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The great Italian writer and semiotician Umberto Eco once said “The person who doesn’t read lives only one life. The reader lives 5,000. Reading is immortality backwards.” And among those thousands of lives, at least one can really shake you to the core or make you realize something about life that will change how you live it.

If you haven’t read such a book yet, maybe reading something that made a huge impact on others can help with that. People on Reddit shared the books that left the biggest impression on them when VAMPCLAW asked, “What is that one book that absolutely changed your life?” Redditors shared both fiction and non-fiction books that made them think differently, inspired them to reach for more or helped them to get through a difficult time in their lives.

We are curious to hear whether you agree that the books mentioned in the list are worth reading and will leave you in deep thought afterwards. Also, if there is a book that you think everybody else needs to read, leave it in the comments and share why it was so life-changing for you.

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Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Bible. It made me an atheist.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. Me too. Do what I do with Gideon Bibles in Hotels. Dedicate the book to the reader.. Ross Noble, comedian, was once stuck in a hotel on a dreary day when everything was closed, picked up the Bible, thought why not read it to pass the time. Opened it to find the dedication, "All the best, God.".

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives the girl with the dragon tattoo when I was 18. I didn't go to highschool for reasons and this book made me go get my highschool degree and go to college because I wanted to become a journalist because of that book. I graduated college last month.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Nathaniel66 said:

    1984- Orwell

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    Just finished this one last week. Such a great book that still manages to be relevant 70 years later. Makes me worried about some of the trends we see today and how we need to put more value in privacy. It also made me really value the simple things that are so easily taken for granted like having your own place with your SO and the ability to lead a life of your choosing.

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Read it a couple of times over the years, always relevant no matter what political party is in power or what the current landscape is. You can always take something from this book.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives There is a Monster at the End of this Book. It really led me on a journey to overcome my fears and deeply examine what it means to be a monster. Also, pulling really hard against Grover to turn the pages helped me get buff. Really I was helping Grover face fears he was not ready to face. But we faced them together.

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    Sarah
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just bought this for my girlfriends little guy! Have always loved it. :)

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Hobbit.

    As a young child, I had always found reading to be pretty dull. This changed when I was 7 and got my hands on The Hobbit- I realised that it wasn't reading that was boring - I just wasn't reading the right books!

    The Hobbit started my life-long love of reading, particularly fantasy and sci-fi- A passion that I am now following as a writer!

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    kjorn
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah. they never give you good book in school. i started to read more when i start to read classic we never get in school: Conan Doyle, Verne, Dumas, Moliere, Shakespeare, Tolkien.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Maus; the first and only graphic novel to win a pulitzer price

    It is a book about a second generation survivor of the Holocaust retelling his father memoirs of the event. This semi-biographic book puts into perspective the whole feeling of absolute terror and give us an insight on the before-after situation. The jews are portrayed as mouses and the nazis as cats, elaborating on the whole cat and mouse chase premise which demonstrates the horrors the jewish felt. Although it is a graphic novel, its images do really say more than words.

    It is to this day, the only book which has made me cry and feel hurt; it makes the whole subject feel very personal.

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We know what a swastika is, it is a symbol only, why censor it? We are all grown ups?

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives charxc2222 said:

    To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee

    ronearc responded:

    That's my answer as well. A book that legitimately changed my view of the world and the people in it.

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I am an ocean away from where this is set, a good few generations away, and yet I found the book so nostalgic and cosy when talking about childhood.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Flowers for Algernon. I read it as a teenager, and it made me realize that my intelligence was a privilege, and that it didn’t make me better than people who are less intelligent than me.

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    Kookamunga
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love this one. The way the writing style changes as Charlie's IQ changes is brilliant.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Easy way to stop smoking by Allen Carr.

    I had zero intention to stop smoking when I started reading that book. To say I was sceptical about it would be an understatement. I was a heavy chain smoker. Smoked more than anyone I knew. But I went cold turkey after I read it. 3 years strong. I have not had a single puff since finishing that book.

    If you smoke. You want to read this book now. I wish I read it earlier.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Dune. Fear is the mind-killer.

    Also, A Wrinkle in Time.

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    Mimi M
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read Dune when I was a kid. Much better than the subsequent movies, though the older movie is better than the recent one - neither of them capture the book.

    Muntean Stefan
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No movie can capture this book, would need a series and new fill making technology

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    Mary Rose Kent
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A Wrinkle in Time was the first SciFi/Fantasy book I ever read and I absolutely loved it. I reread it as an adult and was flabbergasted by all of the religious underpinnings I had missed completely.

    Paul Davis
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A pretty hard slog though. The characterization is pretty stilted throughout the series. I did like it better when I was 12 before I understood how real people interacted.

    Alexandra Nara
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was an awesome filmproject by jodorowsky based on this book, including Dali, Orson Wells etc as actors and Pink Floyd for the music. The passionate documentary about it ( you' ll find it for free in internet) just blow my mind.

    JLBigboote
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Destino. It's a fantastically beautiful piece, made even better by watching the Pink Floyd version Destino & Time.

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    voice of reason
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read Dune about 4 or 5 times. Spectacular book. So many of these books I stumbled upon cuz I spent hours at the library.

    Chrysalis Cam
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Regardless of the rest of the book, the Litany Against Fear has gotten me through some hellish times and places.

    Fester Sixonesixonethree
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The scope of it... an entire galactic empire existing on the availability of Spice.

    Shyla Clay
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I finally got to the end of the series. Extremely disappointing.

    D00FINSHMERTZ
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just a fantastic series if you can slog through it. Especially with his son now writing more books as well. I stopped around book 8.

    Raven DeathShade
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A Wrinkle in Time was an amazing book, and I was so excited for the movie. The movie was absolutely terrible. It removed the best parts, removed the religious undertones, and everything that made it so fun to read.

    Daniel Morgan
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Currently reading this, struggled to get well into it at first but now starting to get more interesting so am determined to stick with it.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Outsiders. Beautiful story that opened me up to the wonders of the 50's and 60's in the western U.S. absolutely loved it. Please read it, who ever reads this.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives A Brief History Of Time. The insanity and complexity of the universe was explained in understandable terms, bonkers.

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    Kenny Kulbiski
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, to a certain extent. I understood and comprehended as I read it and for a few days later. For some reason I couldn't retain it and now am clueless as ever.It's just to mind boggling. Or maybe it's just me.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives I remember when I read Clan of the Cave Bear by Jean M. Auel. I was about 10 years old and I had seen the movie a dozen times before I found out it was a book. I devoured it in 2 days. I was hooked on the whole series for decades and it started my obsession with books. I will read anything but historical fiction is my favorite and it started with the Earth's Children series.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Kite Runner

    Completely eye-opening, and an emotional roller coaster.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Long Walk by Stephen King. Greatly shows the variety of lives and some lessons about the life itself.

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    Stephanie Wanek
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought I was the only one who was amazed by this story. I wish someone would produce a film based on this story.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Probably Redwall because it got me into reading as a child, and later writing.

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    I’m embarrassingly basic but the hunger games. It got me into reading in grade school/high school which really benefited my comprehension, vocabulary and writing.

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    Martin Kaine
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not embarrassingly basic. If it strikes a chord or changes your view on reading, it is a good book.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Giver

    I remember reading that book in 6th or 7th grade and just being blown away. I had never experienced a book like that before and it really had a huge impact on me.

    I'd also say The Harry Potter series because as a young kind reading those books I really felt like I was escaping into this magical world.

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    Raven DeathShade
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Harry Potter series is nice :). I get in so much trouble for defending it against those who believe it's demonic, though XD.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Breakfast of Champions by Kurt Vonnegut.

    "The things other people have put into my head, at any rate, do not fit together nicely, are often useless and ugly, are out of proportion with one another, are out of proportion with life as it really is outside my head."


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    Vonnegut is so profound and yet can say absolutely nothing at the same time. I love the way he writes so much. I've been reading this textbook sized book full of all of his short stories recently and they're amazing. Reading about the Tralfamadorians when I was a younger me totally changed my outlook on life and how I think about the time we have here. It really did transform my life.

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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This novel had me laughing out loud several times. Some of Mr. Vonneguts simple illustrations are hilarious. Now would be a good time to read it again. I can use some laughter. Powell Books, here I come. Again.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Body Keeps The Score: Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma

    If only more mental health care specialists read this book. If only more doctors read it. If only more people understood the ripples of intergenerational trauma and abuse.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Phantom Tollbooth.

    I reread it after hearing that Norton Juster passed. It may have resonated more with me at 32 years old than reading it as a child.

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    Raven DeathShade
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is, without a doubt, one of my favorite books. It is filled with nonsense, elaborate wordplay, amazing characters, a beautiful storyline, and it's just so, so awesome.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives My side of the mountain. I was young and have always camped and loved the outdoors (still do) but this book had such an exciting story!

    Its about a boy who runs away from home and plans to live in the wild on his own. He goes to a library and checks out a bunch of books on survival and lives in the forest. He even burns the base of a large tree and hollows it out and makes a living space inside. its a super easy read but I loved every page.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives pretty-ok-username said:

    The stinky cheese man and other fairly stupid tales

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    This book basically set my sense of humour. I can trace my affinity for shaggy dog stories and deadpan humour straight back to the princess & the bowling ball and the other frog prince.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Thinking Fast and Slow. I had no idea how my overreliance on my intuition was impacting my ability to think through tough problems. It has forever changed the way I look at the world.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Depressive Illness: The Curse of The Strong by Tim Cantopher.

    Whenever someone tells me they are struggling with their mental health, I immediately point them to this book. It is the first one I have read by a health professional where I got the impression they actually get what it means to be depressed, and unlike most books by professionals, it's pretty easy to read at about 100 pages.

    It doesn't offer any cure-all remedies, but it does help you understand why this is happening to you, so you can start to do something about it.

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    Raven DeathShade
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a character in a game called Doki Doki Literature Club who broke my heart while recounting their story. They were confused and scared as to why they felt this way, why they were depressed. For all those who are experiencing the same, I hope you find out why :).

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Way of Kings by Brandon Sanderson. Got me back into reading after 5 years without picking up a book and then later inspired me to become a self-published author

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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the same author that finished the Wheel of Time series. Robert Jordan and his family respected Sanderson’s way of writing so much that they gave him Jordan’s notes so he could finish the series. I love everything he’s written. One of the few male writers that can write great, strong, believable female characters.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Road. I read it before and after becoming a father. Drastically different experiences. And the world according to garp. I read it when I was a kid and it was the first novel that made me laugh outloud and come close to crying in the same book.

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    Zoe's Mom
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this the same as the movie with Viggo Mortensen; if so, depressing and moving at the same time. That was a heck of a roller coaster ride.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler; an incredible sci-fi book that was written in the 80s and is a mix of apocalypse fiction, socio-political critique & resilience.

    Completely changed my world view & put me on the path to sustainable off-grid living, which I'm really grateful for.

    I also equally love the sequel Parable of the Talents and there's an amazing podcast called Octavia's Parables that came out last year which goes through each chapter of the book. I recommend it for anyone thinking about starting the book or re-reading it, it's like being in a book club that goes at your own pace :)

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    Jode Mode
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is one of my all time favorite authors! Kindred was the book by her that REALLY blew me away. “Afro-centric, feminist Sci-fi.” - brilliant work.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The End of Mr Y.

    My ex partner threw it at my face during an argument and knocked down and burst my forehead. So I left her and totally changed my ambitions in life. Kinda funny. Sometimes I see that book and scowl, and wonder what people think is going on.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! Not the way I'd have thought a book would change one's life, but OK.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Dark Tower series. Those books helped me escape during some trying times.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Where the Red Fern Grows. It still has the best imagery of any book I’ve ever read. A must read for dog lovers.

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's also about hunting raccoons, loss and grief. Plus a dose of Christianity. I class this among the animal books adults think kids should read, because they've some claim to being literature, but that I as a kid found far too painful and upsetting to ever recommend to anyone. See also: The Red Pony, Old Yeller, and The Yearling.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Siddhartha by Herman Hesse. Made me rethink the nature of religion.

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    Angelar
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I finished "Steppenwolf" as a 14 year old -“You are to listen to the cursed radio music of life and to reverence the spirit behind it and to laugh at its distortions” I knew life was going to be homework.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Discrete Mathematics 4th edition, never wanted to end my life so quickly

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives Neuromancer. It somehow gave me hope. Might have been at a low point in my life, I really can’t say. But I started collecting books again, reading more, and I put up with way less s**t from people. There’s got to be a reason somewhere, so I’m giving credit to William Gibson

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    Nathaniel
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never gotten very far into this book, heard it is so good, but I, for whatever reason, cannot make it very far.

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    jhgibson said:

    East of Eden

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    I was surprised I had to scroll so long to find this book. I didn't want to comment if it was already on here. Reading Steinbeck has influenced the way interact with the world, and this book in particular has influenced me more than others. It made me more introspective and I work on being better instead of just being the same person year after year.

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    Tammy Kirks
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I started with "Of Mice and Men" and was determined to read every Steinbeck book I could get my hands on. I worked my way through every one and "East of Eden" is a fave.

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives susfromrus said:

    Python for beginners :)


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    Lol I like this one. I casually read Learn Python the Hard Way, and it sparked an interest that led to a coding bootcamp, which has me currently interviewing with a couple good tech companies in my area. If and when I land a job, the Python book will have changed my life more than any other book by a long shot lol

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    Ben Steinberg
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I found the book's protagonist to be poorly defined, the over-arching themes to be fairly derivative and the final denouement leaves the reader cold and unsatisfied. Great pictures though.../s

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    Folks Online List 30 Books That Blew Their Minds And Changed Their Lives The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch

    I read it in my late teens and I really tried to take in as much as I could. He seemed like an incredible man, and I'm grateful that he shared so many life lessons with the world before he passed!

    I should read it again!

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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had the priviledge of seeing him on TV and talking about how the whole thing came to be. I'm not sure I could have the kind of courage, peace about what was in his offing. So many chapters are incredibly practical as well as life insights people just don't "get" until you're where he is, but wants the reader to understand and make changes before they get to that point. Still have it. With what's going on right now in my life I will be picking it up again. Thanks for putting this in and so a reminder.

    #39

    Gotta go with The Five Love Languages. As a 20-something divorced dad, it was eye opening. Really makes you appreciate how others operate in a relationship.

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    How to win friends and influence people -Dale Carnegie. Was living in a broken down suburban with 2 flat tires. Now I'm on my way to to 200K a year and just bought a van in cash to turn into a camper...it was more than just that obviously. But the motto "I can do anything through strengthening" definitely changed my life.

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