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If the assumption that all single people are lonely, undesirable, or unhappy was correct, there would be no need for divorce lawyers and relationship counseling. Being single is not a curse nor a lesson, but an opportunity many take for granted. The best thing about being single is the opportunity to focus on yourself and get to know yourself better. And blessed are those who choose to spend that time wisely.

And if the latter reason is not good enough, the many more perks of being single might convince you there's no need to rush into relationships or feel down because you're not in one, even when most of your friends are. Around a month ago, a user on AskReddit asked, "What's the best thing about being single?" And to no surprise, the still-open thread received a lot of attention from the community's singles or ex-bachelors and spinsters reminiscing about their singlehood. From trivial things like getting the bed all to yourself to deep adult realizations like not walking on eggshells all the time, the answers varied, yet not a single one disappoints. For more honest, thought-provoking content, we also looked at two more similar threads on Reddit (#1, #2), one of which inquired about the benefits of being single, and the other asked to name the best things about being single. We then hand-picked the best responses from each to have them all in one place.

Below, you can find the list of quotes and ideas of why being single is better than being in a bad relationship—according to Redditors. Any so-called advantages of being single that you seem to agree with or can relate to from your own experiences? Let us know by giving those an upvote. Also, if this question resonated with you and you would like to add anything else regarding the topic, feel free to do so in the comments.

#1

Person holding X Box controller Myzx said:
"When I get off work, I go home and do whatever I want. Make music, play video games, have a beer, work on art or a craft project. It’s great. I literally walk in my front door most days, take a deep breath, and express my thankfulness that I’m single."

DaBigadeeBoola replied:
"Sometimes I miss this. I could have Tv running, a game on pause, food out all at the same time and no one to answer to but myself."

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#2

Couple arguing AnaFan99 said:
"No arguments."

Taminella_Grinderfal replied:
"This one for me. And not big arguments but the dumb little s**t that starts to really annoy. “You left your wet towel on the floor” “Well you didn’t do the dishes” “You shrunk all my clothes”. I’m at an age where I honestly don’t see myself ever cohabiting again until they stuff me in a rest home."

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#3

Picture of different kind of food lady_laughs_too_much said:
"I can eat whatever I want for dinner. I don't have to consider anyone else's opinions. I can plan out whatever I want."

ReadySetTurtle replied:
"Legit one of my concerns. I have what I call a peasant’s palate… I like simple meals, and I will easily eat the same thing over and over again. I made a chicken and broccoli casserole thing on the weekend and ate that for four days in a row. Sometimes I have chips for dinner. I’m happy with my weird menu, and I’m not looking forward to accommodating someone else."

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P4S5B60 said:
"Knowing exactly what to expect when you come home and open the front door."

kkirchhoff replied:
"I’m single, but my cat makes this impossible."

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"Married father here chiming in.

The thing I miss most about being single is the ability to act purely in your own self-interest without having any sense of guilt or responsibility to another person. And I'm not even talking about something with high stakes - I'm talking about something as simple as wanting to eat an entire bag of Skittles without sharing it with another person.

Don't get me wrong, I love sacrificing for my family and sharing any and everything I have with my wife and kid, but when you're single, you have the ability and right to make every tiny decision based on your own self-interest or selfishness, and that's something I sometimes miss on a very simple rudimentary level."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know this man has snuck out of the house to buy a family-size bag of Skittles and eaten the whole thing on MORE than one occasion! 🤣🤣🤣

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#6

Picture of king size bed Salsa1212 said:
"Of all the perks I think the best one has to be getting the bed all to myself."

TheFalseLion replied:
"My partner and I sleep in different beds and I would 100% recommend if you have the space. Started out when we were working different shifts, stayed because we both had AMAZING sleeps."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately I don't think my two dogs would agree. My bed is going to be the best one for them.

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#7

"I can fart whenever. No guilt."

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#8

TheDusty01 said:
"You don't have to spend 30 minutes trying to choose a place to eat."

User No 2 replied:
"Sometimes you just want to go to the gas station and get some beef jerky and a red bull for dinner."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's ok to order takeout from two different places!! Or from a convenience store 🤣🤣

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#9

Woman with closed eyes sitting Earnastus said:
"Peace and quiet."

OzzieBloke777 replied:
"This is the big one for me. I spend all day listening to people talk, often distressed. So it's nice to come home to quiet. No more talk. Just the ambient sound of my local neighborhood, markedly muffled by double-glazed windows and soundproofed walls. The occasional quiet grunt from my dog. The quiet whir of the refrigerator motor. My own thought as to why it's spelled refrigerator, but when we shorten it, we put a d in there, and make it the fridge. The sound of me typing these thoughts on the keyboard in front of me. The quiet eeeeeeeeeeeee of my tinnitus backed all of it. Ah, yes... silence."

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Shadozfire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Has no one had a partner they could sit with for hours in "comfortable silence"?

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#10

Woman having a bath happier_days said:
"You get to put yourself first. Take care of yourself. You're your own biggest fan, and the only one you've got. 100% learn to love yourself."

ichorNet replied:
"Have learned that a lot the last few years. Watched friendships slowly dissipate and sometimes end out of nowhere, seen people move on and move out of my life even though we shared a lot over the years. Makes you wonder if there’s even really a point in making new friends or getting involved with someone else, when the investment feels exhausting and like it could go away whenever due to an infinite number of reasons. Sigh. But yes there is also a freedom in thinking this way."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think the 2nd person has fully grasped this concept. 😔

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#11

Woman sitting and showing signs 90sTVGuru said:
"Not being a slave to someone else’s emotional state."

Glowingtomato replied:
"I feel that one. You don't even realize it's happening until you are in too deep."

ANyTimEfOu also replied:
"Yeah I didn't truly realize how bad it was until it was finally over. I don't have any ill will towards her because I know it wasn't intentional, but it was really tearing me apart."

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#12

Picture of flying plane "I can be spontaneous and do s**t without having to plan or negotiate with another person. I drove to Montreal last April and the year before that I flew to Hawaii for a week. The Hawaii trip was really only planned a month before, and Montreal was just a "f**k it, I'm going to Canada" thing that happened the moment I got my passport."

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#13

"The peace of mind."

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Shadozfire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the only person on Earth that might have peace of mind is the Dalai Lama.

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#14

"I’ve come to realize EVERYTHING is better."

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#15

"Other people don't have to deal with my bs."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is one of the big ones for me. When my mental health is bad, I don't want someone else to have to carry the relationship or deal with my moods. I don't even want to deal with them.

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Picture of computer, phone and notes frerky5 said:
"That stuff can just happen. If I want to change my entire weekend plans, bam - done. If I stumble upon a thing that happens and want to participate, boom - done. If I don't want to talk to anyone, ka-blam - done."

RumAndGames replied:
"This is the only part of singlehood that I'm truly nostalgic for, and it's hard to explain to my girlfriend. When I was single and out with my friends everything was so easily spontaneous. Making plans required no mental real estate, I just did s**t, and as a result got in to a lot more unique situations and wacky hijinks. It's not even like my girlfriend is difficult to plan with or high maintenance or controlling, there's just a bit more friction on plan making when you have someone else's feelings to consider."

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#17

helljack said:
"I never have to justify my joy."

User No 2 replied:
"This is such an important factor in any relationship. It's a big red flag for me when I feel I need to explain to someone why I should/could be happy or excited right now. I've had hype for many amazing films and games be tarnished by bitter comments from people close to me. Just let me live my life goddamnit!"

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#18

Pug lying in the bed covered with blanket User No 1 said:
"Not living in fear that my relationship will fall apart."

DoktoroKiu replied:
"Ha, this is honestly the only thing about it I feel is a positive for me at the moment (just broke up)."

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#19

Person sitting and thinking "That's another good thing about being single, not having to go though a breakup."

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#20

Person looking at the ocean KingMaleficent2724 said:
"Definitely freedom. I got offered my dream job that just so happened to be across the country a few years ago and was able to accept it without a second thought. If I had been in a serious relationship I wouldn't have been able to pack up and ditch town like that, and I'm so glad for it. The life I've made here is amazing and I wouldn't trade it for anyone."

Lasagna_Bear replied:
"I would hope that if it were really your dream job that your spouse/partner would at least consider moving with you. I've known multiple couples where the husband/wife moved across the country for their spouse's job. I mean, unless you have really deep roots or can't realistically find a similar job in a new place, it would be worth it to move for your spouse."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is this "dream job" mentality? I cannot understand why anyone would WANT to work for someone else. My dream is to never work again and live my life abundantly.

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#21

Person holding coins Pretend_Tea6261 said:
"Not having to explain how you are spending your money."

enfu3go replied:
"I can buy all the surfboards and video games I want now!"

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#22

Picture of house interior BuildingAFuture21 said:
"Everything is exactly where I left it. I don’t have to worry about dishes, laundry, etc being done incorrectly (yes, there’s a way to always get both clean lol). I can spend my time and money on what I want without having to hear about it. Nobody steals my blankets at night. And best of all? There’s no longer someone with a legal right to outright steal from me."

HoneyMane replied:
"On this note, if something wasn't done or wasn't where I left it, I knew it was my fault. If I wasn't satisfied with the number in my bank account or with how I'd spent my time, there was no one to blame but me. I was my most accountable self when I was single, and I'm working on reclaiming that in my relationship."

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#23

Person watching Netflix "If I want to stay up late and watch movies or listen to music, I can."

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Gabby
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Geez. So many of these are things I already did when I was in a relationship. I feel bad for the folks that posted these.

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#24

Cat sleeping in the bed "Not staying up several hours past the time you really want to go to bed out of respect for your partner's schedule just to have them wait till you finally go to bed to try to start a conversation that should be a scheduled household management meeting."

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Shadozfire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn! People in relationships do this to one another? I'm an adult and you're an adult. We can go to bed as early or as late as we want! My boyfriends have it easy compared to most on this list.

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#25

"Being carefree and careless."

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#26

Person holding hands Minnesota- said:
"I enjoy not worrying about their success. Life can be difficult, so supporting an SO and putting personal struggles on the back burner to do so can be exhausting.

Overall, a healthy relationship is still my favorite... but single is much better than an unhealthy one."

Sendsomechips replied:
"Supporting a SO’s career aspirations is a lot harder than people realize, it’s a lot more than “I believe in you” and “you can do whatever you want”. It’s supporting them through every job rejection they get when they were more than qualified, being okay with moving to another city even if you don’t really want to... throw some kids in the mix and it’s even harder."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This. I stick with a less than desirable job because it means that at least one of us can cover rent and necessities while my mate is trying to figure out his own success. It's incredibly draining at times.

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#27

"You're available when the right woman comes along. Sounds incredibly simple, and it is, but not enough people think about the damage of wasting your time staying with a woman who is not going to work out."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! This exactly! I am free to be myself until the right man finds me and I'm not worried about another person's determinations conflicting with mine, AND I get to maintain and grow my mental health in the freedom of my own space. The right man will meet me where I am and neither of us will need to change anything to happily for together. Or I remain single and happy on my own

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#28

Person holding money Div4r said:
"My bank account."

ConReese replied:
"Dual income no kids is fantastic by the way, I know what you mean but in a healthy relationship 2 high incomes in 1 household is fantastic."

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#29

Person screaming Skeegz420 said:
"Don't have to be screamed at when I get home or told what to do and when to do it."

DatDangDingus replied:
"That just sounds like you've chosen bad partners in the past."

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#30

Friends standing and laughing "The main thing is that I can live my own life. No drama, fights, etc... I have my friends which are the same thing, and are reliable to talk to."

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#31

Friends drinking at the bar "If I want to go out and have a few drinks with my friends, I can."

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#32

"Loads of things. Mostly around being able to act exclusively for your own betterment without having to consider anyone else."

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#33

Woman lying in the bed with white dog "Being able to sleep diagonally across my bed, so much space."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having a bed all to yourself is the most wonderful thing, except for the two cats of course, but they are welcome to hindering my space. They ask little of me, never argue and are always happy in my company.

#34

Person holding phone User No 1 said:
"Not having to worry about texting someone back."

Uncalled-four replied:
"I have a huge problem with replying texts so being single really has made me worry less about it."

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#35

"Not having to worry if my partner is cheating on me or not. I've been single for two years after a really long relationship. I don't miss any of the toxicity but I do miss being with someone. I am not in a hurry to be in one and just enjoying my time being single."

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#36

"No relationship problems. I’m a lot happier as a person as it always seemed a relationship would drag down my mood."

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#37

Room with huge TV and cartoon movie "Being able to finish tv shows and movies completely."

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some reason, the fox (forget his name in Zootopia) looks like he is leaning out of the TV.

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#38

bruteski226 said:
"You can leave family functions on your own terms."

Aeokikit replied:
"I’m a huge advocate of the Irish exit. Why do you need to say good bye to everyone if you know you’re going to see them again in a few days."

wangyuanji58 also replied:
"This sounds magical. My wife's a huge proponent of the "Saskatchewan goodbye", you say goodbye for fifteen minutes and then chat at the door for another twenty."

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#39

"Not walking on eggshells. I had to do that with my ex because she was easily triggered. A simple "That's not my kind of music" translated to "You have crappy taste in music" in her mind, for example. Then she would shut out for days on end. I really liked her; but looking back, our breakup was necessary."

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Yuffa Kinazzo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You must be an American dating a European. Just sayin it sounds REALLY familiar.

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#40

Old Vinyls with player "I am an audiophile and like to spend money on music and related items - so I do."

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#41

x2Palex_Official said:
"No paranoia about your partner."

cm135 replied:
"I’m feeling this one hard the last few days. Paranoia is awful to have in an otherwise fantastic relationship. Just gotta convince myself that it’s just in my head."

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#42

Person wearing a suit "Work on your career, organize your life, set yourself up."

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#43

QueenVic69 said:
"Zero compromises."

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"And being able to fart in bed without consequences."

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Colorful donuts, with balloons and cake "Not getting dragged into lame events with her family that essentially ruin my weekend.

'Oh no, I totally want to drive three hours and hangout with your family this weekend. I had these crazy plans to relax, maybe go for a bike ride, have some beers by pool, go to a movie with our friends, etc. But you're right, lets drive three hours away to listen to your family argue about politics, eat bland food, and sleep on a futon. Sounds great.'"

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Ima Manimal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weddings, funerals, showers, recitals, graduations, church………no thanks, I’ve got other plans that day.

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#45

Woman sleeping "I work nights and like a nap during the day - so I do it."

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Ima Manimal
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They say “go big or go home.” Hell yeah I wanna go home. I’ll take a nap too when I get there. Probably turn my phone off as well.

#46

Person drinking beer "No one to surprise me with an intervention for crippling alcoholism."

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Person holding gift "Not to have buying presents and gifts for your girlfriend/boyfriend."

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those “obligatory gift days”….. Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, birthdays…..

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#48

"I never have to laugh at unfunny memes' found on FaceBook, or explain why I'm laughing so hard at anything."

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#49

"The fact that I have no obligations to anyone on a daily basis (outside of my family and s**t). all I gotta do is worry about myself. Also I get to use all my money for me."

lebrilla replied:
"It's actually cheaper to live with my girlfriend because we split bills but I imagine you could get the same effect from a roommate."

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Lesley Zed
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I pay double for vacations going solo……worth every Penny!😎🚢👍🏻❤️🎉🥂

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#50

Friends walking and laughing CLEAN_WATER_ said:
"I don’t have to choose between hanging with my friends or my SO."

karmagod13000 replied:
"My ex always had to come with me and if I tried to do a dudes night she would call me the whole time freaking out. God I hated her."

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Friends looking at phones and computers and talking "The fact that I can just talk to my (female) friends and no-one gets jealous or gets the wrong impression."

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#52

Couple hugging BlanketCop said:
"I'm free of the constant anxiety of if I'm being a good boyfriend."

bull04 replied:
"THIS for sure. My life was 10x worse when I was constantly anxious about needing to do as much as possible to keep my partner happy. She rarely wanted anything to do with me as well, but I always took that as something I was doing wrong, not her as a person.

Much easier to just focus on my own goals and spend my money/time doing what I want to do. I would like to settle down with someone one day but I'm still really young and seeing so many people already getting divorced in their early 20's with 3 kids makes me feel good about not making any rash decisions so far."

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Friends laughing and talking User No 1 said:
"I can add female clients, coworkers, and friends to my contact list, and I can use their real names!"

bs-scientist replied:
"My ex was nuts about this kind of thing.

Where I work there is plenty of both genders, however my research group is entirely male except for myself. We do everything work related together. Mostly because we have to, but we are lucky enough to all get along well and be friends.

You would have thought I was f***ing all 7 of them by the way he made it sound. Like no... we ride the same bus from seminar every week to the parking lot together because it doesn't make sense for us to not all get on the same bus to go to the same place. I don't know. It was weird. He always tried to control who I spoke to. That didn't fly with me. Otherwise we may still be dating."

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"Drama-free decision making. Not saying that people in a relationship are dramatic but man, the amount of confrontation in a relationship that comes with drama, just leaves you mentally tired sometimes."

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