“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful

Raising kids isn’t exactly easy. One day, your child has sworn off veggies, and the next, they’ve decided they will never wear their coat again—even if it’s freezing, snowing, and practically Arctic outside.

Luckily, there’s a whole community of moms who are more than happy to share their genius hacks to make these moments a little less stressful. From squeezing in an extra five minutes of peace to dealing with the messes tiny humans leave behind, they’ve got you covered.

Scroll down to check out some of their best tips, and remember to upvote your favorites!

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful My best friend had a brand new baby. A brand new baby that DIDN'T SLEEP and she was beside herself. I showed up to her house and said "put a fluffy bath towel in the dryer" - when it was nice and warm I rolled it up and put it down by baby's feet in her bassinet. She calmed right down and SLEPT. She slept so well she needed to be woken for her next feeding and then went right back to sleep with her little feet touching the warm towel. I can't sleep with cold feet and there's nothing like a warm fresh towel from the dryer to put a baby (or sometimes a grown-up) to sleep! 😴 It's a trick I have used many times.

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Green Machine 1 day ago

We bought a heating pad for our kids' beds. They slept SO much better.

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You can trust the internet, especially supportive Reddit groups like Mommit, to serve up valuable parenting hacks when you really need them. To get even more helpful advice, Bored reached out to mom coach Anne-Marie Ferraro and Laura, the creator of the blog Worn Out Working Mum.

It’s no secret that kids can be a whirlwind, making it a struggle for many parents to find effective ways to get them to settle down. According to Anne-Marie, a professional nanny for over 20 years and now an expert mom coach, establishing structure and routine is key to managing their behavior.

“It makes them feel safe and loved,” she says. “When you create rules for your family, stick to them! Your child will respect and trust you. Setting clear expectations and following through goes a long way!” You can find more of her insights on her website and Instagram.

Laura, a mom of two, understands the excitement and exhaustion that come with parenting. She shares her honest journey on TikTok and Instagram, openly discussing the challenges of balancing motherhood, work, and household tasks. One of her best survival tips? “Always have snacks in the car!” Kids can turn cranky when hunger strikes. And if you’re racing through the school run without enough time to pull yourself together, she advises, “Buy two hats, one beanie, and one cap—and you’ll never have to brush your hair again!”

Laura also suggests a simple yet brilliant idea: buy two of your child’s favorite soft toys and rotate them. This way, you’ll always have one ready, which is a lifesaver if one gets dirty and needs a wash or if they forget it at home.

“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful This is my greatest hack. It is physiologically impossible to cry while drinking. Whatever the meltdown, whatever the cause, get them to drink water. If you need to, you can say, it's ok to cry but your tears will run out so you need to drink.the more you can get them to drink the longer they have to calm down properly and get over the shock or hurt of whatever happened.

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Stephanie Did It 1 day ago

This worked for my kids and once in a while I've done it myself.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful If your kid refuses to do something you know they know how to do, do it wrong. They love to correct you!

Won’t put your pants on yourself, sure, I can help. They go on your head, right?……cue child grabbing pants and showing me how it’s done.

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Lyone Fein 23 hours ago

perfect

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Give your kid (between ages 2-4) a spray bottle and send them outside to water things. Enjoy 30 minutes of peace 😆

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

'Painting' fences using a paintbrush and bucket of water is great too.

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While life hacks can be fun, unsolicited comments can often feel overwhelming. Laura is particularly frustrated by the saying, “They’re only little once.” “It needs to stop,” she says. “It’s the most unhelpful thing I see online. So while you might feel guilty for giving them fish fingers for the fourth day in a row or being the last parent at pick-up, remember that you’re doing your best.”

Anne-Marie believes that redirection—shifting a child’s focus from undesirable behavior to a positive one—can sometimes miss the mark. For example, instead of saying, “Don’t hit your friend,” try, “Would you rather hit the pillow or scream into this stuffed animal?” However, she argues that it’s essential to address inappropriate behavior directly. “If a child doesn’t understand that their actions are wrong, they’re likely to repeat them,” she explains. “It’s about lovingly but firmly saying no, making eye contact, and guiding them to make better choices.”

Anne-Marie also cautions against treating your child as a close friend instead of a parent. “It’s important to engage and have fun with your child, but when we call them our best friends, we blur boundaries and create power struggles,” she notes. “True friendship with your child develops when they become an adult!”

“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Making myself food and not offering any to the kids is the best way to get them to eat. 😅 I started only making breakfast for "myself" that's like 8 eggs and 3 sausage patties. Sitting down to eat is like chumming the water, they start circling immediately.

Get a cheap little plastic shelf for a bath toy. My kids always play coffee shop and need a surface to put their "lattes" on that's not the side of the tub bc they spill it immediately

Idk if this is a hack but I stopped folding kids' clothes, just as a rule. I don't notice any more wrinkles but I do save a ton of time.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful I have an "oh s**t" box in the truck of each car. Spare clothes for each kid, extra diapers and wipes, hand wash bottle, sunscreen, snacks, bottles of water (we get the metal ones from target so they don't get funky) and travel toys they've never seen before.

I didn't think I'd need to use it much, but random difficult situations come up out of the house more often than I realized.

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TheElderNom 7 hours ago

Just remember that liquids freeze if you live where it gets cold. Also not certain if a baking car is good for sunscreen.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful When my toddlers/little kids get hurt I ask them "did it hurt you or scare you" and at least half the time they think about it and decide it just scared them and they're ready to play again.

Keep a bag of balloons around. Nothing turns a day that's spiraling out of control around like some sudden unexpected balloons for them to play with.

I don't match and put away socks. All the kids socks go in a basket next to the shoes. No one has to run upstairs for socks when they need shoes on and I don't have to match and sort them.

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A Jones 1 day ago

This seems like a good way to aid in developing emotional skillets via identifying how one feels and aid in learning how to regulate & regain composure.

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Despite the invaluable tips and tricks shared, the exhaustion of motherhood can be overwhelming. Laura, for example, never anticipated how challenging it would be to return to work after having kids. “Everyone talks about newborns, toddler tantrums, and teenage years,” she reflects. “But no one warned me about the hurdles of navigating career advancements or juggling drop-offs and pick-ups.”

Anne-Marie recognizes that many moms today face unique challenges. “We are one of the first generations of mothers working in such high numbers—moms in paid work in the UK rose from 50% in 1975 to 75% in 2019,” she explains. “Our mothers didn’t experience these struggles, so they couldn’t sound the alarm.”

Both experts emphasize the importance of connection and self-care. Anne-Marie encourages moms to seek out other moms for support and to prioritize their own well-being. “Often, moms put themselves last, leading to burnout and even depression,” she warns. “Creating self-care routines is essential for their health and happiness.”

So, perhaps this is the ultimate life hack every mom should remember: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Prioritizing your own needs isn’t just beneficial for you; it’s also vital for your family’s well-being.

“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Make their bed with multiple layers of water proof mattress pad/cover and sheets so if they pee or get sick at night you can just pull off a layer and get them back to bed.

I wash each kids clothes separately so I don’t have to spend the time figuring out which black leggings belong to which kid.

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Kraneia The Dancing Dryad 17 hours ago

The second part would make sense with older kids, but would be more trouble than it's worth with small kids.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Teach your kids to drink water.

Make that their go to.

None of my three drink soda. Occasionally they get juice.

I am not fanatical about it, they just learned water is best.

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Jane 1 day ago

We never fed our child juice or soda. She would occasionally get juice when visiting friends. The number one item on her Christmas list was juice boxes. She got six juice boxes for christmas. She treated them like gold and made them last for months. She also gets to buy one box of sugary cereal on her birthday. We aren't particularly healthy eaters, but recognize that kids don't need as much sugar as they typically get. We always taught her to try her best to eat healthy, but to eat whatever she wants when on vacation or celebrating a special occasion. One other trick to make her value fresh food: when she was a toddler, if she was well behaved at the grocery store (which she always was) she'd get to pick out any fruit item she wanted from the produce section... I don't think there's a fruit in our store she hasn't tasted.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Pretending his favorite heroes/characters had recipes for things like The Flash's favorite Lightning Lettuce™️ (Caesar salad)and Hulk Sauce (very plain guacamole), there were lots more along the way but I can't remember them all. Carrots make you jump higher like a bunny, you get the idea. I lied a lot and now have a 6 year old who is a great eater

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

My sister used to eat 'fluffy white clouds' (mashed potato) and 'fluffy yellow clouds' (mashed pumpkin and potato together, never got her to eat plain pumpkin. She also had 'white ham' because she would eat chicken loaf if we called it that.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Adding to this, for the TV I use the sleep timer built into the TV. Then I tell them when times up the show turns itself off… something about me not being the one to push the button on the remote has led to easier acceptance with less bargaining.

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Kari Panda 12 hours ago

The "not me" truly helps. Usually, when my little one doesn’t want to stop something like watching tv or so, I explain to them that I‘ll set a timer. The timer is usually 1-3 minutes, and most of the time, they indeed accept that.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Our big one is taking pictures of the kids with a toy at the store when they like it. They haven’t cried over a toy in ages. If they bring it up a different day, I then consider getting it as a birthday/Christmas gift.

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

My mum does this for us, as adults, but then forgets to look at them when struggling to think of what to buy as gifts!

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful An empty plastic container in the bath. That's it. That's the hack.

Wash out the plastic tub your yogurt/cottage cheese/sour cream came in, and put it in the bathtub. Kid will find it during their next bath and take it from there. It's a bucket of endless fun for them.

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

This is why we have water trays in childcare with buckets, scoops etc, the kids love just pouring water from different things.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Small laundry bags keep baby socks from getting sacrificed to the laundry gods. Socks go from baby feet, to bag. When it's time to do the wash, bag gets zipped and goes into the wash. All the socks stay together.

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Stephanie Did It 1 day ago

Laundry bags are a huge game changer. Delicates, bras, anything that might snag, all have their own bag. Socks never get lost again. I love them.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Baby powder gets sand off skin when at the beach/ playground

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

Doesn't dry sand work?

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful This is a toddler/preschooler hack. When your kid demands something in a store, tell them you’ll take a photo and send it to Santa for consideration. This has saved me many meltdowns.

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ZuriLovesYou 19 hours ago

Very clever.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful I bought a laundry basket for each person and labeled it with their name. Laundry goes right into the assigned basket from the dyer and no more need to sort and have a million surfaces while folding. Also helps the kid learn to participate in folding their own laundry.

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Cooking Panda 1 day ago

It usually takes me around 15 minutes to fold the laundry, thankfully with help from my kids now it only takes 1 hour

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful When babies get super messy in the highchair, just stick the whole thing in the shower, bonus points if baby is still in it. I know it doesn’t work for every house layout but I’m in a ranch style house and just pick up the whole thing, walk it to the shower and hose it down baby and all. She thinks it’s hilarious.

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Gen X Feral 17 hours ago

Most kitchens the back door is close. I just carried it outside, bleach spray and a garden hose do the trick

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful You can cook noodles in a rice cooker. You don’t have to wait for it to boil or watch the pot or stir it down. You just set it to steam for x minutes and walk away. And as a mom of three toddlers who eat way too many noodles, this realization, (that happened when my stove was broken) has been my new favorite hack and a total game changer.

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Feathered Dinosaur 1 day ago

This is a game changer! 😯

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Probably only suited to a toddler but I try to remember to leave a banana in a conspicuous place when I want my daughter to have that as a snack and she will find it and and demand to eat it when she gets peckish. When I don't do that she'll get hungry and then ask for a snack she wants (biscuit/chocolate/ice lolly etc) and if I offer a banana she will be distraught.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Keep the caps when markers dry out and you toss them out. Next time you can’t find one when cleaning up you’ll have some extras on hand.

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Antonia 22 hours ago (edited)

If you can fiddle the cap on the bottom off, put a few drops of water in them and store them upside down.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful I wear a server apron everyday. I know some people are too stylish for a hack like that but I got some really cute ones on Etsy. When I fly it’s like having an extra carryon and in day to day life it is so easy I am not trying to dig through a diaper bag. I keep my phone, a pen/sharpie, a cloth, snacks, a small toy.

I got the idea from seeing Japanese mothers in smocks.

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PrettyJoyBird 15 hours ago

I need to see a photo. My first thought was simply "no"

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Get a glow in the dark Halloween bucket for each kid to use as the puke bucket. We used to just have one but the whole house got norovirus one week and now we have one for each human. It's so much easier to find when sick in the dark and they think it's funny.

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Lsai Aeon 22 hours ago

Could just put a glow stick in a small trash can then the trash bag. The can will glow just enough to see it in the dark and all you have to do is pull the trash bag and replace it. Glow stick should glow all night, can get them at the dollar store

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful I have three daughters, each two years apart. I couldn’t keep up with whose socks and underwear were whose. So each child has a designated color sock and underwear. They also have their own specific color towel. So if I find a towel, underwear or socks left on the floor I immediately know whose it is.

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sturmwesen 1 day ago

what if they grow out of it? doesn't the younger one get the wrong color?

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Set timers to limit whining. “Ok, I’ll give you a little more time but once you hear the timer go off that’s it and I don’t want to hear any arguing.” That goes for playtime, or screen time or whatever. Give finite choices and don’t be open ended about things. Don’t say “do you want to get dressed?” That gives them the opportunity to say no, and then get mad when you don’t honor their answer. Say “ok it’s time to get dressed, do you want to wear the red shirt or green shirt today?” Or something of the sort. Give them a choice so they feel like they have control over something but make sure they’re between 2 choices you can live with. My son always said “I’m hungry” at bedtime, so vegetables were his only options. Soon enough he would just ask for a bowl of “Trees & ranch” while we read a book at bedtime.

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LuckyL 1 day ago

Mine has figured out that you can still say "no" to "do you want the red shirt or the green shirt"

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful If you go outside your house stays clean. Especially if you have kids like mine who are 3 times better behaved in public.

(Not that I care too much about the exact cleanliness of the house, but I can't stand the fighting and whining that goes with playing inside.)

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Feathered Dinosaur 1 day ago

But I like it at home, all my stuff is there and even more important all of the people are outside

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Buy a foot measurer. You can get them online for like $10. So much easier to know you are getting the right size shoes. I can never tell when they try them on unless it is obviously way too big or too small. Also, then I can just size them and order shoes online.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful Once your kid is mobile: all toys (other than sleeping toys/lovies) go into stackable bins (with lids). For toddlers the selection can be random, but when they’re older you can sort/label. Bins will probably need to be fairly large to accommodate bigger toys.

Then the two rules of toys are: ONE BIN AT A TIME, and THE BIN CONTENTS STAY IN ONE ROOM. If they seem bored with the selection or want to leave the room, toss everything back in the bin. Don’t worry about internal bin organization: just toss everything for that bin in the bin.

The bins limit the total mess. It’s a level of cleaning toddlers can understand as long as you get them started (we make it sort of basketball with my kids, and they like cleanup time). It’s easy enough for older kids to self-maintain (with reminders).

It’s a little trickier with 2 kids, but the one bin/one room rule helps that.

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Jane 1 day ago

We used to have three big bins of toys (and books and a few costumes) for my daughter.. every week, we'd give her one bin and put the other away. This way she never got bored of her toys and books.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful When you have a brand new baby have someone coat its butt crack with Vaseline or aquaphor right when you get to recovery. The meconium slips right off.

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“No Fussing At Bedtime!”: 30 Genius Parenting Tricks That Make Life Less Stressful This one might involve too much plumbing for folks but I got a shower head that had the main head and then a hand shower. Also got it an extra long hose and another magnetic mount for the other side of the shower and now I have a perfect little toddler height shower. So much quicker/easier then bath time and she just pops in with me.

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Huddo's sister 1 day ago

We had a shower head mounted on a bar so we could adjust the height and could be dismounted to be handheld when I was a kid. It was so my brothers could have a shower while in their shower chairs, carers could wash them. It also happened to be great for when I didn't want to wash my hair, I could just lower it to shoulder height.

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Kari Panda 9 hours ago (edited)

Not exactly a hack, but some general advice: Young children don’t misbehave, they learn. Therefore, you‘re teaching them. Your toddler is hitting someone? They’re throwing food on the floor? They’re running around at the supermarket? They don’t know better. Therefore, explain, teach. But don’t judge or scold. Having that realisation made such a big difference for me. A kid not knowing that you shouldn’t throw food on the floor is no different from you not knowing how the printer at your new job works. You wouldn’t want to be yelled at for that. You‘d just want someone to explain it to you. The only difference is that with a child, you‘ll often have to explain it dozens of times till they truly learn and remember.

Rhys 8 hours ago

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Kari Panda 10 hours ago

The poll needs the option "Keeping them from doing things like putting stuff in their mouth or hitting window panes with toys while simultaneously trying not to reprimand them every other minute“. That’s what I really find exhausting.

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