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Boss Threatens Employee With A Write-Up After They Complained About Him Stinking Of Smoke
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Boss Threatens Employee With A Write-Up After They Complained About Him Stinking Of Smoke

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There are so many reasons to loathe smoking. The massive health threats it poses, second-hand smoke, the litter, and the awful stench, both while smoking and after it. Still, millions of people remain addicted to this sinister life taker, despite smokers themselves describing it as a ‘filthy’ habit.

For one person on Reddit, their boss, and his addiction, spilled over into their personal space while they were working with a customer. They asked for some room, but the boss didn’t back off. That’s when things went from bad to worse.  

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Person hates the smell of smoke, but their boss takes up to 8 smoke breaks a day

Image credits: MART PRODUCTION (not the actual photo)

He usually washes his hands after, but the stench still lingers on his breath and clothing

Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

They were busy helping a customer when the boss showed up stinking of smoke and got into their personal space

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They discreetly told their boss to back off since they had the situation under control, but the boss still wouldn’t give them any room

Image credits: u/LeVelvetHippo

After the customer left, the boss admonished the employee for their so-called insubordination and threatened to write them up

They begin their story by telling the community that, while their boss goes for a smoke up to 8 times a day, they don’t smoke themselves and hate the smell. Usually, the boss washes his hands afterwards, but the stench stays on his breath and clothes

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They go on to say that the previous day, the boss had come back from a smoke break but, instead of washing his hands first, he came over and crowded OP, who was busy with a customer at the time and hadn’t asked for any help. They asked the boss for some room, but he wouldn’t back off.

So, OP discreetly said, “I’m sorry, the smell of your cigarette is just making me a little nauseous.”

The boss just stood there looking at them, so they took a step away from him and sort of ignored him, which made things awkward. He then responded by heading outside for another smoke break.

After the customer left, the boss came back and told them, “You need to learn how to address people in a room full of customers!” 

When they tried to apologize, the boss cut them off, saying they’d have the conversation when he was ready.

The next morning, they got a long text message from the boss attacking their hygiene and saying he’d never said anything about it before because that would have been rude.

While admitting to being on the large side and using all-natural deodorant since anything with aluminum gives them hives, they shower every morning before work and their job doesn’t require any physical exertion. 

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Well, the boss threatened to write them up for so-called “insubordination” because they were “very rude to him in front of a customer”. OP says they’re not sure if he’ll actually go through with it but, if he does, they’re going straight to HR.

Image credits: Liam Martens (not the actual photo)

As we mentioned earlier, there are plenty of reasons to despise smoking, but what is it about the smell that is so repulsive? 

Well, it’s a fact that cigarette smoke is actually made up of over 400 smelly components like ammonia, acetic acid, 3-ethenylpyridine, and hydrogen sulfide. These all stick together to form that stubborn smoke stench that we all know – and can’t abide.

The particles in cigarette smoke stick to your clothes, furniture and even the walls around your home. If you smoke, or live with a smoker, a common source of the odor is the ashtray. Regularly cleaning out all ashtrays around the house is an easy way to prevent that cigarette smell from hanging around.

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But lingering cigarette odor is not only smelly, it’s also dangerous to your health. Known as thirdhand smoke, the stink that clings to clothing, skin, hair, and your environment contains active chemical substances, which have been linked to multiple health issues, including:

  • cancer
  • sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS)
  • chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD)

The absorption of nicotine, both into lungs and through the skin, affects your sweat glands. Nicotine makes you sweat more profusely and taints the way your sweat smells, so your skin will begin to smell like rancid smoke.

Cigarette smoke also coats the inside of your mouth, gums, teeth, and tongue, where it continues to release toxic residue. Any nonsmoker who has ever kissed a smoker will confess, cigarettes make your breath and mouth taste and smell like a dirty ashtray.

When it comes to removing the stink of cigarettes from your breath, there are only three real options: brushing your teeth, sucking on a strong mint, or chewing some gum. Of course, you could also try quitting, but perhaps that’s an article for another day.

What would you have done if you had been in OP’s shoes? Do you think the boss has a leg to stand on? Let us know your opinions in the comments!

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Redditors in the comments seemed to agree that some sort of HR action was necessary, with one going so far as to draft a complaint for the person

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Ivan Ayliffe

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After twenty years in advertising, I've decided to try my hand at journalism. I'm lucky enough to be based in Cape Town, South Africa and use every opportunity I get to explore everything it has to offer, both indoors and out. When I'm not reading, writing, or listening to podcasts, I spend my time swimming in the ocean, running mountain trails, and skydiving. While I haven't travelled as much as I'd like, I did live in !ndia, which was an incredible experience. I love live music, whether it's in a massive stadium or an intimate club setting.

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Ivan Ayliffe

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After twenty years in advertising, I've decided to try my hand at journalism. I'm lucky enough to be based in Cape Town, South Africa and use every opportunity I get to explore everything it has to offer, both indoors and out. When I'm not reading, writing, or listening to podcasts, I spend my time swimming in the ocean, running mountain trails, and skydiving. While I haven't travelled as much as I'd like, I did live in !ndia, which was an incredible experience. I love live music, whether it's in a massive stadium or an intimate club setting.

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Monika Pašukonytė

Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A local kitchen fitting company lost my business because the salesman had literally just finished a cigarette (I could see him) and got all up in my personal space and almost choked me with the smell of his breath.

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Leigh James
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1 month ago

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I think they both stink, olfactorally and behaviorally. Here's an old tip that I learned from colleagues while doing lab research involving rats: put some Vicks Vapo Rub between your lip and nose and around your nostrils and/or nose if more smell barrier is needed. It really works.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shouldn't need to. Smokers need to be more considerate to those around them.

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1 month ago

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I think there's faults on each side here. Yes, the OP was wrong to say that in front of a customer. Not to defend the stinky boss, but that's clearly unprofessional behaviour.

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Jihana
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think you really understand the situation here. The stench of a smoker standing too close can be enough to make a sensitive person throw up. Telling the boss he stinks in front of a customer might be unprofessional, but so is vomiting on said customer.

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A local kitchen fitting company lost my business because the salesman had literally just finished a cigarette (I could see him) and got all up in my personal space and almost choked me with the smell of his breath.

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Leigh James
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1 month ago

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I think they both stink, olfactorally and behaviorally. Here's an old tip that I learned from colleagues while doing lab research involving rats: put some Vicks Vapo Rub between your lip and nose and around your nostrils and/or nose if more smell barrier is needed. It really works.

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V
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shouldn't need to. Smokers need to be more considerate to those around them.

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Ace
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I think there's faults on each side here. Yes, the OP was wrong to say that in front of a customer. Not to defend the stinky boss, but that's clearly unprofessional behaviour.

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Jihana
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think you really understand the situation here. The stench of a smoker standing too close can be enough to make a sensitive person throw up. Telling the boss he stinks in front of a customer might be unprofessional, but so is vomiting on said customer.

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