Only a small percentage of people are truly rich and have no need to think about the price tag, if something is a scam or if it’s overpriced. Majority of people are not so they have to be mindful about how they spend their money, but it doesn’t always mean that they are making the right financial decisions.
Of course, it’s fun to splurge from time to time but it is also smart to stop and rethink if the things we are spending money on are really worth it. People on Reddit listed some things that you may consider stopping spending money on after caloriedeficit101 asked, “What in your opinion is the biggest waste of money?”
We would like to hear what other things you would add to this list and if there are any things mentioned here that convinced you to save money on. Also don't forget to upvote the submissions that you agree with the most!
More info: Reddit
This post may include affiliate links.
Buying products from the Kardashians. Literally from any celeb.
Kardashians, the epititimy of entitlement & exploit their own children, grooming the next generation for the same path. They don't really invent anything, just get paid for lending their name to someone else's product.
I saw somewhere someone mentioned Retardashians, and not for a moment did I hesitate to whom they were referring to
Load More Replies...Being endorsed by a celeb doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad product, but definitely do not trust it just because it has their name on it. You can probably find something of similar quality that's considerably less expensive
Yes. That's true of most expensive skincare. You can usually find products with the same ingredients for a reasonable price.
Load More Replies...*buys Romulan skin care lotion and a Ferengi wallet* I don't buy Cardassian.
Depends on what it is and who the celebrity is or who owns it like I like Taylor Swift perfume because it actually smells good or Katy Perry and I like their music so I support them but again that depends on who it is and who you support and where it came from
To be honest, I have no idea if they are good products, but if they are, I'm not sure that qualifies as "an utter waste of money".
I was at the bottle shop yesterday and found out Sarah Jessica Parker has her own line of Prosecco. Needless to say I did not buy any.
AimlessCreator said:
Cigarettes
[deleted] replied:
I was never a smoker, but years ago, I worked at a medical office part time. The office manager was a former smoker. Her husband had been on her to quit for years. Finally, he said if she quit, he would take the money she would have spent on cigs (2 pack/day habit), put it in a savings account and take her to Hawaii, which had always been a dream of hers.
Well, it was the motivation she needed. For 2 years, he put that money into an account on her 2 year quit-a-versary, they took a first class trip to Hawaii for two weeks, completely paid for with cigarette money.
She'd been seven years cigarette free when we worked together.
“More doctors smoke Camels than any other cigarette.” - 1946 ad campaign.
My dad smoked. Mom would pick up a carton or two when she did the shopping. I don't know if she forgot, or if Dad just had a stressful time or what, but he ran out of cigarettes. He went to the convenience store to buy a carton. When he found out they were $20 a carton, he walked out and never smoked again.
When cartons of cigarettes were 8 dollars it wasn't a terrible financial decision only a very unhealthy one. Now a 8 a pack it's like a car payment a month and unhealthy
Now at like 10-20$ a pack it's near a rent note by the time the months up. This is really great idea
With today's prices, that would be $11,680 on average in the US. Almost $500 per month. That's a pretty nice vacation. $8 is average here, though it varies widely from state to state. It's more like $10 where I live.
My sister and I had that discussion 30 years ago. Since then hubby and I have been to 47 of the lower 48 states. Sorry North Dakota.
Load More Replies...
Weddings. A family member will have spent over $60,000 on her wedding that is this summer. They don’t even own a house. And 65%( after gifts from both parents) is credit card debt . If you have the money spend it on what you want but I just find it incredibly narcissistic to get yourself in so much debt because you need your ‘big day’.
The sad part is that 41% of all marriages end in divorce. All that money. Wasted.
I’ve once seen a research showing that, many times, the more you spend on the wedding, the likelier it is that you will get a divorce soon thereafter.
Load More Replies...The last wedding I went to was in a public park (which had really nice scenery for wedding photos). The bride and groom wore nice clothes that they already owned and had spent a couple hundred dollars on wedding rings. Instead of bringing gifts, the guests brought food for a pitch-in lunch. After the ceremony and lunch, we all played games. It was the only wedding I really enjoyed attending - and the only wedding where I saw children having fun.
That’s an amazing idea to have like a potluck for wedding
Load More Replies...I gave you an upvote! That's lovely!! We bought a house and had a tiny wedding.Why are you being down voted??
Load More Replies...I wouldn't say weddings are an *utter* waste of money, but I do agree that going into debt for a wedding is ridiculous. We paid for a wedding that we could afford. We had fewer than 30 guests, but we were able to get married at a world heritage site. I do think weddings are a great way to bring people together whom you haven't seen in a long time, or who haven't seen each other. My wife's friends came from all over Japan, and my family all flew over. We had a special time, because we didn't just have a wedding - my family all had a two/three week holiday in Japan, which doubled as our honeymoon. It was a fantastic experience, and not one that I would change for the world. But yes - stay within your means!
Agree! Saved for it first, had a wedding within our budget, and it was great to see friends and family! No need for super expensive stuff, just a DJ and a buffet, with my best friend making the cake (we paid for ingredients).
Load More Replies...Average cost of a wedding in the UK: £17,300, or nearer to £30,000 with all the extras (hen/stag nights, honeymoon). I'm not opposed to weddings, but be more economical, and put the money to the deposit for a house, from which you will continue to benefit for years.
Holy hell someone is on a down voting binge!! Here's an up vote from me!! LOL That's exactly what we did!! Bought a house 20 years ago and it's now worth over 4 times what we paid for it!!
Load More Replies...Weddings on their own are not the issue. Spending an absolute fortune and getting into debt is a different situation. I'd redo my wedding day again in a heartbeat. We had a 100 people at the wedding (not huge by the standards of where i lived) and got to invite all the friends and family we wanted to. We didn't get ourselves into debt and rather than going on honeymoon used the money as a house deposit.
We had a traditional wedding and a modest reception. We were young so a celebration with our families was appropriate.
Load More Replies...Went to my best friend's family reunion. About noon they halted their volleyball tournament. Her cousin and his fiance came out to the middle of the field in fresh white t-shirts and shorts. They got married right there. Afterward, volleyball commenced. One of the smartest thing I've ever witnessed.
Got 'married' (ok Civil Partnership (gay)) back in 2007, 2 witnesses, no fancy clothes, no event afterwards and still happily 'married' but have been to fancy weddings and they ended up in divorce. It feels as if they have the fancy wedding to try and prove their love but cluse always show there is a problem when you get the "at MY wedding " or "MY wedding reception" never using 'our'
Personally, I see nothing wrong with having a big wedding (a plus is giving some people job stability), because that's the couple's business. I mean, weddings wouldn't be quite so stressful if it wasn't so expensive and extravagant, but to each their own. However, you have an excellent point when one of the people in said couple refers to it as "my" wedding, not "our." That would make my bridezilla radar go off the charts and maybe start taking bets on when they'll divorce.
Load More Replies...
Name-brand shoes for toddlers and pre-schoolers. They’re not gonna stay clean and they’ll grow out of them faster than you think.
Name brand shoes period. An extra hundred or two so it says 'Nike' or whatever is a waste. The shoe quality is just the same, and sometimes better, on my twenty dollar shoes.
Kind of have to disagree. Unless I wear expensive Hoka's, I have horrible plantar fasciitis and pain. I wear each pair until they hurt since they are so expensive. I never thought I would spend so much on a pair of shoes though.
Load More Replies...Fully disagree. Toddlers are learning to walk and need good footwear. Doesn't need to be name brand, but it shouldn't all be Payless. Footwear period is worth spending on.
Dressing a baby in Gucci is cute if they're doing a commercial for said product, but buying it for them when they'll grow out of it in a month or less is a waste of money. (Unless money is something not worried about.) But still...a waste regardless.
I think the various commenter are interpreting "name brand" in two different ways: If "name brand" means some kind of a designer name for showing off, then OP is completely right, and its just as true for adults. If "name brand" means a reputable footwear company that makes good quality shoes, then OP is certainly wrong with regard to kids, and maybe for adults, too.
Disagree. It depends. If you have a toddler with wide feet like my little guy, you need to spend the extra $ to buy them wide width shoes. Regular shoes from Target or Walmart pinch and will make them trip and fall a lot. And only certain name brands make wide-width toddler shoes. But if your kid has average size feet, completely agree.
Baby clothes and shoes lasted a long time back in the day, passed down from siblings, cousins, yard sales.... If the item is in good repair and the right size, there's nothing wrong with recycling clothing.
TheShoot141 said:
Gold flake covered food
buttgers replied:
Looks tacky.
Has no nutritional value.
No enhanced flavor.
It's one of those "because you can" status symbols, but it's a stupid one.
I think I read somewhere that gold, being a heavy metal, can't actually be purified from your system. So this is merely a very expensive way of poisoning yourself.
It's not poisonous and it can't be absorbed through your gut, so although it's totally pointless it cannot do you any harm
Load More Replies...I didn't even know this was a thing. How fecking stupid can you get? Let me throw scraps of metal on your food and charge you extra!
Well, if you're about to fall from a bridge becase you need a special angle of you eating an icecream for your Instagram... at least it must be a golden one!
Thank you! I absolutely loathe this! It looks bloody awful and does nothing to enhance the flavour.
Gold is often procured at the price of human lives. Literally. I can turn this fact off in my brain far too often - but not when I see it on food.
Invading a neighboring/foreign country. As we are seeing right now Russia is doing a marvelous job of creating so many financial problems for itself and its people in the very near future. Like monday near future.
Funny, I haven't seen so much outrage about us invading Iraq to search for their weapons of mass destruction. 1 mil dead people. Seems a double standard, folks...
The average Russian citizen is becoming a victim of Putin’s war as well. :(
Any leader who makes a threat of going nuclear should be removed from this earth with extreme prejudice.
What about the USA?? America invaded like 80 countries in 100 years.. Double standard
I cannot stress enough how much this issue hurts so many people on so many levels! This is a genocide and I hope and pray that it will end with the public execution of all those m***********s! So many innocent lives lost…so many people hurt…so much destruction……and for what? Just because we have nothing to worry about these days? Shame pUtin and all of your acolytes! Burn and rot in hell's belly! Slava Ukrainie!
Not only is Putin creating problems for Russia and it's people, it's creating problems for a big part of the entire continent. And Putin is such a sociopathic narcissist, he'll never back down unless he can manipulate it in a way that he can put it in someone else's name and that he thought it a wise idea to stop for his people.
Primary_Asparagus_58 said:
Buying new electronics every year just because it’s a new model.
shak_0508 replied:
I genuinely can’t fathom why people upgrade their phones on a yearly basis. 99% of what you do with the phone stays the same.
Signed, my seven-years-old phone with 2GB RAM who takes 6-8 business days to do anything xD
Weeeelllll, that’s a bit vintage. So’s mine.
Load More Replies...I get a new phone every 2 years, because after about 12 to 18 months the battery life turns to c**p, and I can only deal with that for so long before I'm aggravated enough to get a new one.
Same here. After 2 years the apps I use stop working properly on my phone anyway or my phone just plainly isn't supported for those anymore. Planned obsolesces is a b***h.
Load More Replies...I’m using a “Late 2009” model iMac that I bought used a few years ago. It does everything I need just fine - including running graphics programs.
To the extent that you can, buy the electronics today you will need five years from now.
I replace mine *maybe* every 5 years. If it is still working then I don't care. I'll keep it for 10 if I can. I decide to replace it when I start to have trouble installing apps or running newer apps because of the phone's hardware limitations. (So either app doesn't install, or runs slow as shiete that it is unusable). Works for me anyways
Ticketmaster’s horses**t fees. F**k that company
This!!! Went to purchase some tickets for a concert last year. Seats were $60 a peice for two people. Should have come to about $120 plus tax, right?? Nope...with ticketmaster fees the tickets would have been over $300. Nope. Bye.
Same here for a show at a venue about 3 miles from my place. $55 per... wanted 2. Should have been $110 (plus tax etc.... whatever) but on Ticketmaster the cost was like $329!! I'm like bull$hit! Went to the venue, talked to a friend there and wound up getting 2 $125 tix for $125! To be fair, I've done some stuff with them previously so that was nice of the venue to do that for me but still $329 for 2 $55 tix online?? Screw Ticketmaster!
Load More Replies...According to the title, stable hands. Seriously, I think they're companies that handle ticket sales to concerts and events, so legal scalpers.
Load More Replies...I sold some tickets on the reseller site because I couldn't attend something. I priced them well under face value so they'd sell and hey someone gets a bargain. When I went to check the listing, Ticketmaster had added so many fees it was about $20 more than face value. For e-tickets! Scam.
As an avid concert goer...I feel this so hard!! Depeche Mode tickets are currently in the thousands for floor seats in CA because they authorized those f*****g "platinum" pricing things. You get nothing extra with them. Just seats.
Ticketmaster is The Worst. Here in the USA, they are the ONLY option available and they know it.
This is f*****g crazy! Was going to a concert over the summer, we just decided that day to go, checked prices and the fees were ridiculous, so we just went to the venue and bought them there! Saved us over $70.00 in fees! I just don't understand how they can get away with it!
Try going to the entertainers web site. You can often purchase directly from a link on their site and avoid those pesky fees.
The medical industry. Not the actual providers, all those middlemen, managers, CEOs, and companies (with all their shareholders).
Not to mention all of the insurance providers who play "fake doctor" by saying "well, yeah, the doctor says you need this treatment but really you don't cause of money."
Too many in "management" and not enough people to actually do the work.
And how do you not pay for this? Scan yes but not sure you can just opt out
Yep. Those of us who actually do patient care just keep getting told to do more with less every single year
Daydreamer631 said:
From what little I understand of it I’m going to say NFTs
DanF*****gSchneider replied:
At least with crypto, when you lose big all you do is lose your house. When you lose big with NFTs, you lose your house, and also “own” a picture of a monkey forever to remind you that you’re financially incompetent.
It makes them SO mad when you screenshot their NFT and use it as your profile picture.
Load More Replies...I don't get these- NFTs can be multiplied over and over, right? So why the hell do they have a value?
From what I understand, NFTs aren’t SUPPOSED to be copied. People can copy and repost the art itself all they want, but the “NFT” is supposed to be a unique digital item with a “code” embedded in it to prove that the one you authentically bought is the “only” authentic copy. I dunno, I’m fairly tech-savvy and it still baffles me.
Load More Replies...
Diamonds because of all the artificial scarcity, I was told if anything buy precious stones. That’s why if you look at royalty they always have rare or precious stones.
Me neither, I think they're really boring, coloured gems are much prettier
Load More Replies...I love rocks and gems (I’m a geology nerd) but I find a cubic zirconia just as pretty as a diamond :)
My engagement ring is a Cape May diamond (quartz) found on the beach in South Jersey.
Load More Replies...My wedding ring set came from the Bradford exchange and was I believe less than $200. I lost the set and they were replaced with the same ones. I am not a blingy type of person and buying me expensive jewelry would be wasteful. If my ring cost $10 dollars it wouldnt of bothered me.
I can get a glass stone ring and from a distance it doesn't look all that different. lol Although I do personally prefer iridescent gems like Tiger's eye or opal.
I adore opals. I'll take them over a diamond anyday
Load More Replies...Fact: there's no value difference between precious and semi-precious, which is why jewelers don't use the term anymore.
Not having money. Stick with me here:
When you need shoes, you buy cheap and they don’t last
Fast food is convenient and cheap, but not good
You end up renting and can’t build equity.
Being financially unwell is a waste of money.
Bold of you to assume they'd care. Unfortunately, they're only concerned with lining their own pockets
Load More Replies...Spent 6 months homeless with a toddler. Everything costs twice as much and takes three times as long when you don't have money and the "basics" (these days: Car, Phone/Computer, Home with a mailbox).
I'm sorry you had to go through that. It must have been really rough.
Load More Replies...So what do you do when your genuinely broke....go barefoot????? Sometimes people cant catch a break and have to buy cheap to survive....I dont like this one
They're responding to the original question about 'What's the biggest waste of money?' Of course you can't go barefoot or be homeless, so you're forced to spend money on things aren't value for money in the long run. Terry Pratchett: 'A man who could afford fifty dollars had a pair of boots that'd still be keeping his feet dry in ten years' time, while the poor man who could only afford cheap boots would have spent a hundred dollars on boots in the same time and would still have wet feet.'
Load More Replies...I saw someone with boots they wore from their great great grandpa, it's fast fashion is the problem because a good pair of leather boots made right will last 120 years, same as jeans they used to be built to last not anymore
So much this. Clothes, appliances, electronics. Everything :(
Load More Replies...Renting not being worth it is highly dependant on where you live. Did the math at one point and owning would be more expensive for us. Plus I did those calculations before the Russian invasion of Ukraine and it would be even worse now with the cost of heating. Here rents are fairly low and the buying prices have been high.
Agreed. Where we live, I showed my wife what we could get for the same monthly mortgage versus rent and so we bought. I know, technically renting from the bank for another decade, but you know what I mean.
Load More Replies...
Often out of season fruits (like strawberries in the winter) are really expensive and taste like water
UGH - same with hothouse flowers! Poor, poor roses with no scent!
Buy in season and local. Anything else is stupid and bad for the environment. Not to mention not tasty.
Buy with the season or buy frozen or canned if you can't. As a bonus you get variety throughout the year
hikeoff said:
Starbucks
TLMoore93 replied:
One week I decided to try Starbucks instead of Costa for my weekend coffee treat and I will never make that mistake again in my life
Starbucks coffee tastes burned plus they use tax avoidance loopholes in the UK to avoid paying any tax so I boycott them. Whilst I prefer to use independent coffee shops it's not always possible and Costa is much better than Starbucks, plus it's UK owned and operated and pays tax like it should.
Starbucks opened in Melbourne, Australia and the good people of melbourne Australia basically said "Nah" and they had to close a few stores. I think there's one left, but Melbourne is a coffee city. You can get excellent coffee from some guy with a cart on the street, Starbucks didn't have a chance.
Instant coffee actually tastes stronger and richer than Starbucks. Where I live, at least.
Starbucks is mostly for folks who like sugary, syrupy beverages. Not for people who dig coffee.
I can't stand Starbucks and someone actually had the nerve to say it's because it's too strong for me. No, it's weak, overpriced for the quality, weak and (probably won't makes sense to many) has the back of tongue bitterness (like tasting copper). Good coffee has a rich bitterness that envelopes the tongue with chocolatey smoothness (not chocolate notes but that velvety smooth feel).
but Costa is just as awful imo, it tastes burnt... if you want a nice coffee go to a local independent place. I only ever drink Costa when I'm stuck at the hospital and it's one of the only options xD (or perhaps I've become a coffee snob, I will admit the fruit crush that costa does, or at least used to do in the summer, did fuel me through college like 8 years ago, those were lovely!)
How to enjoy a Starbucks coffee. Dump it out, take the empty cup to Dutch Bros, have Dutch Bros fill up the cup, enjoy!
Today I made the mistake of ordering a Starbucks coffee whilst on an international flight. It was awful and full of grouts (debris) at the bottom of the cup. I couldn't finish it.
Designer clothes
Quality clothes is worth it though. Just hard to know where brand and quality crosses in price
I've bought a couple of branded hoodies that have shrunk in the wash, my favourite were bought from Primark (cheap UK clothing shop) and they're still perfect
Load More Replies...I will never wear anything that has the designer's name all over it. Free advertising, no.
Designer clothes are OK. Nice clothes, well built, quality fabric... When I got my first tailored shirt, it changed my life. Designer clothes are expensive, but quality, construction and (why not) creativity can be strong points and make you happy. Stupid "designer" things, like Balenciaga's platform crocs (googleable), yes that's a very different thing.
Quality clothing yes. Good Material perfect fit. Designer? Not necessarily
I always wondered how clothes that didn't come from a designer came into being.
I just love the song by Macklemore & Ryan Lewis, thriftshop... it just tells it all in a fun song ;p
Waste of money on narcissistic aholes. Wearing expensive clothes is NOT impressive
looneythalostkidd666 said:
The lottery
wastelandtraveller replied:
objectively yes, but I still enjoy buying a ticket so I can entertain the idea of waking up rich as f***
I sold a customer a lottery ticket they won $500 on, and they gave me $20 of it :)
In the UK, the National Lottery funds a lot of charities and community projects. I may only have a very small chance of winning, but if I did it would be life changing, plus every time I lose, I am giving to good causes.
Same in Finland. Also I'm playing one national lottery a week plus one euro lottery so that's 3,5 euros a week to keep hoping and the money goes to back to the community
Load More Replies...Every time they expand lottery they say it goes to help the schools . Yet I have never seen the Schools benefit. If the lottery helps schools how come kids still have fund raisers for the general funding for the schools?
Here in Colorado funds from the lottery go to help fund trails and parks.
If you don't win the lottery, you may have to go through your life without David Bromstadt telling you what a cutie you are on camera while he shows you the house you've already bought and two more that aren't for sale.
A straightforward mathematical analysis of the probabilities will prove that financially it's a bad idea to play the lottery. Alternatively: horse-sense! Look at the houses and cars of the people who run the lottery - paid for by you.
I’ve read that playing smaller lotteries is a better idea - don’t buy into the nationwide lottery, buy a ticket for your province or territory or state’s lottery (for example, I’m in BC, don’t buy a 649 ticket, buy a BC49 ticket!) Much better odds, less people are playing! I very rarely buy lottery tickets, sometimes just for fun though around Christmas as stocking stuffers, and that tip has stuck with me :)
Load More Replies...
All the food delivery services. It’s obscene how much more expensive it makes a meal.
Good for people that are sick, or are physically unable to get to the store
Or people who find the convenience of delivery well worth the price.
Load More Replies...I work from home, have one car the husband takes to work and have a sick animal, so I'm not gonna lie food delivery is a god send sometimes when I really dont feel like cooking lol
We get heavy groceries delivered about once a month. No car, living on a hill and would need to make it up the stairs with them after that. 10 euros delivery for getting 200 euros of food home from the bigger store that would cost about 250 from the smaller one closer to us... well worth the money imho
I would love too. But there are days that just isn't going to happen, mobility issues. Those are days I'm not feeling like cooking much.
Load More Replies...these have gotten astronomically bad. Last time I was feeling lazy and decided to doordash after a year of not doing it my 15 dollar meal was going to b almost 40 dollars to deliver so that was an immediate close the page and never go back again.
Funerals: nothing better to honor a loved one with than personal bankruptcy
My husband passed late spring 2021 and he said he took care of everything. He left his body to science. What I didn't know was when they are done with the study they get cremated and returned to you $0. He came home last week.
I’m sorry for your loss :( I hope that you have found a little extra peace to have him home with you. I lost my dad in May of last year, and I keep a small portion of his ashes on my desk next to my monitor so that he is always with me :)
Load More Replies...I've told my kids No Funeral. Cardboard coffin, cremation, scatter ashes. Saying that, I'd love a Viking send off..
Sometimes the funeral is for the living. While I do hope your children honor your wishes, they may feel that a small ceremony or something helps to assuage their grief after losing you. <3 I lost my dad last year and I have his ashes (my mom is still pretending/lying to people that he’s alive) and I hope to be able to scatter some of his ashes at what was our favorite family vacation spot when I was a child, but I haven’t been able to travel yet. He would not have wanted any ceremony (so to speak), but I admit taking him to the river is for me and my grief. It’s a tad selfish. :(
Load More Replies...This one is on the funeral industry preying on the distraught and bereaved. Weddings are everywhere so you can put a Pinterest together of your dream wedding well in advance (and yes, it's dumb, but dreams are fun). Few people have a dream funeral in mind, so all that happens is some smarmy funeral director will approach you saying "you want to give your loved one the best send off right? Honour them properly and show how much you love and miss them, right?" And at the more cynical end you have performative grief - no, *I'm* going to mourn my grandma more than you mourned yours, because I loved mine more. Sickening all round.
We were offered a limo to take my mothers urn to the cemetery. Ummm, No?
Load More Replies...The reality is the ritual of a funeral can be very comforting to the family; however, funerals can cost way less than they do. Go with direct cremation, use an inexpensive coffin and do not embalm, don't have an "opened" casket, don't have a limo for the family, use a family heirloom or quilt made by the deceased rather than expensive flowers for the coffin - lots of ways to save $.
Think of everything you'd say about your friends at their funeral and tell them while they're still alive
Yes, I wish I had. I will always regret it. I am not even close to old and I have lost so many. I have lost my closest friends and best friend and alot of family. There's no guarantee for tomorrow. Love for today, tell them you love them.
Load More Replies...
IsThisNameTakenThen said:
Gambling
PseudonymIncognito replied:
This. There's a limit to how much a person can spend on a drug addiction without killing themselves. A gambling addiction can destroy multigenerational wealth if it gets out of control.
Also most substance addicts *know* the addiction isn't actually solving anything. It makes them feel a little more okay and their brain tells them it's fine. Gambling adds another layer. Technically, it's possible (however unlikely) that Gambling could fix money problems. Even harder for some brains to ignore that possibility.
You are absolutely correct about substance addiction… I knew dang well that drugs weren’t solving my problems, but my problems made me feel SO terrible, and drugs made the bad feelings/bad thoughts go away, albeit briefly. I knew I was destroying myself physically with no potential of a “jackpot” like in gambling. ANY kind of addiction is awful, though :( (and almost all are expensive, heh.)
Load More Replies...A large portion of my earnings comes from writing about online casinos and games (slots, table games and live casino games and game shows). It is suppose to be for entertainment only as the RTP (return to player) will always be in the houses favour. Why would a casino buy the game if they didn't make money off of it? BTW, your odds are far better online than at a brick-and-mortar casino.
Wife and I went to Vegas about twenty years ago. I changed a $50 bill into two pure silver casino coins. She put hers immediately into a $25 slot machine and lost. I still have mine!
I was barhopping with friends, ending the "tour" in a seedy little bar that was the only one still open at that hour. We were sitting next to the slot machines. A disheveled guy sat at one, and kept dropping money into it. At some point he win a nice big sum. For a moment I was like "nice, at least they win from time to time!" . He collected his winning, and without taking a beat started dropping it back into the machine, coin by coin. It took him hours, but eventually managed to "return" it all to the machine. Then he fished some more out of his pockets, lost that too, before he finally gave up (for the day) and left. It was sort of amazing to watch.
Intermittent reinforcement is the strongest reinforcement that exists. Operant conditioning (aka clicker training) works as well on humans as it does on dogs and horses. A casino is basically a Skinner's Box for humans
I think this is an incredibly naive and arrogant way of saying this. Do not try to one up addictions, especially when you're carelessly throwing out things like killing yourself due to the addiction. Too many people have lost people they loved to addiction, I know I have. Addicts spend every dollar they have to their addiction and then find any other way to get more money. It's fine to talk about a gambling addiction but do not callously throw drug addiction in as some half@ssed measuring stick. They're not played on the same field.
I put a max of AU$20 in my TAB account and put $2 each way on the horses. Won't get rich but won't go broke, Love horse racing.
"Government lotteries are a voluntary tax on ignorance." - Thomas Jefferson
unused gym memberships
subscriptions to services I rarely (if ever) use
insurance, when as soon as you make a claim, your premium increases
I saw one suggestion many years ago that you pay X amount for the gym (let's say $500) then every time you go, you get credit back. Say you get $5 every time you go, you'd eventually get the whole fee reimbursed and it would motivate you to go to the gym. Would love to see something like that instituted.
I fail to see how that would be a sustainable model. The gym has bills and staff to pay
Load More Replies...I made an enquiry about how much it would cost to potentially replace a shower tray. The next year's premium increased as a direct result.
[deleted] said:
Kids.
mascottaricotta replied:
As an adult now I think back of all the money that my mother did end up wasting for me up until I moved out, and I feel terrible because she never had a lot. Kids and teenagers are constantly growing and figuring out who they are and what they like. There is a lot of trial and error, and as a parent frequently you're gonna pay for things that don't get used. Toys that don't get played with, clothes the kid wears once or twice, hobbies that get abandoned, etc.. it's part of life I guess. My mum did an amazing job not letting me worry about finances when I was a kid. I wish I could repay her
Yes. I was and am a waste of money. There is no way I am worth the sheer amount of money that was spent not just keeping me alive but also developing me into a skilled human. Now this isn't me being self-deprecating, my self-esteem is fine and I'm a reasonably happy person, but damn is it expensive to survive in this world.
Load More Replies...My children are repaying me every cent, every worry, every night on blank, every discussion, every lego under my feet, every fear, every tear... And they started paying back from the precise moment when we met in person. Build your life, love and be loved, be a good person, call/text from time to time, don't forgive to wear a scarf and eat vegetables... your mother will be more than repaid with that.
If you think it is a waste of money to invest in the future of the Kids you brought into this world you are a) a complete idiot and b) should never have kids in the first place
Yes they are expensive but not a waste imo. I happily pay more for keeping my kids alive and well compared to putting money on myself. Me pre-kids would probably not think this way but when you are a parent it's often more rewarding to do or buy something nice for your kids compared to for yourself.
To be honest I personally got a lot of joy and a true sense of purpose having my son. Sure there have been times where I though "what was I thinking having a kid". I was simply filled with so much love.
Air pods and upgrading phones every time a new one comes out
Given the use I've got out of my Airpods, compared to literally any other earbuds/earphones/headphones I've used in my life, I do no think they're a waste of money. Upgrading a phone just because a new one has become available, however, is a different story.
I don't get the phone thing. You don't need to get a new one every fecking time a new comes out. There's not much difference between one version and the next. You can still call, email, text, post, etc from any damn phone.
I have a 5$ Walmart sale wireless headphones that way outlasted my expensive BEATS, headphones and Skullcandy. The cheap ones are going strong, louder for a year, I'm using them now. The beats broke down in few months skull candy was about the same.
Music sounds better with the actual cord and a headphone jack and I will die on this hill
Load More Replies...I bought 2 pairs for 10 each and I use one pair for listening to music while I walk. I forget to recharge them. Also, I have dropped them hundreds of times and they still work. I got so lucky. I keep the other ones in case of emergency at home as e replacement. Can't bring myself to buy 200 dollars or whatever those Airpods cost.
Load More Replies...Name brand items. Doesn’t matter what it is, if it’s name brand it’s a ripoff. I’m not paying $500 for a tshirt with an ironed on Gucci logo, when I can get the same shirt for $5 at target. And it probably cost 50 cents for them to make.
Non name brands are made in the same sweat shop…not sure what you were trying for there
Load More Replies...Refuse, absolutely refuse to pay thousands for a 'designer's article of clothing, handbag or whatever so that I can flash that article and pay to do free advertising. People who buy that stuff are chumps, but don't know it.
The good secondhand fashion sites are fantastic for building a solid work wardrobe for a reasonable price.
Load More Replies...There are some things I am more than willing to pay more for the brand name. Mayo, salad dressing, chips to name a few.
Funny you say that. Feds just busted a lady on LI for doing just that - ironing on fake labels on cheap clothes. Made a fortune selling them.
WatchY0urStep said: Video game skins. 12odriguez replied: But I shoot better with a nice gun skin. Rude.
Watched my ex spend $60 on a “season pass” for a first-person shooter game. Said “season pass” could be bought for cheaper, but the $60 came with 3 special weapon skins you couldn’t get anywhere else!!! …game sucked, was full of bugs and glitches, company ended up shítting the bed and the servers were ghost towns a few months later, and the company stopped running the servers shortly after that. Ex basically got like an week of actual playable gametime in before the servers went poot. Sooo worth it to buy those weapon skins :p
Once I buy a copy of a game, that's all the money I ever intend to spend on it.
Fr though, I'm a child still I feel like, and I love myself a good dress up game, and I found one called Love Nikki and it's so pretty, and heck yeah am I gonna treat myself to one of the pay to get outfits if I ever have the money to / feel like I can without going broke.
Beware the bait of that game xD I don't mind spending on games but for money spent vs. time I spent more in that game than in games with dlc and subscriptions.
Load More Replies...My son learned this the hard way :-) Virtual ownership is ... virtual :-D
My 9-yo son still didn't ask for a paid skin... Not sure within it's me because I educated him well (I'm the gamer at home) or it's him who is a noob. XD
Load More Replies...It is a waste of money, but it's a fun waste of money. I figure that as long as I stick to my budget, it's harmless. (I play 'In the Seom" aka BTS Island)
Listen, Diluc needed to look dapper. Does he ever get used..? Now that's a different question.
Similar: Packs in ts4. Wayyy too expensive and recently you have to wait until there's a sale to get your money's worth for the newer packs. Also the base game is very expensive, though the base game is free as of tomorrow (writing this october 17th 2022)
Voss water, it’s too expensive and just drink tap water if you can
Yep. Buy it once and then refill with filtered water at home! They fit really nicely in the bottle holders in the fridge, too.
Load More Replies...My mother and sister had a Voss water phase. My mom insisted it “tasted” better. I can’t tell the difference in “taste” between tap water, Voss water, Smart water, and water from our swimming pool, but apparently I am an uncouth, uncivilized savage.
It might be because it comes in a glass bottle? Plastic can negatively effect the taste of water; However, as you said, not everyone can taste the difference-- That's just a difference in taste buds from human to human. Again, I've just been reusing the bottle since it's perfect to keep filtered water cool in our fridge. I didn't find anything special about the water that came in it either.
Load More Replies...Bottled water in general. Where I am the tap water is drinkable and tastes great..
You're lucky then. My local municipality pumps so much chlorine and fluoride into the water that it makes it taste and smell disgusting. Which is why I got an under the sink water filtration system for drinking water.
Load More Replies...All bottled water unless you live somewhere the water isn’t safe to drink. Where I live, the bottled stuff is no better than what comes out of the tap.
I'm pretty much blessed as I live on a mountain near a spring fed creek and have a well for water. We still have a whole house filter system but you can't beat the water. I just get a nice container and fill it up from the tap.
The bottles are cool though and can be used as tap or fridge water bottles forever though.
Extra fancy expensive drinking water that comes in a glass bottle. No different in water quality than other types of purified water XD
Load More Replies...
megabestfriend:
Reddit gold
edit: just because it’s a waste of money doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate it
megabestfriend said:
Been using reddit for a very long time, no idea what gold or coins actually do. Or why anybody would care about the sub you get access too.
Catflap_Boi replied:
I leave a comment and then I'm gone, I only find out someone's given me something years later when I eventually check my messages.
*passes out gold stars to all the Pandas* Well, we don't have to worry about it now! Everyone has one.
Wait a second, people actually pay real money for those reddit awards to give away? I've browsed reddit before and never learned anything about the whole karma gold system
Reddit says somewhere that the karma and gold that people give you cannot be redeemed anywhere for anything; it's just for status on the site.
Finally joined Reddit a couple of months back because someone had posted a picture of the Haight Ashbury Star Map I made and others had questions about it. I answered them, made a random comment the same day on something else (that got lots of upvotes) and haven't been back except to track a story from a couple of times. No idea how it works, don't particularly care to.
Some things are random things that give us pleasure/satisfaction. Yes it really has no value except to those that give it, for their own reasons. I can gel with that.
It is speculation You buy low and sell when the value is high. It can be a way to grow wealth if you are converting it to money regularly, but it is marketed as something that will buy you stuff if everything goes to pot. Then if all your gold investments are handled by a firm How do you get it? How do you liquidate this asset to be useful? If everything is going crazy who will want gold? If the money is worthless then who can afford to buy gold?
It’s about Reddit Gold, not the metal gold. Google it :)
Load More Replies...
ThatMeasurement3411 said:
Ridiculously expensive skin care
Burrito_Loyalist replied:
My wife is a makeup artist. She says the expensive stuff is much better because of the better ingredients.
The cheap stuff at Target is literally packed with ingredients that are harmful to your skin.
Normally I laugh at people who "swear by essential oils" but I had a cold the other day, and because I didn't have any vicks, I used mint essential oil leftover from mixing up my own hand gel, added it to a bowl of hot steaming water, shoved the towel over my head and just steamed my face , it got rid of my fuzzy head, stuffy nose AND my skin actually has felt great ever since. I haven't used my face cream in a few days and it still feels soft. (and I suffer badly with dry skin o.o)
Mint/eucalyptus essential oils actually DO have actual, real, physical and medical effects! Camphor and menthol too. They’ll clear congestion right up. It’s just the woo-woos who swear that bergamot essential oils cure cancer and lemon essential oils revitalize your chakra and lavender essential oils prevent you from getting covid… THOSE are the people I want to punch. I worked in vitamins/supplements for almost 3 years and holy cräp, the things that some people believe about essential oils…. yikes.
Load More Replies...I have sensitive skin. I use an expensive face cream. It lasts me about 6 months but it almost makes me cry having to buy it. I tried cheaper products but they're awful.
I have really dry skin and a couple of years ago I started using 2 inexpensive moisturizers; COSRX snail mucin (Amazon), and Trader Joe's face mask gel (watermelon or pumpkin). My skin has never been so hydrated. I used to get excema (sic) from dry winter air and it hasn't happened since.
Load More Replies...I swear by Chanel foaming cleanser. I have rosacea and my skin likes it.
I do not use soap on my face when I wash it in the morning. Just hot water nothing else. My mom did that and she looked 20 years younger than her real age. I look 20 years younger than my 76 years everyone says... I don't wear any makeup at all...no lipstick, foundation, powder, eye shadow, eyeliner, rouge...and haven't since I was 25 and lived in sticky South Florida. I previously lived in NYC for 7 years and wore all of that stuff and when I moved south I felt like my face was melting and gooey. I do not use sunscreen either. No "night cream" ever.
I'm not sure if looking younger is a goal to strive for (not for me at least) but I would guess if both your mom and you looked young it's more about genetics? (And sunscreen is actually proven to protect your skin)
Load More Replies...
Poop. Some people buy celebrities poop.
Clear scam, how would you ever know whose poop it is. What celebrity would ever hand over their poop for sale?
Nuh uh. No. Please tell me this is not a thing. WTF is wrong with people?
Maybe not poop, but celebrity farts in a jar are real. Seriously, look it up. It's awful and makes me ashamed to be apart of the human species.
If it truly is celebrity poop, why would a celebrity want to contribute? I don't even care for the mail-in stool samples for colorectal screening but I do appreciate the convenience and importance.
1. Who would want to buy it? 2. Who would want to collect and sell it.? 3. Eeeurghhhhh.
Paying to have nitrogen put in your tires. It’s a total scam!
"It's a total scam!" if you don't understand science. I wouldn 't pay much for it, but nitrogen does make a difference in your tires. Nitrogen-filled tires rarely need to be topped up - even for many many thousands of miles, whereas regular "air" filled tires should be checked regularly (I'll bet you don't do that, do you?!). If I understand the science correctly, nitrogen molecules are simply larger and permeate tires far less than the molecules in regular "air". Don't knock it if you simply don't understand it!
Regular air Is 77% Nitrogen anyway. It's horse-plop.
Load More Replies...To clarify : The air in Earth's atmosphere is made up of approximately 78 percent nitrogen and 21 percent oxygen. Air also has small amounts of other gases, too, such as carbon dioxide, neon, and hydrogen.
Well, it seems a good idea for optimizing your tires, rather than a scam... and it's only €18,50 with a complete revision and balancing of your tires. I will keep having it.
It is NOT a scam! Learn the science behind this and you'll understand.
My car tells me my tire pressures, usually only have to fill and let out in summer and winter start, so twice a year I have to adjust it's not that serious I change my oil more than the pressure in my tires with regular air....
Excellentbees said:
Cable.
JMS1991 replied:
It's not a waste if you watch a lot of sports. Most sports are still not on streaming services, and the illegal streams are usually pretty hit-or-miss as far as picture quality, and the possibility of them getting shut down in the middle of your game and needing to find another stream.
There are non-traditional cable options, like YouTube TV, Sling, etc, but those are still basically cable. They're just over the internet and with more transparent pricing.
Very true, I'm in the UK and have "freeview" which anybody can get for free. I still have 120 channels and 80 radio stations to choose from!
Why isn't it streamed? I wouldn't call youtube cable? I think of cable as traditional tv, if you don't record or watch you missed it?
My parents pay something like 2-3 euros a month for a couple of extra sports channels. That's heck of a lot cheaper than a monthly Netflix and it's because my mom likes to watch skiing and track and field. Money well spent if you ask me
Spending money on games, had a friend who spent over $1000 on Genshin Impact… and he doesn’t think he has a gambling addiction…
Gatcha games are literally gambling :( I’ve seen friends blow money on Genshin Impact too.
No they really aren't and it's such a dumb comparison that falls apart if you take a longer look at it. If I gamble on a gatcha game the only thing I could possibly get out of it is in-game content. Nothing I get in the game is going to change my life, but it might change how I play the game. If I go to a casino and gamble on a slot machine there's the miniscule chance I could hit the jackpot and change my life forever. We can't compare gambling to get "awesome item that makes me super strong" to gambling to get "literal millions in actual money I could use to buy a house". That's why some people throw their life savings into casinos, the hope that they will change their life and solve their money problems. So if I spend $100 on a game I know that $100 is lost to me, I will never get it back. But if I spend $100 in a casino there's that slim hope I'll multiply my money.
Load More Replies...So it’s not about spending money on buying games, or a subscription, but about spending extra money on ingame items that serve no purpose.
Sending money to counties to combat emissions, knowing damn well those counties are just going to pocket the money and do nothing to fix emissions.
I'd be amazed if Trump could explain to us what Carbon Offsets are. If there is a link or video where he does, I'll apologize.
Load More Replies...CaptainRogers1226 said: Free to play video games datbarricade replied: If I love the game very much and play it a lot, I might purchase some small things just to support the developers. But yeah, it sucks if p2w gets embedded into a free game you like.
They are only a waste of money if you choose to spend the money though. With enough self-control you can enjoy the game just fine for free, you just won't ever be the most super special awesome amazing at it.
Problem is those games that seem free at first, but as time goes on and the clans start to fight over each other, the clans that use most money get to the top while those who're trying to play f2p will get pushed out. People use insane amounts on those and only one enjoying themselves are the game execs while looking at their bank accounts. It's different with games where the only one you're challenging is yourself for the most part.
Load More Replies...I like to pay for my games exactly for this reason. You make a game, I buy your game. You make a nice expansion, I'll buy it. You open a server, well, I pay a suscription for playing in your server. And that's all. Don't expect me to buy gems, diamonds, skins... We are playing, life can be unfair, let's keep games fair, at least.
Ever since it came out in 2016, I've been an avid Pokémon Go player. I live within reach of several gyms so the coins add up pretty quickly. I've never spent an actual dime on anything in the game. It can be such a sneaky way for developers to make more money.
hmm cool... now if only i had a smartphone to play that xD
Load More Replies...I'm willing to watch a certain amount of commercials for a free to play game or pay the one time fee for the no commercials version, but these have limits. I do understand that the people who made the game need to get paid for their work after all
Things that we don't need. Oh, that book, it just costs 5 bucks. Terrible book, didn't read it. - Bad investment. Oh, that Jacket. So comfy. 100 bucks. Great investment.
I can't visit a new town without trying to find a bookshop. I can't visit the same town without visiting said found bookshop. Books are essential, and a great escape from stress for me. (also how can you know a book is terrible without reading it, huh?
Just having books around me is nice. Think of all the worlds and adventures!
Load More Replies...I’ll die on the hill that books are essential to life XD Even shítty books… they help you appreciate the well-written ones even more!
Books are an interesting choice of example. They may not be a "need", but if we only bought what was essential needs life would be far less enjoyable. Pre-ebooks you didn't always get to try before you buy, so books could be a gamble. You don't get to find out it's terrible and not worth reading until you've already spent the money and read the first chapter.
Well, we need the jacket and the book. Just choose better at the bookstore or wherever you manage to buy a book for $5.
I have amassed a sizable shotglass collection. Did I need them? No. Do I drink shots? No. Do I have guests come over that drink shots? No but then again i dont really have friends. Did I want a little souvenir from wherever I was visiting? Yes. I desired a small cute souvenir and they have potential usability so not a complete waste of money. I'm a collector in general and need nothing that I collect but they do bring moments of joy; they make me happy when I look at my collections and some things bring back fond memories so not a waste at all.
Yeah, no. First of all, books are rarely five bucks. If they are, it's a second-hand bookstore, which is great on many, many levels. If you don't like it--give it away or exchange it and get another one.
I agree with both weddings and funerals. Both are giant rip-offs. Jessica Mitford’s “The American Way of Death” is stll true after all these years; the funeral industry takes mourners to the cleaners.
My coworker pays for YouTube premium and yes I made fun of him for that
I will never buy anything made by or provided by Apple. Overpriced, pretentious s**t that (in the US anyway) requires special charging ports and god-only-knows what else.
I agree with both weddings and funerals. Both are giant rip-offs. Jessica Mitford’s “The American Way of Death” is stll true after all these years; the funeral industry takes mourners to the cleaners.
My coworker pays for YouTube premium and yes I made fun of him for that
I will never buy anything made by or provided by Apple. Overpriced, pretentious s**t that (in the US anyway) requires special charging ports and god-only-knows what else.
