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BF Embarrasses GF For Her Quirk In Front Of His Friends, Regrets It When She Decides To Dump Him
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BF Embarrasses GF For Her Quirk In Front Of His Friends, Regrets It When She Decides To Dump Him

Interview With Expert BF Embarrasses GF For Her Quirk In Front Of His Friends, Regrets It When She Decides To Dump HimGuy Tells GF She’s Embarrassing And Weird For The Way She Treats Her CarGuy Thinks His GF Is Weird For Treating Her Car Like A Person, Shames Her In Front Of His Friends“Well, She Dumped Me”: Man Regrets Drunkenly Shaming GF For How She Talks About Her CarMan Promoted To ‘Single’ After Telling GF Just How He Feels About Her Car “Angie”“It’s A Machine”: Guy Mad GF Treats Her Car Like A Person, People Cheer When She Dumps HimBF Calls GF Embarrassing For Naming Her Car Like A Person, Gets Dumped In No TimeWoman Dumps Boyfriend Who Says Her Talking To Her Car Is “Weird And Embarrassing”Man Disturbed By GF’s Feelings For Her Car, Calls Her Out In Drunken Stupor
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People like to give inanimate objects names. I named my guitar Zac when I was 14, for example. Others even talk to their beloved things and treat them like a human, and there’s hardly anything wrong with that, right? Well, to some, it might seem just like a harmless quirk. But others think these people are weird and their behavior is embarrassing.

Like this boyfriend, who called out his girlfriend for treating her car, Angie, like a person, saying that she’s being “weird” and “embarrassing.” Perhaps he has been reading too much Stephen King recently? Either way, when she went radio silent, he started wondering if he maybe acted like a jerk.

Bored Panda got in touch with an expert who studies the human mind, Adam Waytz, Ph.D. He is a professor and psychologist at Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management, and he kindly agreed to tell us more about why people like to attribute human qualities to objects, and how that can affect relationships.

Some people have a silly quirk of treating inanimate objects like people

Image credits: Kenny Gaines / unsplash (not the actual photo)

One boyfriend told his girlfriend he didn’t like the way she treated her car like a person

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Anthropomorphizing is quite a natural behavior

People give names and talk to their possessions or animals quite often. The scientific term for this is anthropomorphism – giving human-like qualities to a non-human entity. Many people do this in childhood: they talk to their toys and pets, give them names, and generally treat them like a person.

The world’s leading expert on anthropomorphism, Nicholas Epley, claims that while some people may put down those who talk to their possessions, this feature is exceptional to humans and is a testament to our intelligence.

“Historically, anthropomorphizing has been treated as a sign of childishness or stupidity, but it’s actually a natural byproduct of the tendency that makes humans uniquely smart on this planet,” the professor of behavioral science at the University of Chicago said.

Adam Waytz, a researcher on anthropomorphism, tells Bored Panda there are three main reasons why people do it.

  • When people are trying to make sense of the world,
  • when people are seeking social connection,
  • or when people observe a nonhuman thing that looks humanlike, they are more likely to anthropomorphize.

Essentially, it’s because the non-human entity either has a human-like face, we want to be friends with it, or we just can’t explain its behavior. We’re especially prone to anthropomorphize an object if it has eyes.

“Fake eyes are a trick we fall for almost every time—one that can dupe us into seeing a mind where no mind exists,” Epley wrote. “As a member of one of the planet’s most social species, you are hypersensitive to eyes because they offer a window into another person’s mind.”

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The independent research consultancy Human Futures Studio found similar things. One of their researchers, Shane Saunderson, describes how they asked 125 adults about how and why they give their possessions names. They identified two reasons: they either feel emotionally close to the object, or are looking for ways to describe the object’s inherent characteristics.

Treating your car like a person can be a double-edged sword: it has its benefits and downsides

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We indeed tend to turn to our pets or inanimate objects for comfort when we’re feeling down. PscyhCentral writes that anthropomorphizing things can fulfill a social need. When we’re feeling lonely or sensitive, we might want to spend time with our pets, like talk to them. A plushy can also give us comfort, more so if we give it a name and attribute emotions to it.

The psychology behind it is that we then relate to that object or person better. Researchers proved this in a 2021 study, where they found that when people attributed human qualities to nature, they were more likely to care about wildlife conservation.

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However, in the case of pets, anthropomorphism can have negative effects too. Researchers found that misunderstandings happen when we tend to treat our pets like people. The thing is that dogs don’t operate like humans do, so trying to explain their behavior in human terms would be wrong.

No, your dog isn’t bringing you the ball because he’s sassy and mad at you. Maybe he just saw a bird or needs more training to do that. That’s why researchers caution people that giving pets human characteristics can lead to instances where it harms their needs and interests.

Adam Waytz tells us that, in the end, human connection has the best benefits for us. “Nonhuman entities may be able to provide social connection, but there is no substitute for a real live human being, so getting too attached to a nonhuman might deprive you [of] the social connection you really need.”

People were quick to call out the boyfriend, pointing out that he was the weird one here

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Kornelija Viečaitė

Kornelija Viečaitė

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Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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Kornelija Viečaitė

Kornelija Viečaitė

Writer, BoredPanda staff

Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

Mantas Kačerauskas

Mantas Kačerauskas

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As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting!

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Mantas Kačerauskas

Mantas Kačerauskas

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As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting!

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Jes Russell
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just spoke to Elliott about this and he thinks that guy is TA..

Rafael
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Car naming is an art. And you're not always in control. I tried to name my car (a white minivan that always save the day for everyone) as the mighty Leviathan, or the Enterprise, or even Stay Puft. Nope, my wife and my friends call him Roliço, that is Portuguese for "fatso". He doesn't seem to mind, so it stuck.

howdylee
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My white minivan is named Vanna White :) I still call her Louise sometimes though because it fits her personality.

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SheamusFanFrom1987
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't worry Pandas on wheels, Vincent/Vince and I had a pretty fast discussion as well and decided OP isn't an A-hole, but an imbecilic dingbucket that doesn't deserve his ex or Angie. We read that he got dumped and that he thanked us for the judgments. Well, on behalf of Vince and I, YOU ARE WELCOME!!! -_-"

Little Wonder
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum always calls her cars Bessie, short for Bessie Emma. The reason being that for a long time she only drove Peugeot 504s and they looked like her Aunt Bessie. Anyway, I've recently seen a photo of the human Bessie Emma and she does actually look a bit like a 504, turns out.

deanna woods
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I gave my car a name and talked about her the same way your ex girlfriend does. I love my car because it is my dream car. Also, you're lucky she didn't throw your judgmental self off on the side of the road. Next time be appreciative when someone does you a favor.

Asexual aromantic sea sponge
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is it so hard to let people just be happy? Why is it necessary to put people down and make them feel bad? Unless someone is actually doing something bad then just leave them alone.

Jinx (she/her)
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wish i could upvote this so many times! let people be happy, succint and so true.

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Libstak
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There sure seems to be alot of people with corks stuck up their tight butts over basically just a ongoing light heartedness in others .

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Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I liked The Hun! I think Angie and her human are well rid of this guy. Not because he doesn't want to play, but because of how he approached it. Had he said to her in private that it bothered him, that would have been fine. They could have discussed the issue and split amicably, with no A in the picture. Instead, he chose to embarrass her in front of friends while she was doing him and the friends a pretty serious favor.

Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree with bringing it up even in private. The only reason to bring something up is if you want the person to change it, and that is such a non problem. Either the OP kinda found her annoying already, or he really needs to get some perspective on what is a reasonable expectation of others.

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FloralDangerNoodle
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hubby just bought me my dream car AND helped me name her - Zoom Zoom Motherf*cker - Z.Z. for short. This dude should not have embarrassed her like he did, NOT cool. She dodged a bullet, IMO. Life's short, you gotta have fun, stop and smell the roses, marvel over rainbows, etc...

Stephanie Did It
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bought the Minnow in 2012 after my divorce and for a few months I stayed with a friend in a rural area. If I needed to go into town for errands, I generally did them all at once so my friend said I should call her that because every trip was a 'three hour tour.' The Minnow turned 21 this year! If we can name boats, why not cars?!

Jinx (she/her)
Community Member
6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My truck Cindy is my best girl, I talk to her, pat her when I walk by, talk her through rough turns, and she definitely has a personality. I will mourn when she finally dies, because she's old and has a few issues now, but she's gotten me everywhere I needed to go and I love her.. edit to add ..my husbands truck Josh agrees, he's a dummy

Libstak
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car was called Floozy cos the 1st 3 letters were FLZ. My current car is the Beast cos it could seriously survive an apocalypse...or me as the driver/owner, same diff.

Little Wonder
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have the flap from over the petrol cap from my first car, which was an absolutely crappy car that barely ran but I was still sad to see it go.

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Carney
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish this was just a silly joke. It isn't I'm sure, but the guy...yeah, he is a joke. I've heard of men being jealous of their GF's friends and resenting time spent with anyone but themselves. Some boys are jealous when their GF has a child. But this guy? To be jealous and resentful of his GF's car? Hey buddy, perhaps it's past time for you to grow up and be something other than a giant douche.

Jinx (she/her)
Community Member
6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my first husband was jealous of my dog. some people are just dummies

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Mrs.C
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Matilda wants to hang out with Angie and talk about how her person did the right thing in dumping this fun sucker.

Saphyre Fyre
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hasn't he ever seen the movie CHRISTINE? Sounds like LUCILLE may be an ancestor of CHRISTINE. HE HE

Trillian
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am going with NTA, although it might have been in the way he said it. But this sort of cutesy talk would absolutely drive me crazy, I could never be with a person who is like that.

lenka
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you cant be with a person like that then you should break up with them. Not berate and embarrass them in front of other people ad try to shame them into changing who they are. THAT's what makes him the AH. He was rude and disrespectful to someone he is apparently supposed to care for.

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Paul C
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He had a girl who was willing to drive him about, fix it when it broke and fill it with gas. And he risked all that because she called the car Angie??? He really didn't appreciate what he had. I know a lot of men who would be more than happy to join in for a girl that looked after her car instead of calling them to fix it (or worse, calling another man to fix it).

dandylilah
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definitely the AH for bringing it up with others present. If it bothered him that much he should have just broken up with her. I share the same opinion about naming vehicles but to each there own.

Weasel Wise
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cars Batatron & Wednesday are glad Angie doesn't have to deal with this human turd anymore.

Noproblem
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless the car is called Christine, don’t worry about it.

Pittsburgh rare
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Otis would be furious with OP if it wasn't because I had to take him to the scrapyard 25 years ago. He died of old age, as one can only aspire to.

moggie63
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I knew the outcome to this well before the update. You really are a d**k.

OneWithRatsAndKefir
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Object personification is an interesting thing, isn’t it? I haven’t bought my own car and never thought about naming cars (though as a kid I did pretend all cars were Transformers), but I guess that if/when I buy one, I’ll name it Ratchet (after my favourite Transformer).

ConstantlyJon
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, so, I've named my cars in the past, but don't currently have one for my car, but I have nothing wrong with it. But, if OP thought it was weird, then he should have talked about it to her alone and in a gentle way. Pointing it out in front of others in a condescending way while she's literally doing you a favor is pretentious as hell and not how you communicate in a relationship. So while others will say YTA because naming cars is normal, I'd also say YTA because of how he communicated with her.

ZombieRedfox
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister had a friend growing up who named her cars Yolanda the Honda and Gretta the Jetta. I had an old Acura Integra in college and slapped an Autobot sticker on the hood, started calling it Integrabot :D

Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think he's TA, I just think they're incompatible. I would say when you're drunk and she's giving you a ride isn''t the best time to bring it up.

Id row
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like this could have been a dating story on Seinfeld, lol. Kind of like Jimmy talking about himself in the third person. Yeah, I don't think I could deal with someone talking about their car like it was a person.

Jenny Mason
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We name household appliances. Our bug electrocuter is called Frank Zapper, our grill pan handle is called Dave and our vacuum is called Jaws because it's from the brand 'Shark'.

GirlFriday
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Big Spence agrees that the BF is an ahole. He also wants the girlfriend to know that Angie is definitely hungry and not thirsty when she needs gas. She is thirsty when her coolant levels need to be topped off.

LapCat
Community Member
6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I purchased my lovely “Apocalypta” right as the pandemic lockdown hit.

Kristal
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car's name was Whipped Cream. Second car was Strawberry. Third car was Sexy. My fourth, and current car, is called Blueberry. Now, guess the cars! Lol

Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish)
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our old Toyota got nicknamed Rattleclank, because it was old and we put a transformers logo on the front. Our new one doesn't have a name.

Jorie
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My gun metal gray metallic Sentra is called Jaws. It even has a shark license plate. I say I am riding Jaws to work, the store, wherever, simply because it tickles me! I owe no one an explanation.

Michelle C
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Jeeps name is Sebastian Bach...and he thinks this dude is a douche!

Julie S
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My car Bella had a lot to say on this subject but unfortunately she is Italian (fiat 500) and I don't speak Italian so no idea what she said!

Seanette Blaylock
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Betting that it was pretty rude and insulting, and that most of us would agree with her.

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Jeevesssssss
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My car was Jezebel. She had an emergency vet fund for when she got sick amongst other typical anthropomorphisms. Not only is this just a quirk I have, it has a function - it was much easier (and less painful) for me to budget for my car's expenses if I thought of her as a creature (after years of horse care this came naturally, but I was used to free public transport as I'm disabled).

Judy Plum
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m almost 70. All my cats have had names. So what! YTA. Grow up

SilverSkyCloud
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

naming cars is one thing, but OP shouldve told her in private if he was uncomfortable with her "humanizing" it my driving instructor named his car and said things like getting the car a drink instead of getting it refueled its not a big deal

Livingwithcfs
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's well out of it, I like her style and think she has a better relationship with her car than she ever did with this guy. How incredibly immature to get upset about the way someone talks to their car

Giraffy Window
Community Member
6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The floater in my right eye is named Stewart. Both our vehicles were vehemently against being named, and I had to respect that.

Adrian
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YTA! I love that your now ex named her car and gives it a personality!

SirWriteALot
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife taught me that we name cars, I've never heard it. If you have an issue with this you'll have more issues with a person who does that so ... good riddance

Kosnian
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of girls I met gave names to their first car. My best ones are Titine (short for Christine in french, referring to a certain car in a S.King novel) and Porshitta (a really really bitten up small Toyota). I also joke around with my Polo some times , especially when it's having a bath 😅

Evion Soreso
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Car naming sounds embarrassing to me as well, but it is still extremely rude to say that to someone especially if they're helping you. It's like if someone enjoys wearing a specific shirt that you think is extremely ugly- you still don't comment on it. F*****g rude. If he disliked it so much, he could have just broken up with her instead of insulting her like that.

Sina
Community Member
5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Derek and I think the same! Dude's an AH! Our previous little car Dante also says so! And so do my rice cooker Ranma, my fan Alexis, my air frier Blythe, and all my other appliances that also have names! It's funny, nonsensical and just a harmless quirk for someone to have. Why would someone be so irked by it, I don't understand.

Danish Susanne
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got angry reading that it is anthropomorphizing to give a cat and dog a name, but it is necessary to be able to call them. Apart from that I have always tried to talk about or to computers politely, and as a result I almost never have trouble with them while colleagues who didn't or even bad mouthed theirs had their computers acting out all the time. When I was asked to swap computer with a colleague whose computer gave trouble I had no trouble with his but my old one broke down after one day in his company.

Danielle Shair
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Avatre wouldn’t like you. Named after a dragon means Fire of the Dawn. After the character in Mercedes Lackey’s Dragon Jousters series.

Shetland Tony
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It does sound really annoying tbf, I obviously wouldn't call it out in front of people but still ick

Donna Harris
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a scooter named Helen Reddy....she roars like a lioness's.

Raven Hayden Rudnik
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a car but people Name their roombas. My parents called their Czesław. My ex has one named Sztywny. The guy in the post is no fun

Liza Ann Gabor
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a car named Susan. My bff' s car is named Lucy. We tell her she can do it when we go up steep hills.

Seanette Blaylock
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eccentric? Yes. Symptom of mental health issue? Most likely no. Harming anyone? Definite no here. She needs to find someone with a sense of humor and enough respect for her to not publicly shame her for something so trivial and harmless.

Szzone
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta love OP's update. They "wouldn't have been compatible". That's a very euphemistic way of saying "I'm a massive ąsshole".

Antonia
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had an old skool Fiat Panda. After almost 20 years she broke down on the highway and I had to leave it there to be picked up by a tow truck the next day. I could not sleep that night. I kept thinking of my Panda all alone on the side of the highway...

Lawpanda
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a vote to name the family car. We didn't speak about the car like it was a person but it did have a personality. By no means weird.

Mary Muir
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

tbh, I never took the car thing as far as OP's ex gf. But I did name my previous car, a Nissan juke, "junebug" just because I thought it was cute and it reminded my of the OG VW beetle. Wasn't so happy when the transmission broke and left me stranded on the roadside though! It took months and thousands of $ to get a replacement gearbox. I just got it back fixed after a very long wait, and only 3 weeks after I gave up and bought a second hand Toyota Vitz. So now I'm selling Junebug, our relationship failed, but I've got Vitz to get me around in economical style. ;-) All three of us, Vitz, Junebug and I, think OP is TA for not appreciating the service Angie and her owner did him, transporting him and his drunk friends to and from the bar.

BirdMom
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was a jerk for his timing and his wording, for sure. That being said, it's one thing to name your car, but to say things like Angie was thirsty, angie needs a new shoe - that would annoy me.

Robyn Mo
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've named ALL my cars AAANNNDDD my kitchen appliances and pots and pans. My family goes along with it and uses the names that are given. So I guess we're a family full of weirdos. Oh, my dad named all his bbq grills too, so I think OP is the weird embarrassing one

Binky Melnik
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think he’s an 🫏🕳️ because poor Angie is walking (driving) around being called “Angie” when her name is actually “Heather.”

Lady Vader
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a lot older than 21 and I have named my last 3 cars, current one is Alfie, he's a smart dude and his name suits him. I hope people can remember Herbie. 😀

Israel Martinez
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trevor disapproves of the BF's judgmental behavior ... I disapprove of him being judgmental and complaining about the judgments he got ...

Philly Bob Squires
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 2023 Subaru Crosstrek that the wife and I named Charlotte, (we call her "Char-Trek") thinks that you, sir, are the AH.

Stckynote
Community Member
6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i leased a mercedes and i never thought i'd be able to. so i named her Eleanor. people that belittle others for things that make them happy are a-holes

Katzandra
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

>“Fake eyes are a trick we fall for almost every time—one that can dupe us into seeing a mind where no mind exists,” Epley wrote. < This is so true! I stuck a pair of googly eyes on Jésus, my Roomba, and since then I can't help but treat him like much more than just a convenient appliance.

Sami-Jo Ross
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy names a boat and it's fine, a girl names her car and it's weird. He deserved getting dumped.

Marianne
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I discussed it with my good and reliable friend Proxima and we both think that he is really weird for calling her weird.

Sara Frazer
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My truck is Hot Daniel (from Adventure Time 😹) and he's been a reliable companion for over 7 years. Got him from a junk yard for $750, and there's been no major problems. A couple years ago the fuel injector went out (luckily a rather easy and inexpensive fix when it comes to vehicular malfunction) but late that night after my truck was towed home and dumped in front of my house I sat in the trusty driver seat with my forehead on the steering wheel and I WEPT. Luckily it was found out a few days later to be that easy fix, and was done. Yes I have coworkers younger than my truck ('98 Dodge Ram) but to me he is the best vehicle

Rocky
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Was highly amused by all the other cars saying hi. My first car was a rather used Mitsubishi Lancer OZ Rally Edition, " my Prince ". 💙 I'm literally getting my first "like-new" car tomorrow!! I wonder what her name will be. 🤍

Linda Hopson
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YTA!!!! My ex named his Suzuki VStrom Susie way before we ever met. I always thought it was really cute that he had 2 Susie's.

Yu Pan
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Initially I thought it was cringy. But as I read on I find myself looking forward to see learn how much more anthropomorphic can Angle get. Flat=changing shoes, I like that.

Midoribird Aoi
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought only men named their cars and treated them as something unrealistically special. Nice to see that women do it too. Overall it is a harmless quirk, and OP was stupid.

Michael Pisocki
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I named my stone lion on my patio, Aristotle. My teddy bear is Barney (he's almost 56 years old, so before the dinosaur.

brittany
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

dude, Dean Winchester named his car Baby and basically treated it like an extension of himself. if men can do it why cant women?

Alecto76
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I name a lot of my things because its funny to me and makes my boring mundane life more interesting. To myself.

Dawn Bodtke
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RocketShip5 says TA. Maxie Brown, Prixy and the Beast would agree.

TheBlueBitterfly
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car was Pearl (pink Ford escort 4door in "sunrise red" aka color changing magenta-to-fuchsia, it was my mom's), next was Ruby Frankenstien (originally red, multicolored after I wrecked it and had silver, white, black, and green panels), there's been Rufio, Caddyshack, and my current one hasn't earned a name.

MR
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. But she was definitely right to break up with him. It's a weird quirk. One that isn't going away. You're either into it or you're not. If you're not, you're incompatible.

Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

myself, my sister, some friends have named cars for ages... there's nothing like saying "C'mon Duane, you can make this hill!" when struggling up incline. I've also named my instruments.

Jinx (she/her)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i tell my girl cindy "you got this, come on, lets get through this" all the time lol

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marianne eliza
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He shouldn't have shamed her in front of others but the girl is a bit off plumb.

sweetrottenpeaches
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know. So now it is bad to tell someone they are annoying you with something... Siiiish... 🙄

Vinnie
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's okay to communicate annoyance, but there are better ways to do it than in front of a jury of one's peers. For example, my husband told me in private "I don't want to hear about X", and I was fine with it because it's about something in the past and not need to rehash the same c**p.

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Apatheist Account2
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NTA. It depends how she says it, but it isn't normal, and may indicate some sort of disorder or baggage from the past. Definitely better for them to separate though.

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That GF is really weird. OP is not the AH, sounds like the gf needs some therapy..

Jes Russell
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just spoke to Elliott about this and he thinks that guy is TA..

Rafael
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Car naming is an art. And you're not always in control. I tried to name my car (a white minivan that always save the day for everyone) as the mighty Leviathan, or the Enterprise, or even Stay Puft. Nope, my wife and my friends call him Roliço, that is Portuguese for "fatso". He doesn't seem to mind, so it stuck.

howdylee
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My white minivan is named Vanna White :) I still call her Louise sometimes though because it fits her personality.

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SheamusFanFrom1987
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't worry Pandas on wheels, Vincent/Vince and I had a pretty fast discussion as well and decided OP isn't an A-hole, but an imbecilic dingbucket that doesn't deserve his ex or Angie. We read that he got dumped and that he thanked us for the judgments. Well, on behalf of Vince and I, YOU ARE WELCOME!!! -_-"

Little Wonder
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum always calls her cars Bessie, short for Bessie Emma. The reason being that for a long time she only drove Peugeot 504s and they looked like her Aunt Bessie. Anyway, I've recently seen a photo of the human Bessie Emma and she does actually look a bit like a 504, turns out.

deanna woods
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I gave my car a name and talked about her the same way your ex girlfriend does. I love my car because it is my dream car. Also, you're lucky she didn't throw your judgmental self off on the side of the road. Next time be appreciative when someone does you a favor.

Asexual aromantic sea sponge
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is it so hard to let people just be happy? Why is it necessary to put people down and make them feel bad? Unless someone is actually doing something bad then just leave them alone.

Jinx (she/her)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wish i could upvote this so many times! let people be happy, succint and so true.

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Libstak
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There sure seems to be alot of people with corks stuck up their tight butts over basically just a ongoing light heartedness in others .

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Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I liked The Hun! I think Angie and her human are well rid of this guy. Not because he doesn't want to play, but because of how he approached it. Had he said to her in private that it bothered him, that would have been fine. They could have discussed the issue and split amicably, with no A in the picture. Instead, he chose to embarrass her in front of friends while she was doing him and the friends a pretty serious favor.

Joey Jo Jo Shabadoo
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disagree with bringing it up even in private. The only reason to bring something up is if you want the person to change it, and that is such a non problem. Either the OP kinda found her annoying already, or he really needs to get some perspective on what is a reasonable expectation of others.

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FloralDangerNoodle
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My hubby just bought me my dream car AND helped me name her - Zoom Zoom Motherf*cker - Z.Z. for short. This dude should not have embarrassed her like he did, NOT cool. She dodged a bullet, IMO. Life's short, you gotta have fun, stop and smell the roses, marvel over rainbows, etc...

Stephanie Did It
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bought the Minnow in 2012 after my divorce and for a few months I stayed with a friend in a rural area. If I needed to go into town for errands, I generally did them all at once so my friend said I should call her that because every trip was a 'three hour tour.' The Minnow turned 21 this year! If we can name boats, why not cars?!

Jinx (she/her)
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My truck Cindy is my best girl, I talk to her, pat her when I walk by, talk her through rough turns, and she definitely has a personality. I will mourn when she finally dies, because she's old and has a few issues now, but she's gotten me everywhere I needed to go and I love her.. edit to add ..my husbands truck Josh agrees, he's a dummy

Libstak
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car was called Floozy cos the 1st 3 letters were FLZ. My current car is the Beast cos it could seriously survive an apocalypse...or me as the driver/owner, same diff.

Little Wonder
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I still have the flap from over the petrol cap from my first car, which was an absolutely crappy car that barely ran but I was still sad to see it go.

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Carney
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish this was just a silly joke. It isn't I'm sure, but the guy...yeah, he is a joke. I've heard of men being jealous of their GF's friends and resenting time spent with anyone but themselves. Some boys are jealous when their GF has a child. But this guy? To be jealous and resentful of his GF's car? Hey buddy, perhaps it's past time for you to grow up and be something other than a giant douche.

Jinx (she/her)
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my first husband was jealous of my dog. some people are just dummies

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Mrs.C
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Matilda wants to hang out with Angie and talk about how her person did the right thing in dumping this fun sucker.

Saphyre Fyre
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hasn't he ever seen the movie CHRISTINE? Sounds like LUCILLE may be an ancestor of CHRISTINE. HE HE

Trillian
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am going with NTA, although it might have been in the way he said it. But this sort of cutesy talk would absolutely drive me crazy, I could never be with a person who is like that.

lenka
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you cant be with a person like that then you should break up with them. Not berate and embarrass them in front of other people ad try to shame them into changing who they are. THAT's what makes him the AH. He was rude and disrespectful to someone he is apparently supposed to care for.

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Paul C
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He had a girl who was willing to drive him about, fix it when it broke and fill it with gas. And he risked all that because she called the car Angie??? He really didn't appreciate what he had. I know a lot of men who would be more than happy to join in for a girl that looked after her car instead of calling them to fix it (or worse, calling another man to fix it).

dandylilah
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Definitely the AH for bringing it up with others present. If it bothered him that much he should have just broken up with her. I share the same opinion about naming vehicles but to each there own.

Weasel Wise
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My cars Batatron & Wednesday are glad Angie doesn't have to deal with this human turd anymore.

Noproblem
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless the car is called Christine, don’t worry about it.

Pittsburgh rare
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Otis would be furious with OP if it wasn't because I had to take him to the scrapyard 25 years ago. He died of old age, as one can only aspire to.

moggie63
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I knew the outcome to this well before the update. You really are a d**k.

OneWithRatsAndKefir
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Object personification is an interesting thing, isn’t it? I haven’t bought my own car and never thought about naming cars (though as a kid I did pretend all cars were Transformers), but I guess that if/when I buy one, I’ll name it Ratchet (after my favourite Transformer).

ConstantlyJon
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, so, I've named my cars in the past, but don't currently have one for my car, but I have nothing wrong with it. But, if OP thought it was weird, then he should have talked about it to her alone and in a gentle way. Pointing it out in front of others in a condescending way while she's literally doing you a favor is pretentious as hell and not how you communicate in a relationship. So while others will say YTA because naming cars is normal, I'd also say YTA because of how he communicated with her.

ZombieRedfox
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister had a friend growing up who named her cars Yolanda the Honda and Gretta the Jetta. I had an old Acura Integra in college and slapped an Autobot sticker on the hood, started calling it Integrabot :D

Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think he's TA, I just think they're incompatible. I would say when you're drunk and she's giving you a ride isn''t the best time to bring it up.

Id row
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like this could have been a dating story on Seinfeld, lol. Kind of like Jimmy talking about himself in the third person. Yeah, I don't think I could deal with someone talking about their car like it was a person.

Jenny Mason
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We name household appliances. Our bug electrocuter is called Frank Zapper, our grill pan handle is called Dave and our vacuum is called Jaws because it's from the brand 'Shark'.

GirlFriday
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Big Spence agrees that the BF is an ahole. He also wants the girlfriend to know that Angie is definitely hungry and not thirsty when she needs gas. She is thirsty when her coolant levels need to be topped off.

LapCat
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I purchased my lovely “Apocalypta” right as the pandemic lockdown hit.

Kristal
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car's name was Whipped Cream. Second car was Strawberry. Third car was Sexy. My fourth, and current car, is called Blueberry. Now, guess the cars! Lol

Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Our old Toyota got nicknamed Rattleclank, because it was old and we put a transformers logo on the front. Our new one doesn't have a name.

Jorie
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My gun metal gray metallic Sentra is called Jaws. It even has a shark license plate. I say I am riding Jaws to work, the store, wherever, simply because it tickles me! I owe no one an explanation.

Michelle C
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Jeeps name is Sebastian Bach...and he thinks this dude is a douche!

Julie S
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My car Bella had a lot to say on this subject but unfortunately she is Italian (fiat 500) and I don't speak Italian so no idea what she said!

Seanette Blaylock
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Betting that it was pretty rude and insulting, and that most of us would agree with her.

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Jeevesssssss
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My car was Jezebel. She had an emergency vet fund for when she got sick amongst other typical anthropomorphisms. Not only is this just a quirk I have, it has a function - it was much easier (and less painful) for me to budget for my car's expenses if I thought of her as a creature (after years of horse care this came naturally, but I was used to free public transport as I'm disabled).

Judy Plum
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m almost 70. All my cats have had names. So what! YTA. Grow up

SilverSkyCloud
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

naming cars is one thing, but OP shouldve told her in private if he was uncomfortable with her "humanizing" it my driving instructor named his car and said things like getting the car a drink instead of getting it refueled its not a big deal

Livingwithcfs
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's well out of it, I like her style and think she has a better relationship with her car than she ever did with this guy. How incredibly immature to get upset about the way someone talks to their car

Giraffy Window
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The floater in my right eye is named Stewart. Both our vehicles were vehemently against being named, and I had to respect that.

Adrian
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YTA! I love that your now ex named her car and gives it a personality!

SirWriteALot
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My wife taught me that we name cars, I've never heard it. If you have an issue with this you'll have more issues with a person who does that so ... good riddance

Kosnian
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of girls I met gave names to their first car. My best ones are Titine (short for Christine in french, referring to a certain car in a S.King novel) and Porshitta (a really really bitten up small Toyota). I also joke around with my Polo some times , especially when it's having a bath 😅

Evion Soreso
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Car naming sounds embarrassing to me as well, but it is still extremely rude to say that to someone especially if they're helping you. It's like if someone enjoys wearing a specific shirt that you think is extremely ugly- you still don't comment on it. F*****g rude. If he disliked it so much, he could have just broken up with her instead of insulting her like that.

Sina
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Derek and I think the same! Dude's an AH! Our previous little car Dante also says so! And so do my rice cooker Ranma, my fan Alexis, my air frier Blythe, and all my other appliances that also have names! It's funny, nonsensical and just a harmless quirk for someone to have. Why would someone be so irked by it, I don't understand.

Danish Susanne
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I got angry reading that it is anthropomorphizing to give a cat and dog a name, but it is necessary to be able to call them. Apart from that I have always tried to talk about or to computers politely, and as a result I almost never have trouble with them while colleagues who didn't or even bad mouthed theirs had their computers acting out all the time. When I was asked to swap computer with a colleague whose computer gave trouble I had no trouble with his but my old one broke down after one day in his company.

Danielle Shair
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Avatre wouldn’t like you. Named after a dragon means Fire of the Dawn. After the character in Mercedes Lackey’s Dragon Jousters series.

Shetland Tony
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It does sound really annoying tbf, I obviously wouldn't call it out in front of people but still ick

Donna Harris
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a scooter named Helen Reddy....she roars like a lioness's.

Raven Hayden Rudnik
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not a car but people Name their roombas. My parents called their Czesław. My ex has one named Sztywny. The guy in the post is no fun

Liza Ann Gabor
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a car named Susan. My bff' s car is named Lucy. We tell her she can do it when we go up steep hills.

Seanette Blaylock
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eccentric? Yes. Symptom of mental health issue? Most likely no. Harming anyone? Definite no here. She needs to find someone with a sense of humor and enough respect for her to not publicly shame her for something so trivial and harmless.

Szzone
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta love OP's update. They "wouldn't have been compatible". That's a very euphemistic way of saying "I'm a massive ąsshole".

Antonia
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had an old skool Fiat Panda. After almost 20 years she broke down on the highway and I had to leave it there to be picked up by a tow truck the next day. I could not sleep that night. I kept thinking of my Panda all alone on the side of the highway...

Lawpanda
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a vote to name the family car. We didn't speak about the car like it was a person but it did have a personality. By no means weird.

Mary Muir
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

tbh, I never took the car thing as far as OP's ex gf. But I did name my previous car, a Nissan juke, "junebug" just because I thought it was cute and it reminded my of the OG VW beetle. Wasn't so happy when the transmission broke and left me stranded on the roadside though! It took months and thousands of $ to get a replacement gearbox. I just got it back fixed after a very long wait, and only 3 weeks after I gave up and bought a second hand Toyota Vitz. So now I'm selling Junebug, our relationship failed, but I've got Vitz to get me around in economical style. ;-) All three of us, Vitz, Junebug and I, think OP is TA for not appreciating the service Angie and her owner did him, transporting him and his drunk friends to and from the bar.

BirdMom
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was a jerk for his timing and his wording, for sure. That being said, it's one thing to name your car, but to say things like Angie was thirsty, angie needs a new shoe - that would annoy me.

Robyn Mo
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've named ALL my cars AAANNNDDD my kitchen appliances and pots and pans. My family goes along with it and uses the names that are given. So I guess we're a family full of weirdos. Oh, my dad named all his bbq grills too, so I think OP is the weird embarrassing one

Binky Melnik
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think he’s an 🫏🕳️ because poor Angie is walking (driving) around being called “Angie” when her name is actually “Heather.”

Lady Vader
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a lot older than 21 and I have named my last 3 cars, current one is Alfie, he's a smart dude and his name suits him. I hope people can remember Herbie. 😀

Israel Martinez
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trevor disapproves of the BF's judgmental behavior ... I disapprove of him being judgmental and complaining about the judgments he got ...

Philly Bob Squires
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 2023 Subaru Crosstrek that the wife and I named Charlotte, (we call her "Char-Trek") thinks that you, sir, are the AH.

Stckynote
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i leased a mercedes and i never thought i'd be able to. so i named her Eleanor. people that belittle others for things that make them happy are a-holes

Katzandra
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

>“Fake eyes are a trick we fall for almost every time—one that can dupe us into seeing a mind where no mind exists,” Epley wrote. < This is so true! I stuck a pair of googly eyes on Jésus, my Roomba, and since then I can't help but treat him like much more than just a convenient appliance.

Sami-Jo Ross
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy names a boat and it's fine, a girl names her car and it's weird. He deserved getting dumped.

Marianne
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I discussed it with my good and reliable friend Proxima and we both think that he is really weird for calling her weird.

Sara Frazer
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My truck is Hot Daniel (from Adventure Time 😹) and he's been a reliable companion for over 7 years. Got him from a junk yard for $750, and there's been no major problems. A couple years ago the fuel injector went out (luckily a rather easy and inexpensive fix when it comes to vehicular malfunction) but late that night after my truck was towed home and dumped in front of my house I sat in the trusty driver seat with my forehead on the steering wheel and I WEPT. Luckily it was found out a few days later to be that easy fix, and was done. Yes I have coworkers younger than my truck ('98 Dodge Ram) but to me he is the best vehicle

Rocky
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6 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Was highly amused by all the other cars saying hi. My first car was a rather used Mitsubishi Lancer OZ Rally Edition, " my Prince ". 💙 I'm literally getting my first "like-new" car tomorrow!! I wonder what her name will be. 🤍

Linda Hopson
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YTA!!!! My ex named his Suzuki VStrom Susie way before we ever met. I always thought it was really cute that he had 2 Susie's.

Yu Pan
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Initially I thought it was cringy. But as I read on I find myself looking forward to see learn how much more anthropomorphic can Angle get. Flat=changing shoes, I like that.

Midoribird Aoi
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I thought only men named their cars and treated them as something unrealistically special. Nice to see that women do it too. Overall it is a harmless quirk, and OP was stupid.

Michael Pisocki
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I named my stone lion on my patio, Aristotle. My teddy bear is Barney (he's almost 56 years old, so before the dinosaur.

brittany
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

dude, Dean Winchester named his car Baby and basically treated it like an extension of himself. if men can do it why cant women?

Alecto76
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I name a lot of my things because its funny to me and makes my boring mundane life more interesting. To myself.

Dawn Bodtke
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

RocketShip5 says TA. Maxie Brown, Prixy and the Beast would agree.

TheBlueBitterfly
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My first car was Pearl (pink Ford escort 4door in "sunrise red" aka color changing magenta-to-fuchsia, it was my mom's), next was Ruby Frankenstien (originally red, multicolored after I wrecked it and had silver, white, black, and green panels), there's been Rufio, Caddyshack, and my current one hasn't earned a name.

MR
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. But she was definitely right to break up with him. It's a weird quirk. One that isn't going away. You're either into it or you're not. If you're not, you're incompatible.

Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

myself, my sister, some friends have named cars for ages... there's nothing like saying "C'mon Duane, you can make this hill!" when struggling up incline. I've also named my instruments.

Jinx (she/her)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i tell my girl cindy "you got this, come on, lets get through this" all the time lol

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marianne eliza
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He shouldn't have shamed her in front of others but the girl is a bit off plumb.

sweetrottenpeaches
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know. So now it is bad to tell someone they are annoying you with something... Siiiish... 🙄

Vinnie
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's okay to communicate annoyance, but there are better ways to do it than in front of a jury of one's peers. For example, my husband told me in private "I don't want to hear about X", and I was fine with it because it's about something in the past and not need to rehash the same c**p.

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Apatheist Account2
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6 months ago

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NTA. It depends how she says it, but it isn't normal, and may indicate some sort of disorder or baggage from the past. Definitely better for them to separate though.

Laura Annsmith
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6 months ago

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That GF is really weird. OP is not the AH, sounds like the gf needs some therapy..

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