"Now I see that wasn't the hill to die on." Already rationalizing that this was in some way her fault. There is no such hill unless you decide to construct one for yourself. I think this young lady has already experienced abuse in her life because she seems conditioned to accept it. I hope she gets out and gets help, fast!

What is wrong with young girls? He locked her in a room for three hours and when she comes out, she lets him lie that it's her fault?!?! It's the fault of whoever raised this child to be a victim, poor wretch. I don't care if she came home smelling of cigarettes and weed, you don't lock people up!

RUN, AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

Excuse me, but I’ve never heard of anyone smelling like coffee after being in a coffee shop. Do the people who work in the coffee shop go home smelling like coffee? I think the boyfriend was just using that as an excuse to torture OP. And torture is what locking someone in any room is. OP needs to run, not walk, as far from this guy as she can.

What is this had been your child calling for help because she had been locked in the bathroom for hours after studying? RUN,get a domestic restraining order, have the police do a standby while she gets her stuff the block him on everything. He is danger just waiting to happen.

This sounds like the beginning. Usually it doesn't stay a one-time-thing if you don't leave.

Gf had nothing to apologize for, nothing. He should have been charged with assault/battery, false imprisonment ,and domestic violence/ domestic assault.. He is control freak, and has anger and violence issues, I'm talking severe red flags. The fact that she thinks she needs to apologize, thinking she's at fault. 10000% his fau lt. She needs to break up right now ,and kick him out immediately. I think she is in imminent danger.. Along with the rest, she needs a restraining order. And a friend or relative until things settle down. She needs to get him gone to become safer

She better run and run NOW!!! This is just the first step. I'm sure there have been other red flags that she hasn't admitted to seeing.

Kidnapping is a serious crime that is prohibited by both federal and state laws. It is commonly defined as the taking of a person against his or her will, or restricting that person to a confined space. Kidnapping can occur in two circumstances. First, it may arise when an individual is removed, against his or her will, from a location and taken to another location. This makes the transportation of the individual an essential element of the crime, and the movement must be more than something slight or inconsequential. However, kidnapping may also occur when an individual is not transported to a new location, but is instead confined against his or her will in a certain space. If the victim is restrained in a manner that restricts his or her freedom of movement, this is enough to constitute kidnapping.

Run

A red flag so large the USSR would have been proud of. GET OUT!!!

Wish there was an update on this story

Leave. Get out. Walk away.

Besides this event, he has been so kind and so good to you? No way. You are seriously in denial. Get help for yourself.

What in the ever loving fück did I just read, holy shít nta

First off-Dump him. Secondly-that's abuse. Locking you up for 3 hours? No you don't need that kind of bf. I know saying it now but you should have just taken all your property and left. And broke up with him. Did you ever spend so long at that coffee shop that he never mentioned the smell before? Well regardless. File a complaint w the police and get a restraining order. Break it off. He's abusive. What if you didn't have your phone? He lets you out and you go sleep with him like ha ha? No. Not worth his drama. Tell your friends too. They can help support you through this.

All I take from this is she is saying sorry, and thinks that SHE may be the AH. Girl, you need to get a backbone - and let it help you run away from this godawful guy, for good. Maaan....

This is the first incident in a long line to come. Run for the hills, run now, run hard and don't look back....

Do NOT lie to the police in a situation like this! Remember Gabby Petito. She was vacationing with her boyfriend when they got into an argument. The police intervened, but Gabby swept it all away and said everything was OK. And her boyfriend took her life.

WHY WOULD SHE LET THAT JACKASS LIE?? She just got abused and she just let him walk away!?! Don’t be blinded by love! Tell the truth and Get his a*s arrested and Ditch him

If anyone tried to lock me in their bathroom for three freaking hours? First their door is going to be fked. Then if they get in between me and the exit...they are too. This is straight up psycho stuff. Like literally text book not okay behavior. He's lucky jail is all he had to worry about. She needs to get out. He will hurt her.

Why exactly are you seeking his forgiveness rather than getting TF out of there? The man forcibly imprisoned you for 3 hours. And had you not had your phone on you, it would have been a lot longer. All to punish you for something as benign as the smell of coffee. This is not someone who should be in your life.

She must leave him, or have him be arrested. This is horrible, just sickening. I mean, locking someone (and forcefully) just because they hate the smell clinging on them. Either they are just mad or something. Can't they just be patient? It not like it going to cause a catastrophe!

When I was really young, one of my brothers locked me up in his bedroom for a whole afternoon. He also left the house so he wouldn't hear me scream. His reason? He wanted to know if the lock would keep. Yep. That was almost 50 years ago and I still don't lock my bedroom or my bathroom door. I just can't.

Who cares if she's an ahole! She needs to get the hell away from him!

Genuinely hope OP ran and never looked back.

Run, girl, run.

Hey my boyfriend is abusive. Aita?

NTA... however NOT the brightest crayon in the box either. There was clearly a red flag slapping you in the face when he started having an uproar over the smell of coffee. That is when you should've just left instead of staying to argue with him over literally nothing to be honest. After the incident you lied to the police to prevent him from being arrested for false imprisonment, failed to mention you broke up with him & still referred to him as your boyfriend. If this is real & OP see this don't come crying to social media when your abuser's abusive behavior escalates. 🤨

I have trouble believing this. Without to much detail I was the one being abused, called the police, and then in the cops words because it was a domestic case the man gets arrested. So i got arrested for calling the cops on my being abused

Boy I wonder what kind of funny things BP will have for April Fools! ... oh.

I'm pretty sure this is fake. Reddit is filled with this ragebait c**p. BP has been sharing more and more of the fake ones.