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Imagine getting a free ride, then telling your driver to get a more comfortable car because theirs is too old. While most of us would be grateful for the gesture, some people may see this act of generosity as an opportunity to demand more, and more, and more. Enter Choosing Beggars, a subreddit dedicated to showcasing ungrateful attitudes and shameless entitlement.

Avid Bored Panda readers might remember that we've covered the community a few times already, but with 2.6 million members, it's so active that one can easily get lost in its content. So, we decided to put together a collection of its funniest and most infuriating posts of all time.

Continue scrolling to check them out, and don't miss the chat we had with therapist and relationship expert Dr. Steven Stosny—you'll find it between the images.

#1

Customer Wants A Tattoo Artist To Issue Them An "Inconvenience Fee" For Setting Them Up With An Artist Who Was An Ex-Con

Text exchange showing a reality check to a choosing beggar demanding a refund and inconvenience fee.

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    #2

    A Brilliant Way To Deal With "Influencers"

    Text exchange of choosing beggar getting unexpected reality check over free merch request.

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    To gain a better understanding of these interactions, we got in touch with Dr. Steven Stosny, founder of Compassion Power in suburban Washington, DC, and author of several books on improving relationships.

    "There are two major types of entitlement," he told Bored Panda.

    "In the first, the entitled feel superior. If not acknowledged as having superior rights and privileges, they may feel inferior. Superiority and inferiority are opposite sides of the same coin."

    "The second type is compensatory. Those who suffer from it see themselves as victims of unfair treatment and therefore entitled to special privileges as compensation. 'It's so hard being me. I shouldn't have to wait in line too.'"


    #3

    63 Sandwiches In 1 1/2 Hours!?! How Dare They!

    "Review and tweet mocking a choosing beggar demanding fast service for 63 subs."

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    #4

    Huffpo Being A Hypocritical Choosing Beggar

    Tweet highlighting a choosing beggar situation with Huffington Post's unpaid work request.

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    #5

    This Groomer Is Definitely Prepared For All The Choosing Beggars

    Sign listing reasons pet grooming costs more than a haircut, with humorous comparisons to a hairdresser's duties.

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    As you can see from the pictures, we can run into entitled people at school, work, and other areas of everyday life. Researchers Emily Zitek and Alexander Jordan studied the behavior and published their findings in Social Psychological and Personality Science.

    All in all, Zitek and Jordan conducted six experiments. They first tested how 1,259 individuals would behave during a basic word search task where it was essential to follow instructions. The researchers found that those with a high sense of entitlement were less likely to comply with the given directions.

    From there, they tested different scenarios to see whether punishment, framing the task as optional, or reducing the perceived personal cost would lead them to comply. None of these tactics worked.

    Entitled people do not follow instructions because they would rather take a loss themselves than agree to something they perceive to be unfair to them, the researchers concluded.


    #6

    I’m Just Going To Leave This Here

    Man sitting under humorous horse mural with text about a client asking for cheaper work, highlighting choosing beggars.

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    #7

    My Mechanic Telling It How It Is. Support Artists And Labor Folk!

    Printed note on wall highlighting a harsh reality check about valuing time and expertise over minutes spent.

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    #8

    My Dad's A Photographer, This Is His Most Recent Client

    Text exchange showcasing a photographer receiving a reality check from a potential client, embodying the 'choosing beggars' theme.

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    So what do we do when we run into these people?

    Stosny, author of Living and Loving After Betrayal and How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, said that one of the best strategies is to "ignore their sense of entitlement and act according to your own sense of fairness."

    However, if you do find yourselves in a conflict with them, try not to take their coping mechanisms personally.


    #10

    Choosing Beggar

    Man holding a sign about fraud on a roadside, reflecting the 'Choosing Beggars' reality check theme.

    Two years ago I saw that guy with the gas can begging for money. Tried to give him four dollars, but he said he doesn’t take anything less than five. After that I saw him there everyday for months. Turns out he’s a fraud with a new Jeep and a nice house. Been following him with this sign since.

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    #12

    Selling A Used iMac For 1200$, Woman Asks “How Low” I Would Sell It For, Or If I’d Take 800 And Some Jewelry She Makes. Oh And I Also Ruined Christmas

    Chat exchange showing a firm $1200 price disagreement with a choosing beggar seeking discounts.

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    #13

    I Won't Invite You To My Baby Shower, But You Better Get Me A Gift

    Text exchange about not buying a baby shower gift due to not being invited, highlighting choosing beggars dynamics.

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    "Confronting them or arguing with them creates pointless power struggles, which are likely to increase their sense of entitlement," Stosny added.

    "Ignoring it is the best policy."

    #14

    Why Can't People Understand Firm?

    Text conversation highlighting a "choosing beggar" trying to negotiate a price but receiving a firm reality check.

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    #16

    Its Always The Christmas Excuses

    Hand pressing a blue button labeled "You’ve ruined my children’s Christmas," representing choosing beggars.

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    In professional environments, Zitek and Jordan — the authors of the aforementioned study — advise framing instructions to the entitled in ways that make them seem fairer or more legitimate. (Making sure they're satisfied could help operations run smoothly, at least for the time being.)

    The authors offered another tip: "If the instructions come from an in-group member such as a peer instead of from an authority figure, perhaps entitled individuals would be more likely to view the instructions as fair and therefore follow them."


    #18

    Lady Wants Barely-Used Computer For $25

    "Text exchange showing a 'choosing beggar' attempting to lowball a $1000 computer for $25."

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    #19

    This Guy Has Had It With Cbs

    Image of a notice titled "Photographer looking for people to do their job for free," highlighting a classic "choosing beggar" scenario.

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    #20

    Floss Company Asked For Free Designs. The Artists Responded

    Embroidery showcasing choosing beggars getting a reality check with messages like "Artists Have Bills To Pay" and "Pay Artists."

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    #24

    Choosing Beggars Don’t Like Free Beer At Local BBQ Joint

    Sign about choosing beggars: "Be like Terry, happy with free beer. Don't be like Leigh A., who complains about free beer variety."

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    #26

    This Was On One Of My Mom Pages, I Couldn't Believe It Was Local And That These Kind Of People Actually Exist, It Makes Me Sick To Think About

    Text exchange highlighting a reality check for a choosing beggar over blackberry bush theft.

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    #27

    Asking The Author Of The Book Where They Can Pirate It (I'm Not The Author, And The Book Is Not Coming From A Big-Time Publisher)

    Text exchange highlighting a "choosing beggar" seeking a free book download and receiving a firm refusal.

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    #29

    Seems Like Indonesia Is Not Choosing Any Of Them Begpackers

    Bali addressing choosing beggars, three tourists walking through lush greenery.

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    #30

    Why Don’t They Just Let Their Kids Not Have Braces And Break Their Teeth For Denture Through Insurance

    Chat negotiation with a choosing beggar attempting to lower the iPhone price, meeting a firm refusal.

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    #31

    Found On My Tattoo Artists Instagram, F**k Thats Satisfying

    Text conversation about tattoo pricing where a customer requests a lower price and the seller insists on the full price, giving a reality check.

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    #32

    Thanks For Knocking Down The Price, Now How About You Knock Down The Price?

    Chat conversation showing a choosing beggar who first offers $90, then lowers to $70 before being offered $100.

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    #34

    Can't Go Any Lower Than That

    Can't Go Any Lower Than That

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    #37

    How Are My Kids Supposed To Live Without Juice?!

    Text screenshot of a food bank post with a table of groceries highlighting a 'choosing beggar' moment.

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    #38

    “Freebie” Is The New F-Word

    Text exchange of someone requesting a free cake for exposure, receiving a critical response.

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    #39

    Now That Was Simply Uncalled For

    Choosing beggar tries to negotiate a laptop price using emotional plea, receives blunt response.

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    #41

    Got A Little Distracted By Someone Doing The Repeater

    Text message exchange illustrating a negotiation with a choosing beggar about snowboard boots price.

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    #44

    Not My Messages But Thought It Was Funny

    Text exchange highlighting a choosing beggar receiving a reality check about jobs and housing.

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    #45

    Woman Doesn’t Want To Pay Amazon For A Thing Amazon Made

    Twitter exchange showcasing a harsh reality check to a choosing beggar, involving a farm show access request.

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    #47

    I Draw Pieces Inspired By Historical Art Styles And Sometimes Do Tattoo Designs For People. Today I Had My First Choosing Beggar Experience

    Chat exchange about custom art design where a choosing beggar demands a discount and gets a harsh response.

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    #48

    “Exposure Doesn’t Pay The Bills, My Guy”

    Text exchange highlighting a "choosing beggar" situation regarding tattoo services and social media exposure.

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    #49

    How Many Likes For Free Shoes?

    Chat exchange about free shoes request, showing a harsh reality check to a choosing beggar.

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    #51

    Divorcing Husband Of 14 Years For Being Broke

    Divorcing Husband Of 14 Years For Being Broke

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    #52

    I Can't Belive These People... They Don't Understand Nail Techs, Escorts, Artists, Ect. Actually Make A Living Off Of This

    I Can't Belive These People... They Don't Understand Nail Techs, Escorts, Artists, Ect. Actually Make A Living Off Of This

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    #55

    The Disrespect To Makeup Artists

    The Disrespect To Makeup Artists

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    #56

    Who Gets An Uber On Wedding Day Let Alone Pooling?

    Who Gets An Uber On Wedding Day Let Alone Pooling?

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    #57

    Till This Day It Still Annoys Me That He Is That Much Of An Asshole

    Till This Day It Still Annoys Me That He Is That Much Of An Asshole

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    #58

    Girl On Tinder Wants Korean BBQ

    Girl On Tinder Wants Korean BBQ

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    #59

    Free Christmas Isn’t Tall Or Full Enough

    Free Christmas Isn’t Tall Or Full Enough

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    #60

    A Riding Mower In Exchange For An Almost $20,000 Car

    A Riding Mower In Exchange For An Almost $20,000 Car

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    #61

    Guess, She Is Having A Crap Birthday

    Guess, She Is Having A Crap Birthday

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    #62

    "I Don’t Know You. I Need Money Not A Sandwich.”

    "I Don’t Know You. I Need Money Not A Sandwich.”

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    #63

    Generous Man Practically Giving Away £80, Just Renovate His Garden

    Generous Man Practically Giving Away £80, Just Renovate His Garden

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    #64

    Work Hard Enough And You’ll Get Paid In Garlic

    Work Hard Enough And You’ll Get Paid In Garlic

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    #65

    The Saga Of Cat Lady Trying To Guilt And Attack Me Into Letting Her Decide The Room Rental Price

    The Saga Of Cat Lady Trying To Guilt And Attack Me Into Letting Her Decide The Room Rental Price

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