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“I Saw The Cop Arrive”: Service Guy Wants To Play It Safe After 4YO Kid Answers The Door
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“I Saw The Cop Arrive”: Service Guy Wants To Play It Safe After 4YO Kid Answers The Door

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When my 10YO twin daughters recently watched the ‘Home Alone’ movie for the first time, they were genuinely surprised – why didn’t Kevin just text his parents in a messenger that they forgot him? Yes, it’s hard for modern kids to get a movie that’s almost forty years old, but that’s not the point now.

Remember how the policeman who was called to check the house didn’t show excessive zeal in searching for the boy? And the story we’re going to tell you today is somewhat similar to that one. Here, too, there’s a technician, a kid answering the door – but here the service guy decided to play safe just in case.

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The author of the post is a technician and they once came to one of their clients’ house on work purposes

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The person who answered the door was a 4 or 5 year-old boy in a soiled diaper and he told there were no adults at home

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The author got worried about this situation so they tried to get in touch with the client himself – but to no avail

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The homeowner also didn’t have any additional ways to reach out so the author called to Children Protect Service, and then reported the case to police

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After the policeman arrived the author left for another houses on their route but then got an angry call from that very client

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The livid dad claimed it was none of the technician’s business, but the author decided to seek advice online, just in case

So, the Original Poster (OP) tells us that they work on checking houses for termites, and this time they came to another house on their schedule. The door was opened by a little boy who looked like he was about four or five years old, and in a soiled diaper.

When the author asked if there were any adults at home, the kid said that no one was home and that his dad was at work. After that, he closed the door. Many people in the OP’s place would have simply gotten to work – especially since the specifics of their job didn’t involve being inside the house. But something in the author’s soul was uneasy.

They tried to call the client, but he didn’t answer. They contacted the homeowner, but they also had no alternative ways to get in touch with this tenant. After thinking about it, they decided to call Children Protect Service and report this situation, about a child possibly left at home alone. There, in turn, they said to report to the police.

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So the author did, and only when they saw a cop driving up to the house, did they go to the next house on their route. At least, as they thought, now the policeman would definitely make sure that everything was okay with the kid. However, they were not destined to work peacefully that day…

After some time, the OP received a wrathful call from the same tenant, the boy’s dad, and got pounced with accusations and even insults. The angry parent said that he had been at home the whole time, and that all this was actually none of the author’s business. In turn, the OP decided to ask the netizens’ opinions just in case.

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Well, if we look at the regulations, different states allow different ages for leaving a child home alone. The lowest limit is in Kansas and it’s 6 years old. But, for example, in Illinois this limit is 14 years. However, 37 states still do not set specific limits, leaving it to the common sense of parents.

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However, most states have their own guidlines on this matter, and there’s no doubt that a toddler in a diaper is not the case when you can leave a kid home alone. “At approximately 10 years old, a child who is responsible may be left for 30 minutes, but no longer than one hour,” Children’s Trust of South Carolina website quotes Deborah Greenhouse, MD. So you can now understand the original poster’s concern.

People in the comments to the post also mostly stood up for them, claiming that they were in no way overreacting here. “A 4-5 year old kid shouldn’t be answering by the door PERIOD. Red flags from the jump. You did the right thing!” one of the responders categorically stated.

As for the parent’s behavior in this situation, according to people, he simply tried to shift his undoubted guilt onto the technician, compensating for this feeling with pure aggression. “You did the right thing. A 5 year old running around in a full diaper is still strange,” another commenter summed up. And what do you, our dear readers, think about this tale? Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.

People in the comments however, mostly sided with the author, praising them for being watchful here

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Oleg Tarasenko

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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Denis Krotovas

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I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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Tabitha
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 4-5 year old still in a diaper, and a dirty one at that? Poor thing must’ve been hurting from the diaper rash. Their stool is hard by that age, making a diaper really uncomfortable. Hell, by the time I was that age, if I was up before everyone else, I was going to the toilet and doing all the necessaries there all by myself, then brushing my teeth and hair, washing my face, getting dressed, and going downstairs to get myself a bowl of cereal and a glass of milk for breakfast—-and I had two parents and four older brothers in the house all still asleep upstairs. The presence of a dirty diaper on an apparently in-potty trained kid that age alone—-a kid of an age where they should’ve been in preschool or kindergarten if this didn’t take place in summertime—-would have me either looking for the parent(s) in the house. If I did find any, I would’ve ripped them a new one for neglecting their child, and telling them next time I will call the police and CPS. If I didn’t find any parent(s) on site, I would immediately jump to calling 911 and CPS.

DC
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Could be a medical condition ... but, this doesn't sound so, it sounds like neglect. Neglect in potty training, neglect in dealing with the skipping of the former, and both alone qualify as enough of ässholery to have authorities involved that slap the parents' wrists.

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H. B. Nielsen
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who are the people giving OP a hard time for this??? Seriously? If he had just walked away and did nothing that would have been terrible. Huge chance that kid was telling the truth and no one else was home. Dirty diaper on a 4-5yo (wtf) alone is an issue.

Sarah Ellison
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The child was in a SOILED. DIAPER. I would also assume there were no parents home, or that the child is neglected. If I were working from home and my child was home too, they'd be in the same room as me at all times to be on top of if they need help

Deborah B
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the parent was WFH and actively ignoring the child. Sad. Being the scary stranger banging on the door when a kid is possibly home alone is not something the guy wanted to do? Okay, I take his point, I would have rung again, but I get it. If a child is that young is being left alone all day, or you have good reason to think they are, then sadly calling CPS and police is necessary. I get that there's a fear that it will make things worse for a struggling parent, but the imediate safety of the child has to be the primary concern. Dude did the right thing.

Rachel Hendricks
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definitely NTA, he did what any decent person would have done. He was thinking of the child's safety, and maybe the kid is tall for his age, but still a dirty diaper is cause for concern, even if the father was in the bathroom, he wasn't paying attention to the kid's needs soon enough.

Your Mom
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love when people get upset because of such things. And if you didn't call the police, and the child were alone, and something happened to them, you would be the bad person because you did nothing. Doorbell rang, toddler answered, parent did nothing - absolutely the parent is responsible for this event. Any decent person should have call the police. OP's first reaction was calling the owner. Maybe the owner should have given the number of the tennant. But I think that no sane person would just leave the kid when kid seems to be alone.

Ephemera Image
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And he called CPS and they just told him to call the cops...? A small kid with a full diaper, doesn't know dad is home - how is that not a reason for them to investigate? That sounds like neglect at the very least.

Sara Harvilla
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once stopped to tell a country neighbor their horse was out of the fence. It was very inconvenient; I had my kids in the car, it was early morning, and I was late for work, but I did it anyway. Hitting a horse can result in multiple injuries for the passengers and the horse may have to be euthanized. I rang the doorbell several times and finally, a boy about 8 years old came to the door in his underwear. I told him about the problem, and he just said okay and slammed the door in my face. Nice! What parent doesn't get up and answer the door early in the morning? Just send the little boy in his skivvies.

P.L. Packer
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, because dad was glued to his gaming console or asleep when he's supposed to be watching the kid it makes OP an a*s for calling the cops? As a mandated reporter I would have been on the phone as soon as the kid said the parents were at work.

Tabitha
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A 4-5 year old still in a diaper, and a dirty one at that? Poor thing must’ve been hurting from the diaper rash. Their stool is hard by that age, making a diaper really uncomfortable. Hell, by the time I was that age, if I was up before everyone else, I was going to the toilet and doing all the necessaries there all by myself, then brushing my teeth and hair, washing my face, getting dressed, and going downstairs to get myself a bowl of cereal and a glass of milk for breakfast—-and I had two parents and four older brothers in the house all still asleep upstairs. The presence of a dirty diaper on an apparently in-potty trained kid that age alone—-a kid of an age where they should’ve been in preschool or kindergarten if this didn’t take place in summertime—-would have me either looking for the parent(s) in the house. If I did find any, I would’ve ripped them a new one for neglecting their child, and telling them next time I will call the police and CPS. If I didn’t find any parent(s) on site, I would immediately jump to calling 911 and CPS.

DC
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Could be a medical condition ... but, this doesn't sound so, it sounds like neglect. Neglect in potty training, neglect in dealing with the skipping of the former, and both alone qualify as enough of ässholery to have authorities involved that slap the parents' wrists.

Load More Replies...
H. B. Nielsen
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who are the people giving OP a hard time for this??? Seriously? If he had just walked away and did nothing that would have been terrible. Huge chance that kid was telling the truth and no one else was home. Dirty diaper on a 4-5yo (wtf) alone is an issue.

Sarah Ellison
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The child was in a SOILED. DIAPER. I would also assume there were no parents home, or that the child is neglected. If I were working from home and my child was home too, they'd be in the same room as me at all times to be on top of if they need help

Deborah B
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like the parent was WFH and actively ignoring the child. Sad. Being the scary stranger banging on the door when a kid is possibly home alone is not something the guy wanted to do? Okay, I take his point, I would have rung again, but I get it. If a child is that young is being left alone all day, or you have good reason to think they are, then sadly calling CPS and police is necessary. I get that there's a fear that it will make things worse for a struggling parent, but the imediate safety of the child has to be the primary concern. Dude did the right thing.

Rachel Hendricks
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definitely NTA, he did what any decent person would have done. He was thinking of the child's safety, and maybe the kid is tall for his age, but still a dirty diaper is cause for concern, even if the father was in the bathroom, he wasn't paying attention to the kid's needs soon enough.

Your Mom
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love when people get upset because of such things. And if you didn't call the police, and the child were alone, and something happened to them, you would be the bad person because you did nothing. Doorbell rang, toddler answered, parent did nothing - absolutely the parent is responsible for this event. Any decent person should have call the police. OP's first reaction was calling the owner. Maybe the owner should have given the number of the tennant. But I think that no sane person would just leave the kid when kid seems to be alone.

Ephemera Image
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And he called CPS and they just told him to call the cops...? A small kid with a full diaper, doesn't know dad is home - how is that not a reason for them to investigate? That sounds like neglect at the very least.

Sara Harvilla
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once stopped to tell a country neighbor their horse was out of the fence. It was very inconvenient; I had my kids in the car, it was early morning, and I was late for work, but I did it anyway. Hitting a horse can result in multiple injuries for the passengers and the horse may have to be euthanized. I rang the doorbell several times and finally, a boy about 8 years old came to the door in his underwear. I told him about the problem, and he just said okay and slammed the door in my face. Nice! What parent doesn't get up and answer the door early in the morning? Just send the little boy in his skivvies.

P.L. Packer
Community Member
1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, because dad was glued to his gaming console or asleep when he's supposed to be watching the kid it makes OP an a*s for calling the cops? As a mandated reporter I would have been on the phone as soon as the kid said the parents were at work.

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