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Study Claims The Mental-Health Crisis During The Pandemic Was Minimal, People Share The Most Unhinged Things They Did In Response (50 Tweets)
Remember those few weeks during the spring of 2020 when everyone was making banana bread? How about that sourdough phase? Or the whipped dalgona coffee trend? While our sanity was hanging on by a single thread, we all became creative and experimented with new hobbies we would have never tried otherwise (including some that we might not be incredibly proud of).
The BBC recently tweeted a study that claimed the mental health crisis brought on by the pandemic was only “minimal", however, many Twitter users would beg to differ. People immediately began sharing questionable and hilarious things they did during the pandemic, so we’ve gathered some of the most entertaining responses below. Enjoy this list, and be sure to upvote all of the tweets that make you feel better about having karaoke via Zoom during lockdown!
This study has gone viral for claiming that the mental health crisis brought on by the pandemic was only "minimal"
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So readers were quick to point out that the results of the study should be taken with a grain of salt
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The COVID-19 pandemic was an unprecedented time in history. Never before had the world been forced to shut down on such a global scale, requiring education, jobs and countless other events to turn to digital alternatives. Companies were rapidly closing while millions worldwide were dealing with devastating health issues and the loss of loved ones, meanwhile, the rest of us were just trying to figure out how to avoid getting sick. We were faced with an interesting concoction of fear and boredom all at once, and many of us found bizarre ways to channel our energy and anxiety. Thus, we began making some questionable decisions.
As you’ll see on this list, we all found unique ways to cope with the stress of the pandemic. I, for one, began reading a lot at first, but later found myself dying my hair purple and teal and taking three hour long walks per day, just to get out of the house. I became way too invested in the 90 Day Fiancé cinematic universe, and I started experimenting with the most interesting recipes I could find. I simultaneously had way more energy than I knew what to do with and couldn’t be bothered to get out of bed for hours at a time each day. It was an extremely weird time to live through, so it’s understandable for people to have faced more mental health issues than usual during that period.
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However, this study that the BBC recently tweeted promotes the idea that we somehow managed to emerge from the pandemic unscathed, with little to no impact on our mental health. Forget the fact that we were all frantically baking banana bread and sourdough bread at all hours of the night, right? Let’s just ignore how obsessed we all were with Tiger King, too. In Philippa Roxby’s article for the BBC discussing this controversial study, she does acknowledge the fact that, “Other studies suggest the pandemic increased mental distress for particular groups, such as children, young people and parents in poverty.”
So it is a bit misleading to boldly claim that the pandemic had minimal impact on the mental health crisis. Roxby goes on to note that those who were most negatively affected by the pandemic were people who had previously struggled with their mental health, but there are other studies that suggest the pandemic may have been a catalyst for some people’s struggles. An online NHS survey found that, “As many as one in six seven-16-year-olds and one in four 17-19-year-olds in England had a probable mental disorder in 2022,” Roxby writes. The number of children in contact with mental-health services also increased by almost 30% between 2020-21 and 2021-22. And in another 2021 survey by Mind, mental-health charity, about one third of adults and young people reported their mental health had significantly declined since March 2020.
So glad that you are having success with it. I wrote a children's book starring my dog but no sales 😕
While it would be great to believe that we were emotionally prepared to face a global pandemic, along with the high unemployment rates and the looming threat of contracting a deadly virus that accompanied, sources outside of this controversial study in question report contradictory results. For example, the World Health Organization explains on their site that, “Plenty of us became more anxious; but for some COVID-19 has sparked or amplified much more serious mental health problems. A great number of people have reported psychological distress and symptoms of depression, anxiety or post-traumatic stress. And there have been worrying signs of more widespread suicidal thoughts and behaviors, including among health care workers.”
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What issues impacted individuals the most from the pandemic depended on various factors, including age, gender and economic status. “Faced with extended school and university closures young people have been left vulnerable to social isolation and disconnectedness which can fuel feelings of anxiety, uncertainty and loneliness and lead to affective and behavioral problems,” WHO reports on their site. “For some children and adolescents being made to stay at home may have increased the risk of family stress or abuse, which are risk factors for mental health problems. Women have similarly faced greater stress in homes, with one rapid assessment reporting that 45% of women had experienced some form of violence, either directly or indirectly during the first year of the pandemic.”
In the 90s in my first apartment I remember going to Walmart and they use to sell these ready made bathroom decor sets and they had the rubber ducky set. I so bought it, the soap dispenser, the mats, the soap tray and the shower curtain. I miss that set like it was yesterday.
Fear and panic were certainly factors that contributed to the decline of many people’s mental health during the pandemic as well. “I have many friends who had relapses in their mental health because of the increased levels of fear and panic,” Esenam Abra Drah, a woman from Ghana who lives with bipolar disorder, told WHO. “It was almost as if fear was contagious.”
“I myself did not go to the clinic for therapy for an entire year partly because of this fear,” she continued. “I have been privileged to have a good system of support. My pensioner parents managed to make sure my medications were always refilled. But it is not the same for others. Some people could not afford treatment. It was and still is a very difficult time for a lot of people.”
Many of us were even compelled to make some questionable purchases during the pandemic. So many of us, in fact, that The New York Times even published an article detailing all of the strangest pandemic panic purchases their staff members made. Some highlights from the list are “one tiny rainbow-unicorn pool,” “one handheld travel bidet,” “three webcams,” “five head-to-toe pink outfits,” and “three 12-pound bags of soy curls.” Allen Tingley, an engineering manager, shared with The New York Times, “I will never forget awkwardly walk-sprinting to the nearly empty pallet of Clorox bleach on the floor of the Costco to grab 3 gallons for myself. Why? I don’t know. I couldn’t find anything I needed, so maybe I needed bleach. Now I get to cart it around with me from house to house for the rest of my life, I guess? Is this what Coleridge was talking about?”
As for the handheld travel bidet, Tim Barribeau, an editor at The New York Times said, “With toilet paper in brutally short supply during Early Pandemic Times, and bidets back-ordered and selling for a premium, we bought a handheld squeeze travel bidet as a backup. It’s designed for pregnant and postpartum people; you can spritz a pretty aggressive stream of water by squeezing it. Luckily, the travel bidet itself was never needed, but we keep it around in case paper supplies ever run short again.”
We'd been planning my wife's 50th for a couple of years, to go to Pig Island and swim with pigs. Couldn't go due to lockdown, so I bought inflatable palm trees, coconuts, and parrots, and filled our hot tub with inflatable pigs. It was great!
Sarah Witman, a staff writer at The New York Times, admitted to purchasing the tiny rainbow-unicorn pool. “I was desperate to treat myself last summer, so I dropped nearly $60 on the Sunny Life Kiddy Pool. I sat in it and listened to a podcast maybe three or four times, but it takes a lot of lung power to inflate, and it’s collecting dust in the garage now.” I think it’s safe to say that none of our brains were working at full capacity during the pandemic, so if that kiddy pool helped Sarah cope, hey, more power to her.
Has this list reminded you of all the ridiculous things you managed to do during lockdown? Don’t worry, no one needs to know about the wig you ordered for your cat or the purple hair dye phase you had; we won’t tell. But we hope you’re enjoying this hilarious look back at the pandemic. Keep upvoting the pics you find most relatable and those that you think encapsulate the experience of living through the COVID-19 pandemic, and then let us know in the comments what silly things you found yourself doing during quarantine. Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article featuring crazy things boredom can drive people to do, look no further than right here!
As a parent of teenagers who make questionable fashion choices, I would wear these in a heart beat. They are a statement footwear, I'm 5:11 when I wear my DMs I'm 6:1 with these I would be shaq. But I would never wear them out of the house because I'm a terrible introvert. Still love them though. I have bought shoes before and just wore them around the house or lay on my bed in 6inch heels watching TV. Iron fist was my favourite but nothing else is actually even close to their style. I have several pairs, I wore one pair to my niece's wedding. That was the only time I have wore heels out.
I really need to work on my island again...I'm at a four star rating.
I went to work five to seven days a week and got screamed at, insulted, threatened, and belittled. Hearing my siblings complain about not being able to go drinking or to dance classes made me want to scream.
60% of teenagers feel suicidally hopeless. Naw, that's not too bad.
TBH, if the pandemic hit me as a teenager or a young adult, it would've probably wrecked my life completely. But it hit me as a working mother of a 6yo; suddenly I was home with my family all day and it was a great period for me. But I could tell that many weren't so lucky...
Load More Replies...Mental health is no joke but many of these posts are just extroverts getting bored at home. I hope everyone is okay.
It was a lot of bad stuff, but I do miss those early crazy months of the pandemic, it was like the biggest international social experiment,
true. People were caring for eachother and people got super creative to get things done, and happy with small things.
Load More Replies...Bro, I was having suicidal thoughts. I was like 10. That's when I started to break. I really think that my mental health wouldn't be the mess it is today if it hadn't been for the pandemic. ....so that counts as minimal?
Are you sure it was solely due to the pandemic? What else was going on in your life at the time and before?
Load More Replies...It probably didn't help that I had only just recovered from a bout of extremely severe depression, but the pandemic sure as hell encouraged my new developing mindset of "there is no hope for the future, so don't even bother". Yeah, sounds healthy to me! Mind you it also had one positive effect: I used to be in the habit of always rushing around trying to keep myself occupied, but lockdown forced me to find a way to be still and quiet. I was lucky enough to have a beautiful garden where I could just sit and watch the birds and listen to the wind. I owe my sanity to that garden. 🦋🌱
i love that your garden meant so much for you. I only have a teeny tiny "yard" but it was filled with flowers and tomatoes and strawberries in pots. We had a lot of nice weather and i would also just sit in there and stare and my plants. Very gratefull that we had a little place to go outside of our own!
Load More Replies...Time perception messed up for me. I lived everyday to just get it over with. I'm 19 now, in my mind I still think that im 16 or 17
16 to 19 is one of the most intense time periods in life. I have so many memories from that period, so many days filled with laughter, friends & punk that I still remember vividly almost 30 years later, as opposed to some later years. I'm so sorry to hear that it's been taken away from you.
Load More Replies...Omfg I'm a mental health counselor. I am exhausted. I am soooooo much less resilient than I was before the pandemic. Things got much much worse "after" when we were/are expected to just go back to "normal." People aren't happy with "normal." Covid made people reevaluate what's important, if nothing else, and we don't want the status quo any more. Not in America. We are done.
thank you for doing what you do. Remember that your mental health is also very important! <3
Load More Replies...Except most of those examples are of transient effects? Or of humans who are bored making their own entertainment. (Which is good for creativity!) . The studies are looking for an increase in (a handful of) serious mental illnesses in the general population. There are (or will be) separate studies of under-18s and key workers and/or medical staff.
My brother and I invented our own planet with countries and many other cultures. We created lore and went to war with our neighbouring country and won. We held our own Olympic Games and we created our own superheroes using our stuffed toys. We even held a wedding for our toys after the war.
About the study saying “minimal”, I considered suicide during the pandemic and my parents got a bit more abusive than usual. I lost all my friends as well as they wanted to do nothing with me. I got really bad depression and that was the lowest point in my life. I would never wish that on even my worst enemy
Load More Replies...I also teamed up with a friend to create new Pokemon designs, many of them pandemic themed. So that was fun. My favourites were Hoardex and Wipeon. Here's Hoardex, the Hoarder Pokemon whose favourite prey is Wipeon, the Toilet Paper Pokemon. Hoardex-Te...dc80d9.jpg
My kid would've loved your Pokemon😁😁😁
Load More Replies...My step grandpa widowed for 2 years was put in a nursing home right before Covid lockdown. He couldn’t see very well anymore (couldn’t live alone). The nursing home locked him down, no visitors and then so many quarantines because the nurses/staff worked part time at other locations (kept contracting Covid). He just gave up and died. So many elderly lost the will to live.~ sad
At one point, 9 people in my (extended) family got covid within 6 weeks and 8 of the 9 died. Everyone I knew or knew of who got covid, died. A short time later my mom (who lives with me) got covid and I spent days crying hysterically and getting my will, arrangements for my dogs, etc. in order because I was 100% convinced that my mom, my daughter and I were all going to die.
Definitely had an impact on my mental health working in the hospital doing longer shifts and extra shifts ,somethings can't be unseen and will forever be etched in my brain.I have amazing friends and family and an awesome wee grandie that makes me life worth living for as I unpack a lot of PTSD in therapy.
At one point I was making wine pairings for breakfast. Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc for porridge, Chilean Pinot Noir works with Coco Pops.
I accept that many people would have suffered mentally because of the pandemic, and the study is virtually worthless because of the exceptions. These posts don't strike me as unhinged or particularly related to mental health issues. A better title would be, "I got bored, here's what I did ".
Wow! Just makes me realize how much of an introvert I am. Sometimes I think I was less crazy and more productive during the pandemic LOL
Fellow introvert and I loved lockdowns. It was extra work because stepkids moved back home but I loved not having to go out and socialize. I had a little mental health crisis when it all ended.
Load More Replies...I'm like 90% sure I got depression at the age of 11 even though there were no other things that could have caused it had the pandemic not happened.
You are 14? Hormone changes can trigger depression (I was 13 first diagnosed, no pandemic in the early 90's). The pandemic may have made it worse, but it doesn't have to have been the cause.
Load More Replies...I was stuck in an abusive relationship, trying my hardest to get through home learning with my daughter and living with bipolar. I cannot physically leave my home anymore. It destroyed who I was.
I'm so sorry. I wish I had the words to help, but I'm not very eloquent. When I worked in a psych hospital I had a patient share all the horrible things that have happened to her. (Illness, mental issues, abusive people.) She admitted that she doesn't know why she's "here" anymore. I replied that it appears she's meant to be. That her story isn't quite finished. I didn't think I said much but it shocked her into silence. A couple days later she shared that my comment changed her outlook completely and was starting to feel hope again. What I'm attempting to say is, if you've really lost everything, what do you have to lose by trying to get better?
Load More Replies...i made a pillow fort at my friends house with her little sister (we were in a bubble) and it was so much fun we just kept expanding it until it took up most of her basement. then we decided to create house for ourselves inside of the fort. that still wasn't enough. we started creating shops too and started paying for things with foreign coins. i am not kidding our economy actually crashed.
I feel like these are all just examples of human creativity born out of boredom.
We travelled the world during lockdown, we enjoyed amazing views, took train rides all via Youtube videos.
What kind of a sh1t study is that? I know so many parents who tore themselves apart to keep their kids fro going totally crazy and drop out of school. The posts in this thread are great examples on how people coped to keep their sanity but all the people who reall did losse thiers didn't post under this. Our psychotherapists are booked out for years, so many people brainwashed themselves into a psycosis. Some people killed themselves and their families because of crazy conspiracy theories. we had a severe worldwide crisis and we all suffered and many people are irreparably traumatized - adn that is not even takekn into consideration all the poor kids who were lcoked in with their abusers. We did what we had to to not face mountains of corpses, but there was a 30% rise in domestic abuse. I am fine. I used the pandemic to change careers. But many others did not come out well.
i was feeling horrible at the start, then i got myself together a bit and used the extra time for crochet, healthy eating and a vegetable garden.. And then it just all fell apart. It was the people starting conspiracies and acting up, and not knowing what was gonna happen or how to handle it. All the stupid rules from our gouvernement (during the lockdowns, the "essential" shops like craft shops, lingerie shops and chocolate shops were open but i couldnt get new shoes for work that i really needed) i work as a cleaner and at work people would applaud for nurses in the evening, but during the day they would leave used tissues and maskes all around for me to pick up, what was depressing. anyway no cute pictures, but sure as fukc picking up live again to the max!
Let's face it, there was only one good thing to come out of the pandemic. People taking their garbage out in full T-Rex costumes. I want that to come back, please.
My passport expired in a foreign country because my embassy told me the home affairs dept was shut down due to the virus.. and all flights were cancelled. The embasy had to make me emergency travel certificate, & then arranged me a flight as the only passenger on the plane back to my country of birth, which i hadnt been to in over a decade, and stay locked up in quarantine for 2 weeks, then be a burdon to family for several weeks while i waited to get a new passport made... Then get expatrited back over to the country i came from, and spend another 2 weeks in quarantine before i could see my wife and child again. The whole process took 4 months, and i had to sell my inlaws car to finance the trip... All because my embassy could not process me a new passport.
I cleaned the carpet until the water being sucked up was clear. It took eight hours. I was so sore for days. Lol.
Ah yes, debunking a study with 50 anecdotes, how rational of BoredPanda.
Seven months before lockdown, my mom died suddenly. In March 2020, my new college moved online. I broke my foot. I was stuck at home, grieving, unable to walk, trying to do school on Zoom, and my clinical depression BLEW UP. I had a mental health crisis that lasted 2 1/2 years. I was absolutely miserable, and my greatest accomplishment during that time was simply not un-aliving myself. Many of my friends and acquaintances had really rough years as well. Our whole lives were turned upside down. I don't believe for a minute that the mental health effects of Covid lockdown were minimal. *Update, after a lot of hard work, my mental health has improved. It's not great, but I'm generally alright with being alive and more able to recognize and internalize the beauty of being a human.
Tis bollocks - 5-6year old kids are starting school with very poor social skills becaause they missed out on 18 months of socialisation with their peers with nurseries been shut to the vast majority of children.
That is not the same as genuine mental health issues.
Load More Replies...I stayed home all the time, doing as little as possible. I went out only when I had to and avoided others when I did. But that's what retirement is like. So when Covid came along, I was ready for it.
I had to lose my job as an executive to stay home and homeschool my daughter. The silver lining is she is completely thriving academically now, the bad news is where I was financially solid on my own, I am no longer. If my partner ever left me, I would be in a world of hurt. There is no risk of that as far as I know, but it is anxiety inducing where I never had anxiety before. All for something that is now showing didn’t make a difference in terms of stopping anything. I just lost my mom to cancer. It’s highly probable it would have been caught earlier except screenings for things like this stopped. Now add anger to the list.
At my age, the pandemic had very little effect on my daily life. Other than wearing a mask when I went to the grocery store, I really didn't do anything differently.
My family made boats out of Lego and we would race them in the street when it rained. We held tournaments and stood on the street watching them and cheering in the rain.
The appliances all got googly eyes. The television lost one eye after a while, so he got a felt eye patch on one side. The air purifier already looked like a cyborg with his one blue light that would turn into an angry red eye whenever he got upset about the smell, so he got an official "Hello, my name is Laird" name tag. No idea why his name is Laird, but it is. The roomba got a sexy maid outfit, the clock in the living room got a bunny ears headband, and I started a hobby where I would drive out into the country and collect samples of pond scum from any body of water I came across, so there were jars of slime everywhere.
I have been in depression for three years, it set me back years in therapy. F**k anyone saying it wasn’t a crisis.
I wish I could have mustered the psychic energy for a quirky craft project 🙄
Load More Replies...As usual, the downvote fairies are crawling out of the woodwork when anyone dares to question anything to do with "mental health ".
Some guy in China carefully removed all the seeds from a couple strawberries and dragon fruits.
Every study is to be taken with caution if there's not at least one other study backing it up and you don't know their test pool. Most studies out there are not representative of the general population or even a focus group. You can't make predictions for the whole population with 50-60 test candidates. Also they're often students or colleagues of the scientists and thus for all part of a very similar socioeconomic circle. So don't believe everything just because that one, brand new study said so. Take it as an indicator and with a grain of salt as other scientists do too.
They've proven in studies that unwanted isolation can shrink parts of the brain and cause all sorts of terrible things. Solitary confinement is physically and mentally debilitating and that's partly why someone might behave completely differently getting out of it. I already had bipolar/other things, but long covid and lockdown sent me into a spiral that led me to try to unalive myself. Then I did outpatient treatment through Zoom for 6 months. I bought hundreds of dollars worth of mobile game digital lootboxes, did recreational drugs, then began my doom-scrolling on Twitter/Facebook/news sites. I fell into arguments online to express my depression and frustration. I spent time online with people that I didn't notice were gaslighting me. Tons of fun things. I see people still not seeming to understand how to interact with other humans or in public.
In an attempt to keep my anxiety at manageable levels, I did 11 puzzles in the first month, totaling around 20,000 pieces. I suffer from anxiety regularly but the first shutdown really ramped it up. I should note that I was in a household with a mentally and emotionally unstable and abusive relative, so anxiety was quite common,
During the pandemic i was mostly alone, but we worked only partly home office, mostly we were on-site. I loved this way. Learned Android development and created my first Play app in 2020. So if one wanted to do something, he could.
In the beginning, nobody knew what the hell was the right thing to do, so I went grocery shopping in gardening gloves.
I feel so unaccomplished compared to all of these. I basically attempted my school work and working from home while occasionally lying in the fetal position and trying to breathe through panic attacks. Y'all, we were not okay.
I don't know if this counts, but the pandemic made no difference in the lives of myself and my partner. We were already mostly housebound I only left to go and do food shopping; I don't have any family in this country and his family sort of forgot about him.... We didn't live in the same flat but we did live in the same building and that's probably what kept us both sane. He died almost three months ago (not from Covid) and now I am as much of a recluse as I was before I met him.
I'm still not over it. Developed a panic disorder being eventually allowed out I can't go out. Thanks COVID .
I loved the extra peace and quiet. Got soooo many projects done at my house that have been on hold forever. Got to sleep in AND work out a few times a week! what? and had an excuse to use the grocery delivery option. The beach across the street from myself was clean and quiet... had it all to myself. And when I did go in for my shift as a police officer (we still had to work)... there was noticeably less issues and calls for service because so many of our trouble makers were too busy complaining on social media or posting about conspiracy theories. I know many people who made good use of the extra time at home with their families too! COVID was a mental health issue for some but not all.... just saying
I loved the time away from people and hate we have to go back to not. I literally didn't change my life at all, except I had an excuse to avoid being around people.
I was: delivering equipment all over the county to launch virtual healthcare services. Then WFH for months. I went to get a drive-thru coffee for a change of scenery, pulled up on my drive, sat drinking my coffee and crying as I did NOT want to go back inside. Went from one cat to three. Got out to launch vaccine hubs. Felt more normal only to be told WFH and more lockdown. Then the first time you could meet one other in open space, got a boyfriend out of it. Went up to 5 cats. But I’m mentally fit as a fiddle. Not! I don’t know if I will ever recover from cabin fever!
As a therapist, a researcher, and an educator of other therapists, it's been a TIME since I saw a study that just made wonder if someone who failed out of undergrad was conducting published research . .
I ate nothing but ramen for lunch and dinner then developed an earring disorder, lost all my friend’s, didn’t do any thing in school and just watched my grades drop, cried because I had to make a sock puppet, wrote 20,000 word essay about the affects of COVID on dogs in like three days, and made a detailed journal about a tree and the bugs that lived in it then cried for a week when it dropped its leaves and flowers for fall, but yeah the effect on my mental health was minimal :)
Those few weeks on spring of 2020? Yeah, I will take those any time. Compare to the clusterpluck of manurerain we went through in winter 2020/2021. That was proper epidemic proportions.
Died my hair bright purple. Rescued a kitten. Did the last 2 years of a 3 year Doctorate during the pandemic - would not recommend, but we were able to do the last major event together again, and graduate together in person. Low point was early 2021, winter is already hard, we kept not getting back to things in person, my migraines became more severe than usual and I could barely get awake for more than 10 hours a day at times. I feel I am still not performing like I used to.
We made wine. Put balloons instead of tops because they (really!) became dangerous missiles. Then the Hubs' mom passed. We were devastated and came down with COVID after her funeral. A year later - I had longCOVID. But -- at first, during the lock down, we made wine, took long walks, tried to get fresh air, took care of our health. We dealt. I think many people suffered, though. And the true cost WILL BE known. WineMaking...e667cd.jpg
my best friend did too. I've developed disordered eating. You're not alone <3
Load More Replies...What an absolute load of b******t. The pandemic affected the mental health of so many people. It forced people into isolation where many families who lived in different countries or states could not see each other for months or even years. I didn’t get to see my sibling about two years! People lost loved ones to Covid. People lost their jobs and had constant worry about finances. People died alone in hospitals and their loved ones could only say goodbye on screen. Students and young people had to miss out on so many milestones and school from dances to graduation. Many essential workers had to work in dangerous conditions and risk getting COVID and spreading it to others. Loneliness was rampant and political tensions ran high in many countries. I think there is so much collective trauma we lived through and we are only know starting to recognize it.
I found out I was pregnant early February 2020. Being pregnant during lockdown was a wild ride, what a bizarre time.
My boss had her second baby in lockdown. It was weird for her, he didn't meet his grandparents till he was 4 months old. He's caught up now though
Load More Replies...I worked the whole pandemic so didn't do anything weird or interesting.
I went to work five to seven days a week and got screamed at, insulted, threatened, and belittled. Hearing my siblings complain about not being able to go drinking or to dance classes made me want to scream.
60% of teenagers feel suicidally hopeless. Naw, that's not too bad.
TBH, if the pandemic hit me as a teenager or a young adult, it would've probably wrecked my life completely. But it hit me as a working mother of a 6yo; suddenly I was home with my family all day and it was a great period for me. But I could tell that many weren't so lucky...
Load More Replies...Mental health is no joke but many of these posts are just extroverts getting bored at home. I hope everyone is okay.
It was a lot of bad stuff, but I do miss those early crazy months of the pandemic, it was like the biggest international social experiment,
true. People were caring for eachother and people got super creative to get things done, and happy with small things.
Load More Replies...Bro, I was having suicidal thoughts. I was like 10. That's when I started to break. I really think that my mental health wouldn't be the mess it is today if it hadn't been for the pandemic. ....so that counts as minimal?
Are you sure it was solely due to the pandemic? What else was going on in your life at the time and before?
Load More Replies...It probably didn't help that I had only just recovered from a bout of extremely severe depression, but the pandemic sure as hell encouraged my new developing mindset of "there is no hope for the future, so don't even bother". Yeah, sounds healthy to me! Mind you it also had one positive effect: I used to be in the habit of always rushing around trying to keep myself occupied, but lockdown forced me to find a way to be still and quiet. I was lucky enough to have a beautiful garden where I could just sit and watch the birds and listen to the wind. I owe my sanity to that garden. 🦋🌱
i love that your garden meant so much for you. I only have a teeny tiny "yard" but it was filled with flowers and tomatoes and strawberries in pots. We had a lot of nice weather and i would also just sit in there and stare and my plants. Very gratefull that we had a little place to go outside of our own!
Load More Replies...Time perception messed up for me. I lived everyday to just get it over with. I'm 19 now, in my mind I still think that im 16 or 17
16 to 19 is one of the most intense time periods in life. I have so many memories from that period, so many days filled with laughter, friends & punk that I still remember vividly almost 30 years later, as opposed to some later years. I'm so sorry to hear that it's been taken away from you.
Load More Replies...Omfg I'm a mental health counselor. I am exhausted. I am soooooo much less resilient than I was before the pandemic. Things got much much worse "after" when we were/are expected to just go back to "normal." People aren't happy with "normal." Covid made people reevaluate what's important, if nothing else, and we don't want the status quo any more. Not in America. We are done.
thank you for doing what you do. Remember that your mental health is also very important! <3
Load More Replies...Except most of those examples are of transient effects? Or of humans who are bored making their own entertainment. (Which is good for creativity!) . The studies are looking for an increase in (a handful of) serious mental illnesses in the general population. There are (or will be) separate studies of under-18s and key workers and/or medical staff.
My brother and I invented our own planet with countries and many other cultures. We created lore and went to war with our neighbouring country and won. We held our own Olympic Games and we created our own superheroes using our stuffed toys. We even held a wedding for our toys after the war.
About the study saying “minimal”, I considered suicide during the pandemic and my parents got a bit more abusive than usual. I lost all my friends as well as they wanted to do nothing with me. I got really bad depression and that was the lowest point in my life. I would never wish that on even my worst enemy
Load More Replies...I also teamed up with a friend to create new Pokemon designs, many of them pandemic themed. So that was fun. My favourites were Hoardex and Wipeon. Here's Hoardex, the Hoarder Pokemon whose favourite prey is Wipeon, the Toilet Paper Pokemon. Hoardex-Te...dc80d9.jpg
My kid would've loved your Pokemon😁😁😁
Load More Replies...My step grandpa widowed for 2 years was put in a nursing home right before Covid lockdown. He couldn’t see very well anymore (couldn’t live alone). The nursing home locked him down, no visitors and then so many quarantines because the nurses/staff worked part time at other locations (kept contracting Covid). He just gave up and died. So many elderly lost the will to live.~ sad
At one point, 9 people in my (extended) family got covid within 6 weeks and 8 of the 9 died. Everyone I knew or knew of who got covid, died. A short time later my mom (who lives with me) got covid and I spent days crying hysterically and getting my will, arrangements for my dogs, etc. in order because I was 100% convinced that my mom, my daughter and I were all going to die.
Definitely had an impact on my mental health working in the hospital doing longer shifts and extra shifts ,somethings can't be unseen and will forever be etched in my brain.I have amazing friends and family and an awesome wee grandie that makes me life worth living for as I unpack a lot of PTSD in therapy.
At one point I was making wine pairings for breakfast. Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc for porridge, Chilean Pinot Noir works with Coco Pops.
I accept that many people would have suffered mentally because of the pandemic, and the study is virtually worthless because of the exceptions. These posts don't strike me as unhinged or particularly related to mental health issues. A better title would be, "I got bored, here's what I did ".
Wow! Just makes me realize how much of an introvert I am. Sometimes I think I was less crazy and more productive during the pandemic LOL
Fellow introvert and I loved lockdowns. It was extra work because stepkids moved back home but I loved not having to go out and socialize. I had a little mental health crisis when it all ended.
Load More Replies...I'm like 90% sure I got depression at the age of 11 even though there were no other things that could have caused it had the pandemic not happened.
You are 14? Hormone changes can trigger depression (I was 13 first diagnosed, no pandemic in the early 90's). The pandemic may have made it worse, but it doesn't have to have been the cause.
Load More Replies...I was stuck in an abusive relationship, trying my hardest to get through home learning with my daughter and living with bipolar. I cannot physically leave my home anymore. It destroyed who I was.
I'm so sorry. I wish I had the words to help, but I'm not very eloquent. When I worked in a psych hospital I had a patient share all the horrible things that have happened to her. (Illness, mental issues, abusive people.) She admitted that she doesn't know why she's "here" anymore. I replied that it appears she's meant to be. That her story isn't quite finished. I didn't think I said much but it shocked her into silence. A couple days later she shared that my comment changed her outlook completely and was starting to feel hope again. What I'm attempting to say is, if you've really lost everything, what do you have to lose by trying to get better?
Load More Replies...i made a pillow fort at my friends house with her little sister (we were in a bubble) and it was so much fun we just kept expanding it until it took up most of her basement. then we decided to create house for ourselves inside of the fort. that still wasn't enough. we started creating shops too and started paying for things with foreign coins. i am not kidding our economy actually crashed.
I feel like these are all just examples of human creativity born out of boredom.
We travelled the world during lockdown, we enjoyed amazing views, took train rides all via Youtube videos.
What kind of a sh1t study is that? I know so many parents who tore themselves apart to keep their kids fro going totally crazy and drop out of school. The posts in this thread are great examples on how people coped to keep their sanity but all the people who reall did losse thiers didn't post under this. Our psychotherapists are booked out for years, so many people brainwashed themselves into a psycosis. Some people killed themselves and their families because of crazy conspiracy theories. we had a severe worldwide crisis and we all suffered and many people are irreparably traumatized - adn that is not even takekn into consideration all the poor kids who were lcoked in with their abusers. We did what we had to to not face mountains of corpses, but there was a 30% rise in domestic abuse. I am fine. I used the pandemic to change careers. But many others did not come out well.
i was feeling horrible at the start, then i got myself together a bit and used the extra time for crochet, healthy eating and a vegetable garden.. And then it just all fell apart. It was the people starting conspiracies and acting up, and not knowing what was gonna happen or how to handle it. All the stupid rules from our gouvernement (during the lockdowns, the "essential" shops like craft shops, lingerie shops and chocolate shops were open but i couldnt get new shoes for work that i really needed) i work as a cleaner and at work people would applaud for nurses in the evening, but during the day they would leave used tissues and maskes all around for me to pick up, what was depressing. anyway no cute pictures, but sure as fukc picking up live again to the max!
Let's face it, there was only one good thing to come out of the pandemic. People taking their garbage out in full T-Rex costumes. I want that to come back, please.
My passport expired in a foreign country because my embassy told me the home affairs dept was shut down due to the virus.. and all flights were cancelled. The embasy had to make me emergency travel certificate, & then arranged me a flight as the only passenger on the plane back to my country of birth, which i hadnt been to in over a decade, and stay locked up in quarantine for 2 weeks, then be a burdon to family for several weeks while i waited to get a new passport made... Then get expatrited back over to the country i came from, and spend another 2 weeks in quarantine before i could see my wife and child again. The whole process took 4 months, and i had to sell my inlaws car to finance the trip... All because my embassy could not process me a new passport.
I cleaned the carpet until the water being sucked up was clear. It took eight hours. I was so sore for days. Lol.
Ah yes, debunking a study with 50 anecdotes, how rational of BoredPanda.
Seven months before lockdown, my mom died suddenly. In March 2020, my new college moved online. I broke my foot. I was stuck at home, grieving, unable to walk, trying to do school on Zoom, and my clinical depression BLEW UP. I had a mental health crisis that lasted 2 1/2 years. I was absolutely miserable, and my greatest accomplishment during that time was simply not un-aliving myself. Many of my friends and acquaintances had really rough years as well. Our whole lives were turned upside down. I don't believe for a minute that the mental health effects of Covid lockdown were minimal. *Update, after a lot of hard work, my mental health has improved. It's not great, but I'm generally alright with being alive and more able to recognize and internalize the beauty of being a human.
Tis bollocks - 5-6year old kids are starting school with very poor social skills becaause they missed out on 18 months of socialisation with their peers with nurseries been shut to the vast majority of children.
That is not the same as genuine mental health issues.
Load More Replies...I stayed home all the time, doing as little as possible. I went out only when I had to and avoided others when I did. But that's what retirement is like. So when Covid came along, I was ready for it.
I had to lose my job as an executive to stay home and homeschool my daughter. The silver lining is she is completely thriving academically now, the bad news is where I was financially solid on my own, I am no longer. If my partner ever left me, I would be in a world of hurt. There is no risk of that as far as I know, but it is anxiety inducing where I never had anxiety before. All for something that is now showing didn’t make a difference in terms of stopping anything. I just lost my mom to cancer. It’s highly probable it would have been caught earlier except screenings for things like this stopped. Now add anger to the list.
At my age, the pandemic had very little effect on my daily life. Other than wearing a mask when I went to the grocery store, I really didn't do anything differently.
My family made boats out of Lego and we would race them in the street when it rained. We held tournaments and stood on the street watching them and cheering in the rain.
The appliances all got googly eyes. The television lost one eye after a while, so he got a felt eye patch on one side. The air purifier already looked like a cyborg with his one blue light that would turn into an angry red eye whenever he got upset about the smell, so he got an official "Hello, my name is Laird" name tag. No idea why his name is Laird, but it is. The roomba got a sexy maid outfit, the clock in the living room got a bunny ears headband, and I started a hobby where I would drive out into the country and collect samples of pond scum from any body of water I came across, so there were jars of slime everywhere.
I have been in depression for three years, it set me back years in therapy. F**k anyone saying it wasn’t a crisis.
I wish I could have mustered the psychic energy for a quirky craft project 🙄
Load More Replies...As usual, the downvote fairies are crawling out of the woodwork when anyone dares to question anything to do with "mental health ".
Some guy in China carefully removed all the seeds from a couple strawberries and dragon fruits.
Every study is to be taken with caution if there's not at least one other study backing it up and you don't know their test pool. Most studies out there are not representative of the general population or even a focus group. You can't make predictions for the whole population with 50-60 test candidates. Also they're often students or colleagues of the scientists and thus for all part of a very similar socioeconomic circle. So don't believe everything just because that one, brand new study said so. Take it as an indicator and with a grain of salt as other scientists do too.
They've proven in studies that unwanted isolation can shrink parts of the brain and cause all sorts of terrible things. Solitary confinement is physically and mentally debilitating and that's partly why someone might behave completely differently getting out of it. I already had bipolar/other things, but long covid and lockdown sent me into a spiral that led me to try to unalive myself. Then I did outpatient treatment through Zoom for 6 months. I bought hundreds of dollars worth of mobile game digital lootboxes, did recreational drugs, then began my doom-scrolling on Twitter/Facebook/news sites. I fell into arguments online to express my depression and frustration. I spent time online with people that I didn't notice were gaslighting me. Tons of fun things. I see people still not seeming to understand how to interact with other humans or in public.
In an attempt to keep my anxiety at manageable levels, I did 11 puzzles in the first month, totaling around 20,000 pieces. I suffer from anxiety regularly but the first shutdown really ramped it up. I should note that I was in a household with a mentally and emotionally unstable and abusive relative, so anxiety was quite common,
During the pandemic i was mostly alone, but we worked only partly home office, mostly we were on-site. I loved this way. Learned Android development and created my first Play app in 2020. So if one wanted to do something, he could.
In the beginning, nobody knew what the hell was the right thing to do, so I went grocery shopping in gardening gloves.
I feel so unaccomplished compared to all of these. I basically attempted my school work and working from home while occasionally lying in the fetal position and trying to breathe through panic attacks. Y'all, we were not okay.
I don't know if this counts, but the pandemic made no difference in the lives of myself and my partner. We were already mostly housebound I only left to go and do food shopping; I don't have any family in this country and his family sort of forgot about him.... We didn't live in the same flat but we did live in the same building and that's probably what kept us both sane. He died almost three months ago (not from Covid) and now I am as much of a recluse as I was before I met him.
I'm still not over it. Developed a panic disorder being eventually allowed out I can't go out. Thanks COVID .
I loved the extra peace and quiet. Got soooo many projects done at my house that have been on hold forever. Got to sleep in AND work out a few times a week! what? and had an excuse to use the grocery delivery option. The beach across the street from myself was clean and quiet... had it all to myself. And when I did go in for my shift as a police officer (we still had to work)... there was noticeably less issues and calls for service because so many of our trouble makers were too busy complaining on social media or posting about conspiracy theories. I know many people who made good use of the extra time at home with their families too! COVID was a mental health issue for some but not all.... just saying
I loved the time away from people and hate we have to go back to not. I literally didn't change my life at all, except I had an excuse to avoid being around people.
I was: delivering equipment all over the county to launch virtual healthcare services. Then WFH for months. I went to get a drive-thru coffee for a change of scenery, pulled up on my drive, sat drinking my coffee and crying as I did NOT want to go back inside. Went from one cat to three. Got out to launch vaccine hubs. Felt more normal only to be told WFH and more lockdown. Then the first time you could meet one other in open space, got a boyfriend out of it. Went up to 5 cats. But I’m mentally fit as a fiddle. Not! I don’t know if I will ever recover from cabin fever!
As a therapist, a researcher, and an educator of other therapists, it's been a TIME since I saw a study that just made wonder if someone who failed out of undergrad was conducting published research . .
I ate nothing but ramen for lunch and dinner then developed an earring disorder, lost all my friend’s, didn’t do any thing in school and just watched my grades drop, cried because I had to make a sock puppet, wrote 20,000 word essay about the affects of COVID on dogs in like three days, and made a detailed journal about a tree and the bugs that lived in it then cried for a week when it dropped its leaves and flowers for fall, but yeah the effect on my mental health was minimal :)
Those few weeks on spring of 2020? Yeah, I will take those any time. Compare to the clusterpluck of manurerain we went through in winter 2020/2021. That was proper epidemic proportions.
Died my hair bright purple. Rescued a kitten. Did the last 2 years of a 3 year Doctorate during the pandemic - would not recommend, but we were able to do the last major event together again, and graduate together in person. Low point was early 2021, winter is already hard, we kept not getting back to things in person, my migraines became more severe than usual and I could barely get awake for more than 10 hours a day at times. I feel I am still not performing like I used to.
We made wine. Put balloons instead of tops because they (really!) became dangerous missiles. Then the Hubs' mom passed. We were devastated and came down with COVID after her funeral. A year later - I had longCOVID. But -- at first, during the lock down, we made wine, took long walks, tried to get fresh air, took care of our health. We dealt. I think many people suffered, though. And the true cost WILL BE known. WineMaking...e667cd.jpg
my best friend did too. I've developed disordered eating. You're not alone <3
Load More Replies...What an absolute load of b******t. The pandemic affected the mental health of so many people. It forced people into isolation where many families who lived in different countries or states could not see each other for months or even years. I didn’t get to see my sibling about two years! People lost loved ones to Covid. People lost their jobs and had constant worry about finances. People died alone in hospitals and their loved ones could only say goodbye on screen. Students and young people had to miss out on so many milestones and school from dances to graduation. Many essential workers had to work in dangerous conditions and risk getting COVID and spreading it to others. Loneliness was rampant and political tensions ran high in many countries. I think there is so much collective trauma we lived through and we are only know starting to recognize it.
I found out I was pregnant early February 2020. Being pregnant during lockdown was a wild ride, what a bizarre time.
My boss had her second baby in lockdown. It was weird for her, he didn't meet his grandparents till he was 4 months old. He's caught up now though
Load More Replies...I worked the whole pandemic so didn't do anything weird or interesting.