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Meet Brenden Guy, a British man living in Pennsylvania who’s been gaining popularity on social media for his fun and light-hearted culture shock videos. On his TikTok channel @brendenandellie, where he’s followed by 121.9k followers and counting, Brenden shares videos of himself in various American scenarios that surprised him the most.

From free refills to tipping, and being asked how he’d like to get his eggs done while ordering at a restaurant, these are some of the things that felt very different compared with how things go back home in England. So let’s see Brenden’s funny culture shocks right below, and if there are any British expats living in America reading this post right now, be sure to share your own experience in the comment section below!

After you’re done, I highly recommend checking out our previous post with more entertaining cultural shocks from another viral TikTok creator Kacie Burns, who has created a similar series about things she found unusual when moving to live in Italy from the US.

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Zaza
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh gods, please don't! If I walk into a store and immediately some staff member comes up to me being all pushy, in my face, wanting to make a sale, I would be out of there in about 2 seconds and would never ever return. I'm not a degenerate, I can read signs avout a sale, I know what I need better than you do, leave me the f**k alone unless I ask you something Nasty, nasty habit. I'm so glad that's a US only thing and normal people in the rest of the world don't do this

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Sara Rodrigues
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the things that I hated about the US and Canada. I once stayed at a hotel that didn't want to tell me how much the total for the room was after tax, even though I explained to them that my debit card has a safety limit and therefore I needed to know how much it cost in total, to make sure that it's below the limit. Surprise surprise, the card was rejected because there was 26% more tax and they thought that I as a foreigner should know how much the tax was and calculate it in my head...

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Bored Panda reached out to Brenden Guy, a British TikToker living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, PA with his wife and daughter. Brenden’s fun and light-hearted videos of culture shocks he found after moving here from England have been going viral and he has now amassed a solid audience of 122k followers on his channel, @brendenandellie.

“I got into TikTok at the start of the pandemic initially to learn more about how the platform works and how it might relate to my career as a marketing and public relations consultant,” he recounted. “The more I made content, the more I realized how much fun it was and it soon became what my wife refers to as my pandemic passion project.”

Brenden believes that “It's a wonderful creative outlet and I'm having fun creating all sorts of content, from life as a dad and husband to these culture shock videos.”

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Roxy Eastland
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, Americans need to know how little Brits care about this. Any reference to throwing tea into water, even those who understand the joke, really, really don't care.

Some Cool Guy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like when Americans call Australians convicts. We don't care bro. Actually we secretly like it.

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Liz Saito
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, 4th July is a happy day for Brits. Think about it ....

InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We really don't give a single s**t, it's true, the 4th of July is just another day here.

Penny Fan
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad used to work for an American in London. Boss man always went off on a rant around July 4th, about how America "won" and Britain "lost". After a few years of this Dad had had enough and said, "look mate, it's like when your annoying teenagers grow up but won't leave the house. We got you to leave so in fact WE won". hehehe

Laura
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be honest, British people think the same about the Armada Invencible and the Spanish. We don't really care but for them it seems to be a big deal 😂

Lisa Shelton
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol, they don't learn about it because they lost. All joking aside though, I would imagine it's not really a big deal to the average Brit because it was over 200 years ago.

Miss Cris
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not enough significative when you have to study a long period of history with a huge amount of wars, colonies, changes of lands, and other things that are more important, as culture, art and anything that may help to understand other people, learn from other actions or decisions and open minds.

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Lisa
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBF American History is shallow compared to them. They glaze over Native American history too, it's like a blurb in school history books. Of course it gets toted out near Thanksgiving, at least that was my experience. I do wonder if there was more emphasis on reservation curriculum though. Our schools do suck on history now that I'm reflecting upon it.

Jo Choto
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The first time I was aware that US Independence was a big thing was the first July 4th I spent in the USA. I was baffled, since as this meme says, I learned nothing about it in school, because in the inglorious history of British colonization, this was just another page in the book.

Bama Belle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Americans don't say that. We don't care who 'lost the war'. The 4th of July to us is beer, barbecue and firecrackers.

Lewis Fisher Wells
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the thing is if Briton wanted America back then the Mericans would be drinking tea with their pinky finger out

Faith Horler-Clarke
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought we spelled it Britain? And the thing is, we don’t. And the Mexicans wouldn’t be siping tea, they’d be drinking whatever they bloody wanted to.

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44f5 Dixit
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Out of context.......the Indo-Pak war 1971 which india won, got to know sometimes back that in Pakistan's text book they teach them that they won it.......

Nadia Dodd
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad is a military man and calls 4th of July, Traitors Day (I'm from the UK)!! To be honest I've no idea what it's all about. Used to live by an American camp in the UK and used to enjoy the festivities when I was younger, without actually knowing why there was a fun fair, BBQs, fireworks etc, I just enjoyed the day!!!

Miss Cris
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Spain we also don't learn each war where Spanish Empire lost each country. Neither the wars when previously they had been colonised.

Loretta
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, what?? How can they NOT learn about the American Independence War in school??! In Hungary we do very much learn about it and we had nothing to do with it, how can Brits not learn about it??

Rachel Tucker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not part of the curriculum in schools. History lessons never cover a lot of historical events other than the changes in monarchy and religion in the UK. We might come across that we don't care simply because we can't comment on something we don't know or understand. It's the same about languages. At school you are introduced to French and German but we aren't pushed to learn anything more than the basics of those two languages.

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Gianna B D
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well if they schools taught about every time one of their colonies gained independence, they probably wouldn't have time for much else.

Jess Thompson
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lol did we? Sorry, too busy owning most of the world to notice 💅 (jokes haha honestly war is bad when will we learn, we’re not 5 years old ppl, who gives a s**t who “won”. Everyone loses in war.)

IlovemydogShilo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like that in Britain when the world Cup comes around. We won it waaaay back in 1966 and have't won it since yet the football pundits and every football fan won't stop going on about. It drives everyone else mad. We won against the Germans and they don't care either way about that particular match, And why should they. They have redeemed themselves by winning the World Cup 3 times since (1974, 1990, 2014)

Strawberry Person
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WE. SHOULD. LEARN. ABOUT. THE. AMERICAN. REVOLUTION. IN. SCHOOL. ALL MY INFO IF COMING FROM HAMILTON

Charl Marx
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Genuinely the only way I learnt about this as a Brit was through watching US TV programmes. If you asked the majority of people in the UK they would not have a clue what you were on about.

Patti Vance
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

surprised it isn't at least covered in history class as george III took it kind of hard....or it may have been his illness that made it look like it was a hard pill to swallow. not a big deal, just surprised

jim
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They don;t learn about the one they lost nextdoor in Ireland either.

Faith Horler-Clarke
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sadly, they kind of did. Ireland stays divided between North and South. They’re not a whole country because they are divided.

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Peter Hughes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love the way people say USA v Britain.... It was Britain v Britain. We have given all our Empire back and still remained friends with everyone. The commonwealth games (The second biggest sporting event after the Olympics) is in Birmingham next year - over 70 countries will take part. We honestly don't care about Boston...

Mazer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just speak, ever American will blow off any resentment because of your wonderful accent.

Chicago Dog Lover
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, if you cared it wouldn't be an appropriate joke. And while the Boston Tea Party is not particularly important, that the US was a British colony is. I remember very little of my history, but I took a full year of Modern (1450+) European History. (In addition to the history of non-European countries) So it's hard to believe that in countries that are more aware of things beyond their borders (which is truly excellent), this wasn't at least a paragraph somewhere.

Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They lost it twice, that's why it's not taught in their schools. (See: War of 1812.) :-D (My in-laws are UK. They insist losing the colonies was just spiffy. Fine. Great. Wonderful. Never noticed it. Really? Odd, then, how they sent armies to stop it... Hmm...)

AspieGirl88
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess that’s kinda true, LOL. I don’t recall having much American history being taught when I went to school & I definitely don’t recall the part where all that tea was thrown overboard. Such a shame, because I think I would’ve paid more attention in history class. I always hated having to focus on the history of only European countries. Being fully disabled, I now learn new things in my own way & on my own time (I’m currently watching a Netflix series about US death row inmates & why they were sentenced to death). Also, being a part of Ireland (even if it’s Northern); I know there’s a history of many Irish people immigrating to the US, to escape famine & other such troubles ... including THE “Troubles”, which we all knew about in our history classes. Speaking of which, my uncle Roy was murdered by the “Irish Republican Army (IRA)”, before I was even born. But his name wasn’t made public, for our family’s sake & because he was an officer... 😔💔🤷‍♀️

Neil Bidle
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

US signed the declaration of independence from the British Empire, not sure that being separated was a bad outcome for either party

Daniel Marsh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Strange to be in denial about losing that war. At the time of the Revolution, 1/3 of Brits lived in America, and America controlled the majority of the British economy. I know the British downplay it so an American would think it would be like America losing Puerto Rico, or maybe even the Philippines, but it was much more like America losing everything West of the Mississippi River.

Drew
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't say in denial, it's just not treated as that big a deal nowadays. Remember it was after losing America that Britain turned its attention East and went on to create a vast global Empire (leaving the Americans to complete the colonisation of N. America, so everyone was happy).

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Suzi Gauthier
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My British friend wishes all of his American friends Happy Traitor Day on the fourth.

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If someone hadn’t had a massive hissy fit in Boston harbour, things may have been a little different and you wouldn’t have had to endure Trump as your president.

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When asked about the biggest culture shock as a Brit living in the US, Brenden said it’s probably the entire restaurant dining-out experience. “You would not think it, but there are actually a lot of differences here including rather large portions, free refills, tipping requirements, leaving cash payment on the table and simply leaving. It goes on!”

“Thankfully, I've dined out enough over the last 13 years to get used to them, but not a day goes by that I don't think about how different the experience is,” he said and added that “Overall, the American dining-out experience is superior.”

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After seeing The Gruffalo movie, my kid thought I was saying the wrong words when I read him the book. The movie’s narrator has a British accent and I’m American. My kid was young enough that he thought I was just saying different words, since he didn’t yet know what an accent is.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you, americains, really this friendly, or is it just a myth?

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Brenden said the reception to these culture shock videos has been amazing. “I've been particularly touched to read the comments thanking me for making a positive video highlighting the differences between America and other countries instead of pointing out all the flaws and poking fun. This has always been my intention from the start because I truly love it here and wanted to focus on the fun and lighthearted differences rather than the more controversial and antagonistic ones.”

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When asked about things he really likes in the US, the TikToker said he loves Thanksgiving. “Naturally, it's a holiday unique to this country and it's a lovely opportunity to get together with friends and family and eat delicious food,” Brenden said.

Apart from that, he likes that Americans have much more space, from bigger cars to wider streets and more spacious homes. “Back home, it can feel a little cramped at times; everything feels so much smaller in comparison,” he added.

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Germany, a big menu is a sure sign that they are going to serve you frozen pre-made food if you take anything other than fast food classics. That doesn't count for restaurants with Indian or Chinese food, though. If they have such a big menu they are probably just swapping the sauce for each dish.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh please! It's like he's forgotten Guy Fawkes starts in mid-October!

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Having said that, there are a lot of British things Brenden misses, “most of all my family. But from my daily life, I miss Cadbury's chocolate the most. It's completely different to the Cadbury's that you can buy in the US which, I believe, is actually made by Hershey's.” Plus, few things compare to British pubs! “I miss having a pint at a British pub, which has a completely different vibe and ambience to American bars,” Brenden told us.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A question I do wonder - why do American baked beans have so much sugar in them? Was chatting with an American mate and they apparently have like twice the sugar, but I don't know why.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bacon and Eggs to us would only come one sunny side up soft yolk, unless you specify scrambled or something else, to be asked how we want our eggs would be unusual here in Oz as well.

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