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Shocked Mom Asks Why Her Black Son Was Put On Front Line During Shooting Drills, Doesn’t Expect This Response
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Shocked Mom Asks Why Her Black Son Was Put On Front Line During Shooting Drills, Doesn’t Expect This Response

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In the wake of the mass school shooting in Parkland, Florida, parents are having tough conversations with their children about how to prepare for the unthinkable. One of them, Tanai Bernard, a teacher from Texas, had an exchange with her son Dezmond, asking him about safety drills in his school. The single mom wanted to make sure that her 10-year-old boy was taking them seriously and wasn’t using them “as a time to socialize and goof off.” His, answer, however, shocked Tanai so much, she just had to share it on Facebook. Scroll down to read Dezmond’s words that have accumulated over 310K reactions and 150K shares, and let us know what you think about them in the comments!

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Meet Dezmond, a 5th-grader who shocked his mom by describing his school safety drill

Their exchange has accumulated over 310K reactions and 150K shares on Facebook

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And it’s a perfect example of parenting done right

Moved by his words, people applauded Dezmond for his bravery

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Nadine Ducca
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's so sad, disturbing and disgusting that children growing up in what is considered one of the most advanced and important countries in the world have to be trained on how to react in the even of mass school shootings. Things have gotten out of hand when the fear and the possibility of it happening are so real that teachers must prepare their students. When I was little and growing up in Southern California, we had fire drills and earthquake drills, but drilling for the (ever more likely) chance of having a psycopath break in and gun children down? Chilling.

Matthew Hyder
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I'm from around Austin, Texas, but I grew up in the 90's and early 00's and I don't remember having anything like this happen. :(

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Mark Fuller
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While your son's selflessness is beautiful and commendable, the fact that kids in the US even have to do such drills is so tragic. The U.K. is faaaar from perfect, but there's some things we have got right: And not giving everyone a constitutional right to bear firearms is one of them.

Parmeisan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Technically, (as I understand it), the Americans don't have that constitutional right, either. What they have is the right to form and arm a local militia (and not even specifically guns). Somehow through public misunderstanding and continual support of that notion through precedence in courts, it has morphed into being nearly the same thing.

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Petar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is something fundamentally F-ed up in the mentality of the average american! Sorry but if this an example of 'the greatest country' in the world I can't imagine the worst. Such drills were typical for countries that are actively involved in military action on their soil. To put a black paper over the window, to cover it.... What?! This really sounds like they are expecting this to happen every day. What about gun control and not sell M16 to everyone? The rest of the world is doing just fine without the "constitutional rights" or "patriotic thoughts" (laughable things in this context) being violated.. ;)

Mia D
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's effed up for sure. As an American kid, it's ridiculous I have to worry about this stuff. I'm going into highschool next year, and this stuff is honestly insane. It stinks we have to prepare for this, but with an unstable president (to say the very least), and no immediate action being taken, it seems like it's probably the best thing to do. It's horrible we've had SO many shootings this year, it's unexceptable. The amendment people are using as evidence to prevent gun control laws is outdated and was made in a very different time. It allows Americans to have "a well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State" which is also the "right to bear arms". Its outdated doesn't exactly apply to today. Our president is more interested in the financial benefits than the lives of kids like me, and it's scary. I feel like we've been desensitised to these things, because in any other first world country, one incident like Columbine or Sandy Hook or Parkland would be

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Shruti Naik
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's 10 and he's thinking of how to protect his friends instead of watching cartoons and eating candies. That's heartbreaking.

Nomadus Aureus
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile in my "third world" country, the only drill we ever had was for fires.

Zerish Kamal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in pakistan which actually is one technically we did these when i was younger

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anarkzie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be, but thank god she did not and decided to question as to why he was out front pushing the table to protect his mostly white friends. Good parenting prevents racist children.

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Kjorn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm glad we don't have to live with that in Canada.

Ashley Fernandes
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a fellow Canadian I don't understand how the US can be so different from us. We're far from perfect but we don't have children killing each other and we can go to the hospital without bankrupting our families.

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Rusty S.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Phenomenally American of us to teach how to react to a shooting instead of preventing them. F**K this country, nobody cares about fixing problems before they arise anymore. This is BOTH a gun control issue AND a mental health issue. None of this would be necessary if we had empathic proactive politicians. Its full of crooked sociopaths voted in by uneducated masses. And by uneducated I mean people who are too lazy to seek truth, too scared to confront it when its in their face, and too stubborn to listen anyway.

Teddy O'Malley
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Murderers don't follow the law either, but we still have laws against committing them. Imagine that.

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jbingham
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

22,357.333 the decimal point continuing of course. But the number has to be exact. Any more or less than that and the laws won't change.

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d r e a m w o r l d
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a corageous young boy! It's truly tragic that he must do this, however. America is really fricked up. I'm ashamed of my country, to be honest. That young boy, on the other hand? I'm as proud as ever of him! He's such a brave soul. I wish him the best.

Echo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And another thing. If we as Americans cannot control crazy and disturbed people from getting guns and using them on innocents. Then we don't get to have them. When my kids prove they cannot be carful and take care of things that are expensive or important. Then they don't get to play with those things. As much as I want to have the right to own and practice with any gun that I plan to use responsibly. If the whole class cannot play nice and and be responsible. Then no one gets them. We need to step back and look at this issue like the US is a bunch of 5 year olds. If the whole group cannot play nice. Then no one gets to have play time anymore. I think this has been lost on us. If people were randomly shooting each other and when the amendment was being considered back in the day. I think they would have agreed that it was more important to protect the children than worry about a government taking over.

Dairy King
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you believe guns should be taken away, may I ask, do you think someone that would shoot up a school, would willfully hand in their firearm? I see how that would help, but it would also leave innocents defensless, wouldn't it?

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Terry Jeppsen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that in this country we have to do lockdown drills and lockout drills.

dlc1281
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, in my day, it was ducking under the desk for Nuclear attack drills. And no one complained about it, not the Parents, not the Teachers, and no the Politicians.

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Winter Soldier
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As much as I'm so proud of this kid, it's absolutely disgusting that ANYONE would have to volunteer for that. Dezmond, I hope someday I see your name on the news for doing something amazing, not as a name on a list of victims of gun violence.

Micco Jaycola
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most surreal thing about this is that in The Greatest Country of The Universe the children have to participate to a lockdown drill.

Terry Neale
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you sure about that greatest country comment? As a brit it doesn't seem that great, soon you'll be sending kids to school in Kevlar!

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Fsociety
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds to me that young boy is headed to be a police officer or join the military.

Elizabott
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm almost 30, and when I grow up, I wanna be like Dezmond.

Travis Sivart
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heartbreaking that kids have to face this in the USA. It's really tragic and unthinkable everywhere else. Nra destroying so much in the name of money...

dlc1281
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6 years ago

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Who failed??? The NRA or the FBI and the Local Sheriff"s department? Unthinkable any where else, Is your head attacked to your body??? I can think of many other places in this world that are worse off. Africa, Middle East, South East Asia, to name just a few. Do you know the safest Country in the World, concerning Gun threats, etc. Switzerland averages two murders a year, why - every second citizen has a rifle provided to them by their Government. And once said citizen receives his/her rifle, they are required to go to classes and then the firing range to prove their proficiency. Then they are required to retest every couple of years. It is indeed a shame that there are so many people like you that Add one and one and come up with the answer - THREE! You want to talk about money, how and why is Hillary worth more than Six Hundred and Forty Million Dollars. Just one Democrat asking another Democrat!

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smash17
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back up to the lockdown drills. Is there anywhere else in the world where kids prepare for school invasions? Sad.

Jorge Araรบjo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

2 stupid things here. Why do children in america have to do an active shooter drill? Fire or earthquake drill, I understand. U.S. keeps putting guns in front o their children. Why can somebody carry a gun but not have a kinder egg? The other stupid thing is: why was this mother making this a racial problem?

Echo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I can say is that I teared up reading this. What The the f**k am I sending my kids in to everyday. I can't afford to not work and protect them every second of the day. Why the f**k should I even be thinking about this. Where the f**k is the world going to when little kids have to be prepared to put themselves on the line to save others they may cherish. This is all utterly insane.

Wendy Davies
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ile5s get the guns off of the street. We donโ€™t need ten year old heroes. Dez needs to focus on being a child and getting his grades, not protecting his classmates from a terrorist with a semiautomatic weapon. Having said that, what a beautiful child. Iโ€™d be proud to call him my son. Get rid of the NRA puppets.

dlc1281
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6 years ago

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You want to clean up society, the NRA are Law Abiding Citizens!!! Arrest the Criminals, put them away, and throw away the keys. Strange, when my Grandfather graduated from sixth grade, he left home and was on his own. Twelve years old and was success through out his life. Life was not easier back then, the hours were long and the work was not easy. His final exam to exit the Sixth grade, was a lot tougher than anything experienced today. We all know what caused the murders at the Florida School. Not the NRA, but the FBI, and the local Sheriff's department, If you can't tell the difference, please go silent, you are causing more harm than good.

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Agnes Jekyll
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a kind, selfless kid, but no child should have to make those kinds of decisions

Little Djini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mind refuse to comprehend this. I have a 12 years old and his biggest concern right now is to prepare for test. I donโ€™t understand why a 10 years old child has to be prepared for an armed attak in a country that is not a war.

Jordan Cunningham
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the f**k is wrong with that country? Why are we not putting sanctions against the US?

Sandi Burrows
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Canada we don't have these problems. Most countries don't except the states and maybe two others in Europe and Africa. Why is that? Because of some stupid right that was written in the 1700'S. You don't wear clothes from the 1700's. You don't cook and clean up like in the 1700's. You don't wash clothes in a stream somewhere. For God's sake, change the gun law. Make it tough to get them. Background checks, proper training, written tests etc. etc. It's time for change.

Gabi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't really clap for the fact that a 5th grader has to have such things on his mind instead of playing and running carefree and not having to be afraid of possible school shootings.

Beth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's beyond disgusting that the kids in the States have to deal with this. At schools in NZ we have earthquake drills! I don't know how your politicians dare allow this to continue, and why you keep voting for them. Every single public official who did nothing to deal with this in the last 20 years should be jailed.

Laetitia
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*clicks on all the negative comments so I can downvote them again*

Gayle Horwitz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a director of a preschool, I have envisioned myself being placed in the position of protecting our students with my life. But, I burst out crying after reading about Dez and feel humbled by his selfless bravery at the young age of ten. I remember the days when we had drills in case there were threats from across the ocean, but my classmates and I never felt threatened. Now our largest threat is from those among our midst, and those threats are very REAL. Why our children are even having to feel threatened by assailants in their own neighborhoods and towns is every concerned parent's heartache. The fact that our nation also has to contend with One. More. Minute. of ineptitude in leadership and the complicity of self-serving politicians to continue to do absolutely nothing to mitigate this siege in our own nation, is beyond the pale.

Brandon Reeves
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What and awesome kid and "human being". Too bad the parents make everything about race. EVERYTHING

Alex Craig
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is going to grow up to be a beautiful adult. Yes it is sad that any child has to think that way. America you need to change your gun laws. You should hang your head in shame America. Until you do unfortunately this will continue to happen.

hyprstorm
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kid is a perfect example of selflessness and caring for others . Thanks for being great

Carmen Elena
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes me sad that children have to deal with the possibility of being shot whenever a stranger is out of their mind. But at the same time his response is overwhelming, thoughtful... I donยดt know.

Keeslim Sunshine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God bless you baby you have a BIG HEART. May the Lord walk with you every day of your life

Jenny Lorenz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read it and wondered why she thought he was chosen cuz he was black. I know that they go through things like that on a day yo day basis though. So maybe that is why she jumped to that conclusion.

Rafaella Bueno
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It feels like it was mostly because he said it was him and other 2 boys, and that's the exact amount of black kids in his class, so it really sounded like it might be the reason.

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Janelle Collard
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez, you are SO much braver than I am. God bless you.

Liz Edwards
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a terrible lockdown procedure on the part of the school or the school board. The children in no way should be participating in the protection of other children or staff. All humans in the room should be moving to the "safest" area in the classroom. The door should be locked at all times. The truth is that I had a child who could actually breakthrough my door lock and did . Lockdowns are not the answer to children's or the staff's safety (yes, we matter as well). When I hear of anyone in a school situation dying to protect others, I get very mad. It is amazing hard to keep people out of school as there is so much going on there. Keep the guns out of people's hands.

Kahlo Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What would you say the answer is when there is a danger on campus, other that locking down the classroom? While I agree that having certain children stand in front sounds weird, having participated in many lockdowns and drills throughout my time in school, I think it should be expected for students to participate in securing a classroom, rather than leaving one staff member to attempt to fully secure it alone.

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Mark Smallman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One question? If the teacher locks the door and 4 kids push a table in front of it where exactly is the teacher? Does he lock them in and leave them to fend for themselves? Not criticising, just I am in the UK and didn't know such things were practiced in US schools.

Kahlo Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a US student who's been through lockdown drills and actual lockdowns, anarkzie is pretty right! The teacher will lock the door from inside. Generally the whole class will participate in turning off lights, creating a barricade, and closing and covering windows (because the teacher alone would take far too long to secure the whole classroom).

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Maggie Collins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW!! Just.....WOW! I cannot even imagine the amazing relationship this mother must have with her children. Woman, you are the best.

Mixedupste
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And these are the times we live in now a days that school kids have do do drills for s**t like this! So sad!

LovePsychos
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh the end took me off guard. For a moment I thought they choose him on purpose because of his colour. When I reached the end I shivered! He's so brave and kind I wish all the people were like him and mostly I wish presidents were like him!

Allana Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! After reading all the comments I knew this one would hit a nerve and rightly so. Growing up, we never had to worry about a "school shooter" Times has def. changed and not for the better. I think it stems from a couple of key issues, one started when they took religion out of the schools. Two, the low age of buying guns. You cant even vote at 18 why should you be able to buy guns? Three, assault rifles should not be legal as they only reason the exist is to kill humans (as opposed to hunting animals). Forth and last is Mental illness. Since Regan, back in the 80's, shut down thousands of mental illness institutions, we have seen a huge up tick of the untreated mentally ill grow to be a huge problem here in the US. Maybe there are even more problems that need to be addressed. This shooter had been reported to the FBI as he posted on Facebook that he was intending to doing a school shooting but was ignored by the FBI! Again, HE WAS REPORTED BEFORE THE SHOOTING BUT WAS IGNORED BY FBI

Jaz Jensen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Australia, my childrens school doesn't even do drills. I couldn't imagine starting to do them because you may get shot. We have strict gun laws.

Linda Matheny
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Desmond is going to accomplish great things in his life. He is a leader, not a follower!

Miranda Garnett
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's amazing you raised a good son brave and thoughtful but I do agree children of that age should not in this day and age should not have to think like that that definitely should not be of any thought in there minds

Oscar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kid has more courage than most of the people running the world today combined. Take that kid out for some f**ing ice cream. I just about lost it at the twist in this story.

Lululoohoo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good job mama! Your boy was raised right & has such a beautiful heart & smile. he's going places!

Ashley Lopez
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a brave boy! such a same that young children have to experience this! :C

pepjrp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is my black son in front??? Your son is brave, but you are a bit of a racist for your thoughts. That is being real!

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. She's not racist. Assuming other people are being racist isn't racist. The world we live in, unfortunately, judges people of color different than white people.

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Nick Mozzetti
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whyd she say โ€˜my black sonโ€™ and not just โ€˜my sonโ€™? is she racist towards her own kid??

Meeow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such an angel, what a brave little man and it's also heartbreaking!!

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Instead of parents fostering hate of anyone different from themselves and making excuses for their kids' bullying behaviour, how about we stop the hate, stop pushing the patriarchy agenda, stop pushing a pro-breeder society, and let people live in peace to make their own lives. Stop condemning women and non whites for trying to build a career and a successful life, stop treating women like breeding stock and walking sex toys for men, stop treating non-whites like pest animals to be controlled, sterilized, and exterminated, stop treating non gender binary people like they are diseased or mentally ill, stop treating people with different spiritual beliefs than yours like satanic monsters to be forced to convert to your religion or die, stop trying to make excuses for your bad behaviour and take responsibility for your actions and choices, stop using other people as scapegoats so you can rob people of their rights and freedoms, and stop trying to foster tyrannical control through fear.

Meg
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I think is sad is the first thought the mother had was that the white teacher picked her black son to be in the front lines to protect the majority white class. She immediately went to racism and it wasnt even about that. Its not always about that. I am glad her son humbled her showed her it was more than skin color but the actual heart of her son that is the reason why he is in the front. Beautiful boy and I hope he never has to sacrifice himself in that situation for his friends and classmates.

Jerry Hampton
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she automatically assumed her son was picked because he was black? Isn't that kind of racist? Oh, wait. It was.

Kimberly Robinson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That just makes me incredibly damned sad. And, I feel old. All we had to do were fire drills, not "active shooter" drills. At the same time, I feel very proud of him. I just never want his bravery to be tested. I want all of them to just get a chance to GROW UP and get toegther, twenty years from now, and talk about how boring school was. Not this.

Gwinevere von Ludwig
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a beautiful child (and a beautiful family). Good job and much love, Tenai!!

Tammy Wargo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an amazing young man! Mom you are raising him right! Such a scary thought that the young people of today have to even think about these things! Gods blessings to you and yours!

Lira Mai
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admire the boy but it is kind of sad that his mom immediately think that the reason that his son being put in front of the line is because he is black. Even the title says so.

Elizabeth Lord Cary
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being thoughtful like that, this little boy is going to become a hero at some point in his life. It's sad that he has to think of such things at 10 years old, but it has helped make him a good person. I hope she's proud. I'm proud of him and I don't know him.

Joyce Blodgett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a mother of a son who was killed in a shooting (wrong place at the wrong time, not a school shooting, nor an active shooter situation), I can't listen to the school shootings, nor any other kind, when they come up in the news. I know what it's like to lose my children (daughter died at birth), and I know the hideous grief of losing one to a bullet. Nobody should ever die that way, and the survivors should never have to go through the agony of wondering why and how.

Honesty Olishia
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was expecting to get angry, but instead I am so impressed at the bravery and selflessness I saw. The world needs more people like Dezmond, he is an outstanding kid, and I get the impression that his mom's doing a great job.

deborah darsie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate the idea of voting this post up or down...there is so much wrong with that young man needing to think such a thing through at that age. I am impressed by the young man's love of his classmates as well as the courage and the strength his parent(s) have helped him develop.

Donald Johnson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the young man is very "BRAVE". And deserves all of our respect. Stay Brave young man, and you'll do alright in life.

Catherine Stiteler
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez is absolutely amazing ! You must be a wonderful mother to have instilled such integrity and bravery in this young man, but my heart breaks to think of this being even a possiblity. I am 58 and never once had thoughts of anything even remotely close to this when I was in school and not even when my own children were in schoo. Hugs to that brave beautiful boy !

Cici Snow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor kids its just normal for them growing up thinking, " I might get shot at school. Cute awesome kid.

Kate Au
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

we need more people in the world like him. It's these people that keep us from absolute chaos

Rodney Jackson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I Absolutely Salute YOU, Young Man! It is a real shame that people as young as you even have to think about those situations, let alone make the courageous decision that you made!

Delilah Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This young man is alert and wise beyond his years. He should be held up as an example to all. To his Mama, you have raised an amazing son. God Bless...

Liliana P
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom, you did a great job with your little cutie. He has a good heart and no one can deny that. And he is brave too. I'm sorry he and all the kids have to go through this,

Bud Waters
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your son is a reflection of you. He didn't learn that at school. He learned it at home. What he may see or hear outside is no match for what you've taught him. Even though the first thing that popped into your head was the ugly snake of racism it is not what he learned from you. Your young man is going to be a leader for all.

Freedomlover
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a beautiful child with amazing words.... He is a bridge over very troubled waters. It is not about the color of your skin, it is about the content of his wonderful character! Thank you.

Rickey Richard
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a great young man,to be so selfless and caring for others that at the tender age of 10 he is willing to lay down his life so others would be safe. I applaud his parents for raising such a courageous young man. My prayers are that he never will be put in that situation. Too all the people who are fortunate enough to be in this young mans life know that you are very lucky to be in such great company..

Nick Corbett Jr.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have anyone I really consider a hero........I do now. Thanks Dez. I am also glad I am Canadian and my kids do not have (out of necessity) this mindset. I hope your day of bravery never comes Dez. Stay safe.

Louise Brigance
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was living overseas in 1968 and I can remember feeling so shamed by my country when MLK Jr got killed. And then RFK was killed I was so embarrassed by my country. For God's sake we were suppose to be smartest and best country on the planet! It became a real wake up for me.

Janine Randall
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That young man's selflessness and love for his classmates brought me to tears. I also cried thinking that 10 year olds have to even think about this.

Jackie Malley
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is sad to me what is happening in a place that should be safe for children. That this young man has to think about giving his own life while at school. He is an amazing example of courage and I believe could be a great leader one day.

J Browne
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This mad me sob for so many reasons. Beautiful child, beautiful mother and beautiful family. Yes it is horrifying he has to think like this at 10 yrs. old. And what an amazing mother you have been to have this child not think twice about being there for others in such a courageous way. Wow! If we all had mothers like this there would be no school shootings.

Deneille Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Made me shed a tear, if we all just volunteered for each other more often......

Douglas Boekhout
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tanai Benard, You are an educator. First, you have the sense to talk to your children and find out what is going on in their lives. Yes, the school taught your son what to do in case of an emergency, BUT, they did not put his thought process in his brain. Where did that thought process come from, Tanai, now you can breathe a sigh of relief because with that kind of thinking at home rather than school is where it should start. People should not complain about the teachings at schools, but they should complain about what goes on in the home. Stand tall and stand proud Tanai, you as a parent should be cloned.

Tamara Keegan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This completely wrecked me this morning. I am sitting here sobbing at the sick reality we live in now where elementary school children have to practice "active shooter drills". I am balling my eyes out over this brave young man and my heart is aching for his mother who had to hear this from her young son. This world is awful, it's chilling to hear a child that has a plan in place to place himself in front of others to die.

Vincent Jay
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ten- year olds are not ignorant babies. They're capable of having very rational thoughts.

Justin Ray
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Im not gonna go on and on like people. yes its a shame blah blah blah but fact is we have to so Ill say that this kid is a hero. Straight up.

Rhon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This beautiful child is living in fear for his friends at such a tender age. This sounds like something that you expect to hear from a war torn country !!

Catherine Estlack
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a wonderful, caring, brave young man. I cried when I read this. I am so sad for our country and so sad that nothing has changed after all this time. You son and the students from Parkland, Fla give me so so much hope. Can't wait for these young people to take control of our government. Hopefully, I will be voting for your son !!! Bless him.

Tisha Hudson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that you have raised a hero who already knows how to demonstrate true grace and love!

nAmpe
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The point here is that, color doesn't matter. Anyone could do that. It's just that this man is braver enough to stand for his classmates. SALUTE!

Maria K
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow!! Such a good little boy. :) Did not expect the ending!

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the early 90's I was forced to leave high school and get a GED, literally running for my life to get away from a place that was far from safe. My school housed members from three different gangs that all hated each other and I would be faced with frequent incidents of gang violence - guns and knives pulled on each other, knock-down drag-out fights blocking the classroom door, bullies and thugs gunning for anyone they could make flinch, etc. Add to that the issue of bigotry, hate, and violence against anyone who is a different ethnicity, culture, gender, sexuality, religion, social or economic status, etc than "you" (general collective, non specific you) and you have a powder keg just waiting to take out half a city.

David Tomka
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm proud of him volunteering but should have asked you first and if you said yes he would be a

Roberta Morrison
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an amazing young man. I hope for all of our children's sake we finally sit down and figure out HOW we are going to protect our children when they are at school. We certainly cannot allow our schools to remain soft targets, or have law enforcement that does not take reported threats 100% seriously.

Margaret Shannon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this the same Tanai Bernard who gave an interview about living in the United Arab Emirates? https://bossip.com/1259797/could-you-do-it-single-black-mother-of-3-moves-family-to-the-uae/

AnKa Wi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is all about what is wrong over in America...sadly enough that any child has to practice this stuff...I will never understand...our children can be children and not practice how to stay alive in school....so sad and so wrong at the same time...change the gun policy!

Magpie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm Australian, so we really do *not* know what it feels like. Just so sad and terrifying.

Mark Erwin
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is really sad that there are children as young as them prepare themselves against gun violence IN SCHOOL - a place where children should feel safe while learning! I am from a developing country and is actually well-known for terrorism, as media puts it, but we have never ever done this at school!

Amy Dias
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not enough for the selfless beauty of this child's heart. We have to protect them.

Sykz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That kid is going places!! Thank you young man for having compassion for others.

Heather Bateman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This little boy is more man than most grown "men" I know. Great job Mom and Dad!!!

Rama Llama
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds kind of weird that school has safety drills that involve 10 year old kids volunteering to die first. Maybe they should invest in some kind of safety doors instead.

Carolyn Stewart
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

May God bless you and those children that care about others instead of themselves. God gave his life that we may live and serve Him. Your son already secured his place in Gods arms as did you for raising a son of this caliber. I would stand in front of him and my children if I could. I am old but their lives mean more to me than my own. Thank you for raising him in service to God.

Kevin Camp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not way to young to be thinnking in this manner. This young man has already assumed the role of protector, exhibiting the first stages of manhood. He is already becomeing situationally aware of how the real world is, not the make believe world, and how he will react ot it and make his way through it successfully. I applaud this young man and his mother for teaching him that he is not the only person in room as most young people believe today.

Donna Mouton
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a very brave boy!! A Badge of Honor!!!! When I was growing up we had drills of dropping and crawling under our desks. That was during WW2. Will it ever cease!!!!! We hope he will never have to do it.

Aj Isaacs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With all our problems in the USA, his comment about protecting others (even possibly with his life) is incredibly brave and what being an American means to me. Nobody country or person is perfect but that kid has what it takes to lead. Encourage this child into serving others and he will be successful.

Karen Lewis
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're doing a great job. I hope it never comes to that. You can't "pick" someone for this "job." He volunteered. What a great heart he has. God bless you!

Elsie Lowry
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez you are an exceptional young lad, if we had a lot more like you we would be in a much better situation than we are at this time. God Bless you today and always. Thanks to the parents for raising such a brave and thoughtful child. <3

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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah because the title had to be "black kid get's put in front" and not something like "fifth grader puts himself infront of others during shooting drill" :/

Abdul Khan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm trying to reply to Marlowe about breaking your arm and losing your job. That exact thing happened to me in Dec 2016. I also was evicted. I never saw a doctor, just the ER. No money. I also took my splint of after 4 weeks to look for a new job. I got a labor job and was too weak in my right arm to lift a hammer.

4Sunshine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This young man has wonderful values and a great mom. HOWEVER, after reading many comments here, I must remind folks that school violence is not new. It has just evolved. I grew up in New York in the 1950's. (yes, I'm old) There were dangerous gangs who committed crimes and attacked individuals both in and out of school. When they fought each other nothing on the street was safe, not cars, not buildings, not people, and they had guns then too. So now we also have mass shooters. My point is that this is not a new problem but an extension of an old one. We have a problem in our society that must be resolved before we worry about removing guns. Those who are intent on causing suffering to make a statement will always find something to use as a weapon.

Chico Martins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's racist and judgemental. Her son is brave, and will be a honorable man.

Cici Snow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She admitted she was incorrect. That's kind of the whole point of this article...!

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Thomas O'Keefe
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many things about this country that are unique from the nations of the world. Chief among them is our democracy. Tyranny from ones country was and remains the single greatest oppressor of all people yearning to be free. Great Britain, France and indeed all the world is indebted to the U.S. for their freedom and survival. The tragedy in Florida is unfortunate but guns are no more at fault than a knife, a car or truck when they are used to bring harm to people. These evils are brought to our schools, not because of they are crowded but because they weakest and most vulnerable. Making meth illegal hasn't slowed its use nor made it hard to get. Where are the marches by high school students to get something done about meth? When will they join hands and call upon their leaders to get rid of drugs? Guns are scary. I know. Fear of them is dangerous. And that's terrifying.

Benjamin Christensen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. But how can she be an educator and not know the difference between then and than?

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It greatly depends on where you are in this country, and as a point of fact, there are greater numbers of violent crimes in high population urban areas, cities, than anywhere else. Why? Overpopulation and nature flips a switch in some people to turn violent. It's called population control. Biologists and zoologists see it in animal populations all the time when there are too many in an area unable to support them all. First they try to disperse the population into smaller groups to spread out to other areas, and when that doesn't work or they are forced to remain in a closed or limited environment, the violence escalates. Yes, we are social creatures, but 8.5MILLION people in an area that should only support 1/10th that number, is it any wonder people go crazy?

Laurel Foxworth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I applaud the mother of this young man. It is sad that children don't feel safe in schools and churches, but this young man could be the one to bring a change to the purpose of one's life. I believe that he values his life and that the statement he made should make others open their eyes and heart.

ET ET
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait wait wait, am I the only one who is thinking that the mom has got some serious issues? The first thing she can think of is why the school is being racist? Come on, that's not good parenting. She jumped to conclusions and planted thoughts in his head. Good parenting and good people skills is to get the facts, and don't jump to conclusions. Great for the kid, but the parent is disturbing.

James Grandmaison
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's great that this ten year old is showing the bravery that most of us only wish we could have I a situation line an active shooter. It's really nice to know that the younger generation is showing such intelligence. That being said, however. Why was race even brought up in this story? It doesn't have anything to do with the story. It's a great eye opening story and it doesn't matter if the kid was black, white, brown, or any other color of the rainbow. Maybe I'm reading too much into it. But, the race card didn't need to be shown here. Unnecessary really.

John Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well dang, mommy wanted to play her race card... and then boom, plot spoiler. Ha ha.

Allana Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perhaps this is getting down voted because the mother's first assumption being a racist one? I think the kids explanation was a beautiful one but was sadden by the mother's first thoughts. Sad because it shows that (not just her) that racism is still so prevalent in the US. I wouldn't have thought that at all, but then, I am not her. I know this prob. wont be well liked, but it is just my opinion and what I thought when I read her response.

anarkzie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that her first thought was that her son was a victim of racism, is not in itself racist(that's a stupid assertion), but it is an indication of the insecurities that some people and groups feel within American society. American is no doubt a good country but it's a country that does not seem to take critism well, rather than ask why do certain people feel that they're discriminated against because of their skin colour, sections of it's society(Fox news types) construe those people raising their grivances as an attack and go on the defensive.

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Kim Lacate
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think every mother in America should look at this mother and her beautiful family as what can make america great again

Jonathan Eatsalot
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The adult assumed race immediately. Guns don't scare me. So called adults do.

Danny Root
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shame on her for jumping the racism card right off the bat. Seems to be the trend these days though, unfortunately.

Kawaii Panda
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is so wonderful and disturbing at the same time to hear a child saying that he would rather die than have his whole class die. Children shouldnโ€™t be thinking about that at such a young age. But what a gracious and holy being you have raised. God bless him.

Jim Bogle
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's put the God she prayed to back in school where He can watch over them.

Ashley Hurd
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was all ready to use that race card and her son showed more integrity in his little finger.

porcupine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a kind-hearted child. But why the f**k isnโ€™t the teacher guarding the children?

Jim Bob
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kinda F'ed up that the mother is racist in this post. What the Kid did was brave, what the mother thought and jumped to conclusion about was super racist. In the same scenario, a white male would have been persecuted for being a white supremacist thinking the exact same thing. If I put my self in this SAME situation and my daughter told me the exact same thing, I would have never thought, "Why is my white daughter, standing in the front line." I would have thought, "why is my daughter standing in front of the class" like any normal parent. But I guess it isn't appropriate for me to call this mother a racist because i'm white.

Megan Brouwer
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isent parenting done right....she though it was rasisim before even considereing her kid wanted to protect his friends...its more like somehow the kid turend out fine while you are a a bad human.

Krysta Pandoo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As lovely as this woman's child is, I'm more concerned with her instant reaction to him on the front line - why did she instantly jump to 'the teacher is clearly a racist' before hearing the whole story? Soaring gun crime rates aside, why is America still so backwards with race relations that this is her first thought?

John Smith
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Speaking of gun crime rates: blacks are more likely to commit gun crimes as a percentage of total population. Just 13% of blacks (by total pop) commit well over 50% of all homicides (the majority by using guns). These facts have held true for at least 70 years. It's something Democrats don't like to discuss.

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Mont
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's clear she was assuming racism even thought racism wasn't there. Her son just happens to be a brave kid.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She corrected herself, and quickly. But of course, you're more concerned with that than the welfare of children.

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Meowton Mewsk
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k that. She should tell her son no way. None of the students should be expected to volunteer to be the first to get shot. Thatโ€™s sick. And I guarantee none of those other kids are worth losing your life for. Parents always tell kids, โ€œYou wonโ€™t remember the other kids when youโ€™re older,โ€ etc. And itโ€™s true! She should just stick with that. The teacher needs to take responsibility for her students and not expect them to self sacrifice. The mom should pull her kid from that class. Her sons way of thinking is not healthy for a small child.

iblowsheep
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

bet you;d be the first to hide behind the kid if you were there when it happened.

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Anthony Talak
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The boy is courageous and selfless, the mother on the other hand is a triggered racist who only thinks about one thing.

Rick Sanchez
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6 years ago

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The boy is certainly brave and selfless in his actions. It may not be popular to point out however the Mom is thinking in terms of race and discrimination first and found to be wrong in doing so. It cannot under any circumstance be condoned.

Breddit
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6 years ago

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So how about that racist anti-racist thought?

Karin Morris
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6 years ago

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I hope you don't spread your racist thoughts to your son, he's a wonderful boy. It never would have even entered my mind to do what you first thought someone had done because your child was black.

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The more gun control rules there are, the more people are gonna get there guns illegally. People who commit crimes aren't going to get guns legally, that's that. IE, Chicago has some of the strictest gun laws in America, but one of the worst gun crime rates. And in case you haven't noticed, the sickening excuse for a human is being punished. He will probably be in jail for the rest of his life. Also, citizens being allowed to carry guns is a good thging. Mass shootings have been prevented by a person carrying a gun, taking on the shooter. In case you haven't noticed, most mass shootings take place in a location where guns are prohibited and people are virtually defenseless.

stacyh
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please Google "good guy with a gun myth," to learn how very wrong you are.

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RaY1
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We need common sense gun policies in this country, not knee-jerk reactionary policies because of a tragic event. Could gun background checks be more thorough? Yes! Should we place more importance on mental health? Yes! We need to be honest with ourselves in that society is sick and our youth are sick. Social media, television, selfishness, and broken family structure are all things that contribute to the problems in America. I'm sure I will get downvoted for my comments, but guns aren't the main problem in America, it's just a symptom of the dysfunctional society. Also, the media loves to push a narrative anytime something like a school shooting happens, but statistically you are 5 times more likely to die by an assault from a sharp object, but you don't see us trying to ban knives, writing pens, and ice picks. You are also 5 times more likely to die in a plane or spaceship accident than from a gun, but we aren't banning airline travel in this country! Wake up.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because none of the things you mentioned were designed to kill and only to kill. And notice how when terrorists attacked a plane, we changed ALL the laws regarding plane travel? Your statement is nonsensical.

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Mont
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It's clear she was assuming racism was involved even though it wasn't. She just happens to have a brave and selfless kid.

Lev Pertsov
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6 years ago

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What does race have to do with any of this? This kid is a hero regardless of his skin color. Reporter or Mom are racists though.

Robert Vierbergen
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Dez you're more open minded and braver as your mother who could only think in racism terms. That must have been a wake up call for her. But than again, your mother had the intelligence to put even her negative thoughts on Face book. So thumbs up for both of you!

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Can we ask why the first thought of the mother was racism? Why her first thought was them putting the black kid up front?

JonCandy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because racism still exists, unfortunately. Thankfully she realized her mistake and admitted her first thought was wrong.

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Dan H
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10 Minutes later....... Dez: Mom, are you the boss of our family? Mom: No, Dez, You are

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In America we use band-aids to fix everything. Gun control is a band-aid. We need to get to the root of the problem, which is mental illness.

RaY1
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I agree with you completely! These types of mass shootings have only started to pick up in the last 15 or so years, and it is because of social media and broken family homes. There has never once been a mass shooting by someone who is a law abiding american gun owner. It's always the nut case with a history of violence and mental disorder, yet we still blame the tool utilized to commit the violence.

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Franc โ€œBeingFrancโ€ Floyd
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I look at the drug war and recognize regardless of laws psychos, criminals, & miscreants will always find a way. In 1924, the United States Congress banned heroin's sale, importation, or manufacture. How well has that worked out? What we have is a serious tear in our nation's social fiber. One of which we only knew how to begin to repair. When our nation's youth can care so little about life, that is terrifying & sorrow filled in the worst of ways. We need to investigate ourselves to find out where we took the wrong turn and try to repair ourselves. Stop the finger pointing, because we are ALL in this TOGETHER!

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Some of you forget the fact that American students had "surviving a Soviet nuclear attack" drills very often in the 1950's and 1960's, and they were not performed as satire. They were entirely serious drills made in an effort to keep as many of our children alive as possible. And, personal opinion here, schools SHOULD have drills for criminal occurrences, too, as should families; evil exists ANYWHERE there are people, crime is going to happen, and assuming it will never happen to YOU is short sighted, at best. Stop acting like bad things don't happen to people; they do, and preparing for them is a good idea, not something to be horrified over.

Aahzmandus Pervect
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't think that it would be better to do something to stop school shootings from happening, instead of teaching kinds how to react when (not if) they happen?

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Bonnie Matheson
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Ten is not too young to think of saving one's life or the lives or family or friends. Ten is NOT a baby. When I grew up we were having drills about what to do if an atomic bomb hit the city. All the children from kindergarten on up huddled in hallways or strangely under our desks. It is not guns, but the over prescription of dangerous drugs for perceived mental struggles, often given way too young and way too easily to kids suffering from everything from ADD to depression. Start being caring families again. Get your kids outdoors and away from video games. Years ago guns were more prevalent than they are today, but no one shot up a school.

Aahzmandus Pervect
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But wouldn't it be better if the sickos had to go through more trouble obtaining weapons? No one thinks that stricter gun control will eliminate this problems, but if you make it harder for someone to get the gun, it will deter some of the people from committing heinous crimes.

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hairydruidy
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As if an automated gun cares about some black paper. Sure they can't just aim and shoot, but jeez. In an attack to hurt as many people as possible, it's not like they are going to aim much anyway

Petra Christovovรก
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Discussion under the article proves that Bored Panda is visited mainly by libtards with absolute disrespect for freedom and right to defend yourself. Almost all comments are just wailing about guns being the greatest evil ever, absolutely omitting the fact that guns could save peopleยดs lives too in such situations. Any ban never EVER solves anything. Dear libtards, if you want to be defenseless, suit yourself. But do not force your deluded opinions to the others by gungrabbing.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your use of the word libtard shows your absolute lack of intelligence and a clear inability to think for yourself. Isn't it amazing that the "libtards" care about innocent children's lives, while you ONLY care about owning guns? It's disgusting that you're more worried about guns than a child dying, but says so much about conservatives these days. Oh and by the way, no good guys with guns ever save the day and stop this s**t from happening.

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Nadine Ducca
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's so sad, disturbing and disgusting that children growing up in what is considered one of the most advanced and important countries in the world have to be trained on how to react in the even of mass school shootings. Things have gotten out of hand when the fear and the possibility of it happening are so real that teachers must prepare their students. When I was little and growing up in Southern California, we had fire drills and earthquake drills, but drilling for the (ever more likely) chance of having a psycopath break in and gun children down? Chilling.

Matthew Hyder
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I'm from around Austin, Texas, but I grew up in the 90's and early 00's and I don't remember having anything like this happen. :(

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Mark Fuller
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While your son's selflessness is beautiful and commendable, the fact that kids in the US even have to do such drills is so tragic. The U.K. is faaaar from perfect, but there's some things we have got right: And not giving everyone a constitutional right to bear firearms is one of them.

Parmeisan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Technically, (as I understand it), the Americans don't have that constitutional right, either. What they have is the right to form and arm a local militia (and not even specifically guns). Somehow through public misunderstanding and continual support of that notion through precedence in courts, it has morphed into being nearly the same thing.

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Petar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is something fundamentally F-ed up in the mentality of the average american! Sorry but if this an example of 'the greatest country' in the world I can't imagine the worst. Such drills were typical for countries that are actively involved in military action on their soil. To put a black paper over the window, to cover it.... What?! This really sounds like they are expecting this to happen every day. What about gun control and not sell M16 to everyone? The rest of the world is doing just fine without the "constitutional rights" or "patriotic thoughts" (laughable things in this context) being violated.. ;)

Mia D
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's effed up for sure. As an American kid, it's ridiculous I have to worry about this stuff. I'm going into highschool next year, and this stuff is honestly insane. It stinks we have to prepare for this, but with an unstable president (to say the very least), and no immediate action being taken, it seems like it's probably the best thing to do. It's horrible we've had SO many shootings this year, it's unexceptable. The amendment people are using as evidence to prevent gun control laws is outdated and was made in a very different time. It allows Americans to have "a well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State" which is also the "right to bear arms". Its outdated doesn't exactly apply to today. Our president is more interested in the financial benefits than the lives of kids like me, and it's scary. I feel like we've been desensitised to these things, because in any other first world country, one incident like Columbine or Sandy Hook or Parkland would be

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Shruti Naik
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's 10 and he's thinking of how to protect his friends instead of watching cartoons and eating candies. That's heartbreaking.

Nomadus Aureus
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Meanwhile in my "third world" country, the only drill we ever had was for fires.

Zerish Kamal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I live in pakistan which actually is one technically we did these when i was younger

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anarkzie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It would be, but thank god she did not and decided to question as to why he was out front pushing the table to protect his mostly white friends. Good parenting prevents racist children.

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Kjorn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i'm glad we don't have to live with that in Canada.

Ashley Fernandes
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a fellow Canadian I don't understand how the US can be so different from us. We're far from perfect but we don't have children killing each other and we can go to the hospital without bankrupting our families.

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Rusty S.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Phenomenally American of us to teach how to react to a shooting instead of preventing them. F**K this country, nobody cares about fixing problems before they arise anymore. This is BOTH a gun control issue AND a mental health issue. None of this would be necessary if we had empathic proactive politicians. Its full of crooked sociopaths voted in by uneducated masses. And by uneducated I mean people who are too lazy to seek truth, too scared to confront it when its in their face, and too stubborn to listen anyway.

Teddy O'Malley
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Murderers don't follow the law either, but we still have laws against committing them. Imagine that.

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jbingham
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

22,357.333 the decimal point continuing of course. But the number has to be exact. Any more or less than that and the laws won't change.

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d r e a m w o r l d
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a corageous young boy! It's truly tragic that he must do this, however. America is really fricked up. I'm ashamed of my country, to be honest. That young boy, on the other hand? I'm as proud as ever of him! He's such a brave soul. I wish him the best.

Echo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And another thing. If we as Americans cannot control crazy and disturbed people from getting guns and using them on innocents. Then we don't get to have them. When my kids prove they cannot be carful and take care of things that are expensive or important. Then they don't get to play with those things. As much as I want to have the right to own and practice with any gun that I plan to use responsibly. If the whole class cannot play nice and and be responsible. Then no one gets them. We need to step back and look at this issue like the US is a bunch of 5 year olds. If the whole group cannot play nice. Then no one gets to have play time anymore. I think this has been lost on us. If people were randomly shooting each other and when the amendment was being considered back in the day. I think they would have agreed that it was more important to protect the children than worry about a government taking over.

Dairy King
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you believe guns should be taken away, may I ask, do you think someone that would shoot up a school, would willfully hand in their firearm? I see how that would help, but it would also leave innocents defensless, wouldn't it?

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Terry Jeppsen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that in this country we have to do lockdown drills and lockout drills.

dlc1281
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, in my day, it was ducking under the desk for Nuclear attack drills. And no one complained about it, not the Parents, not the Teachers, and no the Politicians.

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Winter Soldier
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As much as I'm so proud of this kid, it's absolutely disgusting that ANYONE would have to volunteer for that. Dezmond, I hope someday I see your name on the news for doing something amazing, not as a name on a list of victims of gun violence.

Micco Jaycola
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most surreal thing about this is that in The Greatest Country of The Universe the children have to participate to a lockdown drill.

Terry Neale
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you sure about that greatest country comment? As a brit it doesn't seem that great, soon you'll be sending kids to school in Kevlar!

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Fsociety
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds to me that young boy is headed to be a police officer or join the military.

Elizabott
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm almost 30, and when I grow up, I wanna be like Dezmond.

Travis Sivart
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Heartbreaking that kids have to face this in the USA. It's really tragic and unthinkable everywhere else. Nra destroying so much in the name of money...

dlc1281
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6 years ago

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Who failed??? The NRA or the FBI and the Local Sheriff"s department? Unthinkable any where else, Is your head attacked to your body??? I can think of many other places in this world that are worse off. Africa, Middle East, South East Asia, to name just a few. Do you know the safest Country in the World, concerning Gun threats, etc. Switzerland averages two murders a year, why - every second citizen has a rifle provided to them by their Government. And once said citizen receives his/her rifle, they are required to go to classes and then the firing range to prove their proficiency. Then they are required to retest every couple of years. It is indeed a shame that there are so many people like you that Add one and one and come up with the answer - THREE! You want to talk about money, how and why is Hillary worth more than Six Hundred and Forty Million Dollars. Just one Democrat asking another Democrat!

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smash17
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back up to the lockdown drills. Is there anywhere else in the world where kids prepare for school invasions? Sad.

Jorge Araรบjo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

2 stupid things here. Why do children in america have to do an active shooter drill? Fire or earthquake drill, I understand. U.S. keeps putting guns in front o their children. Why can somebody carry a gun but not have a kinder egg? The other stupid thing is: why was this mother making this a racial problem?

Echo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All I can say is that I teared up reading this. What The the f**k am I sending my kids in to everyday. I can't afford to not work and protect them every second of the day. Why the f**k should I even be thinking about this. Where the f**k is the world going to when little kids have to be prepared to put themselves on the line to save others they may cherish. This is all utterly insane.

Wendy Davies
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ile5s get the guns off of the street. We donโ€™t need ten year old heroes. Dez needs to focus on being a child and getting his grades, not protecting his classmates from a terrorist with a semiautomatic weapon. Having said that, what a beautiful child. Iโ€™d be proud to call him my son. Get rid of the NRA puppets.

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You want to clean up society, the NRA are Law Abiding Citizens!!! Arrest the Criminals, put them away, and throw away the keys. Strange, when my Grandfather graduated from sixth grade, he left home and was on his own. Twelve years old and was success through out his life. Life was not easier back then, the hours were long and the work was not easy. His final exam to exit the Sixth grade, was a lot tougher than anything experienced today. We all know what caused the murders at the Florida School. Not the NRA, but the FBI, and the local Sheriff's department, If you can't tell the difference, please go silent, you are causing more harm than good.

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Agnes Jekyll
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a kind, selfless kid, but no child should have to make those kinds of decisions

Little Djini
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mind refuse to comprehend this. I have a 12 years old and his biggest concern right now is to prepare for test. I donโ€™t understand why a 10 years old child has to be prepared for an armed attak in a country that is not a war.

Jordan Cunningham
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the f**k is wrong with that country? Why are we not putting sanctions against the US?

Sandi Burrows
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Canada we don't have these problems. Most countries don't except the states and maybe two others in Europe and Africa. Why is that? Because of some stupid right that was written in the 1700'S. You don't wear clothes from the 1700's. You don't cook and clean up like in the 1700's. You don't wash clothes in a stream somewhere. For God's sake, change the gun law. Make it tough to get them. Background checks, proper training, written tests etc. etc. It's time for change.

Gabi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't really clap for the fact that a 5th grader has to have such things on his mind instead of playing and running carefree and not having to be afraid of possible school shootings.

Beth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's beyond disgusting that the kids in the States have to deal with this. At schools in NZ we have earthquake drills! I don't know how your politicians dare allow this to continue, and why you keep voting for them. Every single public official who did nothing to deal with this in the last 20 years should be jailed.

Laetitia
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*clicks on all the negative comments so I can downvote them again*

Gayle Horwitz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a director of a preschool, I have envisioned myself being placed in the position of protecting our students with my life. But, I burst out crying after reading about Dez and feel humbled by his selfless bravery at the young age of ten. I remember the days when we had drills in case there were threats from across the ocean, but my classmates and I never felt threatened. Now our largest threat is from those among our midst, and those threats are very REAL. Why our children are even having to feel threatened by assailants in their own neighborhoods and towns is every concerned parent's heartache. The fact that our nation also has to contend with One. More. Minute. of ineptitude in leadership and the complicity of self-serving politicians to continue to do absolutely nothing to mitigate this siege in our own nation, is beyond the pale.

Brandon Reeves
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What and awesome kid and "human being". Too bad the parents make everything about race. EVERYTHING

Alex Craig
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is going to grow up to be a beautiful adult. Yes it is sad that any child has to think that way. America you need to change your gun laws. You should hang your head in shame America. Until you do unfortunately this will continue to happen.

hyprstorm
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kid is a perfect example of selflessness and caring for others . Thanks for being great

Carmen Elena
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes me sad that children have to deal with the possibility of being shot whenever a stranger is out of their mind. But at the same time his response is overwhelming, thoughtful... I donยดt know.

Keeslim Sunshine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

God bless you baby you have a BIG HEART. May the Lord walk with you every day of your life

Jenny Lorenz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read it and wondered why she thought he was chosen cuz he was black. I know that they go through things like that on a day yo day basis though. So maybe that is why she jumped to that conclusion.

Rafaella Bueno
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It feels like it was mostly because he said it was him and other 2 boys, and that's the exact amount of black kids in his class, so it really sounded like it might be the reason.

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Janelle Collard
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez, you are SO much braver than I am. God bless you.

Liz Edwards
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a terrible lockdown procedure on the part of the school or the school board. The children in no way should be participating in the protection of other children or staff. All humans in the room should be moving to the "safest" area in the classroom. The door should be locked at all times. The truth is that I had a child who could actually breakthrough my door lock and did . Lockdowns are not the answer to children's or the staff's safety (yes, we matter as well). When I hear of anyone in a school situation dying to protect others, I get very mad. It is amazing hard to keep people out of school as there is so much going on there. Keep the guns out of people's hands.

Kahlo Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What would you say the answer is when there is a danger on campus, other that locking down the classroom? While I agree that having certain children stand in front sounds weird, having participated in many lockdowns and drills throughout my time in school, I think it should be expected for students to participate in securing a classroom, rather than leaving one staff member to attempt to fully secure it alone.

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Mark Smallman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One question? If the teacher locks the door and 4 kids push a table in front of it where exactly is the teacher? Does he lock them in and leave them to fend for themselves? Not criticising, just I am in the UK and didn't know such things were practiced in US schools.

Kahlo Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a US student who's been through lockdown drills and actual lockdowns, anarkzie is pretty right! The teacher will lock the door from inside. Generally the whole class will participate in turning off lights, creating a barricade, and closing and covering windows (because the teacher alone would take far too long to secure the whole classroom).

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Maggie Collins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WOW!! Just.....WOW! I cannot even imagine the amazing relationship this mother must have with her children. Woman, you are the best.

Mixedupste
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And these are the times we live in now a days that school kids have do do drills for s**t like this! So sad!

LovePsychos
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh the end took me off guard. For a moment I thought they choose him on purpose because of his colour. When I reached the end I shivered! He's so brave and kind I wish all the people were like him and mostly I wish presidents were like him!

Allana Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! After reading all the comments I knew this one would hit a nerve and rightly so. Growing up, we never had to worry about a "school shooter" Times has def. changed and not for the better. I think it stems from a couple of key issues, one started when they took religion out of the schools. Two, the low age of buying guns. You cant even vote at 18 why should you be able to buy guns? Three, assault rifles should not be legal as they only reason the exist is to kill humans (as opposed to hunting animals). Forth and last is Mental illness. Since Regan, back in the 80's, shut down thousands of mental illness institutions, we have seen a huge up tick of the untreated mentally ill grow to be a huge problem here in the US. Maybe there are even more problems that need to be addressed. This shooter had been reported to the FBI as he posted on Facebook that he was intending to doing a school shooting but was ignored by the FBI! Again, HE WAS REPORTED BEFORE THE SHOOTING BUT WAS IGNORED BY FBI

Jaz Jensen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Australia, my childrens school doesn't even do drills. I couldn't imagine starting to do them because you may get shot. We have strict gun laws.

Linda Matheny
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Desmond is going to accomplish great things in his life. He is a leader, not a follower!

Miranda Garnett
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's amazing you raised a good son brave and thoughtful but I do agree children of that age should not in this day and age should not have to think like that that definitely should not be of any thought in there minds

Oscar
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This kid has more courage than most of the people running the world today combined. Take that kid out for some f**ing ice cream. I just about lost it at the twist in this story.

Lululoohoo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good job mama! Your boy was raised right & has such a beautiful heart & smile. he's going places!

Ashley Lopez
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a brave boy! such a same that young children have to experience this! :C

pepjrp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why is my black son in front??? Your son is brave, but you are a bit of a racist for your thoughts. That is being real!

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. She's not racist. Assuming other people are being racist isn't racist. The world we live in, unfortunately, judges people of color different than white people.

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Nick Mozzetti
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whyd she say โ€˜my black sonโ€™ and not just โ€˜my sonโ€™? is she racist towards her own kid??

Meeow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such an angel, what a brave little man and it's also heartbreaking!!

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Instead of parents fostering hate of anyone different from themselves and making excuses for their kids' bullying behaviour, how about we stop the hate, stop pushing the patriarchy agenda, stop pushing a pro-breeder society, and let people live in peace to make their own lives. Stop condemning women and non whites for trying to build a career and a successful life, stop treating women like breeding stock and walking sex toys for men, stop treating non-whites like pest animals to be controlled, sterilized, and exterminated, stop treating non gender binary people like they are diseased or mentally ill, stop treating people with different spiritual beliefs than yours like satanic monsters to be forced to convert to your religion or die, stop trying to make excuses for your bad behaviour and take responsibility for your actions and choices, stop using other people as scapegoats so you can rob people of their rights and freedoms, and stop trying to foster tyrannical control through fear.

Meg
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What I think is sad is the first thought the mother had was that the white teacher picked her black son to be in the front lines to protect the majority white class. She immediately went to racism and it wasnt even about that. Its not always about that. I am glad her son humbled her showed her it was more than skin color but the actual heart of her son that is the reason why he is in the front. Beautiful boy and I hope he never has to sacrifice himself in that situation for his friends and classmates.

Jerry Hampton
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she automatically assumed her son was picked because he was black? Isn't that kind of racist? Oh, wait. It was.

Kimberly Robinson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That just makes me incredibly damned sad. And, I feel old. All we had to do were fire drills, not "active shooter" drills. At the same time, I feel very proud of him. I just never want his bravery to be tested. I want all of them to just get a chance to GROW UP and get toegther, twenty years from now, and talk about how boring school was. Not this.

Gwinevere von Ludwig
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a beautiful child (and a beautiful family). Good job and much love, Tenai!!

Tammy Wargo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an amazing young man! Mom you are raising him right! Such a scary thought that the young people of today have to even think about these things! Gods blessings to you and yours!

Lira Mai
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I admire the boy but it is kind of sad that his mom immediately think that the reason that his son being put in front of the line is because he is black. Even the title says so.

Elizabeth Lord Cary
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being thoughtful like that, this little boy is going to become a hero at some point in his life. It's sad that he has to think of such things at 10 years old, but it has helped make him a good person. I hope she's proud. I'm proud of him and I don't know him.

Joyce Blodgett
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a mother of a son who was killed in a shooting (wrong place at the wrong time, not a school shooting, nor an active shooter situation), I can't listen to the school shootings, nor any other kind, when they come up in the news. I know what it's like to lose my children (daughter died at birth), and I know the hideous grief of losing one to a bullet. Nobody should ever die that way, and the survivors should never have to go through the agony of wondering why and how.

Honesty Olishia
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was expecting to get angry, but instead I am so impressed at the bravery and selflessness I saw. The world needs more people like Dezmond, he is an outstanding kid, and I get the impression that his mom's doing a great job.

deborah darsie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate the idea of voting this post up or down...there is so much wrong with that young man needing to think such a thing through at that age. I am impressed by the young man's love of his classmates as well as the courage and the strength his parent(s) have helped him develop.

Donald Johnson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the young man is very "BRAVE". And deserves all of our respect. Stay Brave young man, and you'll do alright in life.

Catherine Stiteler
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez is absolutely amazing ! You must be a wonderful mother to have instilled such integrity and bravery in this young man, but my heart breaks to think of this being even a possiblity. I am 58 and never once had thoughts of anything even remotely close to this when I was in school and not even when my own children were in schoo. Hugs to that brave beautiful boy !

Cici Snow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor kids its just normal for them growing up thinking, " I might get shot at school. Cute awesome kid.

Kate Au
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

we need more people in the world like him. It's these people that keep us from absolute chaos

Rodney Jackson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I Absolutely Salute YOU, Young Man! It is a real shame that people as young as you even have to think about those situations, let alone make the courageous decision that you made!

Delilah Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This young man is alert and wise beyond his years. He should be held up as an example to all. To his Mama, you have raised an amazing son. God Bless...

Liliana P
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mom, you did a great job with your little cutie. He has a good heart and no one can deny that. And he is brave too. I'm sorry he and all the kids have to go through this,

Bud Waters
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your son is a reflection of you. He didn't learn that at school. He learned it at home. What he may see or hear outside is no match for what you've taught him. Even though the first thing that popped into your head was the ugly snake of racism it is not what he learned from you. Your young man is going to be a leader for all.

Freedomlover
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a beautiful child with amazing words.... He is a bridge over very troubled waters. It is not about the color of your skin, it is about the content of his wonderful character! Thank you.

Rickey Richard
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a great young man,to be so selfless and caring for others that at the tender age of 10 he is willing to lay down his life so others would be safe. I applaud his parents for raising such a courageous young man. My prayers are that he never will be put in that situation. Too all the people who are fortunate enough to be in this young mans life know that you are very lucky to be in such great company..

Nick Corbett Jr.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't have anyone I really consider a hero........I do now. Thanks Dez. I am also glad I am Canadian and my kids do not have (out of necessity) this mindset. I hope your day of bravery never comes Dez. Stay safe.

Louise Brigance
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was living overseas in 1968 and I can remember feeling so shamed by my country when MLK Jr got killed. And then RFK was killed I was so embarrassed by my country. For God's sake we were suppose to be smartest and best country on the planet! It became a real wake up for me.

Janine Randall
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That young man's selflessness and love for his classmates brought me to tears. I also cried thinking that 10 year olds have to even think about this.

Jackie Malley
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is sad to me what is happening in a place that should be safe for children. That this young man has to think about giving his own life while at school. He is an amazing example of courage and I believe could be a great leader one day.

J Browne
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This mad me sob for so many reasons. Beautiful child, beautiful mother and beautiful family. Yes it is horrifying he has to think like this at 10 yrs. old. And what an amazing mother you have been to have this child not think twice about being there for others in such a courageous way. Wow! If we all had mothers like this there would be no school shootings.

Deneille Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Made me shed a tear, if we all just volunteered for each other more often......

Douglas Boekhout
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tanai Benard, You are an educator. First, you have the sense to talk to your children and find out what is going on in their lives. Yes, the school taught your son what to do in case of an emergency, BUT, they did not put his thought process in his brain. Where did that thought process come from, Tanai, now you can breathe a sigh of relief because with that kind of thinking at home rather than school is where it should start. People should not complain about the teachings at schools, but they should complain about what goes on in the home. Stand tall and stand proud Tanai, you as a parent should be cloned.

Tamara Keegan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This completely wrecked me this morning. I am sitting here sobbing at the sick reality we live in now where elementary school children have to practice "active shooter drills". I am balling my eyes out over this brave young man and my heart is aching for his mother who had to hear this from her young son. This world is awful, it's chilling to hear a child that has a plan in place to place himself in front of others to die.

Vincent Jay
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ten- year olds are not ignorant babies. They're capable of having very rational thoughts.

Justin Ray
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Im not gonna go on and on like people. yes its a shame blah blah blah but fact is we have to so Ill say that this kid is a hero. Straight up.

Rhon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This beautiful child is living in fear for his friends at such a tender age. This sounds like something that you expect to hear from a war torn country !!

Catherine Estlack
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a wonderful, caring, brave young man. I cried when I read this. I am so sad for our country and so sad that nothing has changed after all this time. You son and the students from Parkland, Fla give me so so much hope. Can't wait for these young people to take control of our government. Hopefully, I will be voting for your son !!! Bless him.

Tisha Hudson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that you have raised a hero who already knows how to demonstrate true grace and love!

nAmpe
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The point here is that, color doesn't matter. Anyone could do that. It's just that this man is braver enough to stand for his classmates. SALUTE!

Maria K
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow!! Such a good little boy. :) Did not expect the ending!

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the early 90's I was forced to leave high school and get a GED, literally running for my life to get away from a place that was far from safe. My school housed members from three different gangs that all hated each other and I would be faced with frequent incidents of gang violence - guns and knives pulled on each other, knock-down drag-out fights blocking the classroom door, bullies and thugs gunning for anyone they could make flinch, etc. Add to that the issue of bigotry, hate, and violence against anyone who is a different ethnicity, culture, gender, sexuality, religion, social or economic status, etc than "you" (general collective, non specific you) and you have a powder keg just waiting to take out half a city.

David Tomka
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm proud of him volunteering but should have asked you first and if you said yes he would be a

Roberta Morrison
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What an amazing young man. I hope for all of our children's sake we finally sit down and figure out HOW we are going to protect our children when they are at school. We certainly cannot allow our schools to remain soft targets, or have law enforcement that does not take reported threats 100% seriously.

Margaret Shannon
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this the same Tanai Bernard who gave an interview about living in the United Arab Emirates? https://bossip.com/1259797/could-you-do-it-single-black-mother-of-3-moves-family-to-the-uae/

AnKa Wi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is all about what is wrong over in America...sadly enough that any child has to practice this stuff...I will never understand...our children can be children and not practice how to stay alive in school....so sad and so wrong at the same time...change the gun policy!

Magpie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm Australian, so we really do *not* know what it feels like. Just so sad and terrifying.

Mark Erwin
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is really sad that there are children as young as them prepare themselves against gun violence IN SCHOOL - a place where children should feel safe while learning! I am from a developing country and is actually well-known for terrorism, as media puts it, but we have never ever done this at school!

Amy Dias
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not enough for the selfless beauty of this child's heart. We have to protect them.

Sykz
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That kid is going places!! Thank you young man for having compassion for others.

Heather Bateman
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This little boy is more man than most grown "men" I know. Great job Mom and Dad!!!

Rama Llama
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds kind of weird that school has safety drills that involve 10 year old kids volunteering to die first. Maybe they should invest in some kind of safety doors instead.

Carolyn Stewart
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

May God bless you and those children that care about others instead of themselves. God gave his life that we may live and serve Him. Your son already secured his place in Gods arms as did you for raising a son of this caliber. I would stand in front of him and my children if I could. I am old but their lives mean more to me than my own. Thank you for raising him in service to God.

Kevin Camp
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not way to young to be thinnking in this manner. This young man has already assumed the role of protector, exhibiting the first stages of manhood. He is already becomeing situationally aware of how the real world is, not the make believe world, and how he will react ot it and make his way through it successfully. I applaud this young man and his mother for teaching him that he is not the only person in room as most young people believe today.

Donna Mouton
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He is a very brave boy!! A Badge of Honor!!!! When I was growing up we had drills of dropping and crawling under our desks. That was during WW2. Will it ever cease!!!!! We hope he will never have to do it.

Aj Isaacs
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With all our problems in the USA, his comment about protecting others (even possibly with his life) is incredibly brave and what being an American means to me. Nobody country or person is perfect but that kid has what it takes to lead. Encourage this child into serving others and he will be successful.

Karen Lewis
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're doing a great job. I hope it never comes to that. You can't "pick" someone for this "job." He volunteered. What a great heart he has. God bless you!

Elsie Lowry
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dez you are an exceptional young lad, if we had a lot more like you we would be in a much better situation than we are at this time. God Bless you today and always. Thanks to the parents for raising such a brave and thoughtful child. <3

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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah because the title had to be "black kid get's put in front" and not something like "fifth grader puts himself infront of others during shooting drill" :/

Abdul Khan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm trying to reply to Marlowe about breaking your arm and losing your job. That exact thing happened to me in Dec 2016. I also was evicted. I never saw a doctor, just the ER. No money. I also took my splint of after 4 weeks to look for a new job. I got a labor job and was too weak in my right arm to lift a hammer.

4Sunshine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This young man has wonderful values and a great mom. HOWEVER, after reading many comments here, I must remind folks that school violence is not new. It has just evolved. I grew up in New York in the 1950's. (yes, I'm old) There were dangerous gangs who committed crimes and attacked individuals both in and out of school. When they fought each other nothing on the street was safe, not cars, not buildings, not people, and they had guns then too. So now we also have mass shooters. My point is that this is not a new problem but an extension of an old one. We have a problem in our society that must be resolved before we worry about removing guns. Those who are intent on causing suffering to make a statement will always find something to use as a weapon.

Chico Martins
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's racist and judgemental. Her son is brave, and will be a honorable man.

Cici Snow
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She admitted she was incorrect. That's kind of the whole point of this article...!

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Thomas O'Keefe
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are many things about this country that are unique from the nations of the world. Chief among them is our democracy. Tyranny from ones country was and remains the single greatest oppressor of all people yearning to be free. Great Britain, France and indeed all the world is indebted to the U.S. for their freedom and survival. The tragedy in Florida is unfortunate but guns are no more at fault than a knife, a car or truck when they are used to bring harm to people. These evils are brought to our schools, not because of they are crowded but because they weakest and most vulnerable. Making meth illegal hasn't slowed its use nor made it hard to get. Where are the marches by high school students to get something done about meth? When will they join hands and call upon their leaders to get rid of drugs? Guns are scary. I know. Fear of them is dangerous. And that's terrifying.

Benjamin Christensen
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful. But how can she be an educator and not know the difference between then and than?

Elley McCairn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It greatly depends on where you are in this country, and as a point of fact, there are greater numbers of violent crimes in high population urban areas, cities, than anywhere else. Why? Overpopulation and nature flips a switch in some people to turn violent. It's called population control. Biologists and zoologists see it in animal populations all the time when there are too many in an area unable to support them all. First they try to disperse the population into smaller groups to spread out to other areas, and when that doesn't work or they are forced to remain in a closed or limited environment, the violence escalates. Yes, we are social creatures, but 8.5MILLION people in an area that should only support 1/10th that number, is it any wonder people go crazy?

Laurel Foxworth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I applaud the mother of this young man. It is sad that children don't feel safe in schools and churches, but this young man could be the one to bring a change to the purpose of one's life. I believe that he values his life and that the statement he made should make others open their eyes and heart.

ET ET
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait wait wait, am I the only one who is thinking that the mom has got some serious issues? The first thing she can think of is why the school is being racist? Come on, that's not good parenting. She jumped to conclusions and planted thoughts in his head. Good parenting and good people skills is to get the facts, and don't jump to conclusions. Great for the kid, but the parent is disturbing.

James Grandmaison
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's great that this ten year old is showing the bravery that most of us only wish we could have I a situation line an active shooter. It's really nice to know that the younger generation is showing such intelligence. That being said, however. Why was race even brought up in this story? It doesn't have anything to do with the story. It's a great eye opening story and it doesn't matter if the kid was black, white, brown, or any other color of the rainbow. Maybe I'm reading too much into it. But, the race card didn't need to be shown here. Unnecessary really.

John Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well dang, mommy wanted to play her race card... and then boom, plot spoiler. Ha ha.

Allana Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perhaps this is getting down voted because the mother's first assumption being a racist one? I think the kids explanation was a beautiful one but was sadden by the mother's first thoughts. Sad because it shows that (not just her) that racism is still so prevalent in the US. I wouldn't have thought that at all, but then, I am not her. I know this prob. wont be well liked, but it is just my opinion and what I thought when I read her response.

anarkzie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that her first thought was that her son was a victim of racism, is not in itself racist(that's a stupid assertion), but it is an indication of the insecurities that some people and groups feel within American society. American is no doubt a good country but it's a country that does not seem to take critism well, rather than ask why do certain people feel that they're discriminated against because of their skin colour, sections of it's society(Fox news types) construe those people raising their grivances as an attack and go on the defensive.

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Kim Lacate
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think every mother in America should look at this mother and her beautiful family as what can make america great again

Jonathan Eatsalot
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The adult assumed race immediately. Guns don't scare me. So called adults do.

Danny Root
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shame on her for jumping the racism card right off the bat. Seems to be the trend these days though, unfortunately.

Kawaii Panda
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is so wonderful and disturbing at the same time to hear a child saying that he would rather die than have his whole class die. Children shouldnโ€™t be thinking about that at such a young age. But what a gracious and holy being you have raised. God bless him.

Jim Bogle
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's put the God she prayed to back in school where He can watch over them.

Ashley Hurd
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She was all ready to use that race card and her son showed more integrity in his little finger.

porcupine
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such a kind-hearted child. But why the f**k isnโ€™t the teacher guarding the children?

Jim Bob
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kinda F'ed up that the mother is racist in this post. What the Kid did was brave, what the mother thought and jumped to conclusion about was super racist. In the same scenario, a white male would have been persecuted for being a white supremacist thinking the exact same thing. If I put my self in this SAME situation and my daughter told me the exact same thing, I would have never thought, "Why is my white daughter, standing in the front line." I would have thought, "why is my daughter standing in front of the class" like any normal parent. But I guess it isn't appropriate for me to call this mother a racist because i'm white.

Megan Brouwer
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isent parenting done right....she though it was rasisim before even considereing her kid wanted to protect his friends...its more like somehow the kid turend out fine while you are a a bad human.

Krysta Pandoo
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As lovely as this woman's child is, I'm more concerned with her instant reaction to him on the front line - why did she instantly jump to 'the teacher is clearly a racist' before hearing the whole story? Soaring gun crime rates aside, why is America still so backwards with race relations that this is her first thought?

John Smith
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Speaking of gun crime rates: blacks are more likely to commit gun crimes as a percentage of total population. Just 13% of blacks (by total pop) commit well over 50% of all homicides (the majority by using guns). These facts have held true for at least 70 years. It's something Democrats don't like to discuss.

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Mont
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's clear she was assuming racism even thought racism wasn't there. Her son just happens to be a brave kid.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She corrected herself, and quickly. But of course, you're more concerned with that than the welfare of children.

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Meowton Mewsk
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k that. She should tell her son no way. None of the students should be expected to volunteer to be the first to get shot. Thatโ€™s sick. And I guarantee none of those other kids are worth losing your life for. Parents always tell kids, โ€œYou wonโ€™t remember the other kids when youโ€™re older,โ€ etc. And itโ€™s true! She should just stick with that. The teacher needs to take responsibility for her students and not expect them to self sacrifice. The mom should pull her kid from that class. Her sons way of thinking is not healthy for a small child.

iblowsheep
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

bet you;d be the first to hide behind the kid if you were there when it happened.

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Anthony Talak
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The boy is courageous and selfless, the mother on the other hand is a triggered racist who only thinks about one thing.

Rick Sanchez
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6 years ago

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The boy is certainly brave and selfless in his actions. It may not be popular to point out however the Mom is thinking in terms of race and discrimination first and found to be wrong in doing so. It cannot under any circumstance be condoned.

Breddit
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6 years ago

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So how about that racist anti-racist thought?

Karin Morris
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6 years ago

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I hope you don't spread your racist thoughts to your son, he's a wonderful boy. It never would have even entered my mind to do what you first thought someone had done because your child was black.

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The more gun control rules there are, the more people are gonna get there guns illegally. People who commit crimes aren't going to get guns legally, that's that. IE, Chicago has some of the strictest gun laws in America, but one of the worst gun crime rates. And in case you haven't noticed, the sickening excuse for a human is being punished. He will probably be in jail for the rest of his life. Also, citizens being allowed to carry guns is a good thging. Mass shootings have been prevented by a person carrying a gun, taking on the shooter. In case you haven't noticed, most mass shootings take place in a location where guns are prohibited and people are virtually defenseless.

stacyh
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please Google "good guy with a gun myth," to learn how very wrong you are.

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RaY1
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We need common sense gun policies in this country, not knee-jerk reactionary policies because of a tragic event. Could gun background checks be more thorough? Yes! Should we place more importance on mental health? Yes! We need to be honest with ourselves in that society is sick and our youth are sick. Social media, television, selfishness, and broken family structure are all things that contribute to the problems in America. I'm sure I will get downvoted for my comments, but guns aren't the main problem in America, it's just a symptom of the dysfunctional society. Also, the media loves to push a narrative anytime something like a school shooting happens, but statistically you are 5 times more likely to die by an assault from a sharp object, but you don't see us trying to ban knives, writing pens, and ice picks. You are also 5 times more likely to die in a plane or spaceship accident than from a gun, but we aren't banning airline travel in this country! Wake up.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because none of the things you mentioned were designed to kill and only to kill. And notice how when terrorists attacked a plane, we changed ALL the laws regarding plane travel? Your statement is nonsensical.

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Mont
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It's clear she was assuming racism was involved even though it wasn't. She just happens to have a brave and selfless kid.

Lev Pertsov
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6 years ago

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What does race have to do with any of this? This kid is a hero regardless of his skin color. Reporter or Mom are racists though.

Robert Vierbergen
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Dez you're more open minded and braver as your mother who could only think in racism terms. That must have been a wake up call for her. But than again, your mother had the intelligence to put even her negative thoughts on Face book. So thumbs up for both of you!

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Can we ask why the first thought of the mother was racism? Why her first thought was them putting the black kid up front?

JonCandy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because racism still exists, unfortunately. Thankfully she realized her mistake and admitted her first thought was wrong.

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Dan H
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10 Minutes later....... Dez: Mom, are you the boss of our family? Mom: No, Dez, You are

seanemone
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In America we use band-aids to fix everything. Gun control is a band-aid. We need to get to the root of the problem, which is mental illness.

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I agree with you completely! These types of mass shootings have only started to pick up in the last 15 or so years, and it is because of social media and broken family homes. There has never once been a mass shooting by someone who is a law abiding american gun owner. It's always the nut case with a history of violence and mental disorder, yet we still blame the tool utilized to commit the violence.

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Franc โ€œBeingFrancโ€ Floyd
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6 years ago

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I look at the drug war and recognize regardless of laws psychos, criminals, & miscreants will always find a way. In 1924, the United States Congress banned heroin's sale, importation, or manufacture. How well has that worked out? What we have is a serious tear in our nation's social fiber. One of which we only knew how to begin to repair. When our nation's youth can care so little about life, that is terrifying & sorrow filled in the worst of ways. We need to investigate ourselves to find out where we took the wrong turn and try to repair ourselves. Stop the finger pointing, because we are ALL in this TOGETHER!

Susan Laude
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6 years ago

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Some of you forget the fact that American students had "surviving a Soviet nuclear attack" drills very often in the 1950's and 1960's, and they were not performed as satire. They were entirely serious drills made in an effort to keep as many of our children alive as possible. And, personal opinion here, schools SHOULD have drills for criminal occurrences, too, as should families; evil exists ANYWHERE there are people, crime is going to happen, and assuming it will never happen to YOU is short sighted, at best. Stop acting like bad things don't happen to people; they do, and preparing for them is a good idea, not something to be horrified over.

Aahzmandus Pervect
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't think that it would be better to do something to stop school shootings from happening, instead of teaching kinds how to react when (not if) they happen?

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Bonnie Matheson
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6 years ago

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Ten is not too young to think of saving one's life or the lives or family or friends. Ten is NOT a baby. When I grew up we were having drills about what to do if an atomic bomb hit the city. All the children from kindergarten on up huddled in hallways or strangely under our desks. It is not guns, but the over prescription of dangerous drugs for perceived mental struggles, often given way too young and way too easily to kids suffering from everything from ADD to depression. Start being caring families again. Get your kids outdoors and away from video games. Years ago guns were more prevalent than they are today, but no one shot up a school.

Aahzmandus Pervect
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But wouldn't it be better if the sickos had to go through more trouble obtaining weapons? No one thinks that stricter gun control will eliminate this problems, but if you make it harder for someone to get the gun, it will deter some of the people from committing heinous crimes.

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hairydruidy
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6 years ago

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As if an automated gun cares about some black paper. Sure they can't just aim and shoot, but jeez. In an attack to hurt as many people as possible, it's not like they are going to aim much anyway

Petra Christovovรก
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6 years ago

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Discussion under the article proves that Bored Panda is visited mainly by libtards with absolute disrespect for freedom and right to defend yourself. Almost all comments are just wailing about guns being the greatest evil ever, absolutely omitting the fact that guns could save peopleยดs lives too in such situations. Any ban never EVER solves anything. Dear libtards, if you want to be defenseless, suit yourself. But do not force your deluded opinions to the others by gungrabbing.

Dave Roger
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your use of the word libtard shows your absolute lack of intelligence and a clear inability to think for yourself. Isn't it amazing that the "libtards" care about innocent children's lives, while you ONLY care about owning guns? It's disgusting that you're more worried about guns than a child dying, but says so much about conservatives these days. Oh and by the way, no good guys with guns ever save the day and stop this s**t from happening.

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