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These Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No Limits
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These Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No Limits

People Share Weirdest Things They Got Emotionally Attached ToPeople Of Tumblr Share Stories About Feelings For Broken Objects, And You'll Probably RelateThese Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No LimitsPeople Share How They Felt Empathy For Broken Things, And Who Knew An Ugly-Looking Lime Can Make You CryWeirdly Wholesome Stories By People Who Feel Empathy For Broken ThingsTumblr Users Share Stories How They Bonded With Broken Things And It's The Sweetest Thing You'll Read TodayTumblr Users Share Stories How They Bonded With Damaged Things And It's Heart-MeltingThese Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No LimitsThese Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No LimitsThese Stories About Broken Things Prove That Human Empathy Has No Limits
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One could easily argue that empathy is our, as human kind’s, defining characteristic. Although studies show that certain other species posses this feature, empathy in humans is, perhaps, the easiest to recognize. And it’s no wonder that we understand and relate to each other, with vast majority understanding not only a fellow human’s, but also a puppy’s or baby elephant’s misery. However, we rarely think of how we actually relate to and perceive suffering in inanimate objects. It’s, perhaps, most apparent in the way children treat their dolls and plush toys, but it also extends to other items. People of Tumblr shared some stories of how they treat broken things and it’s absolutely fascinating as well as… relatable? Scroll down to read what they had to say and tell us what you think! (Facebook cover image: Daniel Morrison)

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Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

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As a writer and image editor for Bored Panda, Giedrė crafts posts on many different topics to push them to their potential. She's also glad that her Bachelor’s degree in English Philology didn’t go to waste (although collecting dust in the attic could also be considered an achievement of aesthetic value!) Giedrė is an avid fan of cats, photography, and mysteries, and a keen observer of the Internet culture which is what she is most excited to write about. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats).

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Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

Author, Community member

As a writer and image editor for Bored Panda, Giedrė crafts posts on many different topics to push them to their potential. She's also glad that her Bachelor’s degree in English Philology didn’t go to waste (although collecting dust in the attic could also be considered an achievement of aesthetic value!) Giedrė is an avid fan of cats, photography, and mysteries, and a keen observer of the Internet culture which is what she is most excited to write about. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats).

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Kiss Army
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I normally adhere to "adopt, don't shop" but once my husband and I were in a pet store around Easter getting supplies for our pets and they had bunnies for sale and one of them was missing half his ear. I thought for sure no one would get him because they wanted perfect "Easter" bunnies, so we bought him. His name was Booboo and he was awesome!!

Naomi Armitage
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Something must have happened to me as a kid, because to this day (I'm almost 50), the sight of a balloon flying away breaks my heart. Maybe it's the idea of something you liked (loved?) that's going away and you can never get it back. I can't deal.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a balloon phopia - cant bear touching them in case they pop . All originated from a childrens party game where we had to race to a chair and sit on the balloon to pop it. Really hurts on bare legs

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Melissa Nunya
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to house sit for a lady who bought all the dying scraggly plants that were marked way down at the nursery :) she saved most of them

K. LNU
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the "sale" plants at the garden stores. Almost all my flowers and small bushes were those poor things left on the shelves. (Strangely, they seem to last longer, grow bigger than those that were not on sale.)

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Bored Fox
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a teenager I bought from a flea market a really ugly decorative pillow cover that probably some child had made. The picture was a very poorly made embroidery of a strange looking animal. I thought that probably no one else wants to buy it so I bought it. Sadly my mom thought that pillow cover was too ugly so she threw it away couple of years after that. :(

PyroarRanger
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so true... I can't give away certain things because they remind me of things.. I can't give away certain things because it makes me sad.

Melody Shanahan-Kluth
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I buy the broken and odd looking cacti when I go to garden centres, so I can take them home and look after tham

Dian Ella Lillie
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a very close middle-aged male relative (whom I won't identify to protect the last vestiges of his dignity!) who, if he's at work and finds a pebble from his driveway caught in his shoe, will carefully put it in his pocket and take it back home at the end of the day so that it can be with its friends...

Aish Siva
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow I thought I was alone in this world on this. My parents are from a culture where black is typically considered not a good color. We don't even wear it to mourn. Anyway, having heard this and seeing that no kid at school ever wanted the black thing, I made black my favorite color because I felt really bad that no one liked it. I wanted black to be loved like all the other colors.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have my dad's tiny little hobnailed wooden soled shoes from when he was age 2 in 1929 - would not part with them for the world - with photos of him wearing them

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Alusair Alustriel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to have a ton of stuffed animal toys like bears, cows, dinosaurs, you name it. I know until this day where each and one of them came from. Since I needed some space in my tiny room, I took them all into basement where they lie sleeping. Can't force myself to throw them away. It's been 10 years now.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's OK, they're asleep, awaiting the time when you'll have more space. They're having sweet dreams.

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mel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sometimes i feel attached to stuff toys in stores. i would pick one of them up and cuddle them until it was time to leave the store. My heart always breaks to leave them and i hope someone would buy them and treat them well :)

Littoface
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! My 5 yo's my voice of reason. "Mommy, put down the unicorn. We don't need another stuffed toy." "But-!" "Put it down."

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BusLady
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is anyone else thinking of Wilson in the movie Cast Away?

Bob Beltcher
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have a stuffed hippo for the past 8 years. She has her own personality and her name is Olivia the Hippo. She has a Ph.D in economics and preaches how an increase in wages increase the amount of pizza we can buy which increases happiness. But hippos are vegetarians so we have to make one side veggie lovers. If we go out for pizza she'll know because she smells our breath. Also, when we're gone for the weekend she not allowed to use our credit card and throw biker parties. Yes, this is just a stuffed purple hippo.

Linouchka 99
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HA ! We have a whole tribe of stuffed pets, each having their name and their own personnality making all kinds of shenanigans when we're not home... They're adorable and witty and we are really concerned about what will happen to them once we're gone for good... :-/

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Loveyiii
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I went into a local pet store for guinea pig food and saw a poor rat in a tank labeled "Feeder Tank" . She had a large open wound on her back. I went t the desk and said I want to purchase the black and white hooded rat with wound. The worker said he felt so bad for her but the owner had said ... she is just a feeder rat so leave her in there. We needed a few supplies for her the pet shop employee did not charge us for anything and thanked us for taking her in. I was always nervous about rats(it was the tails that got to me) but after we adopted this rat my views changed. We named her Rachel, she ended up being very pregnant and had five babies. We were very lucky that they were all females. They were very smart and family oriented , they only messed in one corner of the cage and played with toys and each other. We had them all until each one passed.

Siddharth Rath
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Okay Bored Panda, I get. I reckon girls are awesome. You don't have to prove that to me all the time." Well, jokes apart, Bored Panda, and the internet as a whole, has really changed my outlook towards women amidst this cruel sexist world. Now I think of girls in a very different way. I respect them more than ever. I have learnt how to behave with them. All thanks to the internet. No, not every girl's favorite color is pink and yes, girls are funny. *unrelated but true*

Jef Bateman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My neighbor gave me two mosquito larvae not knowing what they were. I named them Wriggly and Squiggly. Wriggly died, but Squiggly nearly made it to mosquito stage. I kept it in a jar until my dad figured out what it was. I had to pour my own pet down the drain.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have the cardigan my mum was wearing when she died. She wore it all of her last weeks. I keep it sealed in a plastic bag and occasionally open it and can swear I can still smell my mum. Even though I know after 7 years it is unlikely - but it soothes me

Magpie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I drop my books I always apologize and cuddle them for a while.

mark
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the Japanese have a concept called wabi-sabi. Beauty through imperfection

Master Markus
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only do this with living things. I don't understand caring about the other stuff like ... mistreated coffee makers or whatever. I'd probably have feelings like this towards a complicated AI, but not a relatively simple mechanism.

Unlikely
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the Phoebes in the world united.. xD #FriendsReference What a wholesome post ♥

Ellis Toscano
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always thought that I was the only one who thought this way. Never really mentioned it to anyone. Guess on some level I thought it was nuts. Glad I am just super empathetic.

Wiggity
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a tiny cemetery near my house (9 graves) that no one was taking care of so my wife and I mow, trim and rake it on the days we do our own yard work and twice a year I power wash the head stones. It took a bleach solution a several hours the first time around on the stones but now just plain old water keeps them looking up to snuff. I have a buddy who is part of a group that travels the state doing this on family plots and cemeteries with up to 40-50 graves based on requests from concerned citizens. People shouldn't be neglected just because their time was up.

Tracy Sellars
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a bit of a rough year and as a result I have ended up with my Granddads 20 year old car. And to be honest I could not be happier. Alfie, yes I have named him, has dents and scratches, a cassette deck radio and no air conditioning. But I love him so much, driving him makes me so happy. I am looking forward to all the adventures we are are going to have together.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of our cars have had names, since my Mom had her first one. My current is named Inès...

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Mae
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People feel empathy towards inanimate objects but kill and torture sentient beings every day...

Dorothy Parker
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once bought a kiwi. Ordinary kiwi. My then grade school aged daughter adopted it, took it away, protected it. Was sad when it "died." I had to admit to her I had done that with a watermelon when I was about her age, and no, she had had no way of knowing that.

sakora
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm emotionally attached to weird thing... well nobody is perfect, and that makes us fun and creeps. Makes us feel something thaits moving us forward. A good feeling.

_screamingnerd_
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At one point in high school, my friends and I liked to go to the park at sunset and just chat. We always passed a little shop with only a few things sold in it; Tiny hand-made crocheted cats and bunnies. My friend was obsessed with bunnies, so we decided to get one for her. She is 29 now, and turned it into a necklace. She wears it everywhere.

Dog Lover
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am attached to a lot of my things. I have over 200+ stuffed dog teddies and I have one in particular called Toby. He goes everywhere with me. People who know me, know that I travel with Toby. He has been on holiday with me and he goes to the office everyday with me. On the odd occasion, I forget him at work, I think about him and how he would be thinking 'how could she have forgotten me?' When I arrive at work the next morning, I apologise to him for forgetting him and give him a big cuddle and a kiss.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only get them from charity shops - someone cared enough not to throw them away

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have an extreme attachment to my stuffed animals. I feel guilty when I have to move them off my bed. I'd like to be buried holding my very favorite one, so that we'd be together until the sun burns out.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have quite alot of Gunds - and a Large Russ Timber - will never part

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Kilo Gee
Community Member
4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was just in my local garden shop and walked down the leftover vegetable plant aisle. I felt so bad for all the plants that didnt get adopted that I bought as many as I could, then asked how they treat all the ones left, and had them show me what happens to them so I would be ok leaving the rest of them there.

M O'Connell
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I often buy things in roughed-up packaging because they may seem less appealing to most people (even though they're completely fine). I also bought and ate dill-pickle flavor potato chips because a clerk was loading up a cart of them to throw out because their 'best-by' date was the next day.

Jovy Jergens
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are all wonderful humans and if the world were full of folks like you, there would be no suffering and it would be a paradise!

Valerie Lessard
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

have empathy for your fellow human beings and stop being ridiculous, idiots.

Jace
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That Xmas tree still died stupidly for some human cult ritual.

Debbie
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bumpy lime!!! I actually started sniffling... :'-/ love what this post says about people

Ann Abdelzaher
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom Loved Porcelain dolls and since she was blind she always had to feel the faces of the dolls before she bought them. Her favorites were the ones that were slightly imperfect.

Quitterie Ruokonen
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Objets inanimés, avez-vous donc une âme, qui s'attache à notre âme et la force d'aimer?" Alphonse de Lamartine

Anna Repp
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I mistype something (and spellcheck has no idea what I was trying to say), I don't just delete the word and retype it, I go letter by letter, correcting it, trying to keep the letters that are supposed to be there and only delete the ones that aren't. Because I feel bad for the little "a" or "q" that were trying to do their job and I messed up and now they must be deleted out of existence to be replaced by another letter "a" or "q". I feel so bad for those lonely warriors, I try to save them!

Connie Martin
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this! I almost always buy the bruised/asymmetrical fruit and veg 'cause I'm going to cut it up anyway. I hate waste. Also I love oddballs.

Akorede Bamidele
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This post is making me feel bad because I can't buy anything that has an imperfection. I get stuck staring at theat imperfection wishing I had bought a more perfect one.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i pull tiny unnoticeable pieces off tomato plants to root in with my Basil. A tiny tomato plant leaf cutting will make the Basil plant thrive 200% - tomato and basil just complement each other

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Carroll Cadden
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found a dirty "Chris Chick" (a stuffed chicken) abandoned at the checkout line at a WalMart and bought Chris out of pity for his having been tossed aside unwanted! Chris is still living his best life at home. :-D

Little Menace
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I make tea, I hate taking out three teabags instead of two and separate one of them, because deep down I don't want to separate a great love or friendship. I know intellectually that it is utter rubbish but I still think that every time.

Full Name
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS ARTI(sorry, caps lock)cle is like a warm internet hug.

madeline tansey bryson
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you. I seriously thought it was just me!!! This is the first time I have heard of anybody else doing this!!! OMG thank you. I feel so much better. I have done all of these.

Beth
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a literal wall full of stuffed animals and I would take turns with every single one to sleep with at night cause I didn't their feelings to be hurt! Still sleep with my stuffed Tramp that my fiance got for me! I'm trying to convince him to get Lady so he wouldn't be lonely!

Denyse
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am always sad when I upgrade to a new smartphone. I think my phones feel they let me down. So I never trade them in, sell them or toss them out. They all hang out together in the same spot so they aren't lonely.

Anouk
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ring the bells that still can ring / Forget your perfect offering / There is a crack in everything / That's how the light gets in. - Anthem: Leonard Cohen

Gvantsa
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was personally knowing a guy who was doing same kind of things but physically abusing own mother and wife. we are strange, complicated creatures.

Heidi Matsumoto
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg.... same here....I bought a new and of course a better functioning phone but I can't just get rid of my old phone (it's been with me for five years). Many are asking to buy it but I feel like I just don't want to sell it because they might not take care of it the way I do.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a 20 year old Nokia - bet if I fired it up it would work perfectly

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once bought a teddy bear from the shop because it was on the floor. I felt too guilty to leave it hanging.

Andrea Josipović
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum and my sister went shoping and there were 3 cartons of milk left. Mum wanted to buy two, but my sister insisted she had to take the third one as well because it would be sad all alone. And she did :D

artsygill
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6 years ago

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Nomadus Aureus
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We kept a chocolate bunny for about 6 years in the fridge, because I couldn't bring myself to eat it. They are still forbidden in the house... (Well, quite frankly, I won't eat anything depicting a human or animal, or buy animal shaped jars, because the thought of me taking their heads off and filling them with stuff just freaks me out. Which is ironic, because I do eat meat.)

Kristin Haskins
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These .....stories.....are life itsself. I love them. I cry with them. STAY.

Nostalgic Hyena
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a similar experience with the one about the toy Labrador with wonky eyes. When I was about that age I bought a red panda plush with wonky eyes and I never even realized it for a while, but I didn't want to exchange it because I still loved him. Honestly, I had (and still have) that experience with buying plush toys..

Kristin Haskins
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ........wouldn't know where to start! If I could, then.....I would probably never stop. :-[

Livia Carlson
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was young my brother taught me how to make pancakes and we always used the same spatula my whole childhood. One day it broke and my mom threw it out. My boyfriend at the time knew it made me sad so he took it home and said he'd keep it and then one day we could fix it and our kids would use Spatchy (yes the spatula had a name) too. Sadly we broke up and I don't know what happened to Spatchy after that.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it is awful when your wooden spatula breaks - you spent years getting it into the perfect shape

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Ina Šantaraitė
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think i get attached to alot of stuff and I always have it till it's totally unusable, but i mostly still keep it because it has some kind of sentimental meaning to me. like I have this cap that I already bought from used clothes shop and I already had it probably for about 10 years, it started getting some holes, but i just sew them up and continue wearing it and actually people started recodniseing me from that cap. And say something like you're probably only one that has a cap like that.

rick hctep (Rick45)
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of you yank women have a slate missing, FFS grow up and get a life.

Linouchka 99
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, this comment was very necessary, thank you so much, Ricky ! What would we do without your wisdom ?!

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Daniel da Silva
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do people know that dented cans can release chemicals that are harmful to one's health?

Kiss Army
Community Member
Premium
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I normally adhere to "adopt, don't shop" but once my husband and I were in a pet store around Easter getting supplies for our pets and they had bunnies for sale and one of them was missing half his ear. I thought for sure no one would get him because they wanted perfect "Easter" bunnies, so we bought him. His name was Booboo and he was awesome!!

Naomi Armitage
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Something must have happened to me as a kid, because to this day (I'm almost 50), the sight of a balloon flying away breaks my heart. Maybe it's the idea of something you liked (loved?) that's going away and you can never get it back. I can't deal.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a balloon phopia - cant bear touching them in case they pop . All originated from a childrens party game where we had to race to a chair and sit on the balloon to pop it. Really hurts on bare legs

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Melissa Nunya
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to house sit for a lady who bought all the dying scraggly plants that were marked way down at the nursery :) she saved most of them

K. LNU
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the "sale" plants at the garden stores. Almost all my flowers and small bushes were those poor things left on the shelves. (Strangely, they seem to last longer, grow bigger than those that were not on sale.)

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Bored Fox
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a teenager I bought from a flea market a really ugly decorative pillow cover that probably some child had made. The picture was a very poorly made embroidery of a strange looking animal. I thought that probably no one else wants to buy it so I bought it. Sadly my mom thought that pillow cover was too ugly so she threw it away couple of years after that. :(

PyroarRanger
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so true... I can't give away certain things because they remind me of things.. I can't give away certain things because it makes me sad.

Melody Shanahan-Kluth
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I buy the broken and odd looking cacti when I go to garden centres, so I can take them home and look after tham

Dian Ella Lillie
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a very close middle-aged male relative (whom I won't identify to protect the last vestiges of his dignity!) who, if he's at work and finds a pebble from his driveway caught in his shoe, will carefully put it in his pocket and take it back home at the end of the day so that it can be with its friends...

Aish Siva
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow I thought I was alone in this world on this. My parents are from a culture where black is typically considered not a good color. We don't even wear it to mourn. Anyway, having heard this and seeing that no kid at school ever wanted the black thing, I made black my favorite color because I felt really bad that no one liked it. I wanted black to be loved like all the other colors.

diane a
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have my dad's tiny little hobnailed wooden soled shoes from when he was age 2 in 1929 - would not part with them for the world - with photos of him wearing them

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Alusair Alustriel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to have a ton of stuffed animal toys like bears, cows, dinosaurs, you name it. I know until this day where each and one of them came from. Since I needed some space in my tiny room, I took them all into basement where they lie sleeping. Can't force myself to throw them away. It's been 10 years now.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's OK, they're asleep, awaiting the time when you'll have more space. They're having sweet dreams.

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mel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sometimes i feel attached to stuff toys in stores. i would pick one of them up and cuddle them until it was time to leave the store. My heart always breaks to leave them and i hope someone would buy them and treat them well :)

Littoface
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This! My 5 yo's my voice of reason. "Mommy, put down the unicorn. We don't need another stuffed toy." "But-!" "Put it down."

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BusLady
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is anyone else thinking of Wilson in the movie Cast Away?

Bob Beltcher
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have a stuffed hippo for the past 8 years. She has her own personality and her name is Olivia the Hippo. She has a Ph.D in economics and preaches how an increase in wages increase the amount of pizza we can buy which increases happiness. But hippos are vegetarians so we have to make one side veggie lovers. If we go out for pizza she'll know because she smells our breath. Also, when we're gone for the weekend she not allowed to use our credit card and throw biker parties. Yes, this is just a stuffed purple hippo.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HA ! We have a whole tribe of stuffed pets, each having their name and their own personnality making all kinds of shenanigans when we're not home... They're adorable and witty and we are really concerned about what will happen to them once we're gone for good... :-/

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Loveyiii
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband and I went into a local pet store for guinea pig food and saw a poor rat in a tank labeled "Feeder Tank" . She had a large open wound on her back. I went t the desk and said I want to purchase the black and white hooded rat with wound. The worker said he felt so bad for her but the owner had said ... she is just a feeder rat so leave her in there. We needed a few supplies for her the pet shop employee did not charge us for anything and thanked us for taking her in. I was always nervous about rats(it was the tails that got to me) but after we adopted this rat my views changed. We named her Rachel, she ended up being very pregnant and had five babies. We were very lucky that they were all females. They were very smart and family oriented , they only messed in one corner of the cage and played with toys and each other. We had them all until each one passed.

Siddharth Rath
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Okay Bored Panda, I get. I reckon girls are awesome. You don't have to prove that to me all the time." Well, jokes apart, Bored Panda, and the internet as a whole, has really changed my outlook towards women amidst this cruel sexist world. Now I think of girls in a very different way. I respect them more than ever. I have learnt how to behave with them. All thanks to the internet. No, not every girl's favorite color is pink and yes, girls are funny. *unrelated but true*

Jef Bateman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My neighbor gave me two mosquito larvae not knowing what they were. I named them Wriggly and Squiggly. Wriggly died, but Squiggly nearly made it to mosquito stage. I kept it in a jar until my dad figured out what it was. I had to pour my own pet down the drain.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have the cardigan my mum was wearing when she died. She wore it all of her last weeks. I keep it sealed in a plastic bag and occasionally open it and can swear I can still smell my mum. Even though I know after 7 years it is unlikely - but it soothes me

Magpie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I drop my books I always apologize and cuddle them for a while.

mark
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the Japanese have a concept called wabi-sabi. Beauty through imperfection

Master Markus
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only do this with living things. I don't understand caring about the other stuff like ... mistreated coffee makers or whatever. I'd probably have feelings like this towards a complicated AI, but not a relatively simple mechanism.

Unlikely
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the Phoebes in the world united.. xD #FriendsReference What a wholesome post ♥

Ellis Toscano
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always thought that I was the only one who thought this way. Never really mentioned it to anyone. Guess on some level I thought it was nuts. Glad I am just super empathetic.

Wiggity
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a tiny cemetery near my house (9 graves) that no one was taking care of so my wife and I mow, trim and rake it on the days we do our own yard work and twice a year I power wash the head stones. It took a bleach solution a several hours the first time around on the stones but now just plain old water keeps them looking up to snuff. I have a buddy who is part of a group that travels the state doing this on family plots and cemeteries with up to 40-50 graves based on requests from concerned citizens. People shouldn't be neglected just because their time was up.

Tracy Sellars
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a bit of a rough year and as a result I have ended up with my Granddads 20 year old car. And to be honest I could not be happier. Alfie, yes I have named him, has dents and scratches, a cassette deck radio and no air conditioning. But I love him so much, driving him makes me so happy. I am looking forward to all the adventures we are are going to have together.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of our cars have had names, since my Mom had her first one. My current is named Inès...

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Mae
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People feel empathy towards inanimate objects but kill and torture sentient beings every day...

Dorothy Parker
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once bought a kiwi. Ordinary kiwi. My then grade school aged daughter adopted it, took it away, protected it. Was sad when it "died." I had to admit to her I had done that with a watermelon when I was about her age, and no, she had had no way of knowing that.

sakora
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm emotionally attached to weird thing... well nobody is perfect, and that makes us fun and creeps. Makes us feel something thaits moving us forward. A good feeling.

_screamingnerd_
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At one point in high school, my friends and I liked to go to the park at sunset and just chat. We always passed a little shop with only a few things sold in it; Tiny hand-made crocheted cats and bunnies. My friend was obsessed with bunnies, so we decided to get one for her. She is 29 now, and turned it into a necklace. She wears it everywhere.

Dog Lover
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am attached to a lot of my things. I have over 200+ stuffed dog teddies and I have one in particular called Toby. He goes everywhere with me. People who know me, know that I travel with Toby. He has been on holiday with me and he goes to the office everyday with me. On the odd occasion, I forget him at work, I think about him and how he would be thinking 'how could she have forgotten me?' When I arrive at work the next morning, I apologise to him for forgetting him and give him a big cuddle and a kiss.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only get them from charity shops - someone cared enough not to throw them away

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have an extreme attachment to my stuffed animals. I feel guilty when I have to move them off my bed. I'd like to be buried holding my very favorite one, so that we'd be together until the sun burns out.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have quite alot of Gunds - and a Large Russ Timber - will never part

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Kilo Gee
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was just in my local garden shop and walked down the leftover vegetable plant aisle. I felt so bad for all the plants that didnt get adopted that I bought as many as I could, then asked how they treat all the ones left, and had them show me what happens to them so I would be ok leaving the rest of them there.

M O'Connell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I often buy things in roughed-up packaging because they may seem less appealing to most people (even though they're completely fine). I also bought and ate dill-pickle flavor potato chips because a clerk was loading up a cart of them to throw out because their 'best-by' date was the next day.

Jovy Jergens
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are all wonderful humans and if the world were full of folks like you, there would be no suffering and it would be a paradise!

Valerie Lessard
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

have empathy for your fellow human beings and stop being ridiculous, idiots.

Jace
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That Xmas tree still died stupidly for some human cult ritual.

Debbie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The bumpy lime!!! I actually started sniffling... :'-/ love what this post says about people

Ann Abdelzaher
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom Loved Porcelain dolls and since she was blind she always had to feel the faces of the dolls before she bought them. Her favorites were the ones that were slightly imperfect.

Quitterie Ruokonen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Objets inanimés, avez-vous donc une âme, qui s'attache à notre âme et la force d'aimer?" Alphonse de Lamartine

Anna Repp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I mistype something (and spellcheck has no idea what I was trying to say), I don't just delete the word and retype it, I go letter by letter, correcting it, trying to keep the letters that are supposed to be there and only delete the ones that aren't. Because I feel bad for the little "a" or "q" that were trying to do their job and I messed up and now they must be deleted out of existence to be replaced by another letter "a" or "q". I feel so bad for those lonely warriors, I try to save them!

Connie Martin
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this! I almost always buy the bruised/asymmetrical fruit and veg 'cause I'm going to cut it up anyway. I hate waste. Also I love oddballs.

Akorede Bamidele
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This post is making me feel bad because I can't buy anything that has an imperfection. I get stuck staring at theat imperfection wishing I had bought a more perfect one.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i pull tiny unnoticeable pieces off tomato plants to root in with my Basil. A tiny tomato plant leaf cutting will make the Basil plant thrive 200% - tomato and basil just complement each other

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Carroll Cadden
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I found a dirty "Chris Chick" (a stuffed chicken) abandoned at the checkout line at a WalMart and bought Chris out of pity for his having been tossed aside unwanted! Chris is still living his best life at home. :-D

Little Menace
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I make tea, I hate taking out three teabags instead of two and separate one of them, because deep down I don't want to separate a great love or friendship. I know intellectually that it is utter rubbish but I still think that every time.

Full Name
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS ARTI(sorry, caps lock)cle is like a warm internet hug.

madeline tansey bryson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you. I seriously thought it was just me!!! This is the first time I have heard of anybody else doing this!!! OMG thank you. I feel so much better. I have done all of these.

Beth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a literal wall full of stuffed animals and I would take turns with every single one to sleep with at night cause I didn't their feelings to be hurt! Still sleep with my stuffed Tramp that my fiance got for me! I'm trying to convince him to get Lady so he wouldn't be lonely!

Denyse
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am always sad when I upgrade to a new smartphone. I think my phones feel they let me down. So I never trade them in, sell them or toss them out. They all hang out together in the same spot so they aren't lonely.

Anouk
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ring the bells that still can ring / Forget your perfect offering / There is a crack in everything / That's how the light gets in. - Anthem: Leonard Cohen

Gvantsa
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was personally knowing a guy who was doing same kind of things but physically abusing own mother and wife. we are strange, complicated creatures.

Heidi Matsumoto
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg.... same here....I bought a new and of course a better functioning phone but I can't just get rid of my old phone (it's been with me for five years). Many are asking to buy it but I feel like I just don't want to sell it because they might not take care of it the way I do.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a 20 year old Nokia - bet if I fired it up it would work perfectly

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once bought a teddy bear from the shop because it was on the floor. I felt too guilty to leave it hanging.

Andrea Josipović
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum and my sister went shoping and there were 3 cartons of milk left. Mum wanted to buy two, but my sister insisted she had to take the third one as well because it would be sad all alone. And she did :D

artsygill
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6 years ago

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Nomadus Aureus
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We kept a chocolate bunny for about 6 years in the fridge, because I couldn't bring myself to eat it. They are still forbidden in the house... (Well, quite frankly, I won't eat anything depicting a human or animal, or buy animal shaped jars, because the thought of me taking their heads off and filling them with stuff just freaks me out. Which is ironic, because I do eat meat.)

Kristin Haskins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These .....stories.....are life itsself. I love them. I cry with them. STAY.

Nostalgic Hyena
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a similar experience with the one about the toy Labrador with wonky eyes. When I was about that age I bought a red panda plush with wonky eyes and I never even realized it for a while, but I didn't want to exchange it because I still loved him. Honestly, I had (and still have) that experience with buying plush toys..

Kristin Haskins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I ........wouldn't know where to start! If I could, then.....I would probably never stop. :-[

Livia Carlson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was young my brother taught me how to make pancakes and we always used the same spatula my whole childhood. One day it broke and my mom threw it out. My boyfriend at the time knew it made me sad so he took it home and said he'd keep it and then one day we could fix it and our kids would use Spatchy (yes the spatula had a name) too. Sadly we broke up and I don't know what happened to Spatchy after that.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it is awful when your wooden spatula breaks - you spent years getting it into the perfect shape

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Ina Šantaraitė
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think i get attached to alot of stuff and I always have it till it's totally unusable, but i mostly still keep it because it has some kind of sentimental meaning to me. like I have this cap that I already bought from used clothes shop and I already had it probably for about 10 years, it started getting some holes, but i just sew them up and continue wearing it and actually people started recodniseing me from that cap. And say something like you're probably only one that has a cap like that.

rick hctep (Rick45)
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of you yank women have a slate missing, FFS grow up and get a life.

Linouchka 99
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, this comment was very necessary, thank you so much, Ricky ! What would we do without your wisdom ?!

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Daniel da Silva
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do people know that dented cans can release chemicals that are harmful to one's health?

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