As a man, I agree with everything the lady has done. It's not like she sold every game and console in the household (that means war, believe me and a divorce but ar comes before). Like my mother alaways says : you do it right or you don't do it. It's better to hire a housecleaner than cleaning twice.

The kind of s**t her husband is pulling is exactly why I picked up my son and walked out the door on my ex and never went back. He better shape up or she's going to ship out!!

Why is this a theme? A woman spends nearly a year creating a whole new human inside her body, she further wrecks her body delivering tbe child, she goes back to work full time immediately, she takes care of the baby, she maintains the house....but her husband is always "too tired" to pitch in with any effort? It's not just this single story. We've read many other and I've heard this same narrative from the majorty of my female coworkers that have kids. Wtf, men?!

Another married single mother

He's definitely tAH because he should be helping more. Yes, when baby's not sleeping through the night, it can zombify you. Been there, done that. It's natural during the juggle to drop a ball now and then, but it seems like he's just dropping a few too many. I don't think she's WRONG to cancel the subscription services, even if it's not to pay for help. However, I think adult thing would be to tell him she's going to do it. It's a marriage, not a contest. Yes, she communicated her feelings, and communicated that he needs to do more. I'd still recommend she communicate openly that she's thinking of canceling the subscriptions and then follow through. Much as she says "Of course the reason was to hire help!" C'mon. Be honest. She cancelled it because he was being an AH.

Oh, my God. It's terrible to cut a grown man off from his daily life-saving relaxation-time. Helping his wife with their child for an hour is so much exhausting that he just needs this little meditation with the streaming services, Playstation Plus and theme park passes to keep his mental strength up. And, and this evil wife is unwilling to work 24 hours a day just to help her lord-at-home. It's a shame.

Men can have post-partum depression too! (I think it has another name though)

So he tried some good old-fashioned weaponized incompetence, fully expecting the wife to give up & do everything by herself. Then something didn't go according to plan, the consequences of his actions boomerang-ed right back into his own face, and Pikachu got shocked. Awww...!

So if one poster said he works outside the home to provide, don't you think is sahm work during that time too with the child. That poster (commenter) is full on AH. You're NOT the Ah. And him putting your bf tubes down the disposal was intentionally 100% on his part. Hand, tubes pushing into the disposal? He's the AH there or maybe jealous of the baby?

I'd bet the hubby is too tired BECAUSE he's playing games and watching netflix until 1 am in the morning.

More man-children in the YTAs

I think this couple has problems that need a marriage counselor. He's basically revealed that he's a "baby man" that can't be trusted as a full partner. I'm not sure taking away his toys will solve the problem of his immaturity and selfishness. I would be thinking about my future with someone I couldn't count on and maybe having to consider a plan b there.

YTA. Having a baby with a man. #RadFem

Sounds to me like she sucks at communicating as much as he does and neither is actually getting their needs met. She just went off on her own and made a whole bunch of choices for their lives without him.. sounds like a real AH move. Also sounds like she has little respect for him honestly, her victim complex is insane. Claiming its weaponized incompetence is just disgusting when it sounds even from her incredibly bias story they are bith burnt out. Go ahead and downvote me, this comment section on this post is toxic af.. lots of unhinged hate going on. I hope none of those people are ever in charge of a child or inflicting their hate on a spouse.

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They are both exhausted and probably not functioning at their proper best capacity. It seems like the OP is more focused on punishing her husband than taking care of the baby or working on a positive partnership. She sounds like a bully and a narcissist, and will likely become flat out abusive over time. I know subscriptions are no big deal, but the fact that she made a decision to remove something her husband enjoys without even talking to him speaks to her controlling and demanding nature, I hope that the husband and daughter will be able to escape her toxic clutches before she ruins their lives.