Trying to make it work and keep things civil between the two during/after the relationship, all the while he’s out there trying to make you look like a clingy ex who’s obsessed with him

I absolutely agree. Before committing to a relationship you must ensure that one of you will be able to kill the bug.

I had that. She started off so nice, i trusted her completely. It was a difficult time but walking away from her was the best thing I have ever done.

The worst feeling is when that fear actually turns out to be true… :(

Ok... So not going to show my list of morning alarms... Noted...

Preaching to the choir. It's horrible when you realize.

Definite dealbreaker! 😄

And for me that’s exactly what happened. Years and years of a relationship that was all just a lie. :(

Fan, white noise, it's on, or you're out 😉

Yeah, that's not fair at all. But you should watch for the signs too.

Hard to come back from that.

Argh no!

I'd find it pretty disturbing if I was the only person he's talking to.

and spiders

My sympathy, that sucks hard.

Wouldn't hurt to be able to be funny on your own. My husband made a promise to himself to make me laugh every day. Sometimes it involves memes, but mostly it will be something he says.

It sucks to be on either side of this. I’m saying this as the one who couldn’t return the love for a person who loved me. I always felt guilty but also I learnt to forgive myself because I can’t force to love someone, no matter how great they might be.

Too late...

...I'm a disappointment in bed that you absolutely should have to experience tonight...🤔 🙅🏽 🤭

That's what nightlights are for and idc what anyone thinks. I need just enough light to know my eyes still work ok when I wake up to go pee 187 times a night, but not enough to keep me awake.

A good pillow over the nose and mouth will stop that! Don't act like you haven't thought about it!! 👩🏼‍🦰

Just because you're an adult doesn't magically make certain foods more palatable.

Being absolutely alone...when you are together...

I love you but I’m not in love with you. BS

Just experienced this. He said she was "just a friend". I knew better but still tried it, I feel so stupid!

Very different standards of "clean" and "neat" can make one crazy!!

Women can be abusive too!!!

I don't get it?

Amen!!