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Life isn’t always fair, no matter how much we wish it could be. Sure, there are times when justice prevails and good triumphs, but far too often, the scales seem hopelessly tipped.

It’s the kind of realization that can really make your blood boil. And it certainly did for these Redditors, who didn’t hold back as they shared some of society’s biggest double standards in a recent thread.

Scroll down to read their thoughts, and don’t forget to share your own in the comments!

#1

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Churches being involved in politics but not having to pay taxes. Tax the fuckn church.

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Lyone Fein
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would rather we just actually enforce the separation of church and state. Religious institutions should not be involved in politics. And the government should not pass laws that are particular to one religious view point (like making abortion illegal).

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#2

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online If poor people don’t pay taxes they are criminals , if rich people don’t pay taxes they are “business savvy”.

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#3

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online The huge focus on Joe Biden's apparent mental decline... versus... nobody batting an eyelid about Donald Trump's obvious mental decline.

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Marie
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And he's quickly becoming a straw man for people even more dangerous than he is...

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#4

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online I need to submit to a background check and d**g test for most jobs.
The president is a convicted felon. Elon does d***s.

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Michael P (Perthaussieguy)
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you are mega wealthy in USA, there is no such thing as accountability in doing whatever you wish.

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#5

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online When Santa comes down the chimney and eats your food he’s “Holly” and “jolly” but I do it and I’m “drunk” and “breaking and entering”.

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#6

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online It's 'mental health matters' until you show symptoms that aren't glamorous, romantic or desirable.

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#7

America calling itself the “land of the free” while simultaneously incarcerating more people than any other nation.

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For All Pedernity
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The level of self deception Americans are capable of is incredible. 'Land of the free', 'the world's greatest democracy', 'the American dream'...

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#8

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online How men are praised for doing basic stuff like cooking or taking care of kids, while women are expected to do it all and still get judged for ,,not doing enough''

Not trying to offend anyone just my personal opinion:).

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Mia Black
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate that from time to time I have to praise or thank men for stuff that nobody would blink for if a woman would do it, just to encourage them to repeat good behaviour...

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#9

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online That a man with five kids from three different woman, all of whom he openly cheated on, and be elected president. A woman wouldn’t even be considered for mayor with that track record.

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#10

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Government can't account for 800 billion dollars in an audit, but if I so much as make an honest mistake on my taxes I receive harsh penalties.

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Robert Beveridge
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, it CAN account for that money. It doesn't because "national security". Paranoid b******t.

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#11

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Black people are allowed to be racist as f**k.

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George Costanza
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every person can be racist, regardless of their race. My Asian FIL is definitely racist against blacks. We have to chastise him all the time. Anyone can be racist.

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#12

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Sexual harassment against men being played for laughs in a lot of media.

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#13

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Normal person files for bankruptcy to give themselves a fresh start and they’re being shamed for it.

Rich person files for bankruptcy 8 different times and no one blinks an eye.

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#14

Rich people receiving praise for getting government money whilst looking down on poor people needing government help.

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#15

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Girls wearing feminine things? Yeah. Girls wearing masculine things? Yeah. Guys wearing masculine things? Yeah. Guys wearing feminine things? You're gonna get beaten up if you enter the wrong alley.

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#16

That viagra is covered by health insurance and most name brand birth controls are not (even though viagra is just for boners and birth control helps with a litany of female hormone regulation issues).

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Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Viagra is not just "for boners" it's still used as a heart medication. Also, in most of the civilised world contraception, including the pill, is free or reduced cost.

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#17

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Women as the default parent even if both parents work.

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Mike F
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20 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's something that needs to be worked out prior to becoming parents.

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#18

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Rich people get every possible chance to avoid jail time, poor people can go f**k themselves.

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#19

Vilifying an entire race and gender. You can be racist to white people, especially white men. But it cannot be the opposite. 

CNN can release a news article called “There’s Nothing Scarier Than Angry White Men”. If you replaced “white men” with “black people”, there would be public outrage and much consequence. 
https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2021/11/20/us/angry-white-men-trials-blake-cec

Black people can openly say “I don’t like white people” and it’s acceptable. A white person cannot say that about their own race without termination from their job, being deplatformed and deemed a racist. I think both of these attitudes towards one another are disgusting. I don’t feel that way about a race. It’s bothersome that someone would judge me just because of my skin color too. 

Progress on race issues begins when everyone has the same social behaviors and mutual respect. Not when one gets a special license to be hateful and the other is supposed to put up with it. Most things deemed “racist” are not about race anyway, it’s tribalism. A very natural thing for all of us. 

People with cultural similarities will always predominately flock together. Race is the first and most obvious commonality that make make a group of people flock together. In a diverse room, Christian’s will naturally flock together, blacks will flock together, gays will flock together and so on. 

Everyone, without exception or even admission, is most comfortable with people that are most like them from physical appearance to politics, interests, and beliefs. There’s countless studies on it. Instead of understanding and respecting the human condition, we normalize blaming and vilifying white people because they are the majority in the proverbial room.  .

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Forrest Hobbs
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15 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The basic premise of this point is utter nonsense. It's just not true that "You can be racist to white people, especially white men.." Nor is it the case that "Black people can openly say “I don’t like white people” and it’s acceptable". It's also false that "we normalize blaming and vilifying white people because they are the majority in the proverbial room" This is nothing but fantastical far-right culture-war conspiracy-mongering invented by some sick-minded troublemaker. By the way, I'm a white man. I've never had anyone be racist to me because I'm white.

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Rico Suave
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22 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, one of the most reasoned, intelligent, balanced comments I have read in a while!

RajunCajun
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just a thought, could we get rid of racism as a word and just get pissed at people being mean / rude / disrespectful at other people.

Stephanie Barr
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19 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you are the demographic in power (not just white but largely white men) in America for instance and everyone else is treated differently as a result, you have to live with the consequences. Pretending people resenting mistreatment are the same as those mistreating them in the first place is first-class hypocrisy right up there with the "war on Christianity."

Michael Largey
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18 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Correct. "Those who are accustomed to privilege often believe that equality is oppression." - Howard Brenneman

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Dawn Marie
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel that one, if not THE one, worst word in the English language is the "N" word when referring to African-American's. If a white person says that word, it is extremely raciest. But I hear it all the time from African-American's mouths and their music. I am so offended by this I want to scream: "Don't you have ANY respect for yourself?" I just don't understand how this acceptable. Can someone please explain this to me?

Forrest Hobbs
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12 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Look at it like this: there's this horrible word used to insult, demean, belittle you and everyone like you, a word used to excuse all manner of awfulness up to and including murder. You'd like a world where that word didn't have that power. So, you and your group - the ones attacked by the word - end up using that word in an attempt to rob it of its power. Of course "they" have self-respect. It's kind of the point. (By the way, I consider myself one of "them". Despite being a white man, I'm also a human being - how are we different under the skin? Only, you won't find me using the "n" word because - umm - I hope that I get it?)

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Lyoness
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6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So...how are the Christians identifying each other as they "naturally flock together"? Does everyone wear a cross? And if you're a lesbian, does everyone make sure the carabineer holding their keys is prominent? Of course I'm being facetious, and I take your points and agree with some of them but would argue that in a diverse room you aren't going to only see groups of white people or black people or gay people. There will be mixes because people identify themselves by more than just the colour of their skin, who they voted for and who they sleep with.

Stephanie A Mutti
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23 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's less than white people being the majority and more about the history of systemic racism that continues to negatively effect people of color. - a white person.

Michael Largey
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22 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's both. If a group is 90% or so of the population, it's going to produce a large majority of the scary people.

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Jill Rhodry
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4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tend to agree there's nothing scarier than an angry white man - because he can get away with it - no other race can.

Kelly Kiang
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18 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well I'm white and I get along better with people of color/gay/trans people, etc. I've taken about as much c**p from white people as I'm going to.

Mammie
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Op is right. Theres so many things you can do or say that is you replaced the word white with and other race (or group) or vice versa, you'd be villainized. It's really reverse racism, and people just accept it. It's still wrong.

Ben Aziza
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17 hours ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeh insane to me that you guys in the usa have that to such extent. A combo of racism and self hate... cus many NOT all but many ppl who normalised that are self hating white savior types ... Having to deal with a person like that... and if you are smart to thier psudo intellectual bs... You see a more scary form of racism you have never seen before... . I had to deal with only one person like that so far in the eu... it like he dis not see a person he saw brown and disabled... Lost his s**t when I did not fit his image of weak feeble muslim grateful of how sorry he was for the bad he is... He was doing a political pub... Promoting unhinged...

v10011011
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18 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone that is saying this post is false or arguing that it is true but justifiable needs to get a dictionary. Racism is racism, but only if it’s done to non-white people apparently. What a bunch of hypocrites.

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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not right, but other groups are most definitely having more issues with systemic racism then white people. Just because people that are similar generally stick together doesn't mean that they'll always vilify others.

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I'm as liberal as they come but objectively white/European descent people are so racist they just elected an open racist as president. White Americans think Jesus was Caucasian. Let's be real. Africans were kidnapped in mass for chattel slavery. Their descendants have every right to be furious given how "white" people continue to act.

Deb Carnell
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am white. I'm well aware that Jesus wasn't white. I didn't vote for the white felon. This is the problem with using race to judge someone. Any race. You just proved the point they were making.

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Corvus
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What a load of bullsheet. I am white myself, but I absolutely cannot stand this sort of self-victimization. No, OP, the world isn't out to get you. Calm down.

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Well this is stupid. Of course that's ok. Same rules as comedy, punch up, not down. White men are vilified because they have the power. Punching down Is bullying

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I agree with that. People think that racism simply means "being mean to other races" while a major part of racism involves systemic oppression and power imbalance. "Reverse racism" doesn't exist save for some very specific cases.

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#20

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online If you establish yourself as a "hard worker" everyone notices when you have a bad day and don't perform to your usual standard. Meanwhile "slackers" are praised for performing slightly above average.

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Corvus
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As an old bit of office wisdom goes - "The reward for work well done is... more work."

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40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Entry level positions requiring years of experience.

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Corvus
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course we'd love to hire some 20-year-olds... as long as they have at least 30 years of experience in the field ;)

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40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online People love to say 'don't judge others,' but are quick to judge anyone who doesn't fit their idea of normal. Hypocrisy is real!

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Dawn Marie
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am 60 years old. I have tried MANY churches in my life and finally gave up. There has not been one church in all those years where I did not feel or hear judgmental attitudes toward me. I suffer from clinical depression and PTSD from childhood and an abusive marriage. I am finished with church. I can worship on my own.

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#24

Men’s nipples are normalized, women’s nipples are sexualized.

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The Big Bad
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boobs are over sexualized, breastfeeding is "weird". Never understood that the most natural thing in the world is now often being called weird or even rude.

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#25

 how men are praised for being confident or assertive, but women who do the same are often labeled as bossy or aggressive. it’s like the same behavior is judged differently just based on gender.

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40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online The idea that getting money without working for it is awful and horrible if you're poor, but cool and respectable and a just reward for "success" if you're rich.

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Luke Branwen
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the most important things if we genuinely want the world to change for the better: be okay with people getting "free stuff" without the knee-jerk "THEY DIDN'T EARN IT!!!" reaction. And before anyone comes with the "ackchyually nothing is free, someone has to pay for it", I have three words: tax the rich.

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#27

Two tiered justice system.

If you are rich, you can't commit a crime serious enough to result in a reasonable prison sentence.

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I know it's mentioned a lot, but cannabis being illegal and alcohol being legal (in most countries) is an outrageous double standard.

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Luke Branwen
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you listed all negative effects of alcohol and presented it as some new "millennial" d**g (think of kratom or similar), there'd be a massive, MASSIVE uproar to get it banned, even from people who get drunk on a weekly basis.

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#30

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online Employees are expected to give 2 weeks notice before leaving a job, but employers won’t give us even 2 hours notice before firing us.

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#31

I’m not American, but I know in the USA you can’t drink or buy tobacco until you’re 21. Yet you can join the army and be sent to foreign countries to fight, buy a gun, or vote at the age of 18.

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OldButNewButBroken
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine joining the army at 18. Then get deployed, seeing combat, losing friends. Return home with your soul shattered. And then get a hard NO when you try to buy some booze to numb the pain. Thank you for your service indeed

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#32

In the western civilizations, You can criticize Christianity but not Islam.

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K- THULU
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1 day ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, you can't criticise Judaism, either...... and I'm half Jewish so don't label me an antisemitic, please

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#33

Elon musk openly smoked weed on camera and talks about taking other illegal d***s on the Joe Rogan podcast, yet he still launches rockets and has just been brought into the president elects cabinet and entrusted to run a department in the federal government but a regular citizen wouldn’t pass a security clearance/background investigation and interview to work for a government entity if they smoked weed.

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#34

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online As long as you claim that you are a victim it’s okay to be the perpetrator.

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Noname
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I learned this the hard way. My ex-husband attacked me, and I defended myself. He admitted to the police that he hit me first, but because he sustained an injury that required stitches, I was held liable to pay his Dr bill.

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#35

The government can fail financial audits to the tune of billions missing with no accountability or consequences. But I have to explain deposits over $600. Totally ridiculous.

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BookFanatic
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19 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. I moved some money around to free up a down payment on my house. Lender was ALL OVER my records demanding to know where the cash had come from.

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#36

The rich are eccentric. The poor are dangerous and crazy.

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Helena
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would really like to be rich enough to be considered eccentric

#37

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online The pure joy I have when I find a curly fry at the bottom of the regular fries I ordered but the absolute disgust I have when I find a regular fry at the bottom of curly fries I ordered.

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#38

In the US, justice for the rich/celebrities/politicians vs the rest of the population. A prime example that comes to mind is how Tyreek Hill was given a speeding ticket for going 90 in a 30. The he has the audacity to demand the cop be fired. A regular person in that situation would have been arrested for reckless endangerment and their car impounded.

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#39

40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online How some groups think it is fine that they can do what they like, but "others" need to be told by them to what to do. Some groups go, let's make a law governing how others behave, but woe betide anyone who tries to make laws governing how those groups behave.

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Michael Largey
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22 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"We should ban abortions, contraceptives, and gay marriage because they are against God's will. But don't try to regulate me. You're violating my religious freedom!"

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40 Of The Biggest Double Standards In Society, According To People Online The perception of a woman hitting a man vs a man hitting a woman. Generally it's less frowned upon when a woman hits a man.

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The Big Bad
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1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nobody should hit anybody. There is often a huge difference in power though. If my husband would punch me I'd probably go k.o. If I would punch my husband he'd probably wonder what mosquito bit him :')

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