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After Battling Depression For A Decade, This Brazilian Model With Vitiligo Learnt To Accept Himself
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After Battling Depression For A Decade, This Brazilian Model With Vitiligo Learnt To Accept Himself

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Roger Monter is a 37-year-old model based in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. The special feature that makes him stand out in the crowd and has also caused major life challenges is vitiligo. It’s a rare skin disease that causes pigment loss, leaving large white patches all over the body.After the first white patch appeared on Roger’s skin at the age of 23, the world as he knew it shattered into pieces. It took a decade to accept who he really is and stop hiding behind makeup and avoiding any situation that would reveal his secret. He kept blaming himself for his skin condition after learning it can be aggravated by stress. Strangers avoided getting too close to him as they believed it was contagious, while others showered him in ill-mannered remarks about his appearance to the point that he couldn’t stand looking at himself in the mirror and was suffering from severe depression.

Only after he found genuine support in 2016 in a group of new friends he had met at the gym, he started to embrace his uniqueness. One day, he made a first step toward accepting his natural beauty and shared his raw photo on Instagram. No makeup. No filter. Inspired by the overwhelmingly positive and inspiring response, he continued to share his story on social media and eventually caught the attention of photographers who wanted to capture his out-of-the-ordinary appearance. Roger finally learned to love himself and ignore the negative comments.

But the true power of his influence on social media with 34.3k followers is the fact that by sharing his personal story of struggle and acceptance, he is able to help other people around the world to stand strong and embrace their true selves.

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    A 37-year-old model from Rio De Janeiro, Roger Monter, has a rare skin condition called vitiligo

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    Lack of melanin causes white patches to appear on his golden skin

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    As a child, Roger didn’t suffer from vitiligo; it only developed at the age of 23

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    He blamed himself every single day after discovering the condition can be caused by emotional stress

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    He thought his life was over and spiraled down into severe depression

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    During his darkest few years, he couldn’t look in the mirror and wouldn’t accept his condition

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    He used to cover his white patches with a thick layer of makeup to hide his condition from the world, avoid the beach and the gym

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    Strangers steered clear of Roger, thinking his vitiligo was contagious, or made hateful comments because of the way he looked

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    His life changed in 2016 when a group of new friends at the gym convinced Roger his skin is unique and beautiful

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    On January 14 of 2017, he posted his true face on Instagram and it was liberating: “This is me, no makeup, no filter. This is what I see when I wake up and before I go to sleep”

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    He received an overwhelmingly positive response from his friends and strangers

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    After finding out that his story inspired a boy to stop hiding his skin with makeup and helped another girl battling depression, he decided to post more pictures

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    With this new confidence, he continued posting photos on social media and soon caught the attention of photographers

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    Roger hopes that by sharing his story and photos, he will be able to help others to embrace their natural beauty

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    Fascinated by music, movies and sitcoms, I'm passionate about social media and can't live without the internet, especially for all the cute dog and cat pictures out there. I wish the day had about 40 hours to be able to do everything I want.

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    Violeta Draseikaitė

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    My name is Violeta and I am an editor here at Bored Panda. I love reading memes for a living. It’s obviously much more than that, but I appreciate the variety of topics, information, and pics I get to see every day and share with the world! Those funny memes really make my day too. Being born in the ’90s in post-Soviet Lithuania speaks more about me than I’d like to admit. I’m still learning about the world and myself, but I do love my friends, traveling, art, and my cat. My favorite fact to share about myself is that I used to hide meatballs in my friend’s pockets at lunch so I could go play outside. I wish all those meatballs could find their way back to me someday.

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    Violeta Draseikaitė

    Violeta Draseikaitė

    Moderator, BoredPanda staff

    My name is Violeta and I am an editor here at Bored Panda. I love reading memes for a living. It’s obviously much more than that, but I appreciate the variety of topics, information, and pics I get to see every day and share with the world! Those funny memes really make my day too. Being born in the ’90s in post-Soviet Lithuania speaks more about me than I’d like to admit. I’m still learning about the world and myself, but I do love my friends, traveling, art, and my cat. My favorite fact to share about myself is that I used to hide meatballs in my friend’s pockets at lunch so I could go play outside. I wish all those meatballs could find their way back to me someday.

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    K.
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone can suffer from depression, anyone can have body insecurities. We need to include more voices in this conversation. I am very ashamed and embarrassed that I’ve let myself feel insecure for so long. This man took what was once painful to him, and turned it into a passion to help others and for himself to shine.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So good for him, but also I find it odd when someone is like, I thought I was ugly...so I became a model.

    K.
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was nauseated by heights, so I started to indoor rock climb...it’s one of the things I look forward to doing when it’s safe for me to do so. Eventually, I might take it outside.

    Load More Replies...
    Znaya
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay everyone listen up, there are bullies out there and they pick on everyone they feel they can get away with picking on. The problem is not with you it's with them. All of us are different and we should be fine and accepting of that, don't let any one steal your joy. Bullies feed on other people to boost their own insecurities. I am a behavioral therapist and i can tell you a lot more about other people in 2 seconds. Life is not perfect but neither are they. Enjoy life especially in these difficult times, it's not always the big things. Peace of mind is a wonderful thing, do what makes you happy as long as no one is harmed physically, mentally or otherwise because Karma is a Bitch!

    somnomania
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i honestly adore how vitiligo looks, i think it's super interesting and makes people even more unique! i'm so glad this young man owns his look now, body image depression is horrible to go through.

    eezycheezes101
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Exactly! I feel like vitiligo makes people even more unique, and how it shows that they would look good with either skin color!

    Load More Replies...
    Austin Young
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ever since lock down i have been through a time of depression and anxiety,and if anybody else does i recommend having a therapist and going to him\her like every 2 to 3 weeks,trust me it helps,i still have depression and anxiety but going to a therapist and talking about your feelings helps a lot,and don't worry if you cry,they go though that a lot and they are there to help you,and if you have this i recommend this and also please respond.

    Liz the Wanderer
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very happy for you for getting assistance!! It does make so much difference!!

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    Aunt Messy
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He has to be very careful in the sun. The white areas on his skin have no pigment at all, which means that they are VERY prone to developing skin cancer.

    shado
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's always so sad the way we treat people and things we 'fear' or simply don't understand ... worse yet we often miss out on amazing experiences because of it

    serenagun
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly think people with this skin condition are beautiful. no matter how many white spots they have they're so so so beautiful and no one should have avoided him

    moonshams
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father has vitiligo for almost 30yrs..developed when he was in his 30s, I used to be ashamed of his condition (I was young, in school). It's hard for me, but I know it's even harder for him.

    miss miss
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 60 yrs old and due to age my eyes are a droopy wrinkled mess. I met a young co worker and her eyes were beautiful. I asked what cover up she used and here it was vitiligo. Wow.

    Aroace tiger
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. How do people think its contagious??? 2. It looks awesome! How do people think its ugly??

    Jackson Gohn
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Where is bored panda's absolute obsession with vitiligo coming from? This is like four posts in one month.

    K.
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone can suffer from depression, anyone can have body insecurities. We need to include more voices in this conversation. I am very ashamed and embarrassed that I’ve let myself feel insecure for so long. This man took what was once painful to him, and turned it into a passion to help others and for himself to shine.

    Stille20
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So good for him, but also I find it odd when someone is like, I thought I was ugly...so I became a model.

    K.
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was nauseated by heights, so I started to indoor rock climb...it’s one of the things I look forward to doing when it’s safe for me to do so. Eventually, I might take it outside.

    Load More Replies...
    Znaya
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay everyone listen up, there are bullies out there and they pick on everyone they feel they can get away with picking on. The problem is not with you it's with them. All of us are different and we should be fine and accepting of that, don't let any one steal your joy. Bullies feed on other people to boost their own insecurities. I am a behavioral therapist and i can tell you a lot more about other people in 2 seconds. Life is not perfect but neither are they. Enjoy life especially in these difficult times, it's not always the big things. Peace of mind is a wonderful thing, do what makes you happy as long as no one is harmed physically, mentally or otherwise because Karma is a Bitch!

    somnomania
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i honestly adore how vitiligo looks, i think it's super interesting and makes people even more unique! i'm so glad this young man owns his look now, body image depression is horrible to go through.

    eezycheezes101
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Exactly! I feel like vitiligo makes people even more unique, and how it shows that they would look good with either skin color!

    Load More Replies...
    Austin Young
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ever since lock down i have been through a time of depression and anxiety,and if anybody else does i recommend having a therapist and going to him\her like every 2 to 3 weeks,trust me it helps,i still have depression and anxiety but going to a therapist and talking about your feelings helps a lot,and don't worry if you cry,they go though that a lot and they are there to help you,and if you have this i recommend this and also please respond.

    Liz the Wanderer
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm very happy for you for getting assistance!! It does make so much difference!!

    Load More Replies...
    Aunt Messy
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He has to be very careful in the sun. The white areas on his skin have no pigment at all, which means that they are VERY prone to developing skin cancer.

    shado
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's always so sad the way we treat people and things we 'fear' or simply don't understand ... worse yet we often miss out on amazing experiences because of it

    serenagun
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly think people with this skin condition are beautiful. no matter how many white spots they have they're so so so beautiful and no one should have avoided him

    moonshams
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My father has vitiligo for almost 30yrs..developed when he was in his 30s, I used to be ashamed of his condition (I was young, in school). It's hard for me, but I know it's even harder for him.

    miss miss
    Community Member
    3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 60 yrs old and due to age my eyes are a droopy wrinkled mess. I met a young co worker and her eyes were beautiful. I asked what cover up she used and here it was vitiligo. Wow.

    Aroace tiger
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1. How do people think its contagious??? 2. It looks awesome! How do people think its ugly??

    Jackson Gohn
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    Where is bored panda's absolute obsession with vitiligo coming from? This is like four posts in one month.

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