"The relationship isn't in trouble, you are". That poster nailed it right on the head. There is no scenario in which this man turns out into the person you spend a long happy life with together.

She needs to walk away and get the kids away from him. Involve CPS, get him BakerActed, do whatever it takes to get away. If he hurts himself, that's his decision and that's on him. Dumpster fires don't burn themselves out unless there is nothing left to consume.

He sounds like the last person who should be in possession of a gun

Please leave before you're an episode on Dateline.

About a year in my poor frightened boyfriend followed me once when I went to hang with some friends. I felt sorry for him because he was really afraid of losing me. I said "Don't ever do it again." He never did. Been together 40 years. I work with musicians and travel alone quite a bit. We never had a possessive issue after that. Sometimes people get out of control. But a tracker? Hell no.

You didn't feel the heebee geebees? If it feels weird, it is weird. Don't ask the Internet. Go. Fast.

Get out and get out NOW ignore his threats I have littereslly been here it took me 14 years to wake up to it I was that controlled when I did n I heard the if you leave I,ll kill my self after a betting I said carry on then ! N left thankfully we no kids together he won’t end his life people as threaten it very very rarely do but you life is very much in danger as is your child and the others like someone else did get them out now his to his family n you take your two call police first report him get them there to help you and if needs be to lock him up for your peace of mind go to a solicitor and file for sole custody citing dangerous behaviour your child is not safe near him and do not look back Blessed be lovely please be safe x

Look, I was in a marriage with a guy who was a condescending a**hole who came back from deployment from Afghanistan and said to me "a guy in my barracks, well his wife wad cheating on him. I think you're cheating on me!" Me! The dutiful wife who kept the home fires burning for him!! I took my marriage vows VERY seriously! Come to find out, he was cheating on me... With his "battle buddy"!! Yep folks, he left me for a hairy, sasquatch of a man!! Its been years, and my ego has yet to recover!

Of course it can be saved; just allow him to check your phone whenever he chooses and let him follow/spy on you. Just because you can doesn't mean you should

Just how bad do you want to be in a shallow grave?

Leave. Now. He offs himself? Well, even if, it's not your fault. He seems very capable of knowing why this was wrong, and no, this isn't debatable. It would be if they'd talked about it prior to deciding, if they decided together, and followed through. But, that's not happened, so there's nothing right or justified about that. In case it's an expensive car that often is targeted by thieves, ... I'd sort of understand, but then again, that would be the result of a shared decision, not something sneaked-in. Leave, or make him leave, but anyway, somebody has to leave, and he's got to sort himself out. But, if he, expressedly so, doesn't even want to, ... well, ... then ... throw him out or leave, depending on whose name is in what, or what's in whose name, ...

GPS tracker installed? That would be the end for me, especially after secretly going through my phone. He is not stable.

Most people as always are jumping to conclusions and rightfully concerned. But people are ignoring her question... csn it be saved? Probably. Will he put in the work... unlikely. But someone needs to ask her. Very succinctly, why are you trying to save it? What is it thats irreplaceable about it.

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