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"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow We had to wake up whenever my parents got up, even if it was 4 a.m. One of them would yell up the stairs for us to get up. Didn't realize I could get up at my own leisure until I got married and moved out. One day I got out of bed when my husband did and we were sitting in the living room watching tv when I exclaimed that I was still tired, he said "So go back to bed then" and it was like those moments on a show when an actor just looks at the camera with a surprised expression. The sudden realization that I could wake up whenever I wanted was over whelming.

Also now that I have a kid I have no idea why they wouldn't let us sleep so they could have some free time? Like damn if my son is sleeping I'm taking in all the quiet and enjoying myself some free time.

_LaceBatman28_ , Artem Podrez Report

Final score:

368points

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NakNakNak 1 year ago

Simple case of "If I have to be awake and miserable about it, YOU have to be awake and miserable about it."

187points

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow 4 minute shower restricted to once a week. This was when I was in high school. This is all my folks did to save money so it was all I was allowed as well. If I exceeded the 4 minutes they would turn off the hot water from the main valve by the water heater. Imagine that- a high school boy allowed one shower a week and only a 4 minute shower.

I now take a shower a day and sometimes two. And sometimes until the hot water runs out.

anon , Grant Durr Report

Final score:

336points

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Rahul Pawa 1 year ago

Teenage boys need to shower more than once a week. Adults too, really. Some people take money saving too far. I bet this saved them very little money.

237points

buttchugandplug69 , RODNAE Productions Report

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow Trust Game! Mom would hold knives to our necks sometimes and say "it ll all be over in a feeewwww minutes" or wake us up putting a pillow over our face and plugging our noses, same thing " it ll all be over in a fewww minutes" if we freaked out she get upset say we didn't trust her. Hence the trust game.

Final score:

334points

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Jaekry 1 year ago

That's abuse... MAJOR abuse. I'm baffled.... Extremely toxic psychological abuse... wow.

573points

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow Normal parents take a toy away until their child's behavior improves, then returns the toy as a reward for good behavior.

My mother just took my stuff and never gave it back. She'd claim that we could 'earn' our toys back with extra chores and good grades, but she never followed through even though I was on honor roll every single semester. I was in college when the closet organizer in our hallway closet had a critical failure, so I came home to help move stuff. I found an entire box of my confiscated books and toys. I s**t you not, my mother picked up a beanie baby and looked at me sadly while she said, "I was waiting for you to earn this back." What, were you going to surprise me with after I walked the stage and got my diploma?

LadySmuag , ashleigh290 Report

Final score:

324points

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Something 1 year ago

What's even the point?

196points

I wasn't allowed to have boys phone or come calling for me because my mom didn't want me to turn out to be "some little s**t".

Joke's on you, mom.

thegirlstoodstill Report

Final score:

315points

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Nitka Tsar 1 year ago

Ha! LoL love this one. You go girl

129points

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow We had a lock on the fridge and were never allowed to help ourselves to anything - you had to ask, usually the answer was 'no'.

I started buying junk food and hiding it in my closet - I think my father was completely clueless about growing teenage appetites and smoked, so his appetite was almost non-existent.

I struggle with binge eating to this day - I still love a good gorge, it means freedom and a giant middle finger to that lock on the fridge.

AptCasaNova , Marghoob Hasan Report

Final score:

282points

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SaneMinotaur (she/her) 1 year ago

This is so incredibly sad. My parents kept the snacks in a locked cupboard in the garage; my sis picked the lock and they moved the snacks. My mum used to hoard food in her room, and one time I snuck in there and ate some of it; I got into soooo much trouble over that. I was like 9 at the time.

166points

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow My parents are pretty much hoarders so we would get in trouble for cleaning. My mom always blamed our house being messy on her just being "too busy" so once in junior high I thought I would surprise her and have the whole kitchen clean when she got home. I cleared all the piles off the counters, threw away a bunch of decades-old magazines, and took out like 2 giant bags of trash. When she got home she was NOT pleased, but panicked, and promptly went digging outside in the trash can to bring the stuff back in. :/

adakati , Ben+Sam Report

Final score:

266points

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wifeofweasley 1 year ago

This is a mental illness - it's so hard for people to let go of stuff. Some people who suffer can clearly see what's wrong with them but can't help them self nor get help by professional. The others don't even see an issue with their behavior

274points

celestialmotion , cottonbro studio Report

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow Until the age of 13 myself and siblings each had to take baths with dad to ensure we cleaned everywhere.

Final score:

252points

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JoJo Anisko 1 year ago

Screams sexual abuse.

427points

#10

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow My parents wouldn't let me do anything with friends if they felt I had "done enough that week" or "didn't need to" even when I hadn't done anything at all that particular week. My friends started calling it the fun meter. "Wanna come play basketball at the park or is your fun meter full this week?"

rmack10 , RODNAE Productions Report

Final score:

249points

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Chucky Cheezburger 1 year ago

I feel this. My parents would arbitrarily let me go out with friends. No reason or rhyme to it.

113points

#11

Not a rule, just something that I never realized was weird until I was an adult. My mom had a phobia of needles, so she managed to find a dentist who didn't believe in giving novocaine shots. For any reason. Didn't even use that numbing gel.When you had a cavity, and needed to have your teeth drilled, he would just tell you to hold onto his assistant's hand, and squeeze when it hurt. Thank God, none of us ever needed to have a tooth pulled. As a result, I developed a phobia of dentists, and after I left my parents house at 18, waited 23 years, before I ever got up the nerve to go to a dentist again. When I finally did, they were shocked. The hygienist said, "Your teeth are beautiful. You don't even have any cavities." I said "I know. I do everything in my power to avoid having to come see you people."

kitchentrash Report

Final score:

243points

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GoldenRhino 1 year ago

I grew up with the same dentist experience… still have to get full anaesthesia or laughing gas for the most minor things. Thanks mom!

109points

justsomefairy , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

#12

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow "You eat everything you're served". So if they put a whole lot of food on our plate, and we had already eaten enough and were not hungry anymore, we would have to stay on the table until we were done.

Final score:

235points

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Jaekry 1 year ago (edited)

Took me hours.... Mom guilt tripping me (with "other children in the world are starving, how dare you.)... The times I was 4 hours at the table were plentiful, picking my food, then finally giving in. Then rewarded with doing the dishes at 10 or 11 at night... I wasn't even a teen.

195points

DataAttackHelicoptor Report

#13

I was raised in a fundy Christian household. Though our media options were limited to veggie tales and the like, we always had to ask before watching any video. Usually, the answer was a simple yes or no. But this one time, I was around 14 and asked my dad if I could watch Winnie the Pooh (it was for my little siblings, but I was bored). He told me, dead serious, that he needed to pray about it. Right there, he asked God for wisdom in deciding whether I should watch it or not. I stood there just trying to figure out if he was messing with me. He was not. After about a minute, he looks at me and says, "I guess that would be okay."

Final score:

209points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Comrade Xi does not approve of this post.

90points

#14

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow Juice always had to be watered down to 50%.

It wasn't a bad rule--saves calories and money--but it totally blew my mind when I found out that other families drink orange juice *full strength*.

pervocracy , Charlotte May Report

Final score:

208points

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Sue Bradley 1 year ago

Pure juice of any kind is bad for you - soo much sugar!!! A small glass isn't too bad but not loads of it :(

75points

#15

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow No one was allowed to s**t in our house. We had a large house and all 4 of us had our own restrooms. There was this little girl with special needs I used to play with when I was little and once she had to use the restroom. My mom asked me where she was and I said she's in the bathroom. My mom walked in on the poor girl mid-s**t and told her to go home and finish.

anon , Miriam Alonso Report

Final score:

207points

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PattonPawter 1 year ago

for those confused if you go to the source link then OP clarifies that no outsiders were allowed to s**t in OP’s house.

39points

#16

My dad had several weird ones to this day I still don't understand.

I wasn't allowed to read at the table while I was eating or drinking. Even if I was completely by myself drinking coffee, if he walked in on me he would berate me for having a 'toy' at the table.

No one in the family was allowed to drink at the counter in the kitchen. I have a habit of just draining a glass of water and pouring myself a second one. I didn't see the point of filling a glass, going to sit down, spend about a minute drinking, and then getting back up just to refill the glass. I tend to drain most drinks in a matter of seconds, so I got into the habit of just drinking at the counter. First time my dad saw me doing this he lost it yelling at me about how it wasn't normal and to sit down at the table while I drank.

Reading books before bedtime was forbidden. Everyone in the house throughout the day has to be 'productive'. Reading is for right before you go to bed. Finish all your chores before everyone else? F**k you, your brother/sister is still cleaning, you're just being lazy by sitting down to read a book!

He also had major issues with me just reading in general, even for class assignments. I actually had a full on argument with him a couple of times about The Great Gatsby and Catcher in the Rye I was reading for my English Lit class. He was trying to prevent me from reading them, but I shot back I had too because it counted towards my grade. The entire class also took a huge test on each book, so NOT reading wasn't an option.

Yeah, he was a bizarre person. Suffice to say we don't talk anymore.

lady_terrorbird Report

Final score:

205points

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Emmydearest 1 year ago

The "duty before pleasure" policy makes sense until he said he had completed all his chores but he couldn't relax because he had to help his sibling completing their chores. It's really stupid, to be honest. It's just going to make the kids work slowly so they won't be the first to finish and have to do more work. If I still have to work after I've done my work how can I be motivated to work faster? It really makes no sense, parents' wise.

21points

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#17

I wasn't allowed to say anything my parents didn't like - it would result in an immediate grounding or "fine" from my allowance. As for rules, no sleeping past 10 am. Ever. All chores must be done before going out or doing anything. Only one hour of T.V per evening and only one dessert per week. One hour of internet at a time (this was early 2000ish) and only if my dad wasn't using the computer (he always was).

Now for the weird ones...

- no farting
- no ketchup on potatoes or eggs
- no more than a tablespoon or so of a condiment at any given time
- no hiccups
- if you had hiccups, no eating or drinking (edit: or speaking)
- no being "hyper" - ever.
- no getting angry
- no using the washroom upstairs
- no speaking during T.V shows at all (on the rare occasion that I was allowed to watch T.V upstairs).

And the pièce de résistance...

- (For a year or so) no using the word I

BeyondAddiction Report

Final score:

202points

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The Dark Sun 1 year ago

Certain people simply should not have kids

336points

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#18

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow I wasn't allowed to sleep over at friends' houses until I was almost in middle school. Why? Because my mother was afraid that we would play Russian Roulette.

1121314151617 , Pavel Danilyuk Report

Final score:

199points

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Corvus 1 year ago

Because that's what kids do all the time, right? (rolls eyes)

187points

#19

Here's a christmas-y one for ya'll!

No christmas presents after you turn 12
- t'was okay since we barely got presents from my mum (who we lived with) and my dad (I don't think I had even seen him in 4 years at the time.)
BUT THEN...
she spread the rule to my abuelita and grandpa (the only other people we got presents from.) ugh.

Oh and we also had to make all our own food since we were 13 which made me take to only binge eating at lunch and nothing else all day.

Oh AANNDD she would hurt our pets if they hurt her. I mean like if a cat ever scratched her (wow really who woulda thought cats do that?) she would scream really loud and bite the cat.

Fun fact: I've never had a full punch on with anyone other than my mum...maybe my sister but ya know...kids.

anon Report

Final score:

180points

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wifeofweasley 1 year ago

The cat one is the worst one! It's still just an animal and just reading that the mom hurt the kitty hurts my heart.

209points

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#20

Not I, but my father's stepmother used to make he and my aunt clean up the living room, kitchen, and dining room while her and her "real children" were taken to McDonalds, every Friday.

The most f****d up thing is, my father said that the first time she made them clean up, she said that her and the two step-siblings would switch off every week as to who would clean and who would go to McDonalds. He said he doesn't ever remember going to McDonalds. Neither does my aunt.

He was 7, she was 12.

LegendSir Report

Final score:

173points

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Meebumitches 1 year ago

I treated my step kids like my own. No longer with their mom, over 10 years now. None of the three speak to their mother and 2 out of three don't speak to their father either. My stepson (M24) recently asked me for permission to change his last name to mine as he doesn't want to be associated with either birth parent.

52points

#21

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow Only 3 sheets of toilet paper allowed per visit. This included if you went number 2. I swear my mum used to stand outside and listen and she just knew when I used more and I would get yelled at and the door nearly broken down. This ran into my teens.

The_lonliest_girl , Anna Shvets Report

Final score:

169points

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Ba-Na-Na 1 year ago

She must have been a laundry wizard then!

114points

John Carr 1 year ago

Feed her a large dose of laxatives and then hand her 3 sheets.....see how she likes it. Bloody psycho!

44points

Lou Cam 1 year ago

Oh I'd love to be there for that....not in the bathroom itself but in the house so I could her her pleas whilst satan himself crawled out her behind. I'd hand her newspaper instead of toilet roll. Deal with that!

11points

Debbie 1 year ago

Due to something I need quite a lot of sheets before I am clean after a no2 usually... 3 sheets would hardly be enough after peeing. And when on period... brrr having to think that I'd have to pull my panties up while still being dirty on all sides.

16points

Seadog 1 year ago

In the words of the late Jay Hickman, "I've got enough hair on my a** to weave an Indian blanket" 3 sheets ain't gonna get it done.

1point

David 1 year ago

Must have been hell for a teenage girl on her period - and pooping - and deciding where to allot those precious three sheets. School security sees you acting suspicious and pulls you aside. You break down in tears and cop to having taken an extra six sheets of TP out of the school bathroom.

14points

Rose the Cook 1 year ago

Once worked with a woman who insisted her kids use only one sheet and really did listen.

10points

Z Alexi 1 year ago

And your colleague bragged about this? omfg. Read where~~"for environmental reasons"~~actress Cameron Diaz advised all to "use only 4 sheets of toilet paper." Haven't seen her films since.

1point

Ches Yamada 1 year ago

My grandfather (we lived with him) would say "1 sheet for number one and 2 for number two is ALL you need". My mother backed him up. Let's just say I had extremely heavy periods and there was no way even a full handful was enough.

8points

The Forgotten Loser 1 year ago

My mom used to put toilet paper in tiny ziplock bags, one for each person in the household. The bags would only have five squares and if we used our squares up, we couldn't go to the bathroom until the next day. It was my moms really bad attempt to save money.

8points

Some guy 1 year ago

Hell, just paying for all those baggies would ruin that plan!

0points

GhostlyFinn 1 year ago

What if you were on your period though??

5points

KnightOwl 1 year ago (edited)

I hate when people complain about stuff like this. My dad used to rant about how much loo roll our family used, every time he had to buy more. We would argue that it was his fault for having so many kids (8) and that we used as much as we needed to get clean. No matter what arguments we had or how valid they were, he still freaked every time. (Eg. Would you rather we all walked around smelling of s**t? Do you really want to wash the s**t stained underwear of 10 people every day? Maybe if you didn't buy the cheapest, thinest paper possible, we'd use less 🤷‍♀️) Us 8 kids were very close in age with around a year between each of us, so the teen years were a nightmare. (3 teenage boys and 5 menstrating teenage girls but he still constantly complained and tried to make us feel bad for using too much!)

4points

Arsène Thédié 1 year ago

No wonder, she sounds very anally retentive

4points

Frits Driessen 1 year ago

Oh I'd be done with this so quickly. Wipe with my underwear and just put on clean ones. Let mom deal with the s**t stains.

3points

Surfing Panda 1 year ago (edited)

Holy f*ck.... that's weird ... ehm...sh*t. (Pun intended). Mind you: I remember having to use newspaper torn in pieces to wipe. That fortunately stopped when I was around 10 or so. (try it: it's like mission impossible. The only way to get some result is completely wrinkling the sheet, then flattening it again, then proceed. It will give the paper a minimal required absorption capacity. Sorry for the technicality)

3points

Monosyllabic girl 1 year ago

I had to use a coffee filter once...poor shopping planning lol. Good to know that tip about newspaper in case the need ever arises!

1point

KDav 1 year ago

This was a running joke in our family that one of the great-aunts was so cheap she would buy single-ply and you shouldn't need more than 3 sheets. But she grew up on a farm where they used corn cobs to wipe after pooping, so three sheets of toilet paper was enough to check (after the white cob came away clean; you'd use brown cobs to do the real "dirty work," apparently). As far as I know it was never actually enforced, but we joked about not telling Aunt Mary for years. She would also write down jokes she heard and keep all the little slips of paper in her purse in case a situation arose where she could tell them.

3points

Z Alexi 1 year ago

Hoarding jokes is smart~~esp when you're talking to a bore. As long as auntie didn't "enforce" her idiotic rule on any1 else, it's her body...whew.

0points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

more abuse.

3points

Evi Grimes 1 year ago

Gross

2points

Tom Hardeveld 1 year ago

I hope it was 12-ply?

2points

My O My 1 year ago

I allways got in trouble for using too much tp. I also had diarrhea my entire childhood/youth. So, yeah

2points

G'ma B 1 year ago

Weird person!

1point

Erica Politica 1 year ago

Y'all must've had some dirty, itchy bottoms. 🙄

1point

PolymathNecromancer 1 year ago

And that's only for starters.... the mindf*ck from a mandated sh*tty a*s may well lead me to the aforementioned Russian Roulette....

1point

Catharina Geerts 6 months ago

Gross

0points

M S 11 months ago

Insane

0points

Lucky momma 11 months ago

My parents had the same rule. My dad always said it was because of the septic tank not being able to handle more? And never 2-ply paper. When I moved out I went crazy trying every 2-ply on the market!

0points

Diana Pahule 1 year ago

I'm gonna thank my mom for not being a complete weirdo.

0points

Marie Claire Lafreniere 1 year ago

Sounds like your mom would yeet off the nearest cliff if she saw how much toilet paper I use. I wish her final years thrive with incontinence. 😂😂

0points

Z Alexi 1 year ago

Pee & poop on your hands 3 times a day all of your growing-up days? So you just wasted soap which also costs $. Cruelty = divorce. Hope you're estranged from this cruel woman who doesn't deserve to have you as a friend.

0points

Pandasizing World Peace 1 year ago

I hope these toilet paper cheap-os at least let their kids use soap to wash their hands after having so little TP to use.

0points

Alison Welles 1 year ago

She could do a Charmin commercial, for real.

0points

Karen Philpott 1 year ago

And what would happen if you had diarrhoea?

0points

Shannon 1 year ago

We had 2 sheets for #1, 4 sheets for #2. Until I was a few years married I lived by this.

0points

Z Alexi 1 year ago

You were obviously not mature enough for marriage. This is self-inflicted after you turned 18. No pity party for you~~just for your cruel parents.

0points

Mel The Axolotl 1 year ago

How do you know just by listening tho. I'm worried there was a camera or something. Maybe that's just me overthinking tho

-1point

#22

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow That 'the man' was watching us (my sister and I as kids).

Not santa, literally 'the man'.

So say if we were playing up, they'd go 'you'd better stop that, he's watching' and we'd quit immediately for the impending dread this man would bring. How f*****g creepy is that?

Officeprisoner , Artem Lysenko Report

Final score:

166points

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Jackie Lulu 1 year ago

Pretty effen' creepy.

84points

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#23

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow No saying "no." As long as someone asks kindly you have to say yes.

anon , Lukas Report

Final score:

163points

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Nathaniel 1 year ago

Please may I sacrifice you in the name of our Dark Lord?

245points

#24

I wasn't allowed to be a witch on Halloween because my parents were afraid it would offend actual witches. I also wasn't allowed to be a ghost because they were afraid I would attract actual ghosts and I wasn't allowed to be a vampire because they were afraid a real vampire might mistake me for a real vampire. Both my parents were highly superstitious and into the occult, which I didn't realize until later since we went to temple and I went to hebrew classes, but apparently my father was secretly a practicing wiccan and my mother was just going along with everything. Somehow they both got it into their heads that I was attracting poltergeists that were specifically out to get my mom and so they decided I wasn't allowed to do anything that could attract evil spirits. For some reason this rule didn't seem to apply to my brother...

Zoklett Report

Final score:

160points

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Jesse Setliffe 1 year ago

Your father wasn't a Wiccan, he was a mental case. Oh he may have read something about the Wiccan religion, but he missed entirely the point of what he had read and focused entirely on what could feed his existing anxieties and obsessions until he reached borderline dangerously insane territory. I sure hope you got out of that scene.

197points

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#25

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow My step-dad when I was growing up was a very strange man. We had to sign and date the inside of our toilet tissue rolls because he wanted to make sure we weren't going through TP too fast. Want to borrow a pencil? I did in 7th grade. I had to write and sign a one page lease (with said pencil) outlining the whole scenario and how I would return it, when, in what condition...
My allowance was $1/week. This paid for toothpaste, shampoo, and conditioner. Nice...
My mom had to put receipts of the grocery trips on the fridge and he'd pay her for specific items he deemed were his. He was such a piece of work.
My mother was a bit younger than he, so his children weren't in her children's age bracket, and none of us were very close. In middle school he gave me his daughter's diary from years before when she was in high school. I read about a page and was horrified that he was abusing her privacy in such a way. He loved to mention when I was 16 that I was as pretty as I would ever be and if he were younger and not married to my mother...(as if). I even had to pay rent to live at home IN HIGH SCHOOL.
He was special. And I don't mean that in a good way. The only positive thing about it was I was naturally a very shy person, but he put my hackles up so much that I became very argumentative and adversarial in regards to him. Overall, that wasn't a bad skill to develop. That man's bare feet never touched the ground or felt blades of grass in his life. He was afraid of germs and Catholic guilt and "that one experience in college" with his roommate. He was just a man who couldn't deal with himself so he lorded himself over others in strange ways. What I've mentioned is the tip of a very large iceberg of weirdness.

He was something strange to grow up with. I'm still a people pleaser to a degree, but when my bs meter goes off I have zero patience for it and speak or act accordingly--mostly because I spent my last few years when they were still married being defiant towards him. Who wouldn't?
Sadly, I had a friend from that age whose step-dad was WAY worse than what I had to deal with, but that isn't my story to tell.

Ineedmorecoffeenow , Helena Lopes Report

Final score:

153points

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Carol Emory 1 year ago

I never got an allowance...but I didn't have to pay for my own deodorant or shampoo. I also rarely went to the movies or out anywhere with friends because I had no money. When I was in high school, my friends usually paid for me. I'm forever grateful for them giving me a life outside of my home.

114points

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#26

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow My mom never let us whistle - she sad it would attract mice. I now know she was just making stuff up because whistling was annoying to her lol

tzomqe , Eman Genatilan Report

Final score:

146points

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Casey McAlister 1 year ago

I also heard about this superstition, so it's not just your mother. Another one - if you whistle you'll go broke.

62points

#27

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow My parents made us kids use the back door to get in and out of the house, the front door was for parents and guests only. I thought it was normal for too long.

bicmitchum8623 , Ben Mack Report

Final score:

143points

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Debbie 1 year ago

That probably has to do with dirty shoes and not closing the door properly behind you or leaving the backdoor unlocked? I get very tired in summer constantly getting up to open te front door for them so I tell them to go around the back too.

133points

#28

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow 8:30 bedtime. My. Entire. Damned. Life. Though, I knew as a teenager that making your high schooler go to bed when it was still light out half the time was whacko.

Well into my 20s I'd come back to visit for the holidays and dad would get up to use the toilet at night, see the light on in my room from me being awake reading a book at 10 p.m., and yell at me to go to sleep.

norrina , Polina Kovaleva Report

Final score:

141points

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Miss Frankfurter 1 year ago

No!

76points

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"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow I was raised a Jehovahs Witness, so yeah. Not having friends outside of religion was pretty strictly enforced until I got into my teens.

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136points

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tHeBoRdEsTpAnDa 1 year ago

Everything I read about JWs makes me more and more concerned because I know one and she's really nice. She's also lesbian, does anyone know the JW opinions on that?

76points

#30

"I Thought It Was Normal For Too Long": 30 Weird And Disturbing Rules Parents Had Their Children Follow We weren't allowed to take our clothes/shoes to mom's. We had to change into what we wore when we arrived. It wasn't until I was in middle school that I learned that other kids *own* their stuff. Weird.

AnonymousBBQ , Annushka Ahuja Report

Final score:

121points

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SpookyPanda 1 year ago

Actually, I get this. When she was 5, my stepdaughter's mom would send her in clothes that were too small, too large, with holes or stains, or didn't match. If we bought her clothes and she took them home, we'd never see them again. About a year or so in, I asked my husband to let me buy her clothes that she kept at our house. When she arrived, she'd wear what I got her that actually fit and were in good condition. When she went home, she had to change back into her home clothes that she came in. Sometimes we would get her things she could take home, but we knew we might never see it again. Sure enough, by the time she was in late elem/middle school, her mom was taking her clothes that we bought her. Sigh. Now, we have full custody so it's no longer an issue.

174points

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Sue Bradley 1 year ago

So many of these posts are examples of abusive behaviour, so sad and sorry for all involved X

47points

Tams21 1 year ago

I didn't have the patience to get through all of them but from the ones I saw, I agree. Some of these parents have no business have children under their care.

20points

Caro Caro 1 year ago

Some people should NEVER have kids. Makes my blood boil. The abuse is horrible and I had to stop reading after a few. SH!T

29points

Lara M 1 year ago

So much untreated mental illness and generational trauma translating into child abuse. Absolutely horrifying.

17points

Seabeast 1 year ago

Too bad people aren't required to study and pass a test before being allowed to have children.

14points

Melissa Hollowell 1 year ago

I had to go through more scrutiny to get an abandoned dog from a rescue than 2 adults who decide to make a new human.

3points

El Dee 1 year ago

Control freaks abusing their own kids..

14points

heather7d@yahoo.com 1 year ago

Okay, I couldn’t even get through the first 10. This is one of the most horrific posts I’ve ever read on here. I hope all these people who grew up in these abusive situations are doing okay now. 😞❤️

11points

Got Myself 4 Pandas 1 year ago

As a parent I'm a firm believer in picking my battles - why would I make my life and theirs more difficult by making up stupid rules that have zero logic behind it? I'm pretty laid back as to what my kids are allowed but you can bet your a*s I expect them to be decent humans and show people respect - as to how much toilet roll I really don't care as long as I'm not dealing with skid marks, if they're hungry then eat, if your not then don't - I really don't understand why anyone has kids just to make their everyone's lives miserable - what is the freaking point?

10points

Elaine Morinelli 1 year ago

These posts are all examples of horrible physical, emotional and sexual abuse. I hope these people are ok today.

9points

Marion Goriak 1 year ago

This stuff is HORRIBLE. The only "rules" we have are: If you spill the salt, pour some over your left shoulder. If it's yellow, let it mellow, if it's brown, flush it down. Last one out locks the door. If you're going downstairs, take something down. If you're going up, take something up. If someone makes a particularly hilarious or incisive comment, you must high five them. No drinking directly from the jug. All these "rules" are agreed upon family rules, that are part of our family "folklore".

8points

Emmydearest 1 year ago

All these parents acting like they've been held ar gunpoint by their own future children's souls and been forced to conceive them. Uhm no, you deliberately decided to have kids (or your inconsiderate actions led to a pregnancy) and you have to raise them, provide for them, create for them a sane, healthy and positive environment, do everything for them to grow up and become functioning adults. Your kids shouldn't pay for their food or their basic hygiene products, feeding and clothing them is not a "gift" from your own part, that's not even the minimum standard... And those post, my friends are like the poster child (or whatever it's called) for the legalization of abortion, contraception and sex education. I wonder how many more kids will be born in a household where they are not wanted, maybe even hated... How will they be treated?

7points

Celina 1 year ago (edited)

Agree with you on how kids don't owe their parents anything, etc. but society does push women in the direction of "settling down and having children." Going against that is something that takes effort and strength that some people don't have or want to muster. Hell, some people don't even realize it's an option, partly because of how they were raised by their parents. It doesn't excuse the behavior but I would argue many if not most people don't even consiously sit down and decide to have and raise children. Which is a huge problem and needs ro change.

3points

Cyber Returns 1 year ago

My first Stepdad was obese. He weighed 320lbs, and he hated me and my brothers, but I made sure he took it out on me. He would hit my mom because she wouldn't give us up for adoption. He would quickly burn me with his cigars, slap me for no reason and call me stupid and useless. He would stand on my back, crushing me. I lit a cigar he was holding When my youngest brother was born, his biological son, he got even nastier. He would punch me and slap me. On one occasion, hit put my hand in the gas cooker ring while it was lit because I passed him his lighter. I think I had coined the phrase Fat B*st*rd before Chubby Brown or Mike Myers. I also suffered from rage issues. I still do. I avoid fights and conflict because I escalate quickly and become very violent. Luckily, it triggers in defence and I never start a fight. One day, he kicked me over at the top of the stairs at home and jumped on my back. I snapped and stood straight up. I was 11 at the time, and he fell down the stairs.

6points

Cyber Returns 1 year ago

He saw me screaming as I leapt down the stairs at him with both fists balled up and moved out of the way. The neighbour came rushing in thinking someone had broken into our house and was attacking us. It only ended when my mom finally snapped and smashed a pottery chicken over his head on new years eve at a party we were throwing and told him to get the f*ck out and told everyone what he did and does. The stories I could tell you would make your blood boil. He's dead now. I had a party with my brothers. We had cake

13points

Steven Bennett 1 year ago

You have to study, pass a test, and get a license to become a doctor, a layer, or a teacher. You have to study, pass a test, and get a license to drive a car. In most cases, you have to undergo periodic re-licensing or recertification to show that your skills have remained current. Yet we have none of those requirements to become a parent, even though unqualified people have the potential to ruin their children's lives, and possibly pass that ruination down for generations. What is wrong with this picture?

4points

Dodo 1 year ago

I kinda think therapy should be mandatory during pregnancy and a few years of the child's life. Sometimes it's nobody's fault that they don't know better, but people can absolutely be taught what's good for children and what isn't.

2points

Maple Porkly 1 year ago (edited)

Wow, where to begin. 1. I wasn't allowed to date while living at home but I also couldn't move out until I was married. Figure that one out. 2. If I cooked anything, I had to clean up before eating it and if my brothers were hungry and I want eating the food they could help themselves even if I was washing so I could eat it. That translates to cold food or no food if any of my brothers were home. 3. I couldn't make phone calls unless a parent approved and they were on the other line listening. I never called anyone since the answer was normally no or they were too busy to monitor it. 4. No changing your hair without permission. 5. No borrowing other people's clothes. I couldn't buy my own either. 6. No sports except the girl ones and they had to take me if they had time which they never did. So I got a little chubby which they ridiculed me for. These are just what come to mind. I've suppresses most of my childhood. I think the reasons for that are obvious.

3points

Celia Gallardo 1 year ago

i grew up with an abusive, mentally ill mother that was basically a combination of all of the above. i'm 51 years old now and to this day i still sometimes get nightmares. i am so sorry for all the things these people have had to endure

3points

Jodie daubenmire 1 year ago

My heart goes out to all of these poor abused kids. I hope life is better.

2points

The Starsong Princess 1 year ago

As children, all food and drink had to be consumed sitting at the table except water. Only exception was special movie nights when we would have snacks and pop in front of the tv. As an adult, I still eat every meal sitting at the kitchen table. Keeps the house clean and the furniture unstained so I mostly think it’s a good rule.

2points

barbora_malcova 1 year ago

Pinching. Like constantly. There was nothing inappropriate about it, just stupid. Father would pinch our forearms or lower back and simply thought it was funny we - me and my sister - squeeled and whimpered, thought it for some kind of prank. He came from a very abusive family which explains he never had a chance to see how to treat people nice, and he was otherwise mostly okay, but we never got this annoying habit out of him. Disgusted me so much I still don't do well with people behind my back or touching these parts of me (though otherwise I love to hug and cuddle) and myself, I never touched a person - or a pet as a matter of fact - otherwise than softly and with their consent.

2points

M S 11 months ago

This was Truly Sad to read & Breaks my heart 💔 to know so many have been hurt , traumatized and robbed of a childhood that was not Wonderful. So much Mental Illness & Cult behaviors. In tears I read this 😢 wishing there was a way for this disgusting reproduction of sick humans acting less than. 😔 it's horrible secrets to carry. And I an so very sorry. This is not even the tip of the truth. Evil effing people These are some truth we have learned , but Much More than we could ever know is out there happening Right now.💔

1point

Magenta McDonald 11 months ago

Not all parents can or should have kids But all kids need to have a good parent

1point

Sara Anderson 1 year ago

Some people evidently have kids just so they have minions to boss around. That's so gross.

1point

Andreas Prince 1 year ago

Reading these makes me appreciate my "normal" parents even more.

1point

pp horrendous 1 year ago

this is so f**k up

1point

Melissa Hollowell 1 year ago

My mother, of blessed memory, was by and large great. However, if I went to a friend's house after school with a SAHM, I would call to let her know and she would always tell me to go back home....to an empty house....and wait there for hours for someone else to come home. I wish I could ask her what that was all about.

0points

Belladonna.dreams 1 year ago

I don't understand how these people had the energy to be like this with kids.

0points

Brian Droste 1 year ago

This post wasn't what I was expecting. A?lot of these were abusive. Reed them all.

0points

Michelle E Parker 1 year ago

I don't let my kids in case there's a p3do there and no supervision-

0points

PissedOffProfessor 1 year ago

My brother and sister and I couldn't even be in the yard when he cut grass. I didn't cut grass the first time until I almost 30. When a new theatre came to town, it was near our local airport. We could never go to that theatre because it was in the landing path of planes. (Funny thing, though, years after he passed, a small plane did crash right next to the airport.) I could go on and on, but those are my top two! I will admit, however, it has made me much more safety conscious, even though I have an irrational fear of fire and checking the mail on just about any road!

0points

Patti Vance 1 year ago

feel so sad reading these comments. while i would never call myself a perfect parent i could never institute most of these rules. i have one son. because i was aware that other parents didn't always supervise their kids i made my home welcoming for his friends as i could keep an eye on them. rules were simple: no alcohol/drugs/smoking/cussing. respect my house-don't break it. respect my dogs. pick up after yourself including son's room if you helped mess it up. and, just because i wanted to make sure they respected my rules one silly one: if you have a penis then no earrings. it was always a secret chuckle to see the boys filing in while they removed their earrings and put them in their pockets. of all the boys that spent time in m home only one violated the rules which banned him from the house. he was a good kid, he was sorry but i had to be firm. his mom even called to see if i would rescind my decision but i had to keep as an example. sorry lenny-you were still a good kid

0points

simply.Taz 1 year ago

I feel sorry for Lenny. Could you not have just given him a temporary "grounding" from your house? Lol

1point

AnnaB 1 year ago

Wow

0points

Paul Mitchell 1 year ago

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Seabeast 1 year ago

Probably not. Abusive controlling parents exist everywhere.

14points

Paul Mitchell 1 year ago

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Sue Bradley 1 year ago

So many of these posts are examples of abusive behaviour, so sad and sorry for all involved X

47points

Tams21 1 year ago

I didn't have the patience to get through all of them but from the ones I saw, I agree. Some of these parents have no business have children under their care.

20points

Caro Caro 1 year ago

Some people should NEVER have kids. Makes my blood boil. The abuse is horrible and I had to stop reading after a few. SH!T

29points

Lara M 1 year ago

So much untreated mental illness and generational trauma translating into child abuse. Absolutely horrifying.

17points

Seabeast 1 year ago

Too bad people aren't required to study and pass a test before being allowed to have children.

14points

Melissa Hollowell 1 year ago

I had to go through more scrutiny to get an abandoned dog from a rescue than 2 adults who decide to make a new human.

3points

El Dee 1 year ago

Control freaks abusing their own kids..

14points

heather7d@yahoo.com 1 year ago

11points

Got Myself 4 Pandas 1 year ago

10points

Elaine Morinelli 1 year ago

These posts are all examples of horrible physical, emotional and sexual abuse. I hope these people are ok today.

9points

Marion Goriak 1 year ago

8points

Emmydearest 1 year ago

7points

Celina 1 year ago (edited)

3points

Cyber Returns 1 year ago

6points

Cyber Returns 1 year ago

13points

Steven Bennett 1 year ago

4points

Dodo 1 year ago

2points

Maple Porkly 1 year ago (edited)

3points

Celia Gallardo 1 year ago

3points

Jodie daubenmire 1 year ago

My heart goes out to all of these poor abused kids. I hope life is better.

2points

The Starsong Princess 1 year ago

2points

barbora_malcova 1 year ago

2points

M S 11 months ago

1point

Magenta McDonald 11 months ago

Not all parents can or should have kids But all kids need to have a good parent

1point

Sara Anderson 1 year ago

Some people evidently have kids just so they have minions to boss around. That's so gross.

1point

Andreas Prince 1 year ago

Reading these makes me appreciate my "normal" parents even more.

1point

pp horrendous 1 year ago

this is so f**k up

1point

Melissa Hollowell 1 year ago

0points

Belladonna.dreams 1 year ago

I don't understand how these people had the energy to be like this with kids.

0points

Brian Droste 1 year ago

This post wasn't what I was expecting. A?lot of these were abusive. Reed them all.

0points

Michelle E Parker 1 year ago

I don't let my kids in case there's a p3do there and no supervision-

0points

PissedOffProfessor 1 year ago

0points

Patti Vance 1 year ago

0points

simply.Taz 1 year ago

I feel sorry for Lenny. Could you not have just given him a temporary "grounding" from your house? Lol

1point

AnnaB 1 year ago

Wow

0points

Paul Mitchell 1 year ago

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Seabeast 1 year ago

Probably not. Abusive controlling parents exist everywhere.

14points