This is easy. He doesn't feel as if he has any responsibility for the car so, when wants to go anywhere, charge him taxi rates. He's already decided that the move benefits him immensely and you're to go along with it even though you don't seem to be gaining anything from it. Your feelings are being ignored and it won't get any better. You know what to do.

Living with a disability does not mean you get to be a jerk. So he is fine with moving into an unsafe area, putting YOU at risk because he is bored? Wow. And he is fine with you runing your errands and driving him around but won't share the expense for parking. Nope. Let him move alone.

Normally I disagree with the internet default suggestion to break up with someone, but in this case I think she should let him move, but she stay where she is.

If the area isn't safe for a healthy able-bodied woman, I would find it strange bordering on unbelievable that it's a safe place to walk for a blind man.

He is comfortable asking partner to uproot and move cities, but is insulted when discussing parking? That doesn't add up. What do we do with our car is as valid a topic of discussion as commutes, roommates, and house requirements. He treats his partner like a roommate, not a partner.

My wife doesn’t drive. Because she benefits so much from me driving us places (including places I would otherwise expect her to take herself without me) she handles most of the things like our parking permit, submitting registration, pumping gas when we go somewhere together, etc. I wonder if this guy is even paying for half the gas when they drive somewhere together!

Beyond the parking, roommate, etc., the fact she wouldn't feel safe should be a nonstarter...

Have you done a cost comparison between how much more it's going to cost to live in the city (including taxis/ubers for both of you to get home from work in the evenings etc due to unsafe area) vs how much it would cost for your BF to take a taxi instead of the bus? You may find that it's actually cheaper and more convenient for both of you where you are now, if you budget for him to use a more convenient alternative. You could even put some of the $175 a month you'd save on parking towards his taxi budget, and still come out ahead.

"He gave me a cold look..." I must admit i chuckled to myself a bit.

I found the original post on Reddit from 6 days ago (no resolve or answer.) However, I can't help but wonder if this relationship has a leg to stand on. Is this the only thing that he won't contribute to? Who does the cooking and cleaning? Does he feel that since he is impaired, he should not have to contribute to this too? This doesn't sound like a fulfilling relationship, rather one sided. Of course, we only get to judge on what OP writes. But based on (just) this - I see red flags.

So he gets a personal car and chauffeur but doesn't think he should have to help with the cost? Then i guess it won't be used for anymore trips to visit his family & friends, huh?

Do not move THERE. You should agree on moving, but define a set of criteria that are essential and a set of criteria that are desirable, but not crucial. Whatever meets this, is only qualified for candidacy, it doesn't grant a move. I don't think that switching who does and who doesn't like where you live leads anywhere, but opens a lot of undesirable possibilities. I mean ... yes, agree to move ... but don't rush it, and don't take turns in hating where you live. Also, get straight how you handle having a car. Not being able to drive does not mean not benefitting from having one. Man, wouldn't I have a cat, not having a car would be an option to seriously consider ... public transport to the vet, with a cat who hates being picked up ... she, of course, cannot drive, due to her size and her not knowing how to handle any vehicle ... got no license either, she ... but, besides, that is. Sort out what you expect, what you need, what sort of compromise you'd accept, aim for a reasonably symmetrical choice that doesn't pay back his disregard for your current situation by making yours worse, but seek something that is a plus for the both of you ... and then, parking and cost may and will come up again - sort that out. Giving and taking is also offering and receiving, and on that end, I think, you should have a serious talk regardless of moving or not. That done, start searching for a flat, apartment, house, whatever - and don't rush it. You should only move if you both, all in all, benefit from doing so. Otherwise, it's ... bound to fail.

its her car. and only her car. he isnt responsible for it.

It seems like he's using her. Some people are great takers with strong boundaries. They leech on the caring givers woth weak boundaries. OP sounds like a giver.

OP writes that he hates the bus. Maybe it is because he hates travelling by car, and then it could be at the root of his refusal to be paying for a parking spot, as if he wished you didn't have a car at all? Otherwise I think he is just very selfish and you're NTA but rather more of a pushover than you should accept to be.

I sure hope she dumped him and didn't move. The move would be a win win for him, and a lose lose for her. What a selfish jerk.