Sure, you are right, but it's hard to say what is happening in the background. The bride is the one who announced it and the one who responded, so that's the side we see. But it's probably fake.

You think? From the posts it sounds like this was most likely her idea. Makes me wonder... Did he even know she cancelled their wedding date? o.o"

He didn’t post anything on social media, she did

please. husbands hardly get a say in their weddings you think a bridezilla like this will let him have an input? his only option out of that Is leaving her

I've been wondering about the groom, too. But if he goes to the doctor with her just because she has hysterics, he might just be very good at codependency. The parents of the bride should also get some of the heat becuase they've raised someone who goes 'the money is MINE, now'.

That's actually a really good point. I think the reason that we're not seeing anything direct at him, is because this is from the woman's social media page. Therefore, we're primarily seeing her posts, and replies to her posts. In all likelihood, Edward's phone and social media accounts were blowing up too, but nobody snitched that stuff to Reddit.

Maybe, but I have a strong hunch that it was actually her idea, this isn't a plan a dude would come up with (BTW, I'm female)

He might not even know about it! Lol

It's absolutely real. Multiple other websites have the same story. You can even find the original through Reddit.

She said they are both receiving a "bombardment" of emails and calls on the subject. He too is receaving them but hasn't posted it on Facebook.

I mean she could be real. Think about it. There are billions and billions of people on this planet. Granted, some are gonna be crackheads

She's a bridezilla so he ain't saying s**t

Interesting assumption. He's not online saying any of the crazy bull-sht, and his wife-to-be isn't saying anything about how it was his idea. But you've got it all figured out.

What website? I need to go punch whoever came up with the idea before I punch out a random couple with the names Pam and Edward.

What were they even marketing for lol

I'm getting a 'page not found' at your link. Woudl emojis etc be copied to a post like this. And doesn't Reddit charge money for likes? (Only been on there a few times).

It is real - Multiple other websites have the same story and it's on Reddit.

I think people downvoted your comment because it's not logical for the bride to ask people to schedule time off work, flights, and hotel reservations just to have them reschedule. It's not to her benefit to be a gigantic hemorrhoid pushing people around, although she clearly has no problem with being just that. All it would really accomplish is alienating her family and guests, which she has succeeded at in spectacular fashion.

@Lola I have no idea! I can't seem to fathom collecting all that money and say "due to financial situation we can't get married, but can go to the honeymoon?"

and then why not be honest about it and drop the real wedding date to put out the fire?

@Pants thank you for clarifying! Yeah I agree it's not logical at all- but neither is what she originally did either.

How's my comment negative?

You are on a roll today!!.....a roll of downvotes

Columbus Day? What does this have to do with anything?

@Jacob. An engagement ring is NOT a "gift". It is a token given as part of a contract, a financial guarantee that the wedding will happen. If the wedding does NOT happen, then the ring must be returned. ...///... This has come up on court many times (I looked it up) and judges all rule in favour of returning the ring. It's not even a question.

Wouldn't you expect your engagement ring back if your wedding didn't happen? I would.

Dude, stop leaving the same comment all over. A donation is not the same as a gift. A donation is given towards a purpose (usually something more meaningful than an expensive party). Assuming the story is true, no one was giving the bride and groom money for the hell of it. An unnecessarily expensive wedding is a luxury, not a need, and the family and friends were nice enough to give them money for it. Then the two knobheads decide to take the money given towards the wedding for personal use. They also screw over all the guests, who you seem to forget have by now booked vacation, flights, hotels. That's money lost. And then the bride has the arrogance to ask for even more money to spend on frivolous s**t. If she had simply rescheduled people would not be as angry, but she told them she will be using their money for a completely different purpose than what they were given towards and she expects them to give more, because she wants to live a fancy life on the backs of others. Did you notice the part where she's begging for basic stuff like spa products? You can tell she's used to mooching off people instead of working for her money.

No, they donated for a specific cause. The wedding's not happening. She should have returned the funds. It would be the right thing to do. She greedy asking for donations for a wedding anyway. If she can't afford a wedding, she shouldn't have one.

Hey Pam, I thought you were on a social media blackout? Anywho ... since I have your attention, you really should have let the ER 5150 you. Haldol works wonders for the voices in your head, which tell you it is ok to commit fraud. Yes fraud. BTW, I hope your uncle gets treble damages when he sees you in court. Of course, if you are smart, you'll honeymoon some place with no extradition treaty with the US. I hear Brunei, North Korea, and Syria are all lovely this time of year.

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*gasps* Dude... are you bride, just incognito?? That's exactly her thought process!! Haha omg. Please explain to the rest of us how this is even a coherent thought stream?! Wedding gifts are for an actual wedding.The problem is, she is going to spend the money without a wedding, go on a honeymoon BEFORE an actual wedding. But the HUGE KICKER is that she then still expects everyone to donate MORE money after the reschedule to find the NEW and improved wedding and the following honeymoon again!!! And if they don't, you can bet your bottom dollar she will throw an EPIC temper tantrum on how everyone is being selfish and greedy and don't give a whale about her and the groom and their future together will be ruined bc of everyone's lack of wanting to find her extravagant and entitled lifestyle!

I agree. I figured it was different around the world so I said they usually get them back. I think it's tacky to keep the engagement ring if they split up. It's is a gift in a way but it's to signify being together in love and if they break up I think it should be given back. Especially if it was a family heirloom or expensive.

But I can see how an engagement ring can be considered a gift. I just think it should be given back. I'm glad your sister got to put one to use. I see how they hold sentimental value. Too me that is just a other reason to give it back.

Rose the Cook - that's why in the UK it's only really heirlooms that are expected to go back to the giver as most people don't want someone else's ring - though selling it is obviously an option and one that does seem fairer on balance. There isn't any protocol that exists about women offering the ring back and men declining it.

I understood it was expected that the woman offer to return the ring and the man decline her offer. What is he suppossed to do with it, give it to the next future wife? "Here dear, I bought this for Mary but it is yours now." No thanks.

that part.

Costco food court.

if it's Indonesia, we can hold a wedding party with $2000 with at least 200 people