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Imagine getting a free ride, then telling your driver to get a more comfortable car because theirs is too old. While most of us would be grateful for the gesture, some people may see this act of generosity as an opportunity to demand more, and more, and more. Enter Choosing Beggars, a subreddit dedicated to showcasing ungrateful attitudes and shameless entitlement.

Avid Bored Panda readers might remember that we've covered the community a few times already, but with 2.6 million members, it's so active that one can easily get lost in its content. So, we decided to put together a collection of its funniest and most infuriating posts of all time.

Continue scrolling to check them out, and don't miss the chat we had with therapist and relationship expert Dr. Steven Stosny—you'll find it between the images.

#1

Customer Wants A Tattoo Artist To Issue Them An "Inconvenience Fee" For Setting Them Up With An Artist Who Was An Ex-Con

Text exchange showing a reality check to a choosing beggar demanding a refund and inconvenience fee.

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#2

A Brilliant Way To Deal With "Influencers"

Text exchange of choosing beggar getting unexpected reality check over free merch request.

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To gain a better understanding of these interactions, we got in touch with Dr. Steven Stosny, founder of Compassion Power in suburban Washington, DC, and author of several books on improving relationships.

"There are two major types of entitlement," he told Bored Panda.

"In the first, the entitled feel superior. If not acknowledged as having superior rights and privileges, they may feel inferior. Superiority and inferiority are opposite sides of the same coin."

"The second type is compensatory. Those who suffer from it see themselves as victims of unfair treatment and therefore entitled to special privileges as compensation. 'It's so hard being me. I shouldn't have to wait in line too.'"


#3

63 Sandwiches In 1 1/2 Hours!?! How Dare They!

"Review and tweet mocking a choosing beggar demanding fast service for 63 subs."

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#4

Huffpo Being A Hypocritical Choosing Beggar

Tweet highlighting a choosing beggar situation with Huffington Post's unpaid work request.

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#5

This Groomer Is Definitely Prepared For All The Choosing Beggars

Sign listing reasons pet grooming costs more than a haircut, with humorous comparisons to a hairdresser's duties.

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As you can see from the pictures, we can run into entitled people at school, work, and other areas of everyday life. Researchers Emily Zitek and Alexander Jordan studied the behavior and published their findings in Social Psychological and Personality Science.

All in all, Zitek and Jordan conducted six experiments. They first tested how 1,259 individuals would behave during a basic word search task where it was essential to follow instructions. The researchers found that those with a high sense of entitlement were less likely to comply with the given directions.

From there, they tested different scenarios to see whether punishment, framing the task as optional, or reducing the perceived personal cost would lead them to comply. None of these tactics worked.

Entitled people do not follow instructions because they would rather take a loss themselves than agree to something they perceive to be unfair to them, the researchers concluded.


#6

I’m Just Going To Leave This Here

Man sitting under humorous horse mural with text about a client asking for cheaper work, highlighting choosing beggars.

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#7

My Mechanic Telling It How It Is. Support Artists And Labor Folk!

Printed note on wall highlighting a harsh reality check about valuing time and expertise over minutes spent.

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#8

My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

Text exchange showcasing a photographer receiving a reality check from a potential client, embodying the 'choosing beggars' theme.

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#9

Broke Boy

A "choosing beggar" meme with a burger, water, and social media comments about being broke.

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So what do we do when we run into these people?

Stosny, author of Living and Loving After Betrayal and How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, said that one of the best strategies is to "ignore their sense of entitlement and act according to your own sense of fairness."

However, if you do find yourselves in a conflict with them, try not to take their coping mechanisms personally.


#10

Choosing Beggar

Man holding a sign about fraud on a roadside, reflecting the 'Choosing Beggars' reality check theme.

Two years ago I saw that guy with the gas can begging for money. Tried to give him four dollars, but he said he doesn’t take anything less than five. After that I saw him there everyday for months. Turns out he’s a fraud with a new Jeep and a nice house. Been following him with this sign since.

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#11

This Guy Gets It

Tweet responding to a choosing beggar about art pricing and self-sufficiency.

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#12

Selling A Used iMac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas

Chat exchange showing a firm $1200 price disagreement with a choosing beggar seeking discounts.

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#13

I Won't Invite You To My Baby Shower, But You Better Get Me A Gift

Text exchange about not buying a baby shower gift due to not being invited, highlighting choosing beggars dynamics.

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"Confronting them or arguing with them creates pointless power struggles, which are likely to increase their sense of entitlement," Stosny added.

"Ignoring it is the best policy."

#14

Why Can't People Understand Firm?

Text conversation highlighting a "choosing beggar" trying to negotiate a price but receiving a firm reality check.

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#15

Cbs Push A Man Too Far

"Craigslist post about giving away a free 46-inch TV, expressing frustration with entitled responses."

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#16

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#17

Cashapp Beggars

Text exchange with a choosing beggar asking for $200, getting a job link in San Diego as a reality check.

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In professional environments, Zitek and Jordan — the authors of the aforementioned study — advise framing instructions to the entitled in ways that make them seem fairer or more legitimate. (Making sure they're satisfied could help operations run smoothly, at least for the time being.)

The authors offered another tip: "If the instructions come from an in-group member such as a peer instead of from an authority figure, perhaps entitled individuals would be more likely to view the instructions as fair and therefore follow them."


#18

This Guy Has Had It With Cbs

Image of a notice titled "Photographer looking for people to do their job for free," highlighting a classic "choosing beggar" scenario.

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#19

Its Always The Christmas Excuses

Hand pressing a blue button labeled "You’ve ruined my children’s Christmas," representing choosing beggars.

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#20

Floss Company Asked For Free Designs. The Artists Responded

Embroidery showcasing choosing beggars getting a reality check with messages like "Artists Have Bills To Pay" and "Pay Artists."

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#21

Lady Wants Barely-Used Computer For $25

"Text exchange showing a 'choosing beggar' attempting to lowball a $1000 computer for $25."

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#22

Do You Draw Arts For Free

Chat conversation shows a "choosing beggar" requesting free art, ending with a humorous pencil drawing.

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#23

Thought On Exposure

Tweet highlighting a reality check for choosing beggars seeking free work for "exposure" using Washington's portrait as an example.

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#24

Choosing Beggars Don’t Like Free Beer At Local BBQ Joint

Sign about choosing beggars: "Be like Terry, happy with free beer. Don't be like Leigh A., who complains about free beer variety."

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#25

Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

Text exchange highlighting a "choosing beggar" seeking a free book download and receiving a firm refusal.

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#26

This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

Text exchange highlighting a reality check for a choosing beggar over blackberry bush theft.

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#27

Can I Have A Birthday Discount?

Text conversation showing a choosing beggar asking for a birthday discount and getting a reality check about pricing.

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#28

Can You Draw Me For Free?

Hand holding a pin with text "Can you draw me for free? No." highlighting choosing beggars humor.

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#29

Seems Like Indonesia Is Not Choosing Any Of Them Begpackers

Bali addressing choosing beggars, three tourists walking through lush greenery.

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#30

Found On My Tattoo Artists Instagram, F**k Thats Satisfying

Text conversation about tattoo pricing where a customer requests a lower price and the seller insists on the full price, giving a reality check.

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#31

Why Don’t They Just Let Their Kids Not Have Braces And Break Their Teeth For Denture Through Insurance

Chat negotiation with a choosing beggar attempting to lower the iPhone price, meeting a firm refusal.

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#32

Thanks For Knocking Down The Price, Now How About You Knock Down The Price?

Chat conversation showing a choosing beggar who first offers $90, then lowers to $70 before being offered $100.

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#33

It's Ok, I'm A Single Mom

Chat screenshot featuring a "choosing beggar" negotiating a Nintendo bundle price unsuccessfully.

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#34

The Cheek Of Some People

Text conversation highlighting a choosing beggar demanding a large painting for free, ending in frustration.

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#35

Can't Go Any Lower Than That

Can't Go Any Lower Than That

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#36

Then You Dont Get A Tip

Social media exchange on tipping, featuring a humorous reality check for choosing beggars.

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#37

How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

Text screenshot of a food bank post with a table of groceries highlighting a 'choosing beggar' moment.

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#38

“Freebie” Is The New F-Word

Text exchange of someone requesting a free cake for exposure, receiving a critical response.

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#39

Good To Know

"Choosing beggar asks how to make artist work for free; response highlights unfair expectation of free art."

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#40

Now That Was Simply Uncalled For

Choosing beggar tries to negotiate a laptop price using emotional plea, receives blunt response.

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#41

What A Deal!

Social media post highlighting a choosing beggar seeking low-cost childcare and home help, with a sarcastic reply.

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#42

Got A Little Distracted By Someone Doing The Repeater

Text message exchange illustrating a negotiation with a choosing beggar about snowboard boots price.

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#43

Not My Messages But Thought It Was Funny

Text exchange highlighting a choosing beggar receiving a reality check about jobs and housing.

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#44

How Ironic

Unpaid internship post for personal assistant in London, highlighting a reality check for choosing beggars.

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#45

Woman Doesn’t Want To Pay Amazon For A Thing Amazon Made

Twitter exchange showcasing a harsh reality check to a choosing beggar, involving a farm show access request.

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#46

Not One Penny More!

Text conversation of a choosing beggar trying to negotiate a low price for an XL pet carrier, receiving a reality check.

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#47

I Draw Pieces Inspired By Historical Art Styles And Sometimes Do Tattoo Designs For People. Today I Had My First Choosing Beggar Experience

Chat exchange about custom art design where a choosing beggar demands a discount and gets a harsh response.

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Kristal
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

... as a Pagan, I find this disgusting. Not a real Pagan for expecting a fee for a service? No, no. Does not matter the spirituality, that beggar is a crappy human being.

Sathe Wesker
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was going to reply similar as a pagan as well. This just pissed me off. And I don’t even believe in “Satan”.

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UncleJohn3000
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While satisfying, better would have been to have the Old Norse tell people what an AH the bearer is.

JK
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"F**k me yourself, you coward" - my dude, that was beautiful!

Earonn -
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't the one who beliefs in Satan - a Christian character - the one who isn't a pagan?

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#48

“Exposure Doesn’t Pay The Bills, My Guy”

Text exchange highlighting a "choosing beggar" situation regarding tattoo services and social media exposure.

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#49

How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

Chat exchange about free shoes request, showing a harsh reality check to a choosing beggar.

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#50

Does This Work?

Message exchange showing a choosing beggar refusing to give photo credit when requested.

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#51

Divorcing Husband Of 14 Years For Being Broke

Divorcing Husband Of 14 Years For Being Broke

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#52

I Can't Belive These People... They Don't Understand Nail Techs, Escorts, Artists, Ect. Actually Make A Living Off Of This

I Can't Belive These People... They Don't Understand Nail Techs, Escorts, Artists, Ect. Actually Make A Living Off Of This

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#53

Not Happy I Paid For It

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#54

The Disrespect To Makeup Artists

The Disrespect To Makeup Artists

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#55

Freaking Joe Man

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#56

Who Gets An Uber On Wedding Day Let Alone Pooling?

Who Gets An Uber On Wedding Day Let Alone Pooling?

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#57

Girl On Tinder Wants Korean BBQ

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#58

Till This Day It Still Annoys Me That He Is That Much Of An Asshole

Till This Day It Still Annoys Me That He Is That Much Of An Asshole

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#59

Free Christmas Isn’t Tall Or Full Enough

Free Christmas Isn’t Tall Or Full Enough

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#60

A Riding Mower In Exchange For An Almost $20,000 Car

A Riding Mower In Exchange For An Almost $20,000 Car

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#61

Guess, She Is Having A Crap Birthday

Guess, She Is Having A Crap Birthday

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#62

"I Don’t Know You. I Need Money Not A Sandwich.”

"I Don’t Know You. I Need Money Not A Sandwich.”

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#63

Generous Man Practically Giving Away £80, Just Renovate His Garden

Generous Man Practically Giving Away £80, Just Renovate His Garden

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#64

Work Hard Enough And You’ll Get Paid In Garlic

Work Hard Enough And You’ll Get Paid In Garlic

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#65

The Saga Of Cat Lady Trying To Guilt And Attack Me Into Letting Her Decide The Room Rental Price

The Saga Of Cat Lady Trying To Guilt And Attack Me Into Letting Her Decide The Room Rental Price

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