Woman’s First Tattoo Turns Out To Be A Fail As She Accidentally Gets A Gross Meme Inked On Her
Interview With AuthorGetting a tattoo is a big commitment. Unless youâre prepared to go through the pain of regret, embarrassment, laser removal, or a second cover-up tattoo, itâs wise to think carefully before having anything inked on your skin. If you’re considering having foreign words tattooed on your body, we can’t stress enough how important it is to make sure you know exactly what they mean.
One woman learned the hard way, when she went for her first-ever tattoo. She’d chosen an inspirational quote, written in Arabic. Or so she thought. To her horror, she soon discovered the tattoo “translates into something awful”. The woman’s tattoo artist shared online how they agreed to do a cover-up for the client. But they’re conflicted about whether or not to charge, since the mistake wasn’t entirely their fault. Bored Panda reached out to the artist and asked them to share more details. We also spoke to psychotherapist Dr. Anna Mathur to see if she has any advice for the tattoo artist.
The client was excited to get inked for the first time ever, and figured she’d go with a popular design she’d found online
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What was supposed to be a work of body art turned into an embarrassing disaster, once the client found out what their tattoo really meant
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“I’m rotten”: artist reveals the real meaning of the tattoo
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Bored Panda wanted to know a bit more about the tattoo in question, so we asked the artist. “It was actually a meme from 2016 that went viral at that time on Tumblr, and people started getting it tattooed being clueless about its origin, just like us. The format is so Pinterest-like that I thought it was just another inspirational quote,” she said. Both the client and the artist believed it meant “appreciate life”.
Still curious about the “gross” and “awful” tattoo, we asked what the Arabic quote actually translates to. “The tattoo actually spelled ‘I’m rotten’. After further research I’ve sadly seen so many pics of people online with this tattooed on them as well,” the artist told Bored Panda.
The tattoo artist told us they’d made a final decision not to charge the client at all. “I considered the comments saying that I should only charge her for my supplies. But because of poor communication, I figured out that my offer unintentionally came across as free through text,” she said.
She explained that she’d offered to work on a cover-up for the client but had not mentioned a price soon enough afterwards. And felt it got too late to bring up the cost. The artist added that she also realized her role in the blunder. “I did not have her sign a waiver ensuring that I am not responsible for stuff like this, which was my mistake,” she said.
“Thereâs a difference between legal responsibility and a sense of ethical responsibility”: expert weighs in
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Anna Mathur is a psychotherapist and author. She kindly agreed to give us her take on the situation. We explained that the artist is dealing with feelings of guilt, and feels that they’re at fault. Bored Panda asked Mathur what advice she has for the artist.
“The tattooist is fairly new to the job and these learnings often come about through making mistakes or hearing stories where others have made certain mistakes. If a design is approved by the client, then itâs truly the clientâs responsibility to ensure theyâre confident with what theyâre asking for,” said the expert.
Mathur added that the tattooist should ask themselves whether they’ve done anything wrong when it comes to best practice. “Thereâs a difference between legal responsibility and a sense of ethical responsibility. The artist may agree to go half and half because she feels a sense of responsibility.”
“It truly is a grey area,” said Mathur. “Which is why it sparked such response. Everyone is viewing the scenario through their own lenses of understanding and morals. The âright thingâ to do is to act in a way that honours your values, and respects the other person, rather than acting on something because you feel you âshould’.”
“Sometimes we need to proactively choose to let go of guilt once things have been resolved,” advised Mathur. “We learn through our own mistakes and shortfalls, and that experience will only work to make her a more scrupulous tattooer.”
In a plot twist, the client decided to keep the tattoo after all, and here’s why…
The artist said she was ready for the appointment and had made peace with not charging. But two days before the client was due to come in, they texted saying they want to cancel. “Her reasoning was that the original tattoo is charming in its own way and that it is a valuable memory for her,” the artist told Bored Panda.
But it turns out that might not have been the real reason. “Later on, I found out from shared connections that she was actually not prepared for the pain that comes along with a tattoo once again, which is totally valid,” the artist revealed. “I will admit though, that I was kinda disappointed, since I drew four cover-up designs before she agreed to one of them which was time-consuming.”
“I still feel kinda bad that this girl has to walk around with that on her body and I have a feeling of helplessness that I couldn’t fix it. But she knows best about her body and I respect her decision,” she added. “I’m glad this did not stain my career and that we ended up on good terms because reputation is everything for a starting tattoo artist.”
The tattoo artist said a few misogynists showed up in some of the comments
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“Of course there was the usual misogyny that comes along with mentioning the ‘she’ or ‘her’. I should have used neutral pronouns,” said the artist. “There were comments that completely ignored the text, and were only talking about, and exaggerating the fact that this woman has made a poor decision. I don’t even have to explain why gender is not relevant at all here.” However, she said she wasn’t too surprised “because I, myself, am a woman.”
“What did surprise me, though, is how many people assumed I was a man!” she added. “It reminded me that even though the tattoo industry has grown a lot in inclusivity, some people still see it as a male-dominated field.”
The artist says the experience has left her scarred
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We asked how the experience has affected her personally. “I get war flashbacks every time someone hits me up with a tattoo request in a foreign language,” she said. “My friends who are tattoo artists as well found this event hilarious and had a good laugh about it, but I’ve always been more sensitive. So this marked me.”
The tattoo artist says she wishes she could have avoided the entire situation, but added that she’s learned some valuable lessons from the whole experience. “When you start to tattoo every day, you stop having that anxiety you used to get when you started. The crippling worrying of messing up someone’s body forever which made you extra extra careful with every single aspect. You start to miss out on things, like in this case double-checking a translation the client came in with,” she explained. “I think most of us start having that auto-pilot feeling after a while at our job. This woke me up and made me come back to the alertness I had in the beginning.”
She told Bored Panda that she’s made a few changes to how she runs her business. “I came up with waivers, with terms and conditions that every client since then has had to read and sign. This was mandatory but my mentor did not tell me apparently, and I had to find out on Reddit.”
The tattoo artist has this message for anyone wanting to get inked: “Please ‘reverse image search’ on Google, or use the Google lens on your reference pics before getting that on your body forever! Double-check everything. This is your one and only body, have some respect for it!”
Many netizens felt the tattoo artist was not to blame, and had some advice for how to avoid a similar situation in future
A few people felt both were in the wrong, and the artist had a responsibility to double-check the translation
Some people felt the tattoo artist and client could come to a reasonable compromise
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“I’m rotten” doesn’t seem that horrible to me. I was expecting it to mean something vulgar or shocking. Seems like much ado about nothing.
It is used as an insult not quite a slur in some Arabic dialects. But that is like having I am a bad b***h or something so yeh not that bad.
Load More Replies...I don’t think it’s the artist’s responsibility to vet the client’s design. That’s on them.
26 year tattooer here. Not your fault and not your responsibility to do your client’s homework. Here’s how to avoid this in the future: When I was cutting my teeth in the late 90’s-early 2000’s, Chinese writing was all the rage. I would always make it extremely clear to the client that I am not a translator so don’t get mad at me if your internet printout says badminton and not baseball(yes that happened once). Point is, these are adults and you’re not an Arabic translating device. This is not your fault and you don’t owe them a free coverup.
As a receiver of tattoos I always assumed that the onus was on me to ensure any design I approved was correct. I want a tattooist with skills relating to applying the artwork to my skin, their translation skills were never my concern, likewise their spelling acumen isn’t my problem, I work with them to create a design, I spellcheck it and sign off on the final version before it goes anywhere near my skin. It’s not difficult is it?
Load More Replies...I would keep it and ask for a tattoo with a picture of a rotten apple with a worm coming out of it bonus if the artist can make the worm look like Beetlejuice.
Don't think YTA but as a gesture of goodwill maybe a free cover up, which I would have thought would only take a few hours at most. You've lost a little in work time but gained a whole lot more in Brownie points. (Brownie Points =Credit for a good deed)
Coverups can be harder than the original tattoo, so it may not be profitable for the artist to do so. Maybe a % discount on the next one?
Load More Replies...NTA. It isn't your job to check the translation. Sincerely, someone with lots of tattoos.
I'm of this opinion. If you don't speak or understand the language you want to get the tattoo of, it's a very bad idea to get anything from said language that you don't understand tattooed on you. It's not the artist's fault for charging to cover up, especially as the artist is charging time, service, and material to tattoo you. It's not the artist's fault for getting the translation wrong. Just because I know some Spanish doesn't mean I'm going to get a Spanish phrase tattooed on me.
FYI: The guy selling portable heaters ... that's a scam website that only exists to steal your credit card info. They dont even sell heaters.
Chick's a complete dumba**. Getting a permanent making stenciled onto you body w/o double (or triple) checking. The tattoo artist has no responsibility. The chick deserves what she got!
Definitely NTA, and even thinking about offering the services to fix it is very generous. I think that if I were in this situation, I'd still charge for the cover-up (it is my time, skill and materials after all) but at a greatly reduced rate, say half off. That said, it's not the artist's responsibility to vet the client's request. They got exactly what they asked for, and that's not your fault.
She provided the picture you used to make the tattoo of. She should, definately, check beforehand. You, of course, aren't supposed to, but yet, could - and maybe should - check this every time. While clearly the customer's duty, it's not much work and can prevent embarrassing, or downright dangerous, situations. NTA, and talk with her about charging. While I see she should have checked, and hasn't, and therefore, is responsible, offering a discount or so wouldn't be something to regret. I'd do so, and happily greet her again for her second tattoo that, now, won't need to be covered anytime soon, as she learned her lesson, and you, maybe, too. A funny side note: I always laugh when I think of that dude who wanted "Asian Girl Lover" tattooed, and got "foreign pervert" instead ... well, instead, ... I'd assume it's more likely the latter is the more correct description.
Is it ok to say that I actually find Mr. Khan's comment really funny 😂
My artist wouldn't ever tattoo someone in a foreign language without checking that everyone knows the meaning. If it's Chinese then he asked the people in the medicine shop next door, or the Arab owners of the shop a few doors down (in a trade ofc, they always traded for this), or prove that the client knew the actual language in question. I have a couple of not my first language tats, and I had to demonstrate that I could write and understand the language before they would start.
Having a pretentious tattoo in a language you don't understand makes you an AH - especially if it's a language associated with people with appalling human rights records.
So is it woke to be racist now? Arabs are not a homogeneous blob
Load More Replies...I've seen Chinese people with English tattoos saying "pregnant", "wh*re", "b*tch", "sl*t", and much worse. This is hardly some "white girl problems" thing only.
Load More Replies...That artist was assaulting and mutilating their clients, that is horrible and I hope they got sued.
Load More Replies...If the client wants a tattoo, then the client is 100% liable for the meaning of it. The artist can't be responsible for any of the spelling, meaning or how it will be received. Just that the quality of the tattoo itself is good..
Load More Replies...Nonsense. The artist's responsibility is to do a good job of providing the customer with what they ask for, and that's exactly what happened here. It's no different than hiring a painter to paint a room blue, and then after they do a perfectly good job of painting the room the color you wanted you decide you'd prefer yellow. If they want to offer a discount for being a repeat customer that wants a new and separate job (because that's exactly what it would be) that's a nice gesture, but there's zero obligation and the reputation you can build by doing it for free is that the customer gets to change their mind after the work is done.
Load More Replies...You just insult a huge part of the world for something a few deranged individuals did on 9.11? Did you know that you use Arabic even in your post? Better start using Roman numerals from now on.
Load More Replies...“I’m rotten” doesn’t seem that horrible to me. I was expecting it to mean something vulgar or shocking. Seems like much ado about nothing.
It is used as an insult not quite a slur in some Arabic dialects. But that is like having I am a bad b***h or something so yeh not that bad.
Load More Replies...I don’t think it’s the artist’s responsibility to vet the client’s design. That’s on them.
26 year tattooer here. Not your fault and not your responsibility to do your client’s homework. Here’s how to avoid this in the future: When I was cutting my teeth in the late 90’s-early 2000’s, Chinese writing was all the rage. I would always make it extremely clear to the client that I am not a translator so don’t get mad at me if your internet printout says badminton and not baseball(yes that happened once). Point is, these are adults and you’re not an Arabic translating device. This is not your fault and you don’t owe them a free coverup.
As a receiver of tattoos I always assumed that the onus was on me to ensure any design I approved was correct. I want a tattooist with skills relating to applying the artwork to my skin, their translation skills were never my concern, likewise their spelling acumen isn’t my problem, I work with them to create a design, I spellcheck it and sign off on the final version before it goes anywhere near my skin. It’s not difficult is it?
Load More Replies...I would keep it and ask for a tattoo with a picture of a rotten apple with a worm coming out of it bonus if the artist can make the worm look like Beetlejuice.
Don't think YTA but as a gesture of goodwill maybe a free cover up, which I would have thought would only take a few hours at most. You've lost a little in work time but gained a whole lot more in Brownie points. (Brownie Points =Credit for a good deed)
Coverups can be harder than the original tattoo, so it may not be profitable for the artist to do so. Maybe a % discount on the next one?
Load More Replies...NTA. It isn't your job to check the translation. Sincerely, someone with lots of tattoos.
I'm of this opinion. If you don't speak or understand the language you want to get the tattoo of, it's a very bad idea to get anything from said language that you don't understand tattooed on you. It's not the artist's fault for charging to cover up, especially as the artist is charging time, service, and material to tattoo you. It's not the artist's fault for getting the translation wrong. Just because I know some Spanish doesn't mean I'm going to get a Spanish phrase tattooed on me.
FYI: The guy selling portable heaters ... that's a scam website that only exists to steal your credit card info. They dont even sell heaters.
Chick's a complete dumba**. Getting a permanent making stenciled onto you body w/o double (or triple) checking. The tattoo artist has no responsibility. The chick deserves what she got!
Definitely NTA, and even thinking about offering the services to fix it is very generous. I think that if I were in this situation, I'd still charge for the cover-up (it is my time, skill and materials after all) but at a greatly reduced rate, say half off. That said, it's not the artist's responsibility to vet the client's request. They got exactly what they asked for, and that's not your fault.
She provided the picture you used to make the tattoo of. She should, definately, check beforehand. You, of course, aren't supposed to, but yet, could - and maybe should - check this every time. While clearly the customer's duty, it's not much work and can prevent embarrassing, or downright dangerous, situations. NTA, and talk with her about charging. While I see she should have checked, and hasn't, and therefore, is responsible, offering a discount or so wouldn't be something to regret. I'd do so, and happily greet her again for her second tattoo that, now, won't need to be covered anytime soon, as she learned her lesson, and you, maybe, too. A funny side note: I always laugh when I think of that dude who wanted "Asian Girl Lover" tattooed, and got "foreign pervert" instead ... well, instead, ... I'd assume it's more likely the latter is the more correct description.
Is it ok to say that I actually find Mr. Khan's comment really funny 😂
My artist wouldn't ever tattoo someone in a foreign language without checking that everyone knows the meaning. If it's Chinese then he asked the people in the medicine shop next door, or the Arab owners of the shop a few doors down (in a trade ofc, they always traded for this), or prove that the client knew the actual language in question. I have a couple of not my first language tats, and I had to demonstrate that I could write and understand the language before they would start.
Having a pretentious tattoo in a language you don't understand makes you an AH - especially if it's a language associated with people with appalling human rights records.
So is it woke to be racist now? Arabs are not a homogeneous blob
Load More Replies...I've seen Chinese people with English tattoos saying "pregnant", "wh*re", "b*tch", "sl*t", and much worse. This is hardly some "white girl problems" thing only.
Load More Replies...That artist was assaulting and mutilating their clients, that is horrible and I hope they got sued.
Load More Replies...If the client wants a tattoo, then the client is 100% liable for the meaning of it. The artist can't be responsible for any of the spelling, meaning or how it will be received. Just that the quality of the tattoo itself is good..
Load More Replies...Nonsense. The artist's responsibility is to do a good job of providing the customer with what they ask for, and that's exactly what happened here. It's no different than hiring a painter to paint a room blue, and then after they do a perfectly good job of painting the room the color you wanted you decide you'd prefer yellow. If they want to offer a discount for being a repeat customer that wants a new and separate job (because that's exactly what it would be) that's a nice gesture, but there's zero obligation and the reputation you can build by doing it for free is that the customer gets to change their mind after the work is done.
Load More Replies...You just insult a huge part of the world for something a few deranged individuals did on 9.11? Did you know that you use Arabic even in your post? Better start using Roman numerals from now on.
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