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30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online

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The neat thing about our existence is that everyone gets to experience different lives. Sure, there could be a couple of similarities between a person or two - however, the way we talk, our thoughts, and the things we go through all would be entirely unlike someone else's.

Growing up in other cultures or simply in a different upbringing can help develop several skills that some people either can’t perform as well or never had the need to learn. Yet, we assume that we are all familiar with those everyday skills like vacuuming and cooking - however, this thread will convince you otherwise:

Someone on Reddit wondered about a similar thing and asked fellow users, “what is a basic skill that you grew up thinking everyone had until you saw others do it so horribly?“. The question received nearly 44K upvotes and 24K worth of both entertaining and sincere comments.

Do you have a skill that you thought was basic?

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#1

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I had a friend who grew up with maids. He was 18 and gay and his family kicked him out. So he got this tiny little run down studio apartment in Los Feliz. He was super proud of it, and invited me to see it. He was using candles to light it when I got there (maybe to save money? Maybe to hide the blemishes?) and had left an ashtray on the floor, which I accidentally kicked and got (cold) ashes all over his carpet.

He freaked the f**k out. “What do I do? How am I going to clean that?!”

“With a vacuum?” I replied, confused as to why this was a mystery.

He didn’t have one, so he went to ask the building manager if there was one he could borrow; which there was.

He pulls this standard upright vacuum into the middle of the room and then stares at it. After a few seconds wondering what he was doing I asked “do you not know how to use a vacuum?”

“No, you have to understand, we always had maids, I never even made a bed before last week.”

So I plug it in, turn it on, and take it a couple times back and forth across part of the carpet.

Then like a child with the Fisher-Price popper vacuum he went to work. He was over the moon excited. 25 years later it’s a favorite memory of that person.

moistpup , Günter Hentschel Report

Final score:

213points

angry_waffle 2 years ago

it seems this case wasn't willful ignorance because it should be the parents responsibility to teach him.

84points

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#2

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Explaining things. If I explain something and someone tells me they don't understand, I explain it again, but frame or phrase it differently. I will never understand why so many people think just saying the exact same words again in a more exasperated/condescending tone is at all effective.

GODDAMNUBERNICE , Alex Cheek Report

Final score:

212points

SykesDaMan 2 years ago

There's also the possibility that the person doesn't understand it enough to be able to explain it to someone else. Being able to do something and understand it are two different things.

47points

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#3

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online The ability to use a turn signal.

Outrageous_Click_352 , Mechanic Base Report

Final score:

156points

Robert T 2 years ago

Not so much the ability, but the incentive to do so. Goes right along with lane discipline. Today it was yet another moron in a Mercedes who came halfway accross into my lane before turning off without indicating.

37points

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#4

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Being polite/having manners

Marcella111001 , Michael Coghlan Report

Final score:

151points

Kimberlee Lofink 2 years ago

While polite/ manners differ somewhat between cultures, rude and entitled is universally understood. Trying to be polite will get you everywhere, and specific customs might even be politely explained by the locals. In short- it is an attitude thing.

22points

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#5

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Writing---and I don't mean grammatically perfect pieces or novel writing. I am amazed how many people can't do basic level writing stuff like putting sentences in logical order, using basic punctuation and grammar, etc. I am not a world class writer, but years of Catholic school taught me the basics. I occasionally proofread papers for younger family members and honestly don't even know where to start. The grammar issues I can deal with, but the total lack of organization in paragraphs drives me crazy because I basically end up re-writing the damn paper so it makes some kind of sense.

Fun-Extreme3353 , Denise Krebs Report

Final score:

148points

May 2 years ago

It's mostly people who don't read a lot of books - reading makes it so much easier to know how a text should be constructed

88points

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#6

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Their/there/they're.

donquixote235 , Simon Law Report

Final score:

132points

Two_rolling_black_eyes 2 years ago

This used to bother me way too much but I've calmed down. If the wrong one is used, everyone knows what the person meant. Since the purpose of language is to share ideas, they completed the task. I now think it only matters when the different homonyms can lead to total confusion (The priest was last seen on the altar with his hands on a choir boy preying/praying on the young child).

34points

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#7

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I’m noticing that a lot of younger people can’t read analog clocks…

NoetherianSimp , Doug McCaughan Report

Final score:

132points

angry_waffle 2 years ago

isn't that a skill learnt in school?

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#8

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Being able and willing to figure stuff out. A lot of basic skills aren't that complicated. And in this day, if it is complicated, the internet almost certainly has dozens, hundreds, or more, tutorials. Quitting because "I don't know how" should not be the answer. I wish more were taught to figure things out, or seek the help/answers to get it done.

naphomci , Jeff Boulter Report

Final score:

129points

NsG 2 years ago

"Able" is a skill that can be taught. "Willing" is an attitude that can't be fixed.

57points

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#9

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Bagging groceries. I mean, isn't it common sense to put all the frozen items in one bag, produce in another, raw meat by itself in a bag, cleaners separate from food? Does it really have to be taught that you shouldn't put a cantaloupe on top of bread?

biancanevenc , oddharmonic Report

Final score:

113points

Martha Meyer 2 years ago

Why use ten different bags to begin with? Heavy stuff on the bottom, more fragile things on top. Done.

70points

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#10

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I don't want to brag, but I know the difference between "definitely" and "defiantly".

remarkable-bells , romana klee Report

Final score:

112points

NsG 2 years ago

Knowing your idioms as well. It's "From the get go" not "from the gecko"; "A bull in a china shop", not "a bowl in a china shop", etc.

49points

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#11

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Chewing with your mouth closed.

liton8or , Brandon Report

Final score:

108points

Josy Bannon 2 years ago

Table manners in general!

40points

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#12

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Throwing your trash in a trash can/garbage can and watching people leave their s**t outside their car when they are in a parking lot. Drives me nuts. Especially when NO ONE will pick that up and it's literally littering.

supes4life , la vaca vegetariana Report

Final score:

106points

May 2 years ago

That's not a lack of basic skill/knowledge - that's being a lazy asshole

67points

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#13

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Sewing. I thought I was a mediocre sewer because I wasn't great at cross-stitch and embroidery. Turns out fixing a button or seam is a skill.

Philieselphy , kelly Report

Final score:

105points

Robert T 2 years ago

Learning to sew a button back on is a great skill to have - had to do that many a time when I wore a shirt and tie every day for work - fix it back in the hotel of an evening and then you won't lose the button on the way home.

27points

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#14

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Being gentle with your things. Any time we get help from siblings and their spouses I'm astounded by how roughly they treat all of their things/how rough of a job they're ok with accepting.

Also when assembling furniture.. My best mate put together a set of shelves using a drill as a driver on the short and easy to insert Allen keyed screws.. Stripped half of the heads and forced a few in at slightly off-angles and also stripped their threads a bit. Like what are you doing bro? Could have just used an Allen key by hand and put it together in the same time without damaging anything.

a number of people have mentioned using their drill/driver with the right torque setting (and an appropriate amount of skill.!). Yes I agree this is perfectly fine! I didn't mean to say you should never use a driver to assemble furniture, but more that you should know how to use your tools, use what is necessary, and do it with the right level of enthusiasm/strength

GlassCannonLife , jseliger1 Report

Final score:

102points

Robert T 2 years ago

The number of people with a complete lack of mechanical sympathy never ceases to amaze me. If you slam doors like that, or treat the accelerator in the car as an on/off switch, things will eventually break!

36points

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#15

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Laundry, especially emptying the dryer lint. So many places I’ve stayed had “bad driers” that were packed full of lint! How these people did not start a fire is amazing.

[deleted] , rmkoske Report

Final score:

92points

Robert T 2 years ago

Following a series of fires cause by driers that collected lint where they shouldn't, there was a big recall of the affected models, with free replacements being provided, even for quite old machines. The replacements state very clearly that the lint trap must be emptied after each use.

20points

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#16

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I'm still amazed at how many people my age still can't use computers properly. I don't mean in the too old or too poor category, I'm talking about the sheer number of people in my age group who skipped past computers and went straight to smartphones. (I'm 21)

Arcinbiblo12 , Esther Vargas Report

Final score:

89points

Robert T 2 years ago

I'm kind of the opposite. I grew up with computers, before even mobile phones were around. I can work a smartphone (and even develop Apps for it), but typing on a phone to me is like trying to knit a scarf with your eyes shut. Give me a proper keyboard and I'll give a professional typist a run of their money!

56points

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#17

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I'm shocked at how bad some people are at following writen directions. Not travel, but like... assemble furniture, follow a recipe or experiment, read an instruction manual.

UnluckyObserver_1 , Quinn Dombrowski Report

Final score:

88points

James016 2 years ago

Sometimes, the written instructions are badly worded or the sketches in the instructions make no sense.

40points

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#18

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I kid you not, I lived with a guy once who had a butler his whole life. Things I taught him:

The funky knife with a hole in it is not useless, it's a potato peeler

You open cans with a can opener

Nothing needs to be microwaved for 10 minutes

For the record, I really liked this guy and he was incredibly fun and kind.

Handsome121duck , Donna Nicholson Arnott Report

Final score:

87points

Marcellus II 2 years ago

I met a guy who cooked everything with a drip coffee maker. Closed bag of frozen food, drip hot water over, repeat until "ready".

16points

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#19

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online DarkMonkey98 said:
hygiene

chouston333 replied:
This is a big problem.

My parents didn't teach me good hygiene. I stank all the time and it's not something people will tell you about. They will complain to people around you.

My wife taught me better hygiene and it has changed my life. I'm doing much better professionally and random strangers are no longer mean to me seemingly for no reason.

I wish there was a good resource I could refer my stinky friends to so they could learn about it.

DarkMonkey98 , Paddy and Dushi Report

Final score:

85points

H Edwards 2 years ago

I was amazed, and also of course repulsed, when an ex of mine apparently didn't know how how to properly wipe his a5s after using the toilet. Skidmarks (and I mean, massive ones) were just a normal part of life for him. I tried to talk to him about it but he wasn't having it. Glad to be out of that one for many reasons.

42points

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#20

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Budgeting

TheYellowBuhnana , 401(K) 2012 Report

Final score:

81points

Sean Merchant 2 years ago

Not quite the same, but I wish someone had discussed how interest on loans could really add up. Did not figure that out until my early 20's.

24points

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#21

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Basic first aid. Buddy in college got cut and didn’t understand how to make it stop bleeding and bandage/disinfect it properly, I was amazed.

epic-tortoise- , Patrick Haney Report

Final score:

76points

Dana Ondráčková 2 years ago

That panic of my coworkers running to me with bleeding fingers or Burns like whatdoido whatdoido?! Duh?!

10points

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#22

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online reading, i sit in my highschool english class everyday and wonder how these mfs got past 2 grade reading a whole page in a monotone in one breath

BoostedNova62 , Quinn Dombrowski Report

Final score:

76points

James016 2 years ago

That is down to the parents. My son's teachers have told us they can tell which children are read to every night and which aren't. The children who don't get read to at night for example read in the monotone and kids that are read to are much more expressive.

39points

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#23

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online I thought that everyone younger than me knows how to do basic computer troubleshooting.

Turns out a fair of people younger than myself don't know how to look up answers online, it honestly baffled me.

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Final score:

73points

Robert T 2 years ago

Well you sure as hell aren't going to get anywhere if you rely on Windows Troubleshooter!

61points

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#24

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Reading a map. I grew up traveling long before computers. I've handed several adults paper maps while driving and they didn't even know how to find where we were. I guess it isn't a skill you need anymore though.

scubagirl44 , Jules Grandgagnage Report

Final score:

72points

Data1001 2 years ago

Despite having both a smartphone with GPS and a dedicated GPS device, I still enjoy the comfort of keeping an old, massive Thomas Guide in the trunk of the car. ;-)

14points

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#25

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Basic cooking skills. I once saw a guy try to cook pasta by dumping raw pasta shells in a frying pan with a little oil...

Sneaky_Arachnid , becky berry Report

Final score:

70points

Monday 2 years ago

A lot of these "lacking basic skills" things are down to laziness too. I'm not a good cook by any means, but if I have to cook something and I'm not sure how to do it I look it up. The internet will tell me and I won't burn my house down.

28points

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#26

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Watching your mouth as an adult. I’m pretty abrasive with people that I’m close with, but I know how to be professional, especially in front of customers. Worked with a fair few people in the restaurant industry who just do not get it. Blows my mind

thenicestegg , Vinqui Report

Final score:

68points

Seabeast 2 years ago

A related peeve I have - is it really necessary for the characters on some drama series (like Westworld) to use f**k in every sentence? It's not as if I don't occasionally swear as well, but it ceases to be "edgy" and just starts getting tedious and boring after a while.

8points

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#27

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Writing an email with proper grammar and formatting seems obvious and easy to me, but I see so many people at work who are just the worst

TheRealOcsiban , Jonathan Alvarsson Report

Final score:

64points

Robert T 2 years ago

You mean a formal email? Like a letter? Because that's another skill that is sadly lacking.

16points

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#28

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Mopping/sweeping

ThatGuyWithThatFace_ , GoonSquadSarah Report

Final score:

60points

The Scout 2 years ago

First day of work the foreman told the new hire to sweep the floor. "But I have a Ph.D.!" - "Oh, sorry, I did not realize. I will show you how to do it..."

37points

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#29

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online How to use a f**king gate

XoJayne , Ken Lund Report

Final score:

56points

James016 2 years ago

More specifically, close the damn thing after yourself.

52points

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#30

30 Basic Skills That Folks Thought Everyone Had Until They Saw Others Do It Horribly, As Shared Online Washing dishes

19VimtoBoards , Kim Siever Report

Final score:

54points

Norma 2 years ago

The "how" here is 99% of the time NOT the problem.

23points

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Demi Zwaan 2 years ago

"Updating people on delays." I mean, if you're running late, let the waiting party know. If someone ordered something and it's delayed, let them know. If you are supposed to come paint the house in week 3, don't wait until they angrily call in week 5 asking where you are. LET PEOPLE KNOW when schedules change. I don't mind that the thing I ordered is delayed for weeks, things happen, but I DO mind not being told.

19points

Chancey 2 years ago

People that are totally unaware of their surroundings irritate me. For example: Stopping in the middle of an aisle when shopping without regard for others around them.

14points

SAF saf 2 years ago

Beyond irritating! all of sudden they snap back into realty an start huffing cause someone just passed them by on a food isle.

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Walking On Sunshine 2 years ago

I read a saying the other day. "Common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden."

12points

Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

But the weed of fuckery proliferates.

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Demi Zwaan 2 years ago

"Updating people on delays." I mean, if you're running late, let the waiting party know. If someone ordered something and it's delayed, let them know. If you are supposed to come paint the house in week 3, don't wait until they angrily call in week 5 asking where you are. LET PEOPLE KNOW when schedules change. I don't mind that the thing I ordered is delayed for weeks, things happen, but I DO mind not being told.

19points

Chancey 2 years ago

People that are totally unaware of their surroundings irritate me. For example: Stopping in the middle of an aisle when shopping without regard for others around them.

14points

SAF saf 2 years ago

Beyond irritating! all of sudden they snap back into realty an start huffing cause someone just passed them by on a food isle.

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Walking On Sunshine 2 years ago

I read a saying the other day. "Common sense is a flower that doesn't grow in everyone's garden."

12points

Tamra Stiffler 2 years ago

But the weed of fuckery proliferates.

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