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Complimenting a person is one of the fastest ways into their heart. However, delivery matters because as you're about to see, the line between making someone smile and getting punched in the face can be just a couple of words.

Recently, Redditor u/shamilat made a post on the platform, asking other users: "What's a compliment and an insult at the same time?" And people immediately started sending in their suggestions.

Whether the phrases were coming from personal experiences or imagination, these one-liners have to be some of the most ambiguous things you can say!

#1

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Back in the 1980s, New Zealand's prime minister said that anyone who chose to emigrate from New Zealand to Australia could be proud that they were raising the average IQ of both countries.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “You’re really smart for someone with your job” (I’m a professional dogwalker)

Dude, just because I choose to do this work doesn’t mean I couldn’t do something else. I just love this and followed my passion.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Very good for a woman.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Awww it's such a waste you're a lesbian.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You’re pretty for an (insert ethnicity) girl.

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#6

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I always get "Wow, we used to think you were a real b***h but you're actually really nice!" from friends at some point. It makes me so sad that I'm a naturally shy person around a new group of people. It makes me so self-conscious when I meet new people because I know that line and it's variants will eventually be said again.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones It’s a good thing you’re so pretty.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones This is amazing! Who helped you cook this?"

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#9

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “Oh you’re smarter than you look”

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You're so brave for wearing that dress.

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#11

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I love when I wear makeup and people say “Did you get a good nights sleep? You don’t look tired today!”

Doesn’t matter how much or how little sleep I get, I always have very dark circles under my eyes. It’s genetic.

So no, I’m not tired… That’s literally just my face.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I got a "you're looking pretty good for a guy in their 40's". Well, thats nice i guess, but I was 35 at the time.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Such a pretty face, if you would just lose some weight dear...

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "I hope your day is as pleasant as you are."

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#15

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You're very beautiful for your age." or "I can tell you were beautiful when you were younger."

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "I can see that you're trying."

(When someone shows you something they worked hard on, and it's the only positive thing you can think of to say.)

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#17

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You speak English so well." Yeah, because it's my native language.

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#18

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "Are you twins??? " Said the cashier to me and my brother... who's 12 years older than me...

Edit: of course my brother took it as a compliment... that little-

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “I love how you’ll just wear anything” -John Mulany

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#20

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones There’s the classic, “I don’t care what they say about you, you’re alright.”

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#21

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Friend of mine in high school got a “compliment” from a teacher, “you’re so pretty for a black girl”

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#22

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You're pretty bright for someone that has (insert any disability here)

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#23

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Wow you don't seem autistic at all!

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I wish I had the confidence to wear that.

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#25

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “You’re the son I never had.”

Thanks, dad.

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Paul Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once heard "You're like the son I never had" said to their son's friend right in front of their actual son.

Anne Edwards
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's one of the most hurtful things that I've ever heard. How could anyone be so cruel?

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Rcktgirl05
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same. My mom especially tells everyone she can that I'm the son her husband never had, despite him having two sons. It's because we have similar interests and I like "guy things" that his sons are not interested in like his race cars and shop tools.

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Katie Lutesinger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"You're like the son I never had!" "And you're like the father I never visit."

fat and happy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course that's the mother's job to have the sudden the father just gets the fun part 9 months earlier

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#26

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Your child is so good-looking (or smart). Who did they get that from?

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “You look so young” isn’t the compliment people think it is. I feel like nobody takes me seriously at first meeting and it’s just pointing out to me that my body never developed much during puberty and digs into my insecurities of looking like a child. Makes me feel like a child and I’ve gotten these comments my whole life. But if I complain I get “relax you’ll appreciate it when you’re older”

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I used to be told frequently that I looked like a teenager when I was in my 20s and early 30s. I know they didn't mean it rude, but I most certainly didn't want to look 17 while pushing my kid around in a stroller at 30. I remember catching someone looking at me when I was pregnant and I could see the judgement in their eyes so I not so subtly put my left hand on my stomach so the person could see my engagement ring and wedding band.

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#29

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones After sex: "That was better than I expected"

I actually got that one in college.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You're one of the good ones. (Refering to race)

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You look soooo cute in cheap clothes. i could never pull that off omg"

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones While walking next to me "Wow I didn't realize how short you are!" I always reply with it's because my personality is 10 feet tall!

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "Wow, you smell a lot nicer than usual!"

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones A nurse to my ex gf— “I really wish I could be as skinny as her!”

I was in the hospital from SMA Syndrome, a thing that happens when you lose so much weight that your intestines close shut.

Good news! If you too are depressed with life and have little desire to eat anything ever, you too can be 70 pounds and get these fabulous curves!

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#35

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You're so skinny!! What's your secret?" An eating disorder, babe.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones As someone with curly hair, when I straighten it

"Wow your hair looks so much better straight"

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#37

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Asian American here.

"Whoa, you don't have an accent at all!"

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#38

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Anything that ends with "for you."

That's great hat, for you. But its the perfect size, for you.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Or when being black… “you’re so well spoken”

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones My auntie once said to me: You know, you used to be a bit funny looking as you were growing up but you have turned in to a really handsome chap.

I really didn't know what to make of that, if I should be happy or offended.

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#41

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones That blouse looks fantastic on you despite your size

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#42

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You are hot but not as hot as everyone says you are" which was said to me at a party.

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#43

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “Exceeds expectations”

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “I didn’t think you were pretty without a mask”

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#45

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Did you lose weight?

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You must be working really hard, you look more tired than usual.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I had someone tell me when I was a kid "wow you have such good handwriting for someone whose left handed" what?

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones After I gave birth to my first son I had just lost the baby weight. My grandfather said, ‘Well, I guess you’re not gonna be fat now like your mama and your sister.’ My mom and sister were sitting right there. Win for me…insult for them.

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#49

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones “No one else is like you.”

Depending on tone, it can be taken as either

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones When grandma tells you that you look well and you know she means that you look fat.

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#51

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You look good with makeup on.

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#52

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones I underestimated you.

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#53

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You clean up well."

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#54

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones When people tell me in person, that I’m very photogenic.

I’m kind of a catfish, I know my angles. I know I look different in person. So saying, ‘you’re so photogenic’ when you’re not like commenting on a photo, and saying it to my face, means ‘oh wow you look so different in your pictures’ LOL

It doesn’t upset me or anything l, but I feel like it’s back-handed haha.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "He's a nice guy." Aka he's bad at his job.

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#56

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You look so pretty today. As opposed to every other day where I look like cat sick

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones My dad, after not seeing me for several months, saw me and said “I forgot that you’re good looking”. I can’t pinpoint exactly why it made me feel bad and good at the same time but it did.

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#58

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You look so much nicer now!

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You and I, we're the same"

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "Your eyebrows look so good now that they're even." - Kim Chi

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#61

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You're so special...

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#62

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones Apparently asking for an ID when people are buying alcohol.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones ”I can see what you were going for here”

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones "You're progressing right on track"

I've had people take this well and as a sign that they are doing things correctly. However I have also had people get upset because they thought they were ahead of the curve and special.

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#65

People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You haven't changed in 20 years.

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People Share What Insults Can Be Disguised As Compliments And Here're 40 Of The Most Savage Ones You look like your mother/father.

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