tell the parents they were playing.

124points

#16

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I taught middle school social studies and we would watch Channel One news daily and write in our writing journals about what we saw and heard that stood out or was interesting. Then we would have brief 5-10 min discussions after and allow kids to read or respond. This was in 2013-15 when there were a lot of stories about gay marriage at the Supreme Court, transgender bathroom laws, Syria, protests, etc...

Well, I was mentioned several times on the school’s unofficial Facebook page that I had a gay agenda and that I was trying to teach students about the gay lifestyle. Two parents banded together and got other parents whose kids were not even in my class to confront the school board. They did official investigation and I was told to stay home for a few days. It all amounted to nothing after they interviewed the kids and clarified the situation and even read some of the journals. I basically got two days off with pay, but I did not like the scrutiny in a SS class where teaching current events is important.

kaizerone , kelly Report

Final score:

121points

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and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago

Jesus fecking Christ, people are so stupid

89points

#17

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Work at a Summer Camp and we told scary stories. One of the boys in the camp couldn't sleep for the whole week because of some of the stories so his mom demanded the scary stories be banned otherwise she would basically badmouth our programs. The next Monday the boy complained to me that we couldn't tell scary stories anymore and was upset about it... Tell that to your f*****g mom...

Melchizedek823 , vjapratama Report

Final score:

118points

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YTK 1 year ago

Badmouth from her would be great advertising

45points

#18

Had a father tell the principal that his son could call three Jewish brothers anti-Semitic slurs because they were of the devil and his son followed the true word of god. He claimed the school would be violating HIS (the sons) rights with any disciplinary actions. There were no disciplinary actions taken. 1980s.

smokelaw23 Report

Final score:

117points

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David H 1 year ago

Trust me, they wouldnt do anything today. Majority of Jewish kids in Public School have experienced antisemitism, some even from teachers (several school districts have been caught in scandals) and most are never dealt with, some schools were caught refusing to file any antisemitism complaints, so it wouldnt show up on their records. I mean 76% of Jewish university students have experienced antisemitism, but less than 1% of complaints are investigated. They wouldnt do anything today either

70points

#19

I work daily with kids in outdoor programs. I screamed at a kid who was about to run into the road while a car was coming. The only time I ever scream like that is when a child’s life is in danger. The child proceeded to have a meltdown because, as I later found out, he never gets disciplined and his parents never hold boundaries with him. His mother was there and comforted him. She wasn’t mad at me but she was saying “forest-ninja is sorry she yelled at you!” and I was like “No, I’m not. I stopped him from getting hit by a car.”

I’ve gotten to know this child over two years and he is so disruptive and is never held accountable. It’s pretty scary. Because I work in nature education I meet a lot of parents experimenting with alternative parenting and most methods do more harm than good. Be in charge, you’re the adult.

forest-ninja Report

Final score:

107points

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Roddfergg 1 year ago

I told my kids, I'm not your friend, I'm your parent, all the time when they were growing up. Told them, my job is to send you out into the world to be a successful adult, we can be friends after that. They took it to heart, because now that they are successful adults, I see them more than I ever did when they were in high school, and they always want to do things with their mom and I.

63points

IlliniBone54 , Startup Stock Photos Report

#20

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Kid never did any work in class, was caught trying to cheat numerous times and overall was a disruption. I never like to just give a kid a zero so I’d given him numerous opportunities to make up work and redo the stuff he cheated on. Rarely took advantage of it and was missing a lot of work.

One day I got an email from his mother asking why his grade was so low and as to why I was ‘slacking off’ on putting his work into my grade book. Overall the email was probably 5-6 paragraphs long berating me, I was a student teacher at the time so “I knew nothing. “ The work she was referring to was stuff he had turned in about 2 hours before this email came to me (everything got turned into our school website in this class so it was all digital.) Needless to say I quickly figured out the kid bsed his work, told his mom it was all my fault that his grade was so low because I wasn’t doing my job, and overall I should feel ashamed for putting him in that position. I sent her a nice reply pointing out the time stamps on the assignment showing he’d only recently sent the stuff in and that I normally try to get everything in about 24 hours after it gets submitted, but that it may be a little longer when assignments are turned in late. Mother never replied back after realizing her son had lied to her about basically everything.

Final score:

105points

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Juliette the Fox 1 year ago

At least she figured it out?

69points

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30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Less helicopter parent, more “my child is innocent” and a scam. My mom was kicked out of work (temporarily) from her underprivileged school until this case was settled. A kindergartener had just gotten her ears pierced and she took the earrings out in class because they hurt. The teacher sent her to the health secretary (my mom) and the little girl lost an earring somewhere along the way. Cleaned the ears and sent her back to class. Mother of the child sued my mom and filed a case with the school because I guess the earrings were solid gold and diamond. I guess that’s what Claire’s pierced with, seems legit. Tried to accuse my mom of stealing the earring, no chance that a 6 year old lost a tiny object. Of course the woman did not win in this situation and my mom got back to work but it was a whole bunch of baloney, accusing the teachers and office employees at the school for a lost earring and injured earlobe.

sortamorma , say straight Report

Final score:

100points

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Fluffy Feline Fire Hazard 1 year ago

"no chance that a 6-year-old lost a tiny object" WTF MOTHER

53points

#22

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Had a kid bite another kid, had pictures of the bite mark where teeth were clearly visible and the kid admitted to biting the other kid because he got in his way. Parents said he would never bite anyone and that the picture could be of any type of injury...

AngryTurtle98 , Crina Doltu Report

Final score:

95points

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SapphireKing 1 year ago

love the picture

58points

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#23

(Preschool teacher here) but one that comes to mind is this one particular one. We told this mom for YEARS her son needed to be seen by a doctor for his behavior, but she rugswept. And denied. And blamed. We went around in circles with her from the day he began at 2 yrs old until he went to kindergarten. Actually, we still do now and he’s in 1st grade and in our after school program. These are ACTUAL quotes that flew out of moms mouth as soon as we told her her son’s behavior for that day:

“Well, he had two servings of fruit last night with dinner” (When she was told he had an awful day, and could not keep his hands to himself nor listen to directions). This is my favorite excuse of all time.

“He had a play date (on Saturday)...those always rile him up” when told about similar behavior...on a Tuesday.

“Well, he’s been with his dad for two days” NOW THIS ONE- dad did not mess around. This child listened to and respected dad MUCH more than mom, because he disciplined him. He held him accountable. Mom’s interpretation of his behavior was his dads fault...not her son flying off the handle in her care because he knew he’d get away with it unlike at dad’s.

“Well when he’s with THAT child, his behavior gets worse”. No. It doesn’t. Similarly “Well what did THAT child (any child) do to him?” when told about altercations with other children.

You see the point. Nothing was her son’s fault. Nothing. And he knew that. When she told me he had been diagnosed with ADHD I wasn’t nearly as surprised as she thought I would be. He’s now in our after school program and our driver overheard his 1st grade teacher “Oh thank God” when she saw that she (van driver) was there to pick him up. Even his school teacher can’t handle him in class I have heard from the grapevine.

He also had a younger sister, who’s been kicked out of another school (and was well on her way to being kicked out of ours when I left) for her behavior also. She’s only 3. Examples include peeing on a teacher when she didn’t get her way, hitting and kicking other staff, etc. She is her brother except worse in some ways.

I have more stories about more children (and this child) if there’s interest.

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Final score:

91points

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ShockSandSniper_ 1 year ago

yes pls! more stories!

30points

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#24

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced While studying I work in an after school care.

One day a 9yr old was showing everyone his lighter by trying to set the shirt he was wearing on fire, I obviously took the lighter off him. When his mother came to pick him up I handed it to her and told her about him trying to set his shirt on fire.

Turns out it was her lighter, so I had "no right" to confiscate it and her son just wouldn't try to set his clothes in fire because "He's not an idiot", so I must be making that up.

samaki14 , lil artsy Report

Final score:

83points

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Neuridivergent 1 year ago

Her brain cells went away after whatever she used that lighter for.

3points

#25

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Some time in 2012 (I distinctly remember it happening not long after Sandy Hook), a 4th grader I worked with was taking apart a highlighter at the sink and overflowing a cup. I asked him what his intention was and he said "I'm going to poison a girl I don't like with highlighter juice." I asked why he would do that and he said "I REALLY REALLY HATE HER."

I told my dunce of a superior about this and she said "oh he's just being dramatic" and blew me off. I told her if she did not escalate this i'm going over her head and she said fine. When his mom came to pick him up we explained what happened and she looked at him like "oh my did you really do this???" in a way like she's never heard him do anything close to this. This was not the first time we've had issues with this kid that involved telling his parents, but she just sounded so surprised THIS time.

The next afternoon I could hear the kid from across the room telling his friends under his breath how he hated me for reporting this. The kid fricken openly admitted he wanted to poison someone, and the cup in the sink was full of yellow water. For the rest of the week when he got picked up by mom she asked him how his day went and he gave her the puppy dog eye treatment as if plotting to injure someone didn't happen a few days earlier. She was so whipped. Parenting is awful these days I swear. I'm no longer in the field.

Filldos , Lauren Powell-Smothers Report

Final score:

80points

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ShockSandSniper_ 1 year ago

Potions 101. (pls dont downvote! im sorry dont arrest meeeeee )

71points

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#26

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I'll give two examples. One suburban, one inner city.

Suburban: Kid asked where dogs came from. Not sure why, I was an English teacher. I said they were bred from wolves, and gave two common explanations for how human interaction may have started. Mom called the school, then called me, freaking out that I mentioned evolution. Turned into a whole thing.

Inner city: Teen sucker punched some poor girl, then punched me in the face when I broke them up. Ended up getting escorted off by campus cop. Dad, who was obviously a crackhead, showed up to the school and started threatening to kick everyone's a*s.

Darmok-on-the-Ocean , Lukas Report

Final score:

76points

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Stephanie Did It 1 year ago

For some reason people are getting domestication confused with evolution. Wolves did NOT evolve into dogs, they were domesticated and selectively bred by humans to favor certain desired traits. OP was not teaching evolution. This has nothing to do with religion.

4points

#27

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Teacher here. We had a student, 5th grade, who was pretty sneaky at first. He acted innocent but he was far from it. I'll jump to the end. He stepped on someone when they were laying down during free reading time. He would constantly talk and prevent the class from getting to lunch and specials on time, and did this just to cause trouble. He hit someone with a meter stick. He would "accidentally" kick people. He stole stuff. He cursed. Mom came out and said we were singling him out and he would never do those things and told us to stop contacting her. Later he did something else, something like ripping up classroom decorations or something like that, and the principal saw it. Principal called mom. Instead of accepting her child does wrong she pulled him out of school. Since he hadn't been doing his work this kid that was actually quite smart had all F's as transfer grades.

jibberjabbery , Alan Levine Report

Final score:

73points

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Confused Deer🦌 1 year ago (edited)

something is very wrong with that kid,

35points

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#28

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced A parent at my school worked for the district but in a different department. Her daughter was really average. Not an A student but not failing. There was no way this kid was a top performer in any way but probably had a solid college career ahead of her.

Well that wasnt good enough for mom and she wanted the kid to be valedictorian or nothing else. So she read the entire handbook on school accommodations and learning disabilities and began petitioning. She managed to get her kid labeled as needing accommodations and then helicoptered the teacher to make sure they were being met. If the kid got lower than an A she would find something that the teacher didnt do and bring it up with admin.

It became such a problem that the teacher was receiving emails almost 2x per day, and the admin was getting multiple calls per day. The teacher had to hire a lawyer and file a lawsuit for harassment with the union. The mom counter sued of course and things got heated for a while. I remember the superintendent even getting involved. Every f*****g person in admin knew she was full of s**t and making it up. No one could call her out cause she was crazy, had money and was ready to sue.. They managed to somehow settle with her. Basically wait it out until summer. The only consequence she faced was related to emails. Apparently she was using her work email to harass the teacher. They started monitoring her computer use and she was no longer allowed to communicate with the teacher in question.

TLDR: bats*it crazy mom read the handbook on school policy. Harassed the teacher for any supposed misstep. It got so bad lawyers got involved.

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Final score:

72points

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No Name 1 year ago

I bet that poor girl will be so relieved to move out.

28points

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#29

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I once took a babysitting job when I was 17 too earn some extra cash, the 9 year old child wanted to play soccer inside, I told him many times not to do it and even took the ball away, he had another one and kicked the ball all around the house completely ignoring me, he broke a lamp, some picture frames after knocking down a shelf, and a window. When the parents came home they blamed me for the damages and thought I was screwing around in the house, why? Because the kid said I was doing that, never took another babysitting job after that.

Edit: The breaking things part happens in a span of 1 minute so there wasn’t much I could do especially since he would basically just play keep away with me

Sloppy_Noodles , Pixabay Report

Final score:

66points

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DC 1 year ago

One time I had to look for someone's child. "If you don't cook pudding, I will poop my pants!". 8 years old. I told her to do so ... she did so ... I did not wipe that off for sure. Mother seemed less surprised than I had anticipated, may not have been the first time...

4points

#30

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Had a pretty typical red/yellow/green behavior chart. One child was just transferred to me, not a completely terrible kid but had a habit of not know where the line was so it got him in trouble from time to time. Every time I flipped his card to a yellow or red would always let the parent know what happened and what we’re going to do to stop he behavior in future. She then goes off on how it’s the other little kid causing the problems and her child is perfect. I let here know that while there isn’t a perfect person in the scenario both kids could have acted in a different way. She then stated and I’m not kidding “I know that the other kid is a dirty foster child (still to this day don’t know how she learned this) and he assaulted my child! (Foster child pushed back after kidding hit by her child)” SHE DID THIS INFRONT OF THE OTHER CHILD! I told her to meet me in the office. Had a meeting with the director and she was no longer allowed in my classroom. However had to take down my behavior chart which kinda blew because of how well it was working.

Sarnick18 , Ksenia Chernaya Report

Final score:

62points

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Becca Kuehn 1 year ago

😡The children in foster care deal with enough emotional trauma and other c**p. The parents of their classmates should not be adding to that list!

49points

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#31

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Not a child care worker, but one of oldest friends suffered from this. It's been passed so many times around my parents friend group it isn't even funny. His mom basically did all of his homework through high-school. He was a very bright kid, but had no motivation as his mom did everything for him. Once he went to college and moved out it was apparent that he didn't have the life skills to succeed on his own. His parents desperately wanted him to pass in college and tried so hard, but he eventually failed and dropped out. From what I gather now he still lives at his parents house and tries to hold jobs his mother gets for him, but can never get into work on time and always gets fired.

I feel super sorry for the guy because he would of been a good dude in society if his parents didn't mess it all up. I think he might have some underlying signs of ADHD, but he was never tested.

ShoutOuttomySO , Pixabay Report

Final score:

32points

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Robert Trebor 1 year ago

I volunteered at the reference desk in the public library and one day a woman came over and asked for help, She had a sheet of paper with her and I asked what it was, and she said it was her son's homework. "Where's your son?" "Oh, he's over there" (reading a magazine) I asked why he wasn't doing it, and she said, he wouldn't get a good grade. So, I said "I'll help your son with his homework, I won't help you do it for him." She went to complain to the Librarian, who came and talked to me and I told her what the deal was. She backed me. Mom went across to the City Hall and talked to a County Commissioner, complaining that the Library staff were refusing to help her, and the Librarian had to go over and explain. CC told mom "Tough luck."

11points

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#32

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced I emailed a parent to say their child was currently passing, but could technically fail the class if the did poorly on their final project and final exam. In the ensuing parent/teacher conference, I was told I was trying to fail the student and ruin his football scholarship.

Edit: Forgot I had another student, same situation, different year. The parents wanted the principal to be present for the conference. So instead, all of the administration, the student's counselor and myself were present. The dad tried getting into a shouting match with my principal and he left crying because his little girl *might* fail.

Edit 2: I went to history school instead of English school.

Final score:

28points

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Tsdey 1 year ago

the pic is a bit funny... (Mrs. fail)

3points

#33

I didn’t answer a phone call from my parents in college and they called security at 7 am on a Saturday to knock on my dorm room to wake me up and call them.

Talked to all my high school teachers prior to the first day of school to get extra books so I didn’t have to carry anything home.

Wrote a hand written letter to me asking me not to go to my bf house during the week because the road was too dangerous. I was 23.

Wrote my high school papers for me

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Final score:

28points

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Steve Robert 1 year ago

Did she write this blurb too?

14points

#34

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced Preschool teacher here! A 4 year old would bully/tease/punch/pull other kid's hair and curse up a storm. He was so challenging to the point where a lot of focus was on him, and the other kids were following his lead and he took advantage of that hard. Nothing we said helped him change for the two years we had him. We gave him so many consequences and while we did reward good behavior, he rarely ever was... good.

Parents would completely baby him. They acted like he was innocent and his behavior was "cute" to them. They never took what we said seriously and think we exaggerate. He's going to Kindergarten now, so good riddance. ):

toocoo , Conall Report

Final score:

26points

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Annie 1973 1 year ago

Is he full of energy constantly and can't keep still and other kids disturb him? Try the running game I invented many years ago. Every 45 minutes all kids get to run themselves crazy for 15 minutes which is enough to get their energy burnt out for another 45 minutes. One boy would start getting fidgety after about 30 minutes and he was allowed to do jumping Jacks until the end of the 45 minutes and then run again. Grades went up, parents started doing it at home with their kids because it worked. Sadly the principal that gave permission for me to try it retired at the end of the school year and the new principal said it was stupid. I do it with my grandkids now and it still works great

1point

#35

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced When I was a student teacher I had a student when he was in 7th grade and he was an absolute horror. Far more then the regular obnoxiousness common with that age. I mean this kid didn’t give a f**k and acted like he was invincible. He was mean, rude and didn’t listen to anything anyone had to say. From what the other teachers told me, he lived with his grandmother who was Native American, and anytime anyone at the school tried to talk to her about the issues they were having with him, she pulled out the race card and said that they were targeting her grandson because they were Native American, and not because her grandson was in fact a little a*****e. She’d threaten to sue, and the school stopped bothering to call her. He knew he could get away with anything and there was nothing they could do. I’m curious whatever happened to him. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was in jail.

makeitwork1989 , Caleb Oquendo Report

Final score:

25points

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Shankshaw Redeemer 1 year ago

I'm sure he is in prison by now.

7points

#36

30 Folks Online Share The Wildest Cases Of "My Kid Can Do No Wrong" They've Ever Experienced The mom of a girl I went to college with had a fax line installed in her daughter’s dorm room and made her send all of her homework assignments and papers to her for edits and approval before turning anything in. The girl is now a journalist at a prominent newspaper. I’ve always wondered if her mom is still ghostwriting.

Arboretum7 , Pixabay Report

Final score:

25points

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Hphizzle 1 year ago

I don’t think this one is bad, as long as the mom was suggesting edits and corrections and not doing all the changes for her. Like: ‘Could you make this sentence clearer? This is a bit redundant, how can you fix it?’ This type of help could make her successful.

8points

#37

I’m not sure if this counts as helicopter parenting but I was working with 3-5 year olds in an ESL program and there was one 3 year old that I could see the monster inside growing. I asked to speak to his mom (first time I’ve ever had to do that for a 3 year old) and laid out what I saw happening in her son. I explained to her what would happen if she didn’t start setting boundaries for him at home and giving him more structure. She basically told me to f**k off because she had “read some books.” I had nearly a decade of young child learned experience at that point and an advanced degree but it didn’t matter when compared to her books.

Fast forward 2 1/2 years and many, many, many incidents/meetings later and mom was back in a meeting 8 months pregnant and bawling her eyes out because she was terrified of her son and how he’d react to a new baby at home. This is a kid who drew blood stabbing his “best friend” with a pencil because his friend reminded him of a rule. Not just that, the little monster had to get up from his table and walk a ways to get to the other kid to stab him. He finally got pulled from the program and I can only hope that mom finally pulled her head out of her a*s long enough to get him the help he so desperately needs.

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Final score:

24points

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Bluetoyou 1 year ago

We had parenting classes for such parents. Discipline with Love and Logic. It is a non physical violence discipline program. Worked wonders in class too.

3points

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#38

Not a teacher or anything but:

Back in middle school I had a friend who had anger management issues but we learned to adapt and he is still a pretty cool kid, but one day he had an outburst and he got super mad and started throwing wood chips at everyone and swearing like no tomorrow.

This was the first time he acted out so it was pretty big drama for a week or two and during that my best friend was totally pissed at him so I suggested her calling his parents and discussing with them.

Apparently the mom were saying stuff like "why would you just lie our faces like this!?" and "would you honestly believe _______ would do that?" (we were both there when it happened). But the one that still makes my blood boil to this day is was something along the lines of "if you keep lying to adults you're going to end up in prison" and I have never met _____'s mom before that but I just immediately DESPISED her afterwords.

Me and my friends were separately called to the guidance counselor and I learned that people have taken advantage of him and he has been bullied a lot and we all apologized and ______ admitted he didn't want his mom involved but she forced herself into the situation.

Still hate his mom tho

Final score:

19points

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Cassandra Sandoval 1 year ago

Wow all of this reminds of me of my best friend. She has turrets and is probably on the spectum. Super loud, didnt give a damn to the teachers, sent to the principal office once a week. She helped me out bc u i was a quiet and shy kid who got bullied. She also broke her toe at school and got a brain infection from a dead root in her mouth ( shes fine now!!) Anyways we're engaged now

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BlueEyesWhiteDragon 1 year ago (edited)

A lot of these are really sad and frustrating. I feel bad for the sincere educators, counselors, and childcare workers who have to deal with entitled parents and kids. But, I also want to say that sometimes (rarely) people in positions of power over children ARE biased, bullies, or engage in other malicious behaviors. I think we've all had less than exemplary teachers. In fact, I think there's a post on BP about bad teachers. It's important to listen to any child who says that things aren't right in the classroom and do your best to determine if there's any truth to the claim. Kids do lie. Kids do cry wolf. They do make things up, but on the flip side, abuse--big and small--happens, too.

16points

DeVille 1 year ago (edited)

I have nothing but respect for what teachers do. It's important to take your kid's version seriously and back them up, but do it respectfully and be prepared to learn they're not being that truthful, but if they are it's important to show them you care and want to deal with it. Teaching is like any profession, unfortunately there are always some bad apples. My mum knew I was being bullied, my Dr knew I was being bullied, but they couldn't figure out who it was, and I wouldn't share. It was in my last couple of months of class that my mum realised it was the teacher, not one of the kids, doing the the bullying. She tried talking to the principle about it, they shut her down and said if I had a problem I should move schools (with 2 months to go before I moved into highschool). I didn't, but at least I knew mum had my back. That teacher ended up physically abusing a student a few years later and was finally let go. We learned she had a long history of that behaviour. Mum dealt with everyone involved respectfully, but fortunately she knew me well enough to know there was genuinely something wrong (and I never told her, she figured it out herself when something clicked at a parent/ teacher night. It was only then I admitted what I'd been going through). I was lucky that my mum was so amazing.

3points

Mabelbabel 1 year ago

I used to help organise a work experience programme for high school students who were going to apply to medical school. Places were limited, so we took students recommended by their school. They spent 10 days in hospital, in clinics, talking to patients, going to see procedures and operations (with patient consent), joining in ward rounds etc. I had one student who was the rudest, most patronising, entitled little s**t I've ever met-he was supposed to spend a morning workshadowing another healthcare professional (nurse, midwife, physio, speech therapist etc) to get some idea about teamworking and interprofessional patient management. He never bothered turning up because that would be a waste of his time. He was openly dismissive of staff who weren't doctors, just awful really. I had to do a report for their school on every student once I'd collated all the feedback, and his was not good. His mother phoned the hospital a few days later and demanded I was sacked for ruining his career.

8points

Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

And these are just some of the reasons why getting the parents involved with a kid's education is not always a good idea.

7points

Tyranamar Seuss 1 year ago

I have a very difficult child. I get some of these parents. I could not get any help for my child until he was 4 y/o. Pediatrician basically told me he was normal. He was not. He was hitting kids, tantruming, biting, running around, etc. Teachers were calling me everyday. I get the desire to be like, Don't call me anymore! It is so disheartening to have a child with behavioral issues like this. Am I being too strict? too lenient? what can I do? Etc. etc. Fortunately I'm a psychiatrist and I knew something was wrong. So at 4 Y/o we were finally able to get him in and get him diagnosed. Therapists are with him 4 hours a day at school now. Behavior is not perfect, but much better. I think the best you can do with parents like this is educate. Also, it's really easy to look at a parent and be like, it's bc you're doing X that Junior is like this. But sometimes the parent is doing X bc Junior is like that.

4points

AndThenICommented 1 year ago

I commend you for seeing your child for who they are and providing the loving help they need.

1point

DonnerDinnerParty 1 year ago

I thought this was supposed to be a “My Child Can Do No Wrong” article, not a helicopter parenting one..?

2points

Bluetoyou 1 year ago

I taught Elementary. One that comes to mind was a blond girl at the beginning of the school year. I saw 700 kids a week, a new class ever 45 minutes. I had made alphabetical seating charts in advance. When it her turn to be seated she spoke in a load voice for all to hear that her parents would not allow her to stilt next to such a person. The guy across from her was Nigerian. A sweet well behaved intelligent boy. I was very proud how the class responded. They were jaw dropped surprised. I asked her to the hall and quickly explained the campus rules on racial behavior. Then I talked to the boy and said if she says or does anything harmful to you I will move her asap. Of course the mom called and wanted recommendations as to all white schools in the area. There weren't any. I suggested home schooling. She said as a white woman didn't I feel the same way? No sorry. I didn't. I explained our state standards on racial acceptance. She was pulled for homeschool by the end of the week.

2points

Rose the Cook 1 year ago

A new fellow foreign teacher at a Beijing private high school was conducting a P E class when one boy attacked another and left him unconscious. The teacher lost his job for calling an ambulance. The "correct" procedure it seems was to call the bully's parents who employed their own medic to deal with these apparently frequent incidents and then compensated the victims family. The ambulance being called resulted in the police attending and the bully being punished for the first time in his life.

2points

Confused Deer🦌 1 year ago

wow, humanity really sucks sometimes

2points

Kristi Wozniak 1 year ago

I am just sitting here with my jaw completely dropped. I'm so proud of all the teachers I have dealt with over the years. They take and take so much c**p- and to me are way underpaid! Just once- I would LOVE for a teacher to put a parent in their place - or a kid for that matter. I'd back them entirely! It must be so frustrating to not be able to just say what is needed. And to constantly have to choose their words carefully for fear of losing their job! Only once was I around when another parent at the school was playing the "not my kid" game- and I recall loudly stating- you're only hurting your own kid by pretending he isn't a menace to everyone here! Foul words were said- but later- both the teacher and aid thanked me privately. Something has to change!... but how??? And what??? Idk....

1point

Cathy Jo Baker 1 year ago

Teachers... we're damned if we do, and damned if we don't, especially public school teachers whose classrooms are full of everyone. We don't get to pick and choose, we get every type of student. I've been doing this for over 3 decades and I'm ready to be done.

1point

--- 1 year ago

I've been in private school and it wa spretry much the same thing. The school needed the money, they had to show good results, therefore lack of discipline and work were barely punished

1point

Lesbian Sloth 1 year ago

Some of these stories remind me of something that happened recently with a classmate... He was making racial comments to this other boy, who has dark skin. Got expelled, but his mother called the school and said "he didn't know what he was saying" and he's back... He 100% knew what everything he said meant

1point

Catherine Spencer-Mills 1 year ago

Once made the mistake of volunteering to help mentor an arts and crafts session during the summer. Kids were 6-12 yo and it was on a military installation during the late 70s-early 80s. Long ago, anyway. The 6yo loved it. The older kids were bored out of their minds. There was this one older boy who was cutting up and being a jerk generally. The leader of this sh*t show had one of those gym teacher whistles. I got tired of it read fast. Went over, got the kid, come with me. And drug him out of the room. That is enough, I will punish you if you don't stop being a jerk. "My dad is the CO and I will get your husband in trouble." "Try it and I will tell your dad why I spanked you like a little kid." Okay, not a good idea today, but I was really pissed with this kid and I was a volunteer, not a teacher. Kid did shut up and calm down. All I had to do was meet his eyes and point. Whistle lady asked what I did and I told her. Was not invited to monitor again. Didn't care.

0points

Kimberly Buchanan Fisanick 1 year ago

I feel for anyone that works with kids. They are so disrespectful and entitled thanks to parents. I don't understand how some think their kids are perfect. They wasn't perfect as kids (or now). When I was growing up, parents didn't believe their kids, but the teachers and babysitters. I've never had typical kids, they wasn't perfect, but they knew I didn't play. They had consequences. Their dad on the other hand, they had no respect for him or his family. I'm the same with my grandson.

0points

Nikole 1 year ago (edited)

I didn’t even want to read this article. My mom was a preschool teacher for 35 years… The amount of denial some parents have is awful and their children will continue to suffer because of it.

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Alex Martin 1 year ago

Taught high school seniors. Had a student who didn't do his work and was still coming down off his high when he got to school some days. Mom is a super sweet lady who volunteered at the school. I saw his dad on occasion helping out. Kid is failing, dad goes to see the counselor about it, counselor dad points him my direction. This man walks in to my room at the end of a class period without warning and angrily confronts me about his kid's grade. Other kids are in the room. I'll admit that I was afraid of this man. I was maybe 23 at the time and was not at all confrontational. Security heard him yelling and came in to the room. He eventually left. A few weeks later the sweet mom asks to talk to me and I had to let her know we'd need to do it in the office because I wasn't comfortable meeting in my classroom. She asked why. Because of your husband. Awkward moment.

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CP 1 year ago (edited)

Just remember that for everyone of these infuriating stories there are way more uninteresting stories of parents doing the right thing. That being said the political demonization of teachers by a certain party certainly makes things harder.

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Alex Martin 1 year ago

These situations leave scars. They make you afraid, less willing to try. They significantly decrease career satisfaction. Sometimes they end careers.

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BlueEyesWhiteDragon 1 year ago (edited)

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Mabelbabel 1 year ago

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Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

And these are just some of the reasons why getting the parents involved with a kid's education is not always a good idea.

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Tyranamar Seuss 1 year ago

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AndThenICommented 1 year ago

I commend you for seeing your child for who they are and providing the loving help they need.

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DonnerDinnerParty 1 year ago

I thought this was supposed to be a “My Child Can Do No Wrong” article, not a helicopter parenting one..?

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Bluetoyou 1 year ago

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Rose the Cook 1 year ago

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Confused Deer🦌 1 year ago

wow, humanity really sucks sometimes

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Kristi Wozniak 1 year ago

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Cathy Jo Baker 1 year ago

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I've been in private school and it wa spretry much the same thing. The school needed the money, they had to show good results, therefore lack of discipline and work were barely punished

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Lesbian Sloth 1 year ago

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Nikole 1 year ago (edited)

I didn’t even want to read this article. My mom was a preschool teacher for 35 years… The amount of denial some parents have is awful and their children will continue to suffer because of it.

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Alex Martin 1 year ago

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CP 1 year ago (edited)

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Alex Martin 1 year ago

These situations leave scars. They make you afraid, less willing to try. They significantly decrease career satisfaction. Sometimes they end careers.

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