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“The Guys Were Stunned”: Lady Unveils Partner’s Affair In Front Of All His Friends, He Loses It

“The Guys Were Stunned”: Lady Unveils Partner’s Affair In Front Of All His Friends, He Loses It

Woman Makes An 'Affair Reveal Party' Out Of Boyfriend's Birthday, He Gets Livid And Storms Off“The Guys Were Stunned”: Lady Unveils Partner’s Affair In Front Of All His Friends, He Loses ItGuy Gets His B-Day Turned Into A Public Affair Reveal, Can't Believe His GF Could Act Like ThisWoman Discovers Partner's Affair, Brings Him To Light In Front Of All Guests At His B-Day PartyLady Learns About Boyfriend's Infidelity, Unveils The Truth To Friends At His Own Birthday PartyLady Finds Out Boyfriend's Affair, Exposes Him In Front Of Friends At His Own Birthday PartyLady Turns BF's Birthday Party Into His Infidelity Revelation Show, He Loses It And Storms Off“The Guys Were Stunned”: Lady Unveils Partner’s Affair In Front Of All His Friends, He Loses It“The Guys Were Stunned”: Lady Unveils Partner’s Affair In Front Of All His Friends, He Loses It
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Imagine that you just found out some really nasty and disgusting news – that your significant other, whom you have been dating for 2 years, is actually cheating on you. What to do in this case? Break up quietly or make a spectacular show out of the breakup?

Well, the author of today’s story definitely chose the second option. Moreover, she timed this ‘affair reveal party’ to coincide with her cheating boyfriend’s birthday. In front of his numerous friends. However, let’s not get ahead of ourselves here…

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The author of the post recently suspected her boyfriend of hiding something from her

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The woman did a personal investigation and found out he’d had a several-months-long affair with another lady

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The author postponed her revenge to the guy’s birthday and made a revelation speech in front of his numerous friends

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The author also projected the screenshots of Matt and Kelly’s texting on TV from her phone to show to everyone

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Everyone was shocked, including the hapless cheater himself – and he stormed off, screaming about his ruined birthday

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Some of the friends cutt of with Matt – but he even dared to accuse the girlfriend of snooping into his phone

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When the author told Kelly the whole truth she replied that now she could stay with Matt anyway

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No way – Matt broke up with his mistress and tried to reconcile with the author soon after – but to no avail

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However, our heroine still had some kind of remorse on how she arranged everything

So, the Original Poster (OP) has been dating her boyfriend “Matt” for two years, and recently began to notice suspicious changes in his behavior. He began to practically never part with his phone, constantly put it face down – and generally acted as if he had something to hide.

However, everything secret sooner or later becomes clear, and one day the OP saw a popup message from some “Kelly” on his phone screen. With a heart emoji and the words “Can’t wait for tomorrow night.” Our heroine was absolutely shocked, but she coped with her nerves privately and didn’t show that she’d read this text.

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She didn’t know the password to Matt’s phone, but the guy regularly synchronized messages with his work laptop, so the author, seizing the moment, opened the laptop and read the entire history of his correspondence with Kelly. It turned out that Matt had been cheating on her for several months, but at the same time told Kelly that he was single.

The woman’s first desire was to make a scandal then and there, but she refrained from this kind of breakdown. After all, revenge, as we know, is better served cold. A few days later, Matt had a birthday, and our heroine decided to throw a revelation party in front of all their mutual friends. And so she did.

In the midst of the party, the author asked to speak and projected her phone screen to the big TV. Everyone thought it was going to be some cute holiday montage or clip – but it was screenshots of Matt and Kelly’s text messages. The OP spoke – and out of the corner of her eye she saw her boyfriend’s face grow pale with each new slide, and shock appeared on her friends’ faces.

When the author finished, some of the girls immediately came over and hugged her, while the guys were mostly stunned. As for Matt, he stormed off, exclaiming that the original poster had ruined his birthday. It was definitely clear that it was over now.

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Interestingly, when the OP contacted Kelly and told her the whole truth, she was not particularly upset and said that she and Matt still loved each other, and it was even better this way. But it wasn’t to last – after some time, Matt broke up with Kelly, trying to get forgiveness from our heroine – but his attempts didn’t cause anything but disgust in the author.

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Well, even though the original poster admitted to feeling some remorse about her actions, one can’t help but appreciate the effectiveness of the gesture. “Yes, sneaking into someone’s phone seems inappropriate – but what this man did to her more than offsets the moral side of her actions,” says Maria Kryvosheeva, a psychologist and NLP coach, whom Bored Panda asked for a comment here.

“And the fact that he didn’t want to tell his mistress that he was actually in a relationship also clearly characterizes the moral level of this man. I have little doubt that if he had stayed with Kelly, their relationship would have ended in something similar.”

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“As for what this woman did, it was harsh but beautiful. At least the friends who may not have realized what kind of person they were dealing with will now know that he can betray them too. At the first opportunity. And, as they say, informed is forearmed,” Maria summarizes.

And the commenters under the original post were simply delighted with the exquisite revenge that the author brought down on the unfaithful Matt. “I think you handled this perfectly. Putting the messages up for all to see was inspired,” one of the responders wrote. “Don’t feel guilty, you did nothing wrong. You will find someone so much better.”

By the way, some folks in the comments even suggested starting a pool to see how long it took for Matt to cheat on Kelly too. “Put me down for 6 weeks!” another person put their bet. However, as we can see, the guy didn’t even last six weeks – but it didn’t help him. Now let’s wish the original poster happiness in her future life and share our opinions on this story in the comments below.

People in the comments mostly praised the author for such a delicious revenge plan – and claimed she actually dodged a bullet here too

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Oleg Tarasenko

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Oleg Tarasenko

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After many years of working as sports journalist and trivia game author and host in Ukraine I joined Bored Panda as a content creator. I do love writing stories and I sincerely believe - there's no dull plots at all. Like a great Italian composer Joaquino Rossini once told: "Give me a police protocol - and I'll make an opera out of it!"

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Denis Krotovas

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I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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Denis Krotovas

Author, BoredPanda staff

I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. While studying at Vilnius Tech University, I learned how to use Photoshop and decided to continue mastering it at Bored Panda. I am interested in learning UI/UX design and creating unique designs for apps, games and websites. On my spare time, I enjoy playing video and board games, watching TV shows and movies and reading funny posts on the internet.

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Apatheist Account2
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6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is where I'm starting to wonder how much of reddit is written by AI. Umpteen articles now begin with "Wow, I didn't expect this to blow up like it did." Either the posters have limited vocabulary (entirely possible), or they copy others (I've no idea whether they can) or some of these are being autogenerated.

DrBronxx
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you drink every time you see "I didn't expect this to blow up" on BP, you'll end up having to get your stomach pumped.

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Sunny Day
Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how it's "horrible" to humiliate him in front of his friends - but "ok" if OP is humiliated later when she finds out about the affair from someone else?

Janelle Collard
Community Member
Premium
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cheaters deserve zero consideration. If you cheat, you deserve to get outed. The End.

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Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is fake. The same story was posted her and elsewhere ages ago. All this faker did was change a few details. Getting really fu*king tired of all these lame posts on here. I feel like I am in high school reading this sh*t.

varwenea
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The last update that he wants her back is shady af. He wants her to fall for him again and then dump her himself. Glad she isn't falling for it.

Surly Scot
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Public humiliation is the best way, then everyone knows first-hand what an awful person they're associated with. That way he doesn't get to pull the usual nonsense guys pull when being broken up with for cheating, they tell everyone "B*tch was crazy" and that he did nothing wrong. Brene Brown is completely wrong, social shaming is an exceptionally powerful tool to try and curb someone's harmful behavior, not having any shame in society anymore is one of the reasons people act this way and take no accountability for their actions. We'd name and shame a company to the whole world for terrible behavior, why not people too?

zims
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eh, I'd have broken up with him privately. If it was a couple's event she'd have been justified, but making his birthday all about their relationship drama is tacky. Especially with the "he's trash and you shouldn't waste your time on him." Too much.

Limey
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who are these people? WHO CARES? The rubbish posts just keep piling up BP. Please can we have some interesting adult content?

Scott Rackley
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me: "Oh, it's you again." Consequences of my actions: "Yes, I thought we talked about this before."

Julia Cargile
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What you did was rude and unnecessary. Why make others uncomforable because you're upset? Tacky!

Pittsburgh rare
Community Member
4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You've never been cheated on and it shows. You also don't know that cheaters twist the narrative and lie through their teeth so YOU end up slandered and humiliated. Outing them before they have time to plot is the way 🥇

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Apatheist Account2
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6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is where I'm starting to wonder how much of reddit is written by AI. Umpteen articles now begin with "Wow, I didn't expect this to blow up like it did." Either the posters have limited vocabulary (entirely possible), or they copy others (I've no idea whether they can) or some of these are being autogenerated.

DrBronxx
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you drink every time you see "I didn't expect this to blow up" on BP, you'll end up having to get your stomach pumped.

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Sunny Day
Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny how it's "horrible" to humiliate him in front of his friends - but "ok" if OP is humiliated later when she finds out about the affair from someone else?

Janelle Collard
Community Member
Premium
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cheaters deserve zero consideration. If you cheat, you deserve to get outed. The End.

Comment Deleted
Community Member
6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is fake. The same story was posted her and elsewhere ages ago. All this faker did was change a few details. Getting really fu*king tired of all these lame posts on here. I feel like I am in high school reading this sh*t.

varwenea
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The last update that he wants her back is shady af. He wants her to fall for him again and then dump her himself. Glad she isn't falling for it.

Surly Scot
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Public humiliation is the best way, then everyone knows first-hand what an awful person they're associated with. That way he doesn't get to pull the usual nonsense guys pull when being broken up with for cheating, they tell everyone "B*tch was crazy" and that he did nothing wrong. Brene Brown is completely wrong, social shaming is an exceptionally powerful tool to try and curb someone's harmful behavior, not having any shame in society anymore is one of the reasons people act this way and take no accountability for their actions. We'd name and shame a company to the whole world for terrible behavior, why not people too?

zims
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eh, I'd have broken up with him privately. If it was a couple's event she'd have been justified, but making his birthday all about their relationship drama is tacky. Especially with the "he's trash and you shouldn't waste your time on him." Too much.

Limey
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who are these people? WHO CARES? The rubbish posts just keep piling up BP. Please can we have some interesting adult content?

Scott Rackley
Community Member
4 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me: "Oh, it's you again." Consequences of my actions: "Yes, I thought we talked about this before."

Julia Cargile
Community Member
5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What you did was rude and unnecessary. Why make others uncomforable because you're upset? Tacky!

Pittsburgh rare
Community Member
4 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You've never been cheated on and it shows. You also don't know that cheaters twist the narrative and lie through their teeth so YOU end up slandered and humiliated. Outing them before they have time to plot is the way 🥇

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