50 Times ‘Choosing Beggars’ Got A Harsh Yet Satisfying Reality Check (Best Of All Time)
Interview With ExpertImagine getting a free ride, then telling your driver to get a more comfortable car because theirs is too old. While most of us would be grateful for the gesture, some people may see this act of generosity as an opportunity to demand more, and more, and more. Enter Choosing Beggars, a subreddit dedicated to showcasing ungrateful attitudes and shameless entitlement.
Avid Bored Panda readers might remember that we've covered the community a few times already, but with 2.6 million members, it's so active that one can easily get lost in its content. So, we decided to put together a collection of its funniest and most infuriating posts of all time.
Continue scrolling to check them out, and don't miss the chat we had with therapist and relationship expert Dr. Steven Stosny—you'll find it between the images.
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Customer Wants A Tattoo Artist To Issue Them An "Inconvenience Fee" For Setting Them Up With An Artist Who Was An Ex-Con
A Brilliant Way To Deal With "Influencers"
To gain a better understanding of these interactions, we got in touch with Dr. Steven Stosny, founder of Compassion Power in suburban Washington, DC, and author of several books on improving relationships.
"There are two major types of entitlement," he told Bored Panda.
"In the first, the entitled feel superior. If not acknowledged as having superior rights and privileges, they may feel inferior. Superiority and inferiority are opposite sides of the same coin."
"The second type is compensatory. Those who suffer from it see themselves as victims of unfair treatment and therefore entitled to special privileges as compensation. 'It's so hard being me. I shouldn't have to wait in line too.'"
63 Sandwiches In 1 1/2 Hours!?! How Dare They!
Huffpo Being A Hypocritical Choosing Beggar
Broke Boy
As you can see from the pictures, we can run into entitled people at school, work, and other areas of everyday life. Researchers Emily Zitek and Alexander Jordan studied the behavior and published their findings in Social Psychological and Personality Science.
All in all, Zitek and Jordan conducted six experiments. They first tested how 1,259 individuals would behave during a basic word search task where it was essential to follow instructions. The researchers found that those with a high sense of entitlement were less likely to comply with the given directions.
From there, they tested different scenarios to see whether punishment, framing the task as optional, or reducing the perceived personal cost would lead them to comply. None of these tactics worked.
Entitled people do not follow instructions because they would rather take a loss themselves than agree to something they perceive to be unfair to them, the researchers concluded.
My Mechanic Telling It How It Is. Support Artists And Labor Folk!
I’m Just Going To Leave This Here
This Groomer Is Definitely Prepared For All The Choosing Beggars
My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client
So what do we do when we run into these people?
Stosny, author of Living and Loving After Betrayal and How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, said that one of the best strategies is to "ignore their sense of entitlement and act according to your own sense of fairness."
However, if you do find yourselves in a conflict with them, try not to take their coping mechanisms personally.
Choosing Beggar
Two years ago I saw that guy with the gas can begging for money. Tried to give him four dollars, but he said he doesn’t take anything less than five. After that I saw him there everyday for months. Turns out he’s a fraud with a new Jeep and a nice house. Been following him with this sign since.
This Guy Gets It
Selling A Used iMac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas
I Won't Invite You To My Baby Shower, But You Better Get Me A Gift
"Confronting them or arguing with them creates pointless power struggles, which are likely to increase their sense of entitlement," Stosny added.
"Ignoring it is the best policy."
Its Always The Christmas Excuses
Lady Wants Barely-Used Computer For $25
Cbs Push A Man Too Far
Why Can't People Understand Firm?
In professional environments, Zitek and Jordan — the authors of the aforementioned study — advise framing instructions to the entitled in ways that make them seem fairer or more legitimate. (Making sure they're satisfied could help operations run smoothly, at least for the time being.)
The authors offered another tip: "If the instructions come from an in-group member such as a peer instead of from an authority figure, perhaps entitled individuals would be more likely to view the instructions as fair and therefore follow them."
Cashapp Beggars
This Guy Has Had It With Cbs
Thought On Exposure
Choosing Beggars Don’t Like Free Beer At Local BBQ Joint
Do You Draw Arts For Free
Floss Company Asked For Free Designs. The Artists Responded
UNO Reverse
Can You Draw Me For Free?
This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About
Seems Like Indonesia Is Not Choosing Any Of Them Begpackers
Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)
Can I Have A Birthday Discount?
Why Don’t They Just Let Their Kids Not Have Braces And Break Their Teeth For Denture Through Insurance
Thanks For Knocking Down The Price, Now How About You Knock Down The Price?
Found On My Tattoo Artists Instagram, F**k Thats Satisfying
Can't Go Any Lower Than That
The Cheek Of Some People
It's Ok, I'm A Single Mom
How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!
Now That Was Simply Uncalled For
Then You Dont Get A Tip
“Freebie” Is The New F-Word
What A Deal!
Good To Know
Got A Little Distracted By Someone Doing The Repeater
How Ironic
Woman Doesn’t Want To Pay Amazon For A Thing Amazon Made
Not My Messages But Thought It Was Funny
Not One Penny More!
Don't throw it away. Donate it to the local animal shelter. They might even be able to give you a receipt for your taxes.
I Draw Pieces Inspired By Historical Art Styles And Sometimes Do Tattoo Designs For People. Today I Had My First Choosing Beggar Experience
“Exposure Doesn’t Pay The Bills, My Guy”
How Many Likes For Free Shoes?
Does This Work?
I had a friend at work who painted and I thought it would be awesome to get a painting of our cats to give to my wife for her birthday. I asked my friend if she would do it and asked her how much. She gave me a price that I thought was low, which I said, but we kept it there. I never asked for a discount or anything. You want someone to work for you? You pay them.
Right on. I hired a young artist to paint a mannequin for a book cover. Her price was low, so I 'tipped' her an extra $40 and a box of paints.
Load More Replies...Why am I getting redirected to "redirectlinkway.top" without even clicking on anything? Kinda shady, BP.
It’s not BP but an ad. All tha can be done is to report the ad to whoever is serving it.
Load More Replies...I cannot believe the person who commented "all repeats " is getting downvoted. This is all repeats . Every single one has been posted her dozens if not hundreds of times. You are downvoting the truth.
I havnt seen a single one. Ergo by my definition, not a single one is a repeat.
Load More Replies...It’s a free app. Stop being a “choosing beggar”.
Load More Replies...I had a friend at work who painted and I thought it would be awesome to get a painting of our cats to give to my wife for her birthday. I asked my friend if she would do it and asked her how much. She gave me a price that I thought was low, which I said, but we kept it there. I never asked for a discount or anything. You want someone to work for you? You pay them.
Right on. I hired a young artist to paint a mannequin for a book cover. Her price was low, so I 'tipped' her an extra $40 and a box of paints.
Load More Replies...Why am I getting redirected to "redirectlinkway.top" without even clicking on anything? Kinda shady, BP.
It’s not BP but an ad. All tha can be done is to report the ad to whoever is serving it.
Load More Replies...I cannot believe the person who commented "all repeats " is getting downvoted. This is all repeats . Every single one has been posted her dozens if not hundreds of times. You are downvoting the truth.
I havnt seen a single one. Ergo by my definition, not a single one is a repeat.
Load More Replies...It’s a free app. Stop being a “choosing beggar”.
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